NewStats: 3,263,106 , 8,179,125 topics. Date: Wednesday, 04 June 2025 at 05:43 PM 1k2p3b

firstbornjoy:
Anyone who has dealt with reliable broker should kindly give me the name of such broker. Brokers who do not delay one's withdrawal and is rendering relatively good service.

Use Exness, Fxpro, Hotforex, Fxtm

UppaZakum:
Good day fellow Redpillers.
I have a childhood friend. We were both science students during our secondary school days and we did study together. He got ission into medicine. I finished school while he was still studying. I lodged at his place whenever I travel to PH for aptitude tests.
Everything was good until life happened to my friend. He fell sick during his 3rd year in school that made him drop out of school. It wasn't an ordinary sickness, a little bit of mental illness too if you know what I mean. But he's fine now. Since he dropped out, life hasn't remained the same for him. Things have not been rosy. He was the hope of his family getting to that level of studying medicine.
I have stepped in a few times to assist him. He currently teaches but with poor remuneration. As you know, the corporate world doesn't regard folks who don't have certificates no matter how smart they are. He stopped teaching to run his own tutorial centre. I was very happy about this when he told me and I asked him to send me a business (tutorial) expansion plan and I funded with some token then. Unfortunately, it didn't yield much positive result. He claims the students don't pay up, probably becuase of the neighbourhood (mostly lower class) and the state of the economy doesn't help either.

In the spirit of men helping men, I need suggestions on what else can be done to help him get out of his situation. He is highly responsible and he's one who finds it very hard to ask me for money unless it's as a last resort. Most times, I just connect the dots during phone conversations and know he really needs help.
He's not asking me for any thing now but I feel sad each time we talk and still get to know his about his situation. He's back to the teaching job he once despised becuase of the poor remuneration.
I'd like to seek the counsel of Redpillers here, what else can he try his hands on to at least get him to a comfortable state. It's better to teach a man how to fish than give him fish. Recently I thought about enrolling him for a solar installation training and thereafter assist with some SEED fund to get him started. But I'd like to know if there are any other viable options out there that can be considered as well. I'd also like to protect myself by setting proper boundaries. I know him though..he's very reasonable and I ire his strong sense of responsibilities but he did something that pissed me off. He shared my with some of our other friends that we all grew up together in the neighbourhood. As a result, my whatsapp and phone lines were bombarded with a barrage of requests, financial assistance from folks. While I'm happy to help friends, I have come to a hard realization that I cannot help everyone and cannot solve Everyone's problem. I felt he should have used his discretion. I phoned him and we discuss this matter. He has taken the learning now. Beyond that, I see a man who has the zeal to accomplish great things but faces numerous challenges. Not even sure if to go ahead with this plan as I would not like to be seen as a father Christmas. This is coming at a huge sacrifice for me too but not convinced he sees that as he'd not have shared my if he does. Perhaps I'm wrong.

Kindly drop your suggestions.
I dropped this message here to also encourage men folks to help their fellow men as we all know how difficult it is out there to see men getting help.

He needs a skill that will pay him in dollars, you can discuss what interest him among all these digital skills available, and you get a good laptop for him and probably monthly stipends for subscriptions till he get a grip of that skill (a year maybe). Do monitor him and encourage him when needed....He must combine this with the teaching job too and earn too, hopefully this helps. It's won't be easy, buh life is hard. God bless you bro for the kind gesture towards him.

heartofcity12:
Cold&Ruthless. He ed with flying colors, he’s redpilled/Alpha 😊 ..Always maintain frame #redpill

Lol, what reason warrant stepping down for some month, she wanna Bleep around with no guilt attached. Stay cold comrade, infact forget about her, she is gone.

Zabiboy:
My short story so far

2018
√Broke
√Non Redpill
√Still in Uni
√Wasnt exercising
√No skill

2019
√Begging for crumbs on NL
√Heard about the R.P
√ed reddit R.P community, read R.P books, had a strong desire to know better
√ Finished "The Manipulated Man"
√Stop taking sugar. ( i dont smoke or drink alcohol, if not i would have stopped here too).

