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ojaysam25(m): 10:55am On Mar 31
Nice fiction
ojaysam25(m): 10:07pm On Mar 25
Run my brother run, she will ruin you. I am talking from experience bro.
ojaysam25(m): 8:33pm On Mar 24
Op, you better apologize to your mom, that woman wants what is best for you. You say you are doing ok in your own right. But your mom wants something way bigger than that. She want what's best for you.
ojaysam25(m): 3:21pm On Feb 26
That's the reality we find ourselves now. Dating a Nigeria girl is like you just open an orphanage. They are always hungry.

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ojaysam25(m): 4:13pm On Dec 26, 2024
The blues will win this one for sure.
ojaysam25(m): 7:56pm On Dec 19, 2024
The naira has lost its value all thanks to this wicked istration. The only way out for the common man in this country is to be pay in foreign currency.
ojaysam25(m): 7:52pm On Dec 19, 2024
So according to the her, Peter obi should be blame for the failure of tinubu. Agender must agend.

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ojaysam25(m): 7:39pm On Dec 19, 2024
It is laudable. Thumbs up to our Igbo brothers.

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ojaysam25(m): 10:35pm On Dec 12, 2024
My brother the only effective way to stop masturbation is to not have access to the Internet. Start using Nokia tough lights and thank me later.
ojaysam25(m): 8:21pm On Aug 13, 2024
Please add me up on the group, I lost my phone, could no longer access the group. 07086047415
ojaysam25(m): 1:54pm On Aug 31, 2023
Cr7
ojaysam25(m): 10:36pm On Jul 25, 2023
It is written in the Bible, that there will be tribulations, suffering and hardship on the last days. Christian praying to avert these, do not read their bible well. You can only exonerate yourself through prayer, the world as it is, is already doom. Things can only get worst.

Tithe should not be an issue if not for greed, most people who are against tithe will say, they prefer giving their tithe to the poor. But how many of them really gives a 10th of their earning to the poor or less privilege.

The average man does not like being told how to spend his money. one other thing I also noticed about an atheist or a satanists is that they will trash everything in the Bible but will quote same bible when they want to prove a point.
ojaysam25(m): 8:59am On Jul 19, 2023
It is pathetic how a sane human being will still be ing the removal of fuel subsidy with the misguided notion that the policy favour only the rich.

Subsidy removal is another Avenue for the rich to have a looting spree while the poor masses suffer. We have been brainwashed.

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ojaysam25(m): 12:05am On Jul 13, 2023
Kobojunkie:
I have seen it happen with my own eyes. They are some of the same reasons why people confess to crimes they could not in fact be guilty of. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/decoding-madness/202111/10-reasons-people-it-crimes-they-didn-t-commit

2. Not everyone walking around is carrying a full case. Some people are fragile in points you will find hard to believe. undecided
Okay
ojaysam25(m): 11:57pm On Jul 12, 2023
Kobojunkie:
1. Here's a question. How did your aunt do all you claim she did? undecided

2. How did she cause her daughter to be barren? She confessed but how did she achieve any of these feats she confessed to? undecided

3. You brainwashed folks like to believe the many babalawo tails that are fed you by others without question and you are not able to clearly reason anything for your own selves. A mother who milks her own kids dry to prosper her gods of men is sad. undecided
What do you mean, that she deliberately made that confessions to decieve. Do you Know the shame she brought to her children, who has disowned her anyway.
ojaysam25(m): 11:39pm On Jul 12, 2023
How I wish your mom was my aunt who has succeeded in killing all her brothers including my dad.

She cause her own daughter to be barren and her sons useless until she was arrested by God. I literally cry like a baby when she made her confessions.

At least be grateful your mom is the praying type not the flying type alot of people wish for this kind of mom.
ojaysam25(m): 1:25pm On Jul 03, 2023
Op, excessive masturbation has messed up your head.
ojaysam25(m): 6:07pm On Jun 23, 2023
SerikiFulani:
Please change the headline to -

Why did "Poor Nigerians" stop drinking tap/borehole water? 😏

Ain't never drank that shit all ma life πŸ™‚
Shut up

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ojaysam25(m): 10:56pm On Jun 22, 2023
Sxyhalima:
he has now changed his plans and says he wants to live at home until marriage because things are expensive
can a man marry me if he still lives in his parents house
Please do that man a favor by breaking up with him. You can still find a rich doctor to marry. Allow that man to live peacefully with his family, he will eventually marry someone much better than you, with the prayer of his mom. Free that soul.
ojaysam25(m): 10:59pm On Jun 19, 2023
Where op?
ojaysam25(m): 11:37am On Jun 19, 2023
Boss2985:
Please what does it mean to be seeing dogs in your dreams. I have been dreaming about dogs for days now. Please help
Seeing dogs in the dream or being pursued by dogs in the dream regularly, means you are been attacked by the spirit of lust.
Are you battling sexual sins like fornication,masturbation?
ojaysam25(m): 9:55pm On Jun 13, 2023
@op stop masturbating.
ojaysam25(m): 10:10pm On Jun 11, 2023
Whatever disdain his mother felt towards you, must be the holy spirit prompting her... Look at the division you have caused in that family, before you came he has been going to church with his mother. You are on a mission but you have already failed you agent of darkness. I can see through you.

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ojaysam25(m): 3:38pm On Jun 05, 2023
Amotolongbo:
Stop overrating Ibrahimovic and massaging his self blown ego, though we understand he scored fantastic goals. There were many better 9s than him. Samuel Eto’o was a better 9.
I stand being corrected
Your opinion though. In the Ronaldo and Messi era, only zlatan comes closer to those two icons. His finishing is out of this world. He is only hated base on his ego and arrogance but on the pitch the guy is very good.

