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Are things so bad now that people can just sit down and start analyzing how it was okay for a woman to call her mother-in-law insane?

That shiit is simply NOT okay, no matter what...
And the only reason why any woman can open her mouth to say such to her MIL, is because she has no respect for her husband.

And since she has no respect for her husband, I doubt he can do anything about it.

Maybe she has abused you in like manner in the past, to be able to extend it freely and courageously to your mum. The fact that she has the gut to utter such abominable word to your mum shows your position in the house. Even when tempers cool and sanity that apparently took a leave returns, words such as this, remains ever present.

Maybe she has abused you in like manner in the past, to be able to extend it freely and courageously to your mum. The fact that she has the gut to utter such abominable word to your mum shows your position in the house. Even when tempers cool and sanity that apparently took a leave returns, words such as this, remains ever present in the mind.

wwwkaycom:
What else do you expect from someone who is lazyie?

You get am die.

nonen:
You are really the problem Bros.
If you’re a responsible man, your wife should not be having problems with your own mum, but she don see you finish to figure out say calling your mum mumu for your presence will only bring you to Nairaland beer parlour.

Better start summoning your family and in-laws in a bid to reconcile your wife and mum, before your mum go lay curse on your head.

lolz
According to the story, the guy's mum doesn't visit at all but do telephone them. Only that the wife doesn't pick up her calls and when she does, she .... She doesn't even like picking her calls.

LMS1:
Op So You Still Carry Your Wife Come Live With Your Mumzy?..
Well The Solution To This Is Either Your Mum 'Occationally' Visits You Guys Or You Do Visit Her,
Else This Kind Quellel Nor Dey Finnish.
Las Las Na You Go Run Leave Them For House.
Sha Some People Need To Dey Chop 2 Raw Pepper Every Midnight.
See As The Guy Below Me Don Miss Road!!

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falcon01:
Why will you punish her? you guys and control sef they are having a heated argument and she calls her that that's clearly a misunderstanding not in any way a form of disrespect infact why you go your mama and wife together?? that's not fair to the wife cause she will want you and her to enjoy your time alone but with your mum it's not possible so that anger and frustration is inside which will keep leading to one or two problems. You better get sense and separate them, they can be neighbours but Never Make them House mates!

Thanks. I hope @he sees this.

doggedfighter:
What did your mum say to her that led to that.

Everything is fair in a war.

Me: What did your mum say to her that led to this?

He: Nothing, she doesn't pick her calls but I don't think they have a good relationship.

Me: Why?

He: Long story bros

Oyindamolah:
You made the mistake by allowing your wife interact with your mom, you know your mom better than your wife and you know your wife better than your mom.

Shield your wife away from your family and shield your family away from your wife.

Thanks! This has been my point at all time. I hope @he see this.

J4JUVENTUS:
She actually didn't call your mom alone insane. She called you, your mom and whole family insane. Oga you don give your wife body see finish. Can she call her mom insane, even if she slaps her?

The thing just dey vex me already.. Call my mom insane, thurder go fire the wife that very minute.

He had this same feelings but "wisdom is profitable to direct o". If not, na domestic violence e go results to

LordKO:
If your mother acted in a manner that warranted your wife to unavoidably call her insane, then your wife didn't do any evil - you ought to know both your wife and mother better by now and know what each can do at any given time, subject to circumstances. If, however, your wife called your mother insane unjustifiably and has remained remorseless, then giving her punishment of your choice at least tenfold won't be a bad idea.

One who comes into equity must come with clean hands.

hhmmmmmmm. I don't think she did well by calling her insane regardless. I would prefer her to report the situation to me and I will handle the rest. Wisdom is profitable to direct.

Angelacruz:
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You for hug her now. Alawada! If you still can't figure that this is a content. Na Oyo you dey.

Richy4:



If not for this covid-19, I would have given u a hug..... They have seen a dumping site where anything goes

You know, the situation might be above manly nature. These are two important women fighting for their rights. It is now left for you to apply wisdom in handling it.

duro4chang:
Probably, you are not a 'man'. In your presence?

talk2hb1:

You Mean Your Husband Can Call Your Mum Insane?

Common man! That was a blow below the belt. You can do better can this.

pozehnani:
Well... In as much as it is not right for your wife to call your mum insane, I want you to know it's a two fighting situation therefore you can't really hold anything they said to each other against any of them.

You also share in the blame because you didn't call her to order early before now ( meaning youve always looked on while they bicker at each other) but kept quiet until it got to the point of calling your mum insane. You now realize it's time to take action. Too late.