2020
√ Started Learning new skills
√ started exercising
√ Mindset improving, things getting better
√ Finished the Manipulated Man two more times
√ Read more books
√ Had a $20k goal by 2025. ( for family stuffs and japa)

2021
√Rounded up Uni ( corona added more nonths )
√Skills generating some funds
√ consitent exercise
√ Kept improving myself generally
√ moved out of parents house

2022
√ $20k goal sured.
√ Kept improving and learning

2023
√ moved back to parents house for some months ( cos i already knew i was leaving the country)
√ Finally told my fam i'm leaving, gave them a token and left
√ Left the country

If i can do it, anybody can

Thumbs up.
Congratulations mate...

Sheyimann:
Hello forex villa ,

I know this is a stupid question but still I go ask am cos I’m a baby at this forex stuff, I do crypto tho, but I don’t trade , I only buy and keep it , are there videos from you forex landlords here or forex beginner tutorial videos I can watch over the course of maybe 3 or 4 months or longer to learn the basics I need before ing you guys on this forex journey,

Abeg don’t ignore , I know there are videos on YouTube , I have unlimited internet , but I want to make sure I’m watching the right forex content that would help me get up to speed with some of the things you guys already know

Please I need all and any suggestions

Thanks I’m humbly begging

Just watch the basics...then practice. Market structure, price action is learnt with experience, just stay committed to the chart, with proper reasoning, you will find your edge

infofirst:


Some of what he shared with me. It might help someone prep better.

Wow, Boss infofirst. You kept these stuffs? . I'm really grateful for that opportunity last year, it was my first payout in fx, at a time when I was extremely broke. I really appreciate sir. Although I later lost the .
But one thing I want the people you want them to learn from those trades to know is that, market cycle has changed. When I was trading like that, EU, GU, AU, NZDU, was trending, it was very easy then once you are very good with Pivot levels and price action.
But Market cycle has changed, I can do 200-300pips in a week or two then, but now, it takes two to three months for that to happen, Market has been ranging, and very low volume now, so know what you are doing, because this current price actions on EU will frustrate you ...
So, why trying to trade like that, be open minded. The market is not trending.

Please who use 10trades here? Do they payout?

SPAMBOX7:
My fellow brothers I need your opinion on something.

Me and this chick being dating like 7 months now and she been all good, zero red flags till recently.

In short lemme list her advantages:
1. She doesn't bill me. Unless I decide to just do something for her
2. I do the billing instead. Most times to test her and she Deh always drop
3. She Sabi Bleep
4. I control her like a remote. Like if I say make she show not go work for one week she won't and all that

So what happened is she had a fight with her sister and she called to hear my opinion. I told her it's a family issue let them settle it amicably.

Omo na so this girl sent me a message on whatsapp that she doesn't blame me.
I was like how? What did I do?. She didn't answer. After like 30min I called and she didn't pick. She stopped picking my call.

We was to meet that day so I told her I don't understand her behavior so there is no need for us to see again.
Na so the girl just replied with "wow nice, have a nice day"
"good bye".

Note that she's never displayed this type of behavior before. Maybe she was only pretending all this while.
But since then we haven't spoken to anyone it's been over a week now. So recently she changed her dp to one guy.

This na person wey never put my pic on her dp before. I'm thinking she's just trying to get on my nerves or play games but since I am not the type that play their games. So my mind is telling me to be more lenient and just ignore her completely like she doesn't exist. Like even act like I haven't noticed the change on her dp. But my other mind is telling me to lock her and move on.

What do you guys think?

Cc:
Pansophist
Ubunja

Lol, you have to be cold to win this kind of games, she is more invested than you in the relationship, so it's her loss. Forget about her, it was just your turn bro.. unto the next banny.
, you are a slave to a woman you can't walk away from.

CuriousStudent:


This men don't understand the value and purpose of money,that is why they always grunt. For all aspects of life( not just relationship) money is a means to save time,stress,energy.

Instead of sitting for over 12 hours long in buses,you opt for flight to save time.

