NewStats: 3,263,788 , 8,181,401 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 10:13 PM q392i

I have no fight with you. You are part of the plenty wey get sense here. All I am saying is please don't start another

oluayebenz:


There's peace already, why is he trying to bring up the issue again?

Start now, I dont even have your time....

How is he the problem? Would you prefer people to be here fighting or for the thread to be used for the purpose it was created for? Please let us not start another petty war.

oluayebenz:


You are the real problem here.....

Can you leave this thread and go to politics section?

Thanks for sharing and congrats

Faithyyyyy:
On a more positive note and back to the essence of this wonderful platform

Here is our interview transcript.
We got our port back within 24 hours of our interview literally the next day.

V.O : how are you related
Me: we are married
V.O how many years
Me: 2 years we got married end of 2018
V.O what do you do for a living
Me: i run my own company with bla bla bla staff strength and 3 branches
V.O to my husband: what do you do sir
Hubby; i work with so so so international development agency
V.O to me: what is the purpose of your travel
Me: a family vacation and my brother inlaws wedding
V.O to my hubby: where does your brother work
Hubby; he works in xyz as an engineer
V.O to me: how many days will you be spending on your trip
Me: 10 days
V.O to me : when was your last trip to US and how long did you stay
Me; summer last year, stayed for 2 weeks and a few days
V.O what was the purpose
Me: to have my baby as i had already paid and booked xyz hospital and declared at POE however had an event to attend in Canada and was rushed to emergency as soon as i landed and had to stay back on doctor's advice to have baby
V.O : you have been to Canada?
Me: yes my husband and i have been there
V.O opens our port to check and says oh
V.O when did you have your baby?
Me: bla bla bla date
V.O what is the exact date of birth and how old is the baby
Me:xyz
V.O : uses his fingers to count then checks the date i exited the US to confirm
Me: here is baby's port to confirm
V.O : don't worry it's fine
V.O we kept receiving emails about you from an international organisation last year what happened?
Me; i work with them as a volunteer for an annual event so i was scheduled to speak last year and came to renew my visa but was denied and my existing one cancelled without prejudice.
.V.O oh sorry about that
Me: thank you
V.O : types for a little bit looks up and says so i will be approving your visas today.
Excused himself and went to get approval white paper from his supervisor.
Pls take this and make payment
Me: thank you
Made our payments and bounced out with smiles on our face.We didn't celebrate till we were in the car. Key is being confident and totally honest when you have nothing to hide. There were so so many refusals that day it was shocking. Like 1 out of 30 got approved.

Don't be deterred by all the negative stories with renewals, if you are genuine, go for your interview with confidence.

One oga that had his second child in US in 2010 was being grilled as to why he and his wife didn't declare at the interview that they were going to have a baby. Oga said they didn't ask them na, besides he has renewed visa several times before now. They still refused

He has run out of bullshit to spew. Na correct wannabe

slashthroat:
Can the of this section ban this dude wishing everybody "death".

Guy you no go rest? You don turn motivational speaker on top this matter. Why you will be playing victim is absurd. You were the one that was bullying a woman here and we now got involved until she delivered the coup de grace. No be August 2019 wey you dey look for hook up? Between then and now you don marry, born (7 months). Instead of you to just die the matter you still dey talk go up go down. Rest guy as man wey you talk say you be, you should decrease your nuisance value.

rago:
Yes, I'm the individual that groovychik was talking to. Like I responded--and I would again--It's my story. It's the story of my life and I'm happy to own up to the story. Yes, I sought for ashewo ts in Ibadan, including hookups, whatnot, and I don't know, I probably put up my number looking for dick enlargement pump. That's my story, and it usually makes me vulnerable. But looking back, I have found that there's redemption for those who seek a better future, a better, more refined way of living and doing things. I have done things that I'm not proud of. But these things made me a better person. Today, I have the sweetest job in the world, the most amazing woman, an adorable kid, including friends and foreign associates who all have a deep respect for me with unconditional love. But it ain't coz I've had a 'sinless' life. It's coz I have been able to turn my vulnerabilities into opportunities, including empathy for others, and my understanding and appreciation of human struggles and weaknesses. I hope we, who now live 'near-perfect' lives can be the answers to the many struggles of our young men and women today, such as struggles with addiction, and insane obscenities.

Enough said.

Cheers.

I am a SHIM, aka Bobrisky. Rest guy, abeg rest. Save your energy for when Afonja makes his appearance for part two. It's been nice bantering with you though. Take it easy and bye

rago:
Hahahah that's very true. U very right. I thought it was something I needed back then. I hadn't gotten married at the time. That's men for you. U sure ur a guy. Sure I have done quite a bit of stuff that I'm today not proud of.

