NewStats: 3,262,248 , 8,176,597 topics. Date: Sunday, 01 June 2025 at 02:50 PM 5c5x5w

Alright, so I'm going to be as brief as possible.
I met a girl who I asked out and of course, she agreed to date me. She's cool and like everyone has her good and bad sides and I appreciate her.

We've dated for over a month now, but there's something I'm finding hard to get along with. She told me she wants a no swx relationship, which I'm not against, but there's something she said that spoilt everything. She said she lost her virginity when she was around 7 years. According to her, she started f*cking at the age of 7 with normal street kids of her kind. She said she regrets it and doesn't want to allow sex before marriage anymore. I'd have been cool with that decision, but on hearing the story, I just got discouraged and now, it's either she gives me sex or I leave. Hope I'm not too harsh?

Mature minds only.

johnfe:


No, currently in my 5th month. Started with little beards, face is full with beards now. Keep it going bro 👍

Can I talk to you aside here?

kingthreat:


Someone I know had this. He took drugs and injections to no avail. Eventually it went when he started using external treatment. I have forgotten the name of the anti-bacteria he used to rub. But anyways don't fret. It is not Herpes.

I really hope it's not herpes though, even though I know herpes is not a killer disease and all that, I just don't want to have anything that I'm not supposed to have.

MrGOAT:


Yenyenyenyen if person just get every infection for private part then to una, na from sex?

I contracted this the moment I used a public toilet at Camp of Faith, Okigwe.

Even while being a virgin, so what are you trying to say?

I'm sure it's from her, bro. Explain the coincidence of getting infected just few weeks of having s*x with someone and then you start seeing signs of infections? I think she cheated, cos I've been having sex with her since January and only got to know about this recently. It's from her, I'm 99% sure

TheZeezle:
Another Eiyan iyi on the call. Welcome to herpes nation. Las las na every other banny go chop am. Koni baje 🙌🏾

Firstly, even though I'm aware a lady gave me this, I cannot it to another lady, I'm not as wicked as that. Since this started, a lady has come to visit me in my crib and wanted s*x but I didn't have a condom, she insisted cos she was Hot but I couldn't get myself to do it, when I know I'm going to it to her, unknowingly to her. I gave her a flimpsy excuse and told her to dress up and go home.

Secondly, it may not be herpes, I visited a pharmacist today and the man told me it's a bacterial infection and I'll need to take both injection and pills to help clear it, for 15k. I want to be 100% sure before making any decision now, so I'll have to confirm from another pharmacist first, So I don't end up paying for the wrong treatment.

illicit:
How do you feel when u pee

I feel normal. There's no pain or discharge

Creamypie:
Oga na gonorrhea be that oh

But there's no discharge or whatsoever from my p†nis at any time.

CondenseMilk:
Please tell that your ex not to serve that thing to another man.



U banged an olosho!

My guy, now I believe 70% of Nigerian girls are nothing but disease carriers, they have no use to men other than spreading their dirty infested legs up and down. To think that I thought I was being faithful to a "faithful" girl. I don't rate those eediots anymore and now I can relate with many of these nairaland guys. I'm so disappointed Sha. Never again will I bang a Nigerian lady without condom, NEVER. Those hoes are never loyal to one d!ck

Shout out to all the disease free and responsible girls out there, na una deserve bride price

Hello guys, happy Sunday.
I'm kind of disturbed and I'm here to seek or know if someone has had similar problem.

Roughly 3 weeks ago, I had s*x with my girlfriend (now ex) and not too long, I started noticing these around my p†nis coming with itchiness on my laps and buttocks. Like it's really really disturbing, though the one on my p†nis cap doesn't itch, the rashes on my lap itches bad. I'm suspecting herpes but I'm not so sure. Here is a pic of it(which I'll take down soon). Does anyone have any idea what this is? If you want to insult me, you're free to do so, but it should come with a solution, please.

Hello guys
Omo is all I can say sha
Met this girl a long time ago, though online and we got talking. Things got a little more serious and we kinda started dating (online, not physical) cos we had not met.

Fast-forward to last year, we met and I didn't like her at all. (Along the line of our online dating, we broke up). So, when we met, sje liked me a lot and was always telling her friend she did but didn't tell me though.

One thing led to another recently and the we started dating again, this time, it was out of pity. The thing is, I don't even like her one bit, she's opposite of what I envisage in a woman. She cannot speak good English, not tall, clingy and in fact, there's nothing I like about her but I can't just tell her. The first time we broke up online, she was really hurt and I don't know how I can handle this one, this time around.

I've hurt too many girls and I feel it's going to haunt me a way or the other, but see me, I'm making like more complicated for myself.

