NewStats: 3,261,421 , 8,173,942 topics. Date: Thursday, 29 May 2025 at 08:24 AM 4a4b4y

There's no amount of love that will permit me to marry a woman that is 2-hours older than me. Women naturally grow older and weaker at a higher pace than men. Marrying someone older, as time goes on she might be mistaken for your mother. My future wife must be at least 10 years younger so that when I'll be 90, she'll be at most 70
Except for green card.
#bantilosha

There is nothing wrong with marrying a woman who is older than yourself so long as you both are in-love and in agreement

Ammishaddai:
There is nothing wrong with marrying a woman who is older than yourself so long as you both are in-love and in agreement

It's neither about right nor wrong. It's about perspective.

#bantilosha

Yes

A very BIG YES.

But the age gap Should be 1-5 years, anything more than that is No.

NO

No.


If she lied to me and I discover it after marriage, I'll divorce.


It's fornication to me.

Nigerian men that act and think this way(like you) are unsmart and foolish.

I bet you, you are like one of those in thier 30's that is dating a girl in her teens or 20's and undergraduate.

Probably even being the one sponsoring her schooling, while she is yet not matured, fvcking and enjoying her fellow young men for free, old men for money, thereafter she will retired not just to herself but to you--- her old mumu . Worst case scenario: she might not even marry you at the end of the day. Money, investment and time wasted.
Even if such a girl will still be with you at this time, her career path is not yet defined. Non independent financially. Do you know what that entails?


OR let say you as a man meet your age mate who is matured, graduate or not, but one who's career or business or handwork is defined, has overcome her youthful exuberance, experience, etc. but you refuse to marry her, rather going after a girl below or far below your age who doesn't possess any of the aforementioned qualities.
After you will come to Nairaland fp asking what women have to offer or bring to the table
My question to you is what do you really want

englishmart:
There's no amount of love that will permit me to marry a woman that is 2-hours older than me. Women naturally grow older and weaker at a higher pace than men. Marrying someone older, as time goes on she might be mistaken for your mother. My future wife must be at least 10 years younger so that when I'll be 90, she'll be at most 70
Except for green card.
#bantilosha

You are worried about things u won’t be worried about when you hitting 50-60 years old.... na peace of mind u need for marriage oooo

Ur woman is ur woman abeg

I foresee guys jumping into this type of marriage jumping out due to the lady's domineering character
This I have seen

#bantilosha

What is this one again? You Nairalanders won't kill me in this forum.

No because I intend enjoying life to the fullest, and marriage as a retirement plan. You know what I'm saying, I don't want to marry a grandma. The younger the better.

Marrying a woman older than u is the most wisest thing a man can do they are experience, wise they can build a man from nothing to something most great men today are married to their agemate or women older than them. U see those ones from 23 down word if u are a man marry to those ones u g your death warrant prayer wise no, financial no, brain wise no, cheating 100% lying 100% nagging 100% blood suckers 100%

opinion is like a nose everybody get His/Her own

englishmart:
There's no amount of love that will permit me to marry a woman that is 2-hours older than me. Women naturally grow older and weaker at a higher pace than men. Marrying someone older, as time goes on she might be mistaken for your mother. My future wife must be at least 10 years younger so that when I'll be 90, she'll be at most 70
Except for green card.
#bantilosha

Who tell u say u go reach 90 or 40 sef? Don't worry too much about the uncertain future bro.

chatinent:
No.


If she lied to me and I discover it after marriage, I'll divorce.


It's fornication to me.

Abi adultery?


#bantilosha

playapayaski:


Who tell u say u go reach 90 or 40 sef? Don't worry too much about the uncertain future bro.

90 sure pieces.

#bantilosha

Polynek:
opinion is like a nose everybody get His/Her own

You think it's everyone that has nose?


#bantilosha

englishmart:
You think it's everyone that has nose?


#bantilosha

You are funny oo

advanceDNA:


You are worried about things u won’t be worried about when you hitting 50-60 years old.... na peace of mind u need for marriage oooo

No mind d mumu

MrSamsung:
Nigerian men that act and think this way(like you) are unsmart and foolish.

I bet you, you are like one of those in thier 30's that is dating a girl in her teens or 20's and undergraduate.

Probably even being the one sponsoring her schooling, while she is yet not matured, fvcking and enjoying her fellow young men for free, old men for money, thereafter she will retired not just to herself but to you--- her old mumu . Worst case scenario: she might not even marry you at the end of the day. Money, investment and time wasted.
Even if such a girl will still be with you at this time, her career path is not yet defined. Non independent financially. Do you know what that entails?


OR let say you as a man meet your age mate who is matured, graduate or not, but one who's career or business or handwork is defined, has overcome her youthful exuberance, experience, etc. but you refuse to marry her, rather going after a girl below or far below your age who doesn't possess any of the aforementioned qualities.
After you will come to Nairaland fp asking what women have to offer or bring to the table
My question to you is what do you really want

What did you say?

#bantilosha

englishmart:
There's no amount of love that will permit me to marry a woman that is 2-hours older than me. Women naturally grow older and weaker at a higher pace than men. Marrying someone older, as time goes on she might be mistaken for your mother. My future wife must be at least 10 years younger so that when I'll be 90, she'll be at most 70
Except for green card.
#bantilosha

How many times will you people ask this question?

englishmart:


#bantilosha

what is the meaning of these

Older women seems to be more responsible and understand what respect means. Also age is just a number and not an actual representation of affection

Yes, but she must not be more than 3 years older. Older women are wiser and more understanding. They won't carry shoulder for you and some of them are very beautiful. If there is anyone interested, my number is 08082421881. I am in my late 20s.

For fùck sake, he who finds a wife has found a good thing age is nothing but a number.

lusid:
For fùck sake, he who finds a wife has found a good thing age is nothing but a number.

For sanity sake, age isn't just a number.


#bantilosha

Jesse1991:
Yes, but she must not be more than 3 years older. Older women are wiser and more understanding. They won't carry shoulder for you and some of them are very beautiful. If there is anyone interested, my number is 08082421881. I am in my late 20s.

Work on your self-esteem, bro.

englishmart:
Work on your self-esteem, bro.

What self-esteem got to do with what I just said

if she gives me peace of mind why nut