NewStats: 3,265,045 , 8,185,433 topics. Date: Friday, 13 June 2025 at 09:10 AM 5u3yr

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Saintmary:
See wicked man o, set awon deadbeat daddies.

You snubbed a lady who was pregnant with your child at a time she needed you.

Now, just because everyone is on the dna bandwagon, you want to gather sympathy.

Why don't you go to court and demand for custody of your child if you have the guts?

In your case, I'll want to hear Shade's side of the story.

So, you think Nigerians don't think straight.

Rada rada.

You can listen to her confession and I thank God it was not under duress

Liposure:
Where have the godfearing women gone to

She disappeared

closed

NLRulesEnforcer:


Respect yourself and follow forum rules. Stop spamming forum threads to get attention. Your above post has absolutely nothing to do with the thread's topic and you are derailing the thread. Take your post down and post in the correct forum section(s) otherwise you will be reported to the Mods and your banned within the next 24 hours.

What do you mean by that?
Have I done something wrong in posting my thought here?

Topcrafts:


Bro, this boy doesn't resemble you sir.

It's possible your wife just used the strategy of the pregnancy to make you marry her.

She only lied that she was pregnant for you but the pregnancy was for the other man.

Wise up bro!

Thank you

bigjackass:
Bring back what home? That is very wrong. You priority should be to make her aware that you are real father and you want to be involved. The lady was wrong for telling you the child is dead but don't be trying to collect the child from her just because one prophet said so. You are the one that refused to marry her in the first place.

I didn't refused to marry her, she left me when the pregnant was about 3month old...what she told me was that she lost the baby at birth which I know she lied...
All the proof that the boy belongs to me are available
She has blocked her , change her residence and even her number when she got to know that I am aware the baby is alive

I am new to nairaland
How can I post a new topic on this platform

Olakunleyakub:
The first thing is to find a way to determine if the child truly belongs to you den we can start the next processing on how to recover your child even dough am far away from Southwest now.

I have gotten all the evidence ready
Even I have over six witness that knows she was pregnant for me...
The mother called all my family memebers to tell them I impregnated her daughter
I have voice note of her confession which I can present
All evidence are ready

danowena:


You need to open a fresh thread to get opinions and more views.

OK
I don't know how to post a new topic on nairaland
Can you direct me on how to do that?

Topcrafts:


Bro, this boy doesn't resemble you sir.

It's possible your wife just used the strategy of the pregnancy to make you marry her.

She only lied that she was pregnant for you but the pregnancy was for the other man.

Wise up bro!

It is because you are looking at the picture
The lady herself confess to my pastor...there is no way I can send the voice note here...it would have been better
This is my daughter

dam4sam:


No one can judge whether the Child is yours or not, just from mere looks!
Only a DNA test can reveal it but l am sure the "father" that the Boy was given or sold to, will not consent to a DNA test with you and the Boy.

What you need to do is to keep close with the Boy, monitor his growth and know his whereabouts so that he does not suddenly disappear and you cant trace him. Keep a tab on Folashade as well but be careful in doing so, dont just go around stalking them.

You then need to find a way of getting something that will have a DNA of the Boy (his Comb or Hair, Toothbrush, etc) which you will secretly take and use to conduct a DNA Test (I hear it is about 150K).
If it turns out 'Negative', you will know that you are wrong all along but if it turns out "Positive", you now know you have a preliminary reason to sue and claim the Child is yours even though that DNA you did will not be presentable in Court but it gives you grounds to file to reclaim your Child.

In the mean time, focus on your dreams and make money and make something out of your life, even if the Boy turns out to be yours, he might not be too impressed with a 'new' Dad that is broke.
My sympathies, Bro.

It is not about making money or not...
The girls has blocked all her social media and she is avoiding DNA test

This is the man that conspire with them to claim the boy....