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ojaysam25(m): 7:16am On Jun 05, 2023
Underrated player, probably the best top9 of the last two decades.

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ojaysam25(m): 2:42pm On May 18, 2023
nice one op, I can relate with most of the things you are saying. Please share.

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ojaysam25(m): 6:27pm On Apr 18, 2023
It is a pity I expect nothing from my darling Chelsea. How has the mighty fallen but dry bones shall rise again.

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ojaysam25(m): 11:05pm On Apr 11, 2023
BrighterThanDay:
As a child from a broken home, I saw marriage as my happy ending of finally having a home filled with love and mutual understanding. After the death of my mom, growing up with my dad and stepmom was hell. I was treated as a stranger in my own home, so I thought starting my own family will be a lot better.

After I completed my education and got a good job. I had a lot of suitors willing to settle down with me. Most of them were rich and accomplished men, but there was no spark, I felt they weren't genuinely in love with me, and since I was never a materialistic person, I turned them down. I get easily content with what I have and I spend prudently. Then I met my husband. It happened that I was his crush back then in school, in fact, he even approached me as a student then, but I turned him down because I knew where I was coming from and I never wanted to gamble with my studies, it was my only hope to leave my father's house and fend for myself.

Fast forward to when I met my husband after school. He didn't even have a good job. But I could tell I meant a great deal to him, we'll speak for hours on the phone. I fell hopelessly in love with him, I could already picture a happy home with him and our kids. Then he proposed, and I accepted. I met his family, they were nice on the first visit.

After the introduction ceremony with my family, I started noticing certain things. I was taking pictures with his phone when I saw a message from his mom telling him I'm a stranger and he shouldn't allow me to come between them. I was surprised and wondered where all this was coming from, I asked him and he reassured me that it was nothing.

Then his father told me that hope I know that a son should love and care for his parents more than his kids. I kept pondering this statement. Then the worse of it all was his married sister, she hasn't even met me, but she rained insults and abuses on me on his phone and why he needs to make money first and allow his family to enjoy his money, before getting married. She said I was old, and just forcing him to marry me. I was just 26 then, but my education was very fast.

I had to speak to her dad about this and he cautioned her. I tried speaking to her myself but she rained insults again on me. I called off the wedding at a point but my then-fiance begged and involved my brother and so we went on with the wedding preparations. The wedding went well and his entire family stayed with us for a week before leaving.

My husband got a good job, I was working, we were fine and money wasn't our problem. A few months later, my father-in-law died. I sent messages and called hubby's siblings to comfort them. I couldn't travel with him immediately due to the nature of my job. I kept calling to check on him and inquire about the traditional rites I might need to be a part of. Hubby said his father was a pastor so he won't need to do anything, while we were yet speaking, his sister who hates me snatched the phone from him and said I have to do this and that or I should pack my things and leave the house and then she shouted at me.

I was so pissed and acted in a way that wasn't right considering that we were all mourning. I sent a message to her, telling her to be nice considering that we are all mourning but if she chooses to continue insulting and humiliating me for no reason, I won't take it. She forwarded the message to the entire family, including uncles, aunts, and grandchildren. On the day of the burial, I was treated as an outcast by the entire family, she told them not to give my birth family food, even though they came bearing gifts and comforting everyone. Hubby had to step in and ask the caterers to serve them.

She kept fighting and shouting at my hubby throughout the burial and tried denying him of things he was supposed to do as the first son and child. I was humiliated and she kept castigating my name and insulting me to hearings of everyone. I wasn't even allowed to eat. I was quiet all through, when family were asked to sit behind the corpse, she asked me to excuse them.

For fear of my life after the burial, I had to go lodge in a hotel outside. The next morning she and her brother kept shouting and complaining that why did hubby allow me to lodge and that I should have been with their mom. They continued the humiliation, I couldn't take it anymore or hold back my tears so I left.

Hubby later told me that she held a meeting in my absence with the entire family and told them I'm a bad wife and needs to leave her brother. This was when hubby stood up for me and said I wasn't going anywhere.

Our marriage was never the same. Even when we had our daughter, no one called, hubby was ostracized from his own family and he blamed me sometimes. I couldn't concentrate at work, and my job is performance-based. I was scared that I'll be fired, so I resigned.

Hubby's income wasn't enough to sustain us, so we started facing financial difficulties. He had to even go meet the same sister to borrow money, even though I discouraged it. She always mocked him for it and I had to pay off the loan at a point.


When she saw that we are now broke, she stopped fighting with him and they are on talking now, of course, she still wants nothing to do with me. I know that they are family by blood and nothing is too hard to forgive, but each time she calls and they are happily discussing, Ican't help but feel angry for all she has caused us. I'm sometimes tempted to leave this marriage because this is not what I envisaged at all.

My brother is also married and I have never felt the need to interfere in his marriage or fight his wife.

I don't know how long I can continue in this union, even my innocent beautiful daughter is hated by them.
My sister you need prayers, serious prayers, not only for your hubby but your children as well. I sense your sister in-law is not an ordinary person. It is well
ojaysam25(m): 9:05pm On Dec 24, 2022
Austynodv:
If you believe and type Amen
Amen
ojaysam25(m): 9:04pm On Dec 24, 2022
Austynodv:
If you believe and type Amen
Amen
ojaysam25(m): 9:03pm On Dec 24, 2022
childofGod29:
If you believe and type Amen
Amen
ojaysam25(m): 11:06am On Dec 05, 2022
childofGod29:
If you believe and type Amen
Amen

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