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Any would do! But if i had to choose i would love to have a girl first, cos she can assist the mother and be a better guide to the boys, it's easier been a good follower of a girl than a boy(s). Though i have 2 boys and then a third one as girl. Preferred to have just two, a boy and a girl but i will end up having 4 as the 4th is on the way already.
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Okija_juju:Is it good for you to hate? just for someone who expressed his opinion? Let there be tolerance so we can all learn! Christians are not expected to fight for their God, if indeed He is God He will fight for Himself, so don't start a battle you can't even stand to fight, not to mention win. |
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For the couple to really follow the bible they need to be in the same church so as to learn same thing and be able to have one voice and united in purpose. This is what will help the family and not been separated as we saw in Genesis where Adam left his wife and she was later deceived and which also led to the husband been deceived, if they were together the devil will not have had it so smooth to deceive them. Better to go to the same church.
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Ma do as your God leads you, you will surely give an of the treasure God gave you to keep for him at the end of age. I think it will help the girl to keep watch over her self, there will be a self control, which many do not have today.
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The starting point is to get the blessing of the families, specially the wife's. Then you can go for any other one you choose or quite simply start your family, but it will be good to get the blessing of your pastor if you are a christian, whether in the closet or in the public.
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I do not divorce in any way, there can always be a way out for this marriage, the man is surely suffering from a disorder which the wife can help him overcome if she gets counseling. Let her try this first. It shall be well.
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This is very sad indeed. infidelity is a real destroyer of homes, may the Lord save our marriages in Jesus name. Whether true or not, such do happen in our society, even to a total breakdown of the home and maybe divorce. It was never intended to be like this, civilization has eroded the value of marriage. Let's be cautious with our marriages so that we can always tread the path of honour!
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Focus on getting your husband back from your sister, don't allow the enemy to put a break in your marriage. So much the more that he is sober about it take him back to yourself, he won't do it again. Leave your sister to God to judge. Forgive the two of them. Let your true love take over your heart for both of them
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ada24: My sister, there is always a name to every problem of man but if you look deep down there is a spiritual undertone, don't you know that the devil fights anything that is of God in every way possible, he will hide and pretend not to be there at all so as not to be attacked, but underground he will be working. If he can make one to believe he is never responsible then he has succeeded. Though not all problems are backed by the devil and that is why i still suggested visiting medics but let's make our arsenal strong and also follow up with the physical if need be. Thanks |
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Some times it can be spiritual, my wife had one after our second child, and took in again and almost had a second one but i stood on God's word declaring that I will not labour in vain and the baby stayed though she saw blood for close to 4 or 5 days. Also medics says there is likelihood of re-occurrence after someone had suffer a first miscarriage, so one may need to take proper care and caution and be spiritually vigilant when in pregnancy. It shall be well with her in Jesus name. Let her see her OB/gyny too and also rest adequately when pregnancy is noticed.
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God did not need to consult man or woman when He set marriage in motion, and He put man as the head and woman as the body, can a man's head start struggling with his body that it is the head and not the body? Let us pay a visit back to the Bible and learn the reasons for marriage and how it is to be run so we can all have a blessed unions. The issue of equality should not even arise in a properly set up marriage, let's not allow modernism destroy our homes. God help us all!!!!!!!!!!
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Na wa o!!! This country of great virtue has been turned to a "no hope for the future" nation. How can people be so desperate to get a certificate when they do not deserve it. God help us all!!!!!
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@Bagseg I like this your post i will like us to have a word on it, can you email me? Pls check my profile for my email. Thanks |
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It's to integrate yourself into the in-law family, become a part of them and see yourself so, work to be so.
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You shd not even talk of your husband sucking your vagina, it is satanic and demonic, now you are under intense pressure cos d devil behind d act wants to feed on your sacrifice to it and it is not getting it so putting more pressure on you, why not cry out to the God of your salvation if you are a child of God, and if not surrender your life to God so that He can help you through this. Even a muslim will not be talking of this type of act except the person does not believe in the God s/he is serving. PRAYYYYYYYY!!!!!!! Don't think of doing anything with your ex or anyone 4 dat matter.
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Hey, you are not weird!!!! I was 27 and a half yrs when i had it 1st, and it was most painful cos it was not wat i tot it is all about, cos God actually designed it for marriage, so wait 4 the right time(in marriage). God bless you!!!!!!!!!! ![]() |
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There are people who do more than this, but i tell you sleeping with someone who is not your marriage partner is SIN, and the act unites your souls together. Be faithful to your partner! The adulteress/adulterer looks for the precious soul to destroy. Be warned, there are many demons out there in form of men/women. ![]() |
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Love is service. If there is no giving there is no love there. Man should wash hers and woman should wash his. I wash my wife's own when chanced and she washes mine always cos she's most often at home, it really helps to foster love, care, affection even while washing together. Try it once, wash together. God bless all!!!!!!! ![]() |
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Are you really convinced you are meant 4 d guy? or, just want t try him out and after trying this one you go and try another and yet another. No basis 4 most of the relationships we see this time around, someone just wake up and think cos others are in r/ship so s/he shd. Examine your heart, where are you going? A stable home or strings of relationships? Make your decision!!!!!!! lol ![]() |
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YES if he's truly looking 4 a job. But i suggest he can get into internet/online jobs or start something by himself. Wish you the best.
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I know you had already taken your decision and nothing could 've changed that, but the repercussion is wat you shd wait 4, either good or bad. Must every relationship even involve s3x? Is a weird world we live in!!!!!!! God 've mercy on us. Come Lord Jesus and take your people home. Amen.
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Go to the church and engage in vigil praying and fasting for your future!!!!!!!!!!!! ![]() ![]() |
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For me job or no job if my wife agrees and she is OK in her job we may proceed into the marriage. What shd be of importance is does the guy have a vision of where he is going or he's just a going round without direction? If he's directionless let the lady RUN 4 her life, but if there is hope they shd go ahead.
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I like it moderately but my wife does not like it much. On the other hand there should be decency and decorum especially as it relates to unmarried people. Missy B:It's not ok to be weird in public, your body is your body and not meant to be flung open everywhere, that is meant 4 the mad people around, and if they have their SENSES they won't go naked or half nude!!!!!! |
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Best: Never sleep without settling any differences between both of you Worst: If your wife gives you trouble marry another one |
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I am not taking side with any one and those who think they have to be abusive to make a point shd learn that nothing is personal in this matter and no one can fight for God, at His own time He will judge both the living and the dead, but on that day where will I/you be? Is a matter of personal preparation. I'm not a dogmatic follower and no one is advised to follow me foolishly, Paul said follow me as i am a follower of Christ, that means once i am no longer following Christ take cover for your soul!!!!!
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Hi, i don't know how far you have gone now in this marriage but my advise is temperance, long-suffering, modesty, prayer, the word of God, submission, and so many onition in Eph 5 & 6. Be submissive. annyplenty: Pls the italic is to be deleted: dis is an ungodly advise, don't try it. It is demonic. Don't give the devil a place in your home. rydeorsail:Pls can you give us an updated version of this soon, to include submission , godliness, care and affection etc. this is really good and high sense of techie. |
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Some men are trying to become women and some women are trying to become men, i think there is a bit of discontentment in many people, so which do you prefer to have been created, MAN OR WOMAN? ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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