Trust me, I have a pretty good life now.

Enjoy

[ oh no you didn't? Touch down. Someone that entered Nigeria uni with all the strikes in 2015 at 29 years is suddenly a professor in Georgetown. I swear I no go leave nairaland.

quote author=groovychik post=87950833]No sweetie, we definitely do not roll in the same circle. In 2015, you were begging people to tell you ashewo ts in Ibadan, In 2016 you were putting up your number looking for dick enlargement pump. In 2019 August, you were looking for Ibadan hook up. So basically you have a mini winny and cannot get any girl to hook up with. Which explains your disdain for girls you can never get. Stay safe buddy, protect your self during this period. Enjoy making use of your fingers and soap at this most difficult period in history. Namaste.

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Done. No more response and sorry to everyone I disappointed with my posts here, except for the two half wits.

groovychik:
I sent you a message request on NL, please respond. I feel responsible because you were trying to defend me, but you need to understand that peasants need a place to pour out their frustrations with life and their opinions does not bother me, it makes me feel like I have done a good deed for the society. If you keep on responding to these pigs and YES, I mean it literary, then you are a bigger idiot than the two. STOP. Ignore them for 24 hours and see how they scamper back into the holes they crawled out from. Try it my friend. Ignore for 24-48 hrs and they will get tired and maybe, finally get a life.

You are deluded. Guy you no get life and you will never amount to much. Keep dreaming of 8 figures sef. You are a loser and before you begin brag, go delete all your posts because na poverty dey worry you and e dey obvious.

rago:
See your life? Haha, lmao. I went the second time and I got it. Getting a visa today is now largely dependent upon things that you cannot even control. A single insignificant indiscretion. GEORGETOWN was devastated and sworn into action immediately. In fact, they had to move my event a bit forward. I got back to the embassy, hahaha smiling. VISA is with me big time. Have you got one? I'm a visiting scholar at Georgetown. You know that varsity? Heavens forgive me, you would only be dreaming of stepping in there, let alone get to rub minds with the school faculty officers. A huge achievement. Again, see your life.

Buddy, what do you accomplish daily? I just got outta bed. I had been up since 1 in the morning. Went to bed at 5.BY 2PM today, I'm earning what you would never earn on a 6 month's salary. When school was open for naija, I never had the chance to do what I now do and earn what I do.

Well, what do you do and how do you do it?

You work in academia. Na your time dey molest students. Visa you no get, money you no get yet na here you wan die put. Pervert.

rago:
Nabuuuuu, see your life. I let public opinion hang you. I let people to talk, who like to talk. It makes it easier to find out how so 'decent' they are.

in the interim, continue with your sex*st remarks. ur on ur own.

Enjoy.

You are an slowpoke. Public opinion you say? Define public. You see why I think you are retarded. If a single mad dog, who obviously grew up in squalor or a brothel is your definition of public, then you are more stupid than I thought. How many women talk like her? She is classless, racquet and my sympathy lies with her husband and children. I still will not pick a fight with her because she is a female. If you want to know public opinion, check the likes your comment generates. Tin along little boy and quit hiding under a woman's pant. If you have something to say, say it abi dey castrate you.

rago:
Nabuuuuu, see your life. I let public opinion hang you. I let people to talk, who like to talk. It makes it easier to find out how so 'decent' they are.

in the interim, continue with your sex*st remarks. ur on ur own.

Enjoy.

And wetin be your life? Wanking on comments and looking for women to fight? O boy, go make money that way you would not spend your days being a loser and hating on women wey you no go fit get.

rago:
Nabuuuuu, see your life.

Enjoy.

I no even realise say na woman you be. God forbid me and pregnant woman go begin bant for nairaland. Now I understand why you dey behave like alaye. Sincerely, my apologies and safe delivery.

Demicoker:
Biggest idiot spotted you are not relevant.. I will drag him anywhere I want cos your foolish sef didn’t know he also dragged me here.. dingbat
Afonja dragged me on Canada thread,I dragged him on USA thread..and you are wailing when both of us dey both thread..go and sanitize your brain

Ecstatic. Obviously na only for women wey you get strength. Mek I pause you for now. Na the boredom me too dey suffer from

rago:


Hahaha, I learn English oo. And ur right, I'm jobless. I'm a social reject. But the bunkum part tho, you could nt have nailed it better. You have said it all well.

Are you happy now?

Hahahah. Correct guy.

Another idiot appears. Go to the Canada thread and face him there, but you are here seeking attention up and down. You be imbe? You no hear sey people like you be pig. This refusal pain you wella, go chop bottle.

