NewStats: 3,263,952 , 8,182,063 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 01:41 AM 3w281r

saasala:
You guys should refrain from bringing your marital sh1ts to Nairaland. There are too many kids here.
You will get advise from boys who have only used their d1ck for peeing. Most of them are women bashers. They will tell you women are useless and marriage is sh1t and all that, but they go behind to use their last kobo to impress one dirty girl and beg her for love and attention. Only few married people will be able to give you advise.

That being said, as a married man, I will say your husband no try at all. Na that sister-in-law own off me. Regardless, you should confront him, tell him how angry you are at him, hear his side of the story. It could probably be a friend who has been using his phone to search those dirty stuffs, just like he gave you his phone to use.

In all, most of us men are dogs and dogs we shall remain till the end of time. Wetin me seff dey do behind no good.

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Anfieldboss:


Well, I have gone through your previous post and you're just as unfaithful as your husband. You both need counselling.

I'm not perfect either. Never said I was. And that was my past life, something I wanted a solution to because I want to forget it, that's why I brought it to nairaland. Didn't you see where I said I didn't want a broken home? It's my past, Why bring it up?

STARGREEN:
Birds of the same feather...
Married together...

I'm not perfect either. Never said I was. And that was my past life, something I wanted a solution to because I want to forget it, that's why I brought it to nairaland. Didn't you see where I said I didn't want a broken home? It's my past, Why bring it up?

Hello house. I'm too angry to type. Been married for 10 years with a kid. 10 long hard years.

He always assures me and portrays himself as a faithful man. I have never suspected him of committing adultery, not because he's not capable, but because I wanted to give him benefit of doubt. I wanted trust to be in my marriage because I'm extremely faithful to him. He disvirgined me on my wedding night.

But he does A LOT of flirting on social media. s his phone from me. This has caused a lot of problems between us, almost leading to marriage break up many times, until people advised me to stay off his phone, which I did. I lost my job since February and have been unable to get another one.

Now I'm learning some soft skills online, using my phone but it got to a point where I couldn't proceed because it's an old phone. I told him yesterday morning that I would love to use his phone, he said ok when he returned from work.

Only for me to go to his browser to enter a website address, I started seeing past searches from him.
LOVE SMS YOU CAN SEND TO UR CRUSH
LOVE MESSAGES YOU CAN SEND TO UR EX GIRLFRIEND.

The one that shook me to the bone is, HOW TO SEDUCE MY SISTER INLAW.

She came to visit two weeks back. She is very beautiful and plump and he has always told me he had a crush on her. So I know.
And those internet searches are RECENT.

I feel so disgusted by his presence now, so much that I don't allow his body to touch mine on bed. I feel for my daughter, she's just 6 years and I don't have any money to take care of her. He doesn't take care of me either, but I have put up with him, I have struggled and suffered with him all these years. Only to see this on his phone. I'm beyond depressed.

He's talking of us celebrating our 10 years anniversary by December and thinking of inviting few family and friends. BUT I'M NOT INTERESTED. The love is dead. I've been played all along.

HOW WILL I HANDLE THIS?

Good evening. Doctors in the house, please advise me.
I'm 4 weeks pregnant. Went for scan today and it shows I have right ovarian cyst. Is there any danger to my pregnancy? Can I take ginger and garlic tea to maybe shrink it and actually take care of any infections? I'm always having infection problems even in my last pregnancy. Please advise me, I don't want any harm to come to this baby, because it took me 7 years to conceive again after I had my first child. I'm 39 years of age.

UyaiIncomparabl:


It’s obvious you can’t comprehend. If you read the story well, you would have read where she said she was a virgin at the time when she was frolicking with the guy. She allowed him do all sorts on her body but didn’t allow him have penetrative sex with her because she wanted him to date her first before doing that. But of course, was willing to let go off her virginity if he did the right thing. I will implore you to read through all over.

Don’t be deceived. Virgins aren’t saints. Virginity isn’t just having a piece of hymen. It’s about the moral values that one upholds.

thanks you understand.

fyzaila:
I don't think you can kill that feeling o, it has come to stay. Had it been your hubby is measuring up to your expectations in the other room then i would have said it is possible to kill the feelings you have for the other guy. It's unfortunate for you then that the guy you had feelings for didn't have same for you.

Now way forward is to disconnect yourself totally from him, delete his number, unfriended/unfollow him im any social media platform your are with him. Try and focus on your family.

he his married with a family, that is the more reason you have to avoid him since he is also avoiding you. Don't dare do to others what you wouldn't want to be done to you.

it's comforting to know that I'm getting a reasonable response from someone here. Thanks for your advice I'll do just what you said. These feelings I've been fighting for years but have not been successful. Thank you.

Olasyke:
seun's NL no go kill me with fake stories

I swear on the life of my child, it is real. Had to create another for this.

Hello people. Straight to the point. I met a guy in my 400level. 14 years ago. We connected emotionally, but he never asked me out. He had a serious girlfriend and never hid it. The night he came to my room, I persuaded him to sleep over. I was sooooo into him sexually, the feeling was/is too strong. He grabbed my thighs and sucked my pussy thoroughly. Something I had never experienced with any man. Heck I was still a virgin at the time. I left this world temporarily. The feeling was too overwhelming. Immediately he finished, he asked me, " do you know why I did this?" I answered "no". He said "I did this so that you will never forget me". People, till date, I find it hard to really forget him. Although I refused allowing him have penetrative sex with me that night because he refused to formally ask me out, and I believed I was just a fling to him. So I refused sex with him. Since then, the degree of hatred he felt for me is just too strong. He hated me soooo much and even banged his burglary against my fingers another day that I went to his house, allowed him to do all sorts of things on my body, but still refused sex with him. My fingers even bled. He even said he would kill me here and nothing would happen. He really wanted so bad to sleep with me but I would have loved to be respected enough to be dated by him first, something he wasn't willing to consider because he had a girl. I begged and begged but he refused. At a point, I was considering giving up my body to him, I cried alot because he repeatedly rejected me. I yearned so much for his body, he smelled so nice and he's so big and strong that he carries me like a baby. Till date I chat him up on WhatsApp but he ignores me totally.
Now we're both married to other people, but I can't forget him. I envy the woman he is married to. My husband disvirgined me on my wedding night yeah, but he doesn't carry me the way this guy did, even though I have a small stature, he detests sucking a woman's private part. I don't even connect with him emotionally as I should. I try but I just don't feel it. I feel guilty. If I'm in an enclosed space with this other guy, honestly I won't be able to resist him. I totally yearn to see him again, but I don't want a broken home. But why is it difficult to forget this particular guy? Why does he hate me so much?

Hello people.

PaigeTaylor:
Hello mas and pas

OK I've heard. tnx.

You all insulting me and thinking I'm paranoid are mad beyond reason. I've spoken out before it goes out of hand. idiots.

I thought family section is for mature peeps, I can see that it's been infiltrated by kids. it's OK.

no insults please. is it possible I'm just over reacting?

please I need mature responses here. I've not been able to discuss this with anyone other than my husband, because I don't want to believe what my mind is telling me. its not normal. if the above isn't real, I won't bother getting another name here, to hide my identity. IT IS VERY REAL. I need ur opinions please.

Hello mas and pas.