Instead of trekking you use a cab to save energy.

Instead of cooking you eat out to save energy.

Instead of enrolling your child in public university you enroll them in private university because of strikes.

But when it involves spending money to save you the time and energy of wooing and convincing it suddenly becomes a taboo.why?

Why is relationship/sex the only thing that we can't make easier with money?

Women pay for all those you listed too except relationship/sex, why is that?

Dizzyyish:
2.
Hypocrisy is perhaps the most well known dogma of women, and is to Double standards what a battery is to a car. Hypocrisy is proof of the absence of principles and the capacity to reflect in women. For example, women believe, as the weaker sex, they can do whatever they want to men with reckless abandon because they believe men can/should take it, but they also believe that, as the weaker sex, men should hold back when men do to them the same things they do to men (or not do it to them at all).

From this dogma the endless contradictions of women arises, showing that women speak not because they should, but because they can.
If a woman makes a contradiction, she doesn't stop to think or have a double-take on what she just said - because it doesn't in her head, so far as it benefits her.

A woman can say a thousand things and not mean a single one. Her mind is split between concepts and primal instincts, as her word emulates the logic of man but her actions follow the instincts of beast, resulting in her words and actions typically being forward and backwards respectively.

There's an old French saying along the lines of "A woman's word is written on ice" meaning it is ephemeral and meaningless, as opposed to the sayings "A man's word is his bond" or "A man is only as good as his word" meaning a man's willingness to honor his words and convictions is what separates him from the beasts.

Another example of the hypocrisy in women's actions, their preference of instincts over ideals and their discordance with kindness from men are the they give certain men:

"You're stingy", "Your wife will suffer..", "You're wicked/heartless..", etc.
Vs.
"You're a really sweet/nice guy", "You'll make a great husband/dad", "You're a soft/calm/God-fearing/gentle guy..", etc.

They state how much they "love" the latter men but are repulsed by them. The latter are assigned to the men they perceive as weak, who fulfill their self-serving interests; the former are assigned to the men they perceive as strong, who they are actually attracted to and respect.
This is hard to spot for a lot of men simply because they see the latter as compliments and have no reason to think deeply on it, notwithstanding how it strokes the man's ego and is a tool used to lead him on (and is also cause for concern when women unanimously praise you for something you did or said).

All these (and more) are reason enough why it is considered wise to not trust women's words or take them seriously.

Redpil 101. Welldone man.

Yemi4love:
Bosses in the house, I would need an advice on this....


Met this lady in November last year. She told me her guy just broke up with her and was still trying to heal. We became friends till late December and we started dating. She told me prior to the start of our relationship that she had an abortion for her ex guy. It really didn't bother me because I don't have interest in marrying her, and she has always been the one asking for us to date before we finally started dating.

She was the one that first messaged me on Facebook, so I was just thinking of how to knack and probably keep her company pending the time she gets another guy. But she has been very clingy ever since we started. She is a good girl. She helps in paying my house rent, bringing foodstuffs, buying clothes and shoes for me, spent like 70k on my birthday, and all, and I can't even say I've spent up to 5k on her since we met. And she has spent more than 400k so far.

I would have had a change of mind about marrying her, cus she's 25 while I'm 30, but it seems the abortion she had then tampered with her womb, we're both not sure but I already advice her to visit the hospital for tests.

Do you think I should continue with her or just break-up with her?

Spending on you doesn't mean anything, u don't have to reward her for that.
As for marrying her, it's up to you once you can accept the consequences..
It's been said many times on this thread never to save a damaged hoe....
And how sure are you she only had one guy in her life before you, or aborted once?
Why the guy she aborted for not marrying her?

Biglol008:
Good Afternoon guys pls I don’t know if I can ask for your help but since this a thread for men, I have been following for a long time now .
I have an issue low testosterone and low sperm count, I cum quickly , I ran some test to confirm that I do not have any underlying infections . But the test confirmed that I have very low testosterone and low sperm count I want to go back to my former life before I started this masurbation . I stopped a long time ago but ever since then my body has never been the same . I will look forward to your advise and suggestions. One cannot play the red pills game when you lacking in bedroom skills and you suffering erectile dysfunction issues .