Demicoker:
Pls start blocking and you must block Afonja first..I drop comments and move on..still baffles me how he can come under my post to write that I deserve a refusal.
I returned the gesture to him,some people are now preaching classy..you have been reading vile messages from the guy but y’all never take action..people decide to give him a taste of his medicine..boom!! Preaching left and right,threatening removal..i surrender myself for removal but say make you no Comot Afonja make I know Wetin go cause am..I Dey here!!

You are a jew man. You no go rest? You were here crying
that someone told her God bless, she don teach you English now, you still dey talk. Are you jobless or just a social reject? Is this where people dey come play? You are a complete bunkum. Man wey no dey like die matter. Stop disgracing yourself. Anu mpama.

rago:
You sound pompous. But look, I'm a man. I don't give a rat's ass about self-righteous. holier than thou, hypocritical attitude. I don't chit-chat. if you like, use idiom, pi-diom, fi-diom, they no concern me hahahah. in fact, you can say whatever u want--pigs, whatever--as much I sure know its a faceless forum where guys come to unwind. Knock yourself out.

Enjoy yourself.

No need to fight them. Stay classy

groovychik:
Lol. Ain't nobody got time to argue with faceless people and derail the thread. At least for the sake of @seyewest and others that I respect, who helped me during my own interview, I have no need to wrestle with pigs.

��� funniest thing I have seen this weekend. Thank you for the ultimate gbos. Lit thread.

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Detailed comment and I concur. The man was talking and offering up documents no one asked for, which is a red flag on it's own. The child with Aunty I want nickledon, seemed like a bad nollywood movie. Not saying they are not genuine visitors, but I have worked with white people now for over 10 years and they will internally be rolling their eyes. Poster, Seye west idea is the best way to go.

groovychik:
My first UK visa interview was at 16 before the dropbox started and of course before Visa application centres. Prior to that my Mum was the one that usually gets my UK visas for me, being a minor. You see, I had been travelling to the UK since I was less than a year old so I was pretty confident and calm. I went in alone and had what I thought was a decent interview, the lady was smiling, we cracked a few jokes and at the end she gave me a rejection letter. I appealed, they sent a letter two months later to come submit my port for the visa, I wrote back to tell them that my Mum who I was to travel with had gone and come back, thus, I was no longer interested in the Visa. The next year I went for a student's visa and I was borderline rude. Straight to the point, no smiling and of course I have never been rejected a UK visa since that first time. My point is that the VOs are not our friends. You have a great profile, but just like I was busy at 16 giving long answers and information I wasn't asked, you were talking too much. Stick to questions asked, do not add or subtract. With oyibos, less is more. You probably worked with them in Aberdeen so you know this. They see talking too much as us trying to hide our ulterior motives, instead of us just being enthusiastic. Your son's innocent comment would appear to them as coaching. That's how strait laced they are. During my US interview, I planned to smile because my friend told me to do so, cos I have a resting b....ch face. This particular VO denied 3 people
in less than 5 minutes while other VOs still had people in their fronts, so I couldnt even summon a smile. Good luck to you and more hugs for your child.

If you reapply 10 times with this course and College, they will deny you 11 times. You have never been to America, the lingua franca of Nigeria is English and you wish to further your knowledge of English in America, something you can do from your bedroom with search engines or in a school in Nigeria conveniently. If I was a VO I would think you wish to run away from the country or you want to spy on their country. Take the proper exams and apply to Universities in US for a different course. If you wish to know about American culture, you can find schools that offer it as an elective.

DammyNwodo1999:
I want to use this medium to appreciate all the Gurus in this group. My F1 Visa was denied in Abuja 2days ago.
This is my TRANSCRIPT

VO- me your port and 120
Me- Did as he said
VO- Why ....... college?
Me- Am going to further my studies in English and America culture.
VO- How many schools did you apply to?
ME- Honestly, I applied to only one college in America
VO- who is sponsoring you?
ME- My Mum is sponsoring you.
VO- What does your mother do?
ME- She has worked as a civil servant for more than 30years, She’s currently the Director of bla bla bla
VO- Have you travelled out before
ME- No

Ok sorry you have been found ineligible for a visa but you can reapply. Bla bla bla

I just kukuma collected my blue paper and disappeared. Am hoping to reapply soon. What are my chances.

Predstan:


Ok... And you are Bold enough to write that you submitted a Fake Statement of . You believe you are anonymous right?

Out of the blues a name as fake as mine suddenly pops out on Student thread and starts claiming experience and offering US study sure scholarship. What is your credential young man? Are you here to chase clout and scam poor students?

CHUUKKSS:
Yes do Sat and TOEFL and apply to the school, simple as ABC. I have a company that helps in applying to schools in the US also helps in achieving sure scholarship �