Just warn her not to try such again. Also call your mum by the side and tell her to respect her age.

Lastly, it's not a good idea for your mum to be living with you guys. Get her a place of her own to avoid see finish.

The mum only calls them. She doesn't live with them.

AishaYesufu:
Weak men everywhere

This is not the real Aisha Yesufu.

frozen70:


What's stops you from preventing that war between them till it gets to this present point

Me: Why din't you try to stop these before getting here?

@He: Bros, I tried! The issue has been going on for the past 5 years and I tried my best to prevent this occurrence by not allowing the two to see as much as possible.

Me: Talk to your wife. Take her for a treats. Tell her about her respects, boundaries etc. You can only have one mum ooo and at the same time, you should know how to balance the relationship between two loves of your life. Wisdom is profitable to direct. Make her apologise and let bygone be bygone....
I hope I did well.

crackhaus:
Are things so bad now that people can just sit down and start analyzing how it was okay for a woman to call her mother-in-law insane?

That shiit is simply NOT okay, no matter what...
And the only reason why any woman can open her mouth to say such to her MIL, is because she has no respect for her husband.

And since she has no respect for her husband, I doubt he can do anything about it.

Hmmmmm. You might be right.

mrblessed:
Maybe she has abused you in like manner in the past, to be able to extend it freely and courageously to your mum. The fact that she has the gut to utter such abominable word to your mum shows your position in the house. Even when tempers cool and sanity that apparently took a leave returns, words such as this, remains ever present.

Hmmmmm. You might be right too.

It is truly difficult to advice however, I will suggest you encourage each party to apologize to one another and then start some anger management program with your wife. I don't know how convenient it is for someone to call another insane irrespective of the heat of the moment.

GboyegaD:
It is truly difficult to advice however, I will suggest you encourage each party to apologize to one another and then start some anger management program with your wife. I don't know how convenient it is for someone to call another insane irrespective of the heat of the moment.

hhmmmmm. Okay.

Rogosa:


Me: Why din't you try to stop these before getting here?

@He: Bros, I tried! The issue has been going on for the past 5 years and I tried my best to prevent this occurrence by not allowing the two to see as much as possible.

Me: Talk to your wife. Take her for a treats. Tell her about her respects, boundaries etc. You can only have one mum ooo and at the same time, you should know how to balance the relationship between two loves of your life. Wisdom is profitable to direct. Make her apologise and let bygone be bygone....
I hope I did well.

You did well

Seat her down and talk to her about the importance of respect

Let her know that your mum also gave birth to someone like her and she should see her as her biological mother

Tell her to apologize to mum let peace reign

If she continues to torment your mum, don't be surprise if your mum goes extrem to make sure she leaves the marriage

And she will do it in a coded way of which no one will suspect her

Rogosa:


hhmmmmmmm. I don't think she did well by calling her insane regardless. I would prefer her to report the situation to me and I will handle the rest. Wisdom is profitable to direct.

Only a foolish person will long to enjoy the bounty of war without bearing the brunt of war.

Meanwhile, wisdom isn't for anyone void of knowledge. Unfortunately, it's very easy for anyone void of knowledge to equate foolishness to wisdom.

CAN YOU CALL YOUR MUM INSANE UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES?

LordKO:
If your mother acted in a manner that warranted your wife to unavoidably call her insane, then your wife didn't do any evil - you ought to know both your wife and mother better by now and know what each can do at any given time, subject to circumstances. If, however, your wife called your mother insane unjustifiably and has remained remorseless, then giving her punishment of your choice at least tenfold won't be a bad idea.

One who comes into equity must come with clean hands.

ABOVEDELAW:
CAN YOU CALL YOUR MUM INSANE UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES?

My mother knows better and will not do anything that will UNAVOIDABLY make me call her insane. Unfortunately, I can't say the same about your mother.

Don't ask me a stupid question again because my point is concise in the post you quoted.

NO WONDER.......

LordKO:


My mother knows better and will not do anything that will UNAVOIDABLY make me call her insane. Unfortunately, I can't say the same about your mother.

Don't ask me stupid question again because my point is concise in the post you quoted.

LordKO:


Only a foolish person will long to enjoy the bounty of war without bearing the brunt of war.

Meanwhile, wisdom isn't for anyone void of knowledge. Unfortunately, it's very easy for anyone void of knowledge to equate foolishness to wisdom.

Too much sense in this statement Mazi