NewStats: 3,263,349 , 8,179,870 topics. Date: Thursday, 05 June 2025 at 03:45 PM 6i2572

apprentist:
Hello Guys, let me first of all say the cliché "It is well".

Now let we start.
I met my wife years back just before the COVID-19 year during which we dated for almost a year and then eventually got married just when the lock down was reducing. I started this story this way because I wanted to emphasis that during that period, we had so much time to bond and she was mostly available to me as she only worked on shifts 2 to 3 days per week.
We could sit and talk for long, go out at late nights and have great s*x as frequently as we needed.

This I think gave me a mirage of an anticipated marriage life so I didn't hesitate to take it a step further ones the lockdown was relaxed.
I also made it clear to her that her job would have to give way when their kids start coming as I had plans to assist her further her edu and also put up a biz for her.

Speed up to after COVID-19, she resumed work which till this day demands 5 days a week and 2 to 3 Saturdays per month all from 7:45am till 5pm. Often times she'd return home tired and would manage to make dinner and off to bed till the next day circle continues.
It became worse when we started having children. I drive them to school as early as 7:40am before dropping her off at her job. And then I'll pick them up by 5:30pm or 6pm when she's done with her job for the day (let me mention that this extends to public holidays and school holidays or breaks).

I got tired and in December 2025 I told her she has to quit the job. My plan was to enroll her back into a private school after my kids are Upto 4 years as one of them still depends on breast milk. I also gave her the option of starting a business which I understand is a dynamic move and might not be successful, but at this stage of my life it's something I could afford to risk and so I didn't mind.

I must also mention that out of a 100% sex, 50% is not mutual as I could sense she isn't interested and 40% is a denial as she would rather deny me of s*x with the excuse that she is tired.

Simply put, I'm tired.
I'm a Christian and divorce isn't an option. Also I can't cheat, but I am starved of s*x and my kids are not given the attention they deserve.
Pls advice me

The problem here is ; you are being to emotional towards her.Act up like a man.

The one that impacted your life the most and still have the tendencies to help you maintain the riches perpetually.It is good to be rich but that alone is not enough, be rich forever.

Usdt is there for you.
Saving your money in the bank is useless.
Your fuckin currency keep crashing.

Time I made "First To Comment" since 2012 I have been on Nairaland.

Seun I await my certificate ;
You are a legend.
You deserve to be inducted in a hall of fame

[quote author=Nwodosis post=127405727] He can still have all them as his wives if he adopts the religion that accepts that. He need no religion to do that. He already has a culture that permits him to marry as much as he want .provided that he has the capacity to provide for them

[quote author=Machinegun91 post=127336052]Alia is the the wrong person for Benue state.

That wrong person is paying salaries to those who they are supposed to be paid,he is paying pension to those who the past governors have labelled dead people. He is awarding contracts for construction of roads, hospitals etc.
This is the only time in Benue Democratic times that the Benue lites have some thing to say good about a sitting governor. The sfg and his aligns are pained because they have been denied the advances to hijack the state.

Artiiclebeast:
Buses to ply decrepit roads.

A so-called priest who can't distinguish himself from a poorly-rated Ortom in performance and securing the lives and properties of his citizens is a failure in my opinion.

Cluelessness at it's best.

That is trying
He pays salaries and pension in time, he has concrated street, some are almost been finished.
So far he has done so much for the state.

Nigeria is topping among countries with high inflation ,you did not mentioned it.
Insecurity, high rate of unemployment, Shortage of infrastructures and amenities ,yet na nyash u wan Bleep.

The whites are very corrupt too. Because they appeared in suits and smart we the blacks do not say anything about it.We wished to go to their countries as if there exist no any form of wrong or corruption.
Indeed that race has become so confused and corrupt. They are changing there reforms to what will amount to them only downfall.What is the real essence of giving right to gays & the likes,how does that contributes in bringing peace to the crisis filled world,etc

No one can make predictions in life correctly. You might be earning above someone today but later on he may take over.Some people are actually building today.They will have a lot tomorrow.
Let's all a story of Dangote and his uncle Dantata

I would have pursue my football.I had the talent.And I have completed my degree much earlier.Now at @30 I feel bad.As if I have lost it all.

Subsidy or what ever has not gone away.
They said ,they have removed subsidy.
Because its crashing the economy.
Now they are bringing palliatives program to ease the effects which the removal of subsidy have caused.

Now what is the difference between subsidy and palliative?

Money is allocated to the both right?

Base on my observations, I have noticed that Igbo girls are bold as in ,they are shy at all to expose their bodies unlike so other girls from other tribes.
Igbo girls are beautiful that's true,because they have mixed a lot will all tribes and races in the world.
But they are not most beautiful ones.

My specs
*Average height
*Average boob
*Average booty
*Averagely fine facely(like flat nose)

I am still moving on without sex for 5 years now.There are more gainful priorities to life for me than sex.
Sex is the very least thing to get at all times.Just 1k which worth nothing in our present economy can get a sex for me.
Me choosing to stay off sex makes me feel a boss,taking control over my self.

1 A mum if she is a type that can drink acid for his child.
2. A wife; A type that stops at nothing to ensure that you have all the and understanding you want.
A man is faced with a lot of life challenges which ranges from intimidation, to anxiety, depression lack of focus etc.that woman that stands to when need arises is my next of kin.

Rationally ,it is a good sign for an anti-prostitution society like ours.
When a business is taxed high, it gets discouraged to go on with it operations.
Some tribes collect less than 50k as bride price.And one will actually pay 30k for a short time for sex,I de crazy?
There are cheap options as well.2k ,3k will get you to cum and move.What's special paying 30k for sex?

[quote author=Trendygurly post=122338381]If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.
If this repentance is right from the bottom of your heart then it is fine.God has forgiven you.Now you have your fiancé to talk to.
He loved you,you shouldn't have do what you did.
But don't worry you will be fine.Hope you learn your lesson going forward.

Congratulations

Lilimax:
I have a friend that got married at 39 years as a virgin. Her husband attested to that.

Madam be calming down now,@39 as a virgin?Even in convents it might become hard to find virgin in time to come

Nawttiboi007:
G5 he shot himself in the foot

Ortom's election failure has nothing to do with his G-5 thing. Ortom did nothing, I mean nothing for the Benue people.

That beast has really caused harm to his people. He deserved the retirement

Jennyclay:
what's wrong in getting married to a jobless woman? abi are you a broke man? .
Whether she's jobless or not, a man is supposed to provide atleast 90% for his wife/girlfriend.

Even the Bible says a man who can't provide for his wife/girlfriend is worse than an infidel

A man should provide for his wife.Not girl friend.

The other time ,I saw an oyibo simp licking the toes of a lady.This time is ,another simp getting on his two kneels to propose.
If a man will gets on his two kneels to propose to a lady how many kneels will he go on to pray to his creator?

mjuvey3:
Brothel hoes are damaged goods who are available for everybody.

The funny thing is that a lot of married men do patronize brothel hoes which is worrisome.

Apart from the spiritual aspect,how can you have sex with someone you hardly know and you still leave your used condom containing your sperm with her 😢

The worst is that majority of them have spiritual husbands and chronic spiritual problems

STOP PATRONIZING BROTHEL HOES 🤬

The ideal of going to brothel for sex is not a good one morally.
But it is economically wise to some extent.

Every livingthing is prone to become corrupted at a point. Exception is not made from animals.
Gays have corrupted sexual mindset that it.