NewStats: 3,262,363 , 8,176,932 topics. Date: Monday, 02 June 2025 at 12:27 AM 6d1s1b

jessylaurel:


Meaning So he should abandon the little girl. With all the vices happening now.

Yes. He should find means to appease his wife. If i were in his shoe, that is what i will do. He can take the girl child to motherless babies home.

money121:
Ok

Nigerians are very corrupt humans on earth. and very bitter humanbeing. I saw on the front page how a 50yrs old woamn narrated how the UK environment transitioned her into a bad woman. People will narrate their experineces on social media and unfortunate humanbeing will open mouth only to start telling them to leave UK. Nigerians complain every day on social media and nobody ask anyone to leave Nigeria. If it is good news they are sharing about abroad, you people will start commending oyinbo and atteesting to their good nature. Cant people just say their mind or rant about how they feel? Just because they told you abroad is heaven doesnt mean every fabric of their society is balanced. People there also have concerns and they are allowed to raise it. Ever wondered why people commit suicide?

I am not surprised. Most Nigerians dont even care what their relative abroad is going through. Whether he is depressed, broke, unable to pay rent or even unable to cloth themselves. What they care is his ability to send money home. If you pay a surprise visit to Africa, the first thing they tell you is "you could have just send this money u used to book flight". They dont care about you bro. It is high time African in diaspora start seeing people back home for who they are. Nigerians in Nigeria are the most corrupt set of people. If you even decide to embark on a project back home, they will swindle you of your hard earned money. Which way Nigerians? Which way. You people talk a lot for a country.

I will advise Nigerians in Diaspora to follow Phrankleen videos on Youtube. This guy expose the inhumane nature Nigerians treat those in the abroad. They dont like you. You are only a cashcow. An ATM. Stop paying their bills today and u will be surprised how quickly they form against you

Dont be deceived, most of them are doing well. They are building houses, buying exhorbitant cars and trainning their children in school, but they will want you to believe Nigeria is hell for them and they can barely feed, only to go home and noticed they build houses. They will even discourage you from having any reasonable project back home. IF they encourage you to do so, the project will never suceed because they are looking for a chance to swindle you. Stop playing gods to them, they dont care about you.

Choose your wife over your child. If anythimg bad happen, your wife will always stay with you. Other family , including your mother and kids will leave u

Nigerians are very corrupt humans on earth. and very bitter humanbeing. I saw on the front page how a 50yrs old woamn narrated how the UK environment transitioned her into a bad woman. People will narrate their experineces on social media and unfortunate humanbeing will open mouth only to start telling them to leave UK. Nigerians complain every day on social media and nobody ask anyone to leave Nigeria. If it is good news they are sharing about abroad, you people will start commending oyinbo and atteesting to their good nature. Cant people just say their mind or rant about how they feel? Just because they told you abroad is heaven doesnt mean every fabric of their society is balanced. People there also have concerns and they are allowed to raise it. Ever wondered why people commit suicide?

I am not surprised. Most Nigerians dont even care what their relative abroad is going through. Whether he is depressed, broke, unable to pay rent or even unable to cloth themselves. What they care is his ability to send money home. If you pay a surprise visit to Africa, the first thing they tell you is "you could have just send this money u used to book flight". They dont care about you bro. It is high time African in diaspora start seeing people back home for who they are. Nigerians in Nigeria are the most corrupt set of people. If you even decide to embark on a project back home, they will swindle you of your hard earned money. Which way Nigerians? Which way. You people talk a lot for a country.

I will advise Nigerians in Diaspora to follow Phrankleen videos on Youtube. This guy expose the inhumane nature Nigerians treat those in the abroad. They dont like you. You are only a cashcow. An ATM. Stop paying their bills today and u will be surprised how quickly they form against you

Dont be deceived, most of them are doing well. They are building houses, buying exhorbitant cars and trainning their children in school, but they will want you to believe Nigeria is hell for them and they can barely feed, only to go home and noticed they build houses. They will even discourage you from having any reasonable project back home. IF they encourage you to do so, the project will never suceed because they are looking for a chance to swindle you. Stop playing gods to them, they dont care about you.

Charly500:
So many posts recently from people in the United Kingdom about the same topic, but none of them is mentioning their intention of coming back to nigeria due to life treating them so badly over there lol

Lol. I said it. One unfortunate person will say this. But I was surprised I didnt see it on the front page. Y'all are very unfortunate and bitter humanbeing. People will narrate their experinces on social media and you unfortunate humanbeing will open mouth only to start telling them to leave UK. Nigerians complain every day on social media and nobody ask anyone to leave Nigeria. If it is good news they are sharing about abroad, you people will start commending oyinbo and atteesting to their good nature. Cant people just say their mind or rant about how they feel? Just because they told you abroad is heaven doesnt mean every fabric of their society is balanced. People there also have concerns and they are allowed to raise it. Ever wondered why people commit suicide?