I'm tired, I dunno what else to do, ladies like me a lot, it's not like I'm even that fine, money I no get but I keep getting ladies anyhow. I don't see it as a privilege as others do, I see it as a serious burden on my head

Please, what's the best way to tell this girl off, so she doesn't get hurt, even if she's hurt, just a little. I'm trying to put her feelings into consideration, I no know wetin dey worry me. I act without thinking

LilyVelvet:
He's right, politicians have nothing to lose. It's your loss, so just keep it. Find a better way to protest


It's quite unfortunate how Nigerians are truly suffering in this hard times.. I pray that God touches a kind hearted person to help you dear.

Post with one , reply with the other one. Always saying the same thing. Try restrategize

rtdCivilservant:

U no get sense. U be final year student come still get senior colleague. Abi u wan say na master or PhD student? I no understand

What I mean is, she's senior to me, by age and not by class.

Hey guys.
I'm a final student of the university and my senior colleague here in school is offering me free sèx. Like, she calls me anytime she wants sèx and I can tell her I'm Hot and she'd allow me have sèx with her. My sèx isn't even good enough so it's not a matter of being a bed master. Want to back off but I dunno how to

MyVILLAGEpeople:


You see that masturbating.. I'm still suffering from it effect and I'm so addictive to it!

My guy, I was/am in your shoes though I'm not addicted to it anymore, I some time do it just once in a month or even 2 months and true, the effects you have are the ones I'm encountering now. I can't last anymore, once I do one round, my dick will just go flaccid and it's really embarrassing. I don't even have a hard erection anymore and I'm really very worried about myself. But, there's something I did that I feel worked for me (till I masturbated again). I used to do early morning jogging and skipping, exercises in general anyways and I noticed my erection came back even though I didn't have sex that period to know if I'd last. So, I'll advise you to try it out too, do exercises and stop masturbating, I think you'll regain yourself. For now, I've stopped masturbating, I'm very religious and there's something that works for me if I don't want to indulge in it, I simply swear that if I ever masturbate (within a period of time) that God should make me die terribly, I swear with my life and pray that if I should masturbate, God shouldn't spare or forgive me. Sometimes, I even tell God to use a trailer to crush me on the road if I renege on my words . Truth be told, it works very perfectly for me because I'll be scared. I.last masturbated early January and since then I swore that if I ever masturbated throughout the year, let me die miserably and I believe I'm going to keep to it. Since it's working for me, I'm sticking with it. I pray I get my sexual life back, it's really a big concern for me, I don't want to suffer my wife in future. Masturbation really dealt with me sha, I pray God helps me to overcome fully and regain whatever masturbation has taken from me. It's indeed a silent killer.

wealthyhenry:


Please what are the good niches you can recommend

Do you want to venture into blogging too?. Let's connect and rub minds.

TalkTalkTwins:
Yes, invest in good contents and they’ll be paying you even after five years.
I’ve been blogging since 2017.

Can we chat, I beg, please.

ayoncox:

It makes sense but before you get started ensure you take a training on blogging, starting with having the right name. If you don't mind you can chat me up on 08089456258

I will send you a message.

Hello guys, good morning. So recently, I've been planning on investing money to build a blog from the scratch from a professional web designer. I want to invest there and I'm not really in a urge to make money from it, so I can be patient. What do you guys think?. Mature responses only, please.

Seems most of you don't understand the chat.

She stylishly requested a fling and I played along. Prior to this chat, she has told me to have séx with whoever I want if I'm Hot.

Had a chat with my girlfriend this afternoon, she was the girlfriend I talked about in my previous thread. In case u missed, here it is https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/7051069/girlfriend-very-reckless-past.

We currently in a distance relationship and she do complain to me about her s3xual urge most times, so just this afternoon we had a chat and one talk led to another, I really only wanted to see her response but I wouldn't say I was disappointed anyways. I like her yes but does it even make any sense?. I know I was manipulative, yes, but I wanted to get her response.

NB; She has told me severally that if I have any lady I want to get down with, I can go ahead, I dunno if these are red flags I should just ignore because I feel if a girl loves you, no matter what, she won't agree to get down with another guy or even suggest you as a guy get down with any girl of your choice. Here are the chats.

What do u guys think?.
#modified

Candidlady:



@bolded

That line always get me pissed! Met Jan said yes Jan had sex same Jan

Abeg where una dey meet em this girls...

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have you had sex with her?

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you shouldn't be scared people actually CHANGE!!! But if you can't handle it iwill advice you to end the relationship

We met online, we've been talking prior to our meeting and she agreed to date me when we met.

Guys, it's not as easy as you guys see it, just pray you're not in shoes, thinking about it alone weakens the mind

Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks

ethicallyright:
We told you that everything the Celebrities did was clout chasing.
That is even Davido with a billionaire and influential father and relatives in politics.

Do you think Tasha , Mercy Eke , Toyin Abraham , Tiwa Savage , Don Jazzy etc would say a different thing ?

How do you explain that a certain musician that declined to a protest against bad governance, hike in prices of goods , unemployment, closed tertiary institutions , rusty infrastructures, etc( which really matters)
on the first week of October suddenly pays for billboards for #endsars protest on the second week of October.