.
Masturbation does not cause low sperm count.
Didn't the doctor tell you what to do?

Humbrown23:
Men,

Do not neglect your parents OR abandon your siblings because of a woman. You die today, in the next 2 months, she will be moaning in another man's arms telling him he is the hardest man ever. And when that man got pressed with pee (urine?) on his way from fetching her, he can even pee/urinate on your grave. SHE IS NOT YOUR RELATIVE.

-The end-

jayAjoku:
Just Take it in Good faith that they are Screwing Your Babe This is the one of the harshest pills you have to swallow To be free . She cannot escape All the hunters after her Pussycat I don’t know what else to tell you bro Them dey collect your babe As in your real babe WoeToe WoeToe

Lolx...

djon78:


I was wondering same thing

Understand female nature and marriage scares you?

Dude ain't serious

Makes you to have best for yourself in marriage

Not that it scares mate, it just doesn't worth it.

dreamxhaser:
Yoo guys

There's this girl I've been simping on for a long time.

She is dating one rich guy(bigger simp than I am) and the guy spends lavishly on the girl. But using some knowledge I got on this thread and how I analysed their situation, I got to realise she doesn't love him genuinely it's all about the cash.

Now, that's his own problem. My own be say in the last few months, I used the knowledge I gathered in this thread on new girls I've been meeting and it has been working like magic. In fact na me dey snub women this days.

The only issue is along the line, I got the realised how stupid I was in the past, and how that bitch have been treating me like trash in the past. In fact the bitch dosn't respect me. So I need concrate format on what I should do to regain my long lost reps from her.

I am still obsessed with her, but these time it's about regaining my lost respect and proving that I ain't no mugu anymore.

Any tips on how to go about it?

Forget about her pls, meet new people

Karlifate, I day feel you my Gee!!!
#Redpill

IyaebeTheGreat:
Good evening my dear friend, please kindly explain this about redpill to me. Going by the redpill nugget here and what I understand with an unbiased mind is that a true redpiller is supposed to be very disciplined, upright and decent. So why do you guys also advise that a redpiller should have many women around himself ( abundance mentality is the tag to it here). Isn’t that tantamount to sleeping around and as such you loose your frame. There’s no man involved with many women that can maintain frame, it’s not possible. So ain’t you guys kind of contradicting yourselves? How do you maintain frame with many women?

How do men of olden days maintain frame with 4-5 wives? How does the Muslim folks maintain frame?
Options gives power, and prevent oneitis, sunk cost, etc.
Bad to have once source of income, same for pvssy iyaebe

heartofcity12:
You can’t make this sh*t up. You made your choice, deal with it.

Alpha fvckz, beta bucks

IyaebeTheGreat:
No, it’s common with all men, it’s nature.

Men are natural slaves to pussy, they will do anything to get it ( a very smart woman would leverage on this). until they get unplugged from the matrix, or wise up.
I wish I come this world as a woman, buh it's what it is.

faceLAGOS:


My mother was the the first woman that gave me the reason to swallow the pill.

I swear it wasn’t easy.

I lost a lot & had to go through lots of emotional & psychological stress.

Now, I’m fine & she no dey fit look me in my face.

Be nice to her regardless bro...You know better now.

IyaebeTheGreat:
You maybe right though but anytime I noticed some redpill traits in a guy, I try to unredpill him immediately and boom it works and they succumb to all forms of my manipulation, it is for this reason I doubt the physical application of redpill in reality

Once you see, you can't unsee. Perhaps, the ones you met are ignorant of the female nature. Mind you some guys exhibit redpil traits naturally, and they might have never heard of redpill.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Do redpillers exist in reality? Where are they please? I haven’t in my entire life come across any. Could it be an online thingy while they act differently in reality.

Lol, you will never meet one.
Just a knowledge necessary for every man to navigate life. No sane man goes about tagging himself a redpiller. He only applies the knowledge when necessary.

zenithgroup:
Brotherly kindly explain more on DIS ABOVE.

