NewStats: 3,263,201 , 8,179,391 topics. Date: Thursday, 05 June 2025 at 04:02 AM 6n5w4e

BarrElChapo:


Religious differences? Or life vision in general?

Not even life vision or religion. To her our love languages are not the same. For instance, I am not the caller type, and when I do I expect detailed conversations considering it was distance relationship. She keeps to herself and I have to force her to say things. Abuja and Lagos, for fidelity I can take the bullet she is not a cheat and the same with me.

I miss her though.

I honestly do!

My most recent, this is the second time we are breaking up. I genuinely miss her and had it in mind to spend the rest of lives together. Sadly, we have gone separate ways. I am confused whether to go back or move on with someone else. But majority that I have met, don’t possess what I want in a woman.

NB: Nobody cheated, it was just a conflicting interest that led to the break up.

austinceasar:


It is well with you bro....hard to even get this rides you mentioned on 3m distress.

Nah 4.5m be distress price now.

Pictures?

I don’t know how people feel comfortable recording themselves during the act. I cannot find it fun or attractive.

For those women who have cheated on your spouse and had the efforts to document such, I don’t think they deserve to be called mothers or wives! This is heartbreaking for them and their loved ones.

CodeTemplarr:
keep shut . Voted or rigged?

Before the rigging, people voted. I know quiet some people that voted for this government.

Choose your words carefully!

nwakibe:

Sometimes, when people talk about having extra mouth to feed, I laugh. What happened to the hands of the woman. Can't she work after marriage. Just marry a working class lady. Borne one or two children and enjoy your life.

Even if she is working, there is always an extra mouth to feed. Women will always want to be taken care of, a number of them that I have met.

Talking about birthing one or two? Have you gone to infancy shops lately and see the prices of baby things especially formula. Before you say, our parents raised many with little resource their days and ours are never the same.

I wish I can forgive those that voted for this present government.

You didn't mention economic constraints. Some do not want a big wedding, but feeding an extra mouth in this economy is no child's play.

Update your list abeg!.

BowaleShow:
Though I have landed in Canada this week, my conscience would not be clear if I dont come back here to give thanks.

💃🏽 💃🏽

I started this whole process and finished it with this thread. Silent Reader. But every information, trick and turn I got it from this thread and its references. Everything I used from beginning to the end I got from this thread and its earlier versions.

Thank you to everyone who contributes to this thread.

I started everythign in 2023. My wife and I did IELTS, evaluated our WES and got into the pool.

The day we entered the pool, next day I recieved the 'important update to your mail'.

I used the Agric Pathway. Agri-Food Pilot. My NOC was 82030.

my timeline was:

EE Profile Created: May 2023 (whilst waiting for my Wes evaluation)
ITA: September 28th 2023
AOR: Nov 18 2023
Biometrics and Medical Request: Jan 25,2024
Biometrics and Medicals Done and ed: Jan 28th 2024
PPR Mail: March 13th 2024
Number of days from AOR to ppr: 115 days

Na that port submission show me shege as they told me they lost our port photographs and I had to resend to Ghana, I resent to Ghana finish with UPS , they said no I should have sent to their office in Lagos for them to resend to Ghana on our behalf, I resent to the office in Lagos and the whole process then moved on, after we got the ports back in Nigeria and were happy...they called from the Ghana office that they have our ports photograps and what should they do with it.

Person wey don win battle no dey vex. I took it all in my stride.

💃🏽 💃🏽

Note: I landed this late in Canada after recieving the ports back because we decided to take our time in Nigeria to prepare before travelling. We were doing moderately okay so no pressures. I had bought the flight tickets since March when we got the PPR.

Please read and read this thread. Your own turn too go come !

Congratulations to you and yours! I hope to testify someday like this ooo.

austinceasar:


New price: 2.9M for the Acura MDX

Can I see the pictures? The interior as well?

Militant1:




When people started receiving their money in their alternate bank s as at Friday.

I have not seen any.

SmartyPants:
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The NDIC will pay you. If you have a lot of money it may take longer than if you have less.

What are the steps? I think I have over a million naira there. How can I process for a refund? Will NDIC charge me?

50k for 25kg for foreign in Abuja - Supermarket.

I have been looking forward to share this!.

I was a victim from JSS1 to JSS3 when I stood my ground.

Funny, how time flies and how far I have grown. Till date, I get agitated whenever I see bully stories. I am glad I did what I did, and super grateful for mates that stood next to me during those time!.

Shout out to Ajugwo Oluebube and Chibuike Oguezonu for being an instrument for me to stand firmly against Emeka Nwoye and his bullies. I am glad I stood my ground and fought for Nonso Nwogu and I!.

Congratulations to them!