I am not surprised. Most Nigerians dont even care what their relative abroad is going through. Whether he is depressed, broke, unable to pay rent or even unable to cloth themselves. What they care is his ability to send money home. If you pay a surprise visit to Africa, the first thing they tell you is "you could have just send this money u used to book flight". They dont care about you bro. It is high time African in diaspora start seeing people back home for who they are. Nigerians in Nigeria are the most corrupt set of people. If you even decide to embark on a project back home, they will swindle you of your hard earned money. Which way Nigerians? Which way. You people talk a lot for a country.

GboyegaD:
Reminds me of a friend's cousin. You don't send a child abroad because you have the means. If a child isn't matured, let him grow up first. The street here is full of all kinds of ravaging beast and it takes a matured and strong willed child to survive as the exposure is alarming and one can miss it with ease.

I was looking out for your comment to blame Nigeria for this woman's predicament. Nigerians will only read the headline and will quickly think shes discouraging them from coming abroad. That is why I was expecting to see comments like "Come back to Nigeria na" "Stop discouraging us from relocation" as if most of them even have money for relocation.

writer:
They say a light cannot be hidden.

If you are intelligent, no matter how well you hide, it'll only take a few seconds for people to discover you.

No hiding place for the golden fish.

But if you are foolish, you can climb to the mountain top, shout and try to convince people that you are intelligent.

Within a few words, people will realize how utterly stupid you are.

By reading the first few sentences of op thread, we can all see how utterly stupid he is.

Just another empty vessel making the loudest noise on this street.

You're funny. I'm intelligent and Better than just any Man out there. Me replying to you is a privilege. I don't have friends because they all run away from me saying I'm narcissist , when it's only that I was just telling them the truth

Fahvvy:


Adam was doing just fine before Eve ...
Yes he was alone, but he was doing just fine nonetheless ...

And yes you're right, sex is not all that a woman "should" offer, but isn't that ALL that the average woman in the 21st century have to offer? ...

I mean...
Look at modern day relationships ...
What value does the average modern female reciprocate in relationships? ...

((Please note that sleeping with a broke guy or dating a broke guy doesn't classify as "value")

@OP...
The fact is, a lot of men wouldn't even pay women any attention if not for se.xual related matters, so if women lost that, they'd be INVISIBLE to most men ...

And until women start showing themselves to be more than just se.xual beings, their use in a man's life will be only just that ...

We all know sex is one thing that make women to matter. Many of them have been lifted from poverty because they have a successful man. I've not seen a man that became successful because of a woman in all my years of life

Boomboost:
Your ego too mush.

Women matter and the world will be like a large boy's hostel if they didn't have the power of sex (they won't be women if they didn't have this power, they'll be men). WE NEED WOMEN.

My ego too much? Do you know what I've achieved in life? Maybe you can't comprehend my level of reasoning

For a very long time now, this question has been battling with me. A very brief introduction about me: I am a very very intelligent human, probably the most intelligent to ever graced this universe. Sometimes, I wake up and look at myself and question why I was created among humans while I could have been among aliens deg technology that the planet could only dream of. Yes, this is how intelligent I am. I dropped out of the University because I was literally better than all of my professors. I cant imagine a professor I am 10000000 intelligent teaching me. I often wake up with idea to move this universe forward in term of technology and science. I have not come across a single being better than me. That is why I dont talk to people, I stay in my home all days.

Back to the issue: Have you ever imagined what will be the fate of women on earth had it been they were not created with their body which is what men will die for. Men are the advancer of civilization. Men build this world with the command from God. What if women do not have the door to sex? Would they still matter? What would they use to fend for themselves. Note that manipulation alone do not work. Manipulation works because men are slave to sex, and that is why men like women, otherwise never. I have meet a lot of women and did not see them fit to deserve me. I am obviously better than the best of men out there.

I know most people on this forum are only humans and I dont expect their intelligent to match mine, but I want y"all to reason with what you have.

MufasaLion:


Stop being reasonable with that boy. I'm ready to drag him this night.

This guy is just using all to catch cruise . And you don't even know. Lol.

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Richy4:


Yea... Nigerians are all dying in hunger, Infact there are mass graves all over the place in the country..... and the ones alive are living in homeless shelters.... depending on Govt soup kitchens and handouts...

If you were honest and serious about researching to find out the truth, you would have used that same internet and energy you were using to read on how people were dying in poverty to check property websites in Nigeria ... You would have discovered that most average properties in Nigeria were better than those in US... at least it was built with bricks throughout ... unlike the wooding structures many are living in some parts of US....

Lol. The last statement is true tho. In the US, houses are built with wood and dry wall.