Men marry up morally, women marry up financially.

KingEarnest:
At bolded, teach us how you do it bro

Just flow with girls that choose you.

TheDarkGamer:
On the topic of masturbation, think about things psychologically. Porn and masturbation affects your dopamine and reward system in your brain.

Not only is it an addiction for a lot of men on the planet, but you are being rewarded (orgasm) for not achieving the goal your brain thinks it has (actual sex). It also affects the way you think about the opposite sex and you would probably view see them purely as sexual commodities.

Also, question why men feel how they feel before and after masturbation. What is the scientific importance of post nut clarity?

This is a topic that can be expanded on.

If masturbating affects the way I think about the opposite sex, don't you think I'm truly seeing them for what they are for exactly?, Women are sexual objects, same way a man is a success object. That's the reality mate.

Faber:


Am saving this. The next time I sight any mudafvcker telling people shits about masturbation, I will silence him with this you wise talk. They don't want young men to discover their path in life, they want the life of young me to revolve around simping and pleasing women...that's why they are against masturbation, but they keep producing millions of dildos yearly for ladies, to make them less Hot so that they keep using sex as weapon on simps...

The matrix is way deeper than you think...😊

Ahuitzotl:
Your opposition to masturbation is just borne from a deep rooted blue pilled mindset which doesn't allow you to see the bigger picture in the dynamics of relationships where one who has or shows the greater interests loses the plot....let me burst your brain...I have chosen to masturbate right where I have been offered pussy on numerous occasions, hell masturbation as helped me focus enough to decline pussy,if it's not worth it. I don't have to "manage" or "justify" hitting the pussy, if I am not satisfied with the ramifications. Without masturbation,I make excuses for hitting the pussy and risk falling into an ambush because body no be firewood. But with masturbation, I decline a pussy straight up and gain LEVERAGE over the quarry which i can eventually use to my advantage..... Women use this avenue to gain power over men all the time...You dey there...dey play.

Lol, I don't get why some men always have a problem with masturbating, buh they receive handjobs from women, what's the difference? You just wanna cum, and using your God given hands is even 100% healthy way of achieving that 😊

Zabiboy:
Yo guys..
Got a question ( hopefully it turns out to be a good debate )
A popular statement in this manosphere ( one of the few i personally don't agree with ) is
"Men have to create their value while the other gender is BORN WITH VALUE and simply have to protect it"
I've seen this statement here too, but i wasnt free for some discussion/debate at that time..
So i wanna ask, what exactly is this value that people are BORN with?

_{i've got part 2 of this for those who agree with the statement.}

A man will work his ass off for years to chill on a yatch, travel the world, but a girl is just an Instagram dm away from enjoying the same thing. Most of the parties organized, it's free for women but men have to pay. Like the game of chess, a queen can move anywhere, but a king one at a time. Women have access. I think this validate the statement that they are born with value

Donnie835:
Hi Redpillers, Thank you so much for this thread so far. Thank you for liberating men from their shackles of ignorance.
I've been in a serious relationship for one year hoping to lead to marriage this year.
My babe went on a date last week Saturday, she ed her pictures only on her WhatsApp status, then I asked her where did she go to and she said she went out with her female friends. My intuition told me immediately that she lied and that she went out on a date with a guy, I then requested for pictures she took with her friends, She promised to send it as a prove that she was saying the truth. Till now, she hasn't sent it because I'm so sure there is nothing to send.
When I discovered that this girl is manipulative, I decided to lock up on the issue, no calls or messages from my end, guess what? This girl did the same. She gave me the silent treatment for days now.
Guys, I need your advise on what to do
Ubunja, cave, Martinez, Jeshal and others
Thank you guys.

Move on bro...

AsapTeddy:


I swear u dey crase.

Make she put her life at risk because she wan give you puna?

Omo...in short u dey mad.


You better free the girl

Lol

Smartb0y:

Her first "real" marriage.

That word "real" says a lot.

I don't have to explain further,do i

The cash out was massive