Would Zarah Buhari or Kiki Osibanjo ever the protesters in the protest against bad governance, inflation or Herdsmen killings in Southern Nigeria? Well they ed this one because it beats their collective imagination that we unite to protest against a very micro unit of a bigger failed system which does not directly affect the excesses of their parents.

The unemployed youths will end the protest next week when the International break stops(they would be in their offices this morning if they had jobs). Many will return to betnaija and betking shops with the hope that they will win 40 million with 100 naira to marry and train their children. Others will return to their Yahoo which many of them don't really get paid because of lack of jobs, the girls who should be gainfully employed would continue to run a makeup business on WhatsApp (a front for her sexual trade) and that 24 year old final year student in UNILAG will resume school next year at the age of 25 while the senator's 22 year old son would return abroad to a job at NNPC or CBN.

The cycle continues because #endsars was our problem. I almost forgot that the underemployed SARS officials would be redeployed to other units where they will still earn their " big" salary of 41,000 naira a month while waiting for the next unlucky person that will pay 500,000 naira as bail for overtaking and denting a celebrity's Range Rover.

If you believe that protest culture in Nigeria has developed then you should rethink. This protest does not affect the ruling class directly. It will only turn wives of mobbed policemen to widows and parents of murdered protesters to mourners.While the elites remain untoched.

Magnoliaa , like I told you . This is Davido caught in a spy camera denying that he protested against SARS at the IG's office .

Hmmmm, deep

I've come to notice it that 90% of ladies are attracted to bad guys.

I did a survey on a group of girls. I asked them to pick between a good guy and a "bad" guy and most of them chose "bad" guy.

So I got talking to an ex recently and she revealed to me that the reason she was stuck on me was due to the fact that I was a bad guy, the way I handled her. She was scared she wouldn't get that in another guy. Not just that, a lady revealed to me that she doesn't like quiet guys at all, she said she prefers guys with bad guy traits, she likes guys that can dress to kill, she said she doesn't like guys that tuck in their dresses with ties and suits and all those. She wants this guy with bad guy looks. I'm still wondering why. Why would someone choose a guy with piecing and rugged jeans over a decent looking guy .

Ladies, pls, come in here. I want to know.
Guys, has a girl ever told u this too or broke up with u cos u are too good or calm??

NB: When I say bad guys, I don't mean guys who beat or molest them, thieves or rogues oo. U guys should understand better.

Major0303:
Please, when is the closing date for change of institution?

No closing date but it's advisable u do it early so it can reflect on time.

Jolene201:
ohh ok,connections..hmm..
huh.. I didn't take jamb..u r in 200 level also.. great, can we talk on watsap. PS:I'm not bro.. thanks for your contribution tho.

Sure.
Drop ur number. I'll send u a message ASAP.

Jolene201:
Hello big brothers and sisters in the house.. I've never spoken here before, arguments scare me..so um I'm hoping someone would give some useful advice.. I'm a lover of dentistry ... I'm so ionate about it.. I've never even thought of medicine.dont really know y.. but I've not been so lucky. I'm currently studying medical biochemistry in uniben..in my first attempt to UI.. I wasn't even given any course..(I scored well above 250 in both jambs).
so currently,I'm really unhappy..and I don't concentrate at all..(med bch is a nice course o)I tried transferring in 100 level but for some reasons I couldn't and I'm planning on doing so again this 200 level..(we are still offering a lot of common courses )i don't really know,issit still possible?would I have to repeat my 2nd year.. anyone knows anything about this in uniben in particular..pls feel free to advise,no insults please.

Brooo
I've to be very honest with you without mincing words rn, if it's really Uniben, you cannot transfer to dentistry except you know someone very strong there, I mean very strong, your gp or result cannot help you. The last open transfer to medicine was in 2016. If anyone tells you otherwise, then the person is lying to you. Your sure bet right now is through jamb, transfer to medicine and dentistry is almost impossible in uniben, it's even much easier transferring to medicine in Uniben than dentistry. You may be surprised how l know about all these. Well, I've gone to made enquiries (although for my younger cousin) and I was told point blank by the Dean's secretary that transfer cannot be allowed into the department, same with medicine. So it's left for you to look for strong connections if u really want to transfer. Good luck!! .

Did u take jamb??. Getting Uniben dentistry via jamb isn't that hard if u ask me.
Ps: Also a 200L uniben undergraduate.

PotatoSalad:
Things we did sha.
I calling MTN customer care all day to ask for titles of interesting movies when I got my first phone till their Oga at the top attended to me (maybe there were complaints of my numerous calls) and said he'll barr my line if I ever call them again

Lol
Can't stop laughing

olsamlaw:


Boss I'm bothered too o...maybe I should switch to schools that are not using olevel. Coz I might not stand a chance with my Waec. Make 321 no waste

Uniben as at 2016 when post utme when scrapped did not use waec result.

BRYAN999:
lol.. no be lie, i believe you....Ya i be aspirant too oh... unical also.

Make we talk na