I am only concern with few questions. While she is busy motivating others, she shouldn't hesitate to let us know what he does for a living and how he made the massive money within 12 months of marriage.

tunlex01:


1. They may or may not. List of documents here

https://www.vetassess.com.au/skills-assessment-for-migration/skills-assessment-for-professional-occupations/am-i-eligible-to-apply-with-my-professional

2. You have to lodge an EOI for each state. Please take your time to read through this thread from the beginning. And no, there is no automatic nomination. You will have to apply and pay for nomination in most cases.

3. Australia uses AUD not USD.

Thank you very much.

tunlex01:


Visit Vetassess website to read the information sheet for each occupation.
When you search for an occupation, read the information sheet and see which of the two best aligns to your experience

Thank you very much, Tunlex.

I have some few questions.
1. Will they have to my present employer to confirm my role and deliverables? If no, which document is required for verification.

2. After the assessment what will be the next step or line of action? Is it an automated nomination if I met their requirement or I will proceed to another round of nomination?

3. Is the charges in USD or AUD?

Thank you many times.

I am grateful for your s.

Donkogbe:
I decided to buy myself this gift for christmass and its means so much to me.

How much did you buy? I have been meaning to buy since last week. Surely gonna get one this week.

Merry Christmas.

tunlex01:

Is your first degree in Agriculture?
You can use the guide below to check likely occupations you can nominate so I can recommend.

Guide to check your occupation and ANZSCO code:

Visit www.anzscosearch.com
You may need to on the website to view the details below
Desktop:
1. Select ‘Lists’ at the top of the webpage.
2. Click 'Skilled Occupation List'
3. You will see about 500 occupations on the list.
4. Keep scrolling till you find occupation(s) that align to what you do.
5. Click the 6 digits ‘ANZSCO' code on the left. It will load the full page
6. Select 'ANZSCO' and scroll to tasks.
7. Check if the tasks relate to what you do.

Mobile
Click the hamburger icon (3 horizontal lines)
Select 'Lists' > 'Lists 2022-23' > Skilled Occupation List
Follow steps 3-7 above.

You may find more than 1 occupation.
Revert here with the occupation(s) and the Anzsco code(s)

Many thanks Tunlex.

I have carefully gone through the site as recommended. Yes, all my degrees are in Agriculture (Agricultural Economics and Agribusiness Management respectively). I found Agricultural Consultant (234111) and Management Consultant (224711) as key occupations that align with my present task on my new role.

I will be expecting your on the next line of action.

Thank you once more and Happy holidays.

Jollof rice with salad. Instagram food vendors wan finish person. Imagine a portion of two rice varieties for 5-7persons going for 75k.

Aaah!

Merry Christmas everyone!

tunlex01:

it depends on your assessing body. Vetassess will be okay with bank statement only but with DHA and most other bodies, you will need pension or tax in addition to other payment evidences.

Hello Tunlex.

Many thanks for all you do. I would like to get some insights from you as I have interest migrating by next year. Here is my profile.

I have a Bachelor's degree and two Masters in Agriculture. I have been working in the Agricultural and consulting space since 2018. I am 30yo and single. Which route would you advice. Your advice will come handy to align my thoughts reading through the 300+ thread.

I look forward to your .

Thank you

tunlex01:

it depends on your assessing body. Vetassess will be okay with bank statement only but with DHA and most other bodies, you will need pension or tax in addition to other payment evidences.

Hello Tunlex.

Many thanks for all you do. I would like to get some insights from you as I have interest migrating by next year. Here is my profile.

I have a Bachelor's degree and two Masters in Agriculture. I have been working in the Agricultural and consulting space since 2018. I am 30yo and single. Which route would you advice. Your advice will come handy to align my thoughts reading through the 300+ thread.

I look forward to your .

Thank you.

austinceasar:
Very clean 2008 Honda Civic, Untampered Engine and Gear, AC is super chilling. Going for a distress price of *#1.850M*, Abuja Deal🇳🇬

09038687770

Still available?

Emir8:

Yes. They said national ID, international port or driver's license. I only have national identity card slip for now

Go and apply for Ecowas port. It takes less than 72hours for you to get it. This will be a place holder for now, till you get other Identity cards.

The cost is less than 30k. Go to Ikoyi, if you are in Lagos. It is too late to fail.

All the best.

A001:
Anyone with practical knowledge on how to become a research analyst? What skills do I need to become one?

Tips and advice on the subject are welcome. Thank you.

1) Writing Skills (You will need to communicate best through written papers).
2) Data analytical tools proficient like SPSS, Excel, Stata, and Phython for advancement.
3) Public speaking (You need to be verbal with your findings).
4) Critical thinking skills (you should advance on this through reading of articles that revolves around macro and microeconomics).

All the best!

Thoughtful of them!