Richy4:


What he needed was your advice on where to get cheaper rent... Not your warped idea of how Nigeria is...As if everyone in Nigeria is bad..

Your mates around the world usually promote their country no matter how bad for tourism... We all know India and how it is but u will never see an Indian acting the way you were doing..

Your type is the reason we keep on defending Nigeria all the time in our actions while abroad while you run around all over the internet castigating, demeaning and tarnishing the image of the country.... Ask yourself, is there a country that the devil does not exist? No Matter how small the devil is?

He said he's paying about $1300 to $1700 as monthly rent in the US. I thought things are free in the US

Akinzola:
Pls help me ask if he has gotten the desired apartment, or can you link up with the discussion?

Yes I can link you. It's on the nigeria subspace on Reddit

Akinzola:
Pls help me ask if he has gotten the desired apartment, or can you link up with the discussion?

He said he pays about $1300 in the US as monthly rent. Is rent that expensive in the US? I thought things are free there unlike nigeria

How can I improve my weight so I can be attractive. I've been a failure with women

Richy4:


What he needed was your advice on where to get cheaper rent... Not your warped idea of how Nigeria is...As if everyone in Nigeria is bad..

Your mates around the world usually promote their country no matter how bad for tourism... We all know India and how it is but u will never see an Indian acting the way you were doing..

Your type is the reason we keep on defending Nigeria all the time in our actions while abroad while you run around all over the internet castigating, demeaning and tarnishing the image of the country.... Ask yourself, is there a country that the devil does not exist? No Matter how small the devil is?

Not my fault. We all read on here about how nothing work in Nigeria. How y'all are dying of hunger. Nobody has anything to eat in Nigeria and all that. I believe those things I read on social media about Nigeria

Sweetvie:
If you don't mind... Let us see your pics

This is my pic

rikithor:
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I when I used to do these shit in Nigeria. Nigerian tutorial or school owners are very selfish individuals . They take home 95% of the fees students pay while giving peanut to the teachers so they don't die and continue teaching. Very unfortunate set of people. I get paid #500 per class while shouting at the top of my voice. May God answer the prayer of anyone who is still applying for things like this

See what someone shared on Reddit. This guy basically plan to move to Nigeria. From what I've read online and this nairaland especially, Nigeria is a cursed country where no one can be successful. And everyone in the country is poor and can't afford to eat or cloth themselves.

All my attempts to make this guy see reason not to come to Nigeria prove abortive. And not a single person on that thread reason along with me, maybe they're all non nigeria

See what someone shared on Reddit. This guy basically plan to move to Nigeria. From what I've read online and this nairaland especially, Nigeria is a cursed country where no one can be successful. And everyone in the country is poor and can't afford to eat or cloth themselves.

All my attempts to make this guy see reason not to come to Nigeria prove abortive. And not a single person on that thread reason along with me, maybe they're all non nigeria

Seriously � can't wait to save money to complete my relocation to abroad. I've saved over #200k now. My plan is to save over #1M toward my relocation to Canada. If I relocate like this, aah I'll oppress o. nairaland will not sleep

Nonexisting1:
Thread for people in Canada to come and wail. If cold too much for you people, come back home. People in countries like Morocco no dey too lament, na una wey dey better country. Meanwhile, we no dey leave this jungle. I'm too big now to go and be doing care job for oyibo land. I'll rather be king here than boy boy for there. Drink when I want and carry olosho when I want with nobody using one yeye law to tie me down.

The OP is actually making sense. I understand him. I just don't like the way he's presenting it

This isn't a problem in advanced countries like USA and Canada. That's why their country is progressing. If a wife cheat in USA, the husband will beg her because it's obvious he must've done something wrong for the wife to cheat. Otherwise the man will be chased out of his home and his properties confiscated. Such a fair system. More reason Nigeria is going backwards and america is going upwards because Nigeria treat women that cheat on their husband in a not so good way

Also, If a woman demand for $1M in USA, the man will give it to her. But Nigerian guys and their broke mentality, I can't be surprised

I wish America keep succeeding and Nigeria keep failing

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been ive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

Imagine a man suspecting his wife cuz of a small issue as this. This can never happen in a saner clime like USA and Canada. Ordinary cheating you can't take. Women cheat in advanced countries and their husband even beg them . That's why it's good to relocate abroad and experience sanity before u die

Another thread to show how Nigerian men are useless. This can never happen in a saner clime like USA or Canada. Just because a woman didn't tell you she has kids From previous marriage, you decided to cut it off? For someone who's living in Nigeria, is he supposed to have a choice? This thread reeks of nonsense

siofra:
I love this for her

She's not going to take nonsense from any Nigerian man.

Nigerian men are useless, broke, entitled. Nigerian men abroad are more sensible, richer and have the potential to do better in life than their counterpart in Nigeria.