Good day to you i and every member of nairaland
I want to share a story with you
My mame is olanrewju, about five years ago, I met a lady Adedeji folashade and we started game of love, along the line she got pregnant for me but as at when she got pregnant I was planning to travel to Canada then so when I heard the news about her pregnancy I was happy but due to the fact that I was processing my travel then I wasn't having money with me, the mother of this Lady force me that I must marry her compulsorily so I objected her that she should give me more time to settle down, but she promise to carry out all the feeding and she even promise to buy me clothe and shoe for the wedding but I objected her since it is he duty of aan to do that.. There was a lot of argument then so along the line told the lady to stop seeing me...I tried to see folashade but the mother got another apartment for her, Nov 22 2016, shade gave birth to a baby boy at UCH Ibadan but I was not inform about the arrival of the baby, the day I saw shade at gbagi in Ibadan she told me the boy died during childbirth...but I never believe her story, the mother conspire with a young man who is rich to claim the baby...I went to a church for counselling so I was told that I have a son outside which I must make sure I bring back home...I had to use a friend to set shade up to know the truth of the matter and she confess to my friend which I have all the voice note of her confession..they cheatede because I don't have money, they gave another man to father my on biological son..I wanted to take this matter up but my mother told me to hold on just for the fear of been killed..attracted bellow is the picture of the boy that was claimed by another father
Nigerians should please help me, I have been cheated
Please help me repost
I have full evidence and even the voice note of the lady where she confess about the boy.

Good day to you i and every member of nairaland
I want to share a story with you
My mame is olanrewju, about five years ago, I met a lady Adedeji folashade and we started game of love, along the line she got pregnant for me but as at when she got pregnant I was planning to travel to Canada then so when I heard the news about her pregnancy I was happy but due to the fact that I was processing my travel then I wasn't having money with me, the mother of this Lady force me that I must marry her compulsorily so I objected her that she should give me more time to settle down, but she promise to carry out all the feeding and she even promise to buy me clothe and shoe for the wedding but I objected her since it is he duty of aan to do that.. There was a lot of argument then so along the line told the lady to stop seeing me...I tried to see folashade but the mother got another apartment for her, Nov 22 2016, shade gave birth to a baby boy at UCH Ibadan but I was not inform about the arrival of the baby, the day I saw shade at gbagi in Ibadan she told me the boy died during childbirth...but I never believe her story, the mother conspire with a young man who is rich to claim the baby...I went to a church for counselling so I was told that I have a son outside which I must make sure I bring back home...I had to use a friend to set shade up to know the truth of the matter and she confess to my friend which I have all the voice note of her confession..they cheatede because I don't have money, they gave another man to father my on biological son..I wanted to take this matter up but my mother told me to hold on just for the fear of been killed..attracted bellow is the picture of the boy that was claimed by another father
The man has been requesting for DNA test but the lady never agreed to do the test
Pls repost

This is my own picture and this is my baby girl
Please I want anybody that sees this post to help me repost it so that Nigerians van help me.
The travelling I was processing then failed due to the troubles shades mother had to pick up with me
I have the audio of the confession
If you feel like listening to it you van chat me up on what's app
I will send all the evidence to you..
08134219272

Good day to you i and every member of nairaland
I want to share a story with you
My mame is olanrewju, about five years ago, I met a lady Adedeji folashade and we started game of love, along the line she got pregnant for me but as at when she got pregnant I was planning to travel to Canada then so when I heard the news about her pregnancy I was happy but due to the fact that I was processing my travel then I wasn't having money with me, the mother of this Lady force me that I must marry her compulsorily so I objected her that she should give me more time to settle down, but she promise to carry out all the feeding and she even promise to buy me clothe and shoe for the wedding but I objected her since it is he duty of aan to do that.. There was a lot of argument then so along the line told the lady to stop seeing me...I tried to see folashade but the mother got another apartment for her, Nov 22 2016, shade gave birth to a baby boy at UCH Ibadan but I was not inform about the arrival of the baby, the day I saw shade at gbagi in Ibadan she told me the boy died during childbirth...but I never believe her story, the mother conspire with a young man who is rich to claim the baby...I went to a church for counselling so I was told that I have a son outside which I must make sure I bring back home...I had to use a friend to set shade up to know the truth of the matter and she confess to my friend which I have all the voice note of her confession..they cheatede because I don't have money, they gave another man to father my on biological son..I wanted to take this matter up but my mother told me to hold on just for the fear of been killed..attracted bellow is the picture of the boy that was claimed by another father

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