They introduced hardship allowance to ours.

Lastpharoah33:
I'm typing this with deep regrets.


I made a post here earlier this year, seeking for advice on either staying back in my birth town and hustle more or relocate to abuja where my uncle is living with his family.

Check the thread here
https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/7054956/dilemma-please

Please good people of nairaland, things have gone south between me and my uncle. He said he can't have me stay under his roof anymore. That I should go back to my people living in onitsha and I am not thinking about doing that either. I know what I went through at onitsha before coming to abuja.


He gave me a 5days ultimatum to leave his abode. Guys, I'm so downtrodden.

Any job with accommodation within abuja will be mostly welcomed.

I do paint welded fabrications, that's all I have learnt since I came here.

How long have you stayed with your Uncle? Going by your previous post, he agreed you stay with him. What happened that made him change his mind on this short space? Your helper maybe in the comment section... Be truthful!

crood:
Christmas gifts especially something to and someone to to me text me etc

Drop your number. I will call and text you every Christmas and New Year. Perhaps, send a gift across some day.

Season greetings, bro!

Justnow2022:


Thanks for the input. I track all my expenses using the isavemoney app, but going through I realize that every penny matters. The last time I bought wears for myself was august, I noticed that all those 2k, 3k expenses were big expenses.

For you to save, you have to be frugal in spending. 430k excluding rent per month is way too much for a single guy. What will be your fate when you finally get married.

The best way to go about it, slash of the expenses. Weekly outing can be biweekly outing.
Wetin you dey shave reach 150k?
Donation should be slashed by 50per cent as well. The only fixed expenses should be the fuelling of the car.

Btw! I spend average 100k per month. I am single as well.

Mystic216:

Atiku and Obi has a shameful and well cultured family
Unlike this imp that his family is growing by evil

Your father should be contesting as well but no
You chose to do BMC work
Your father will be ashamed of you boy

Gudfadah:
Good evening nairaland.

I am a married man and I have six children. When I met with my first wife she was a single mother of 1 girl she was a years 6 months we got married when she was 5 years old.
We had 3 children together making them 4 unfortunately we lost her in 2016 during the birth of our twins.

Before she ed on she asks me to promise her that if anything happened to her I should never send her daughter back to her family to experience the same thing she went through in there hands.
I have promised her that the child is mine and she will never go anywhere the day she will leave my house will be on her wedding day.
I have also promised her that nothing will happen to her and we will grow old together. Unfortunately we lost her and I have continued being a father to all four children and I have never treated my step daughter differently.

I have since remarried and we are blessed with twins. When I met with my current wife I didn't tell her that my step daughter is not my biological child she knew she was my first child.
She has been a part of me ever since she was 1 plus and I didn't think it was necessary telling my wife she was not my child.

She was treating all four children good until my wicked aunty has spill the beans which I have apologised for not telling her in the first and I have asked her to continue being a good mother she was before knowing the truth.
But she refused saying I didn't tell the truth and the child should go and leave with her mom family. I have explained to her the reason why she cannot stay with them to no avail and I ask her not to tell the child the truth but she has told her.

It wasn't easy for her knowing the truth she asks me if I will take her back to her mom people I said no. She is still my child and she will not go anywhere and I will resolve the problem very soon.

Unfortunately my wife has totally changed so much toward the child and I hate coming home seeing her crying all the time. She feel insecure in the house knowing that she is not the biological child of the house.

Talking to my wife was to no avail she has insist that the child must go back to her mother family or they will be not peace.

I reported the problem to her people nothing was done and we are still dealing with the same thing everyday.

Honestly speaking I hate being in such a messy situation but I will not send her back to her mom family she is my first child and I have made a promise to my late wife that the day the child will leave my house it will be the day she will get married.
Since my wife want her to leave and the child is already depresses.
I have come to conclusion I will not divorce her but I will rent a 2 bedroom apartment for her to be staying with the twins while I continue staying with the four children in my house I owe the house.

I haven't told her anything about my decision yet and I want to know if getting her own house will help the situation. This is where I need your advice nairalanders what do I do in this situation?

You have it figures out already, bro! This is the best approach. She is not a nice person, and won't hesitate to show the same vibes to your biological kids someday. She is a mole, and should be taken out of the grains.

Real men keep their promise! Stick to the words you gave your late wife, and help the little angel survive the loneliness fate has given her. Also, cut ties with the aunt that spilt the bean.

tyinfinity:
And peter bitter Pandora obituary 's son is smoking hemp following Ipob and ESN up and down

Peter Obi' children are what your next 8generations can never be nor achieve. Grow up, and stop this your tribal hatred. If Nigerians elect a bad leader, you are pushing. An average Igbo man will survive, Obi would still maintain his wealth. However, I cannot say so for urchins like you.