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mudility(m): 8:47pm On Nov 15, 2015
Bhella5:
Get her a new job. Expertly explain the reason for that, then u can now throw in the hook. See if she'll take the bait yet again but if not move on. Blood and business dont mix.
lol bros were job dey?? i think i will just let her be. I prefer to languish in her love inside my heart than to make her uncomfortable if she don't.realy feel same for me.
mudility(m): 8:41pm On Nov 15, 2015
osesology:

ehen I talk it. I'll add you in my prayer before I go to bed this night because u need a lot of it on this matter. gud luck.
lols...thanks anyway
mudility(m): 8:37pm On Nov 15, 2015
Anyss:



Lol I'll gladly be of service Sire. Omo dis guy serious oh. Sharp sharp? Person nor dey follow u play again? Lols
lol..i serious o. flash me 08062564514
mudility(m): 8:02pm On Nov 15, 2015
dancrux:
I jst had a hard break up wit my gf
why?
mudility(m): 8:01pm On Nov 15, 2015
osesology:
As long as you are not willing to get a girlfriend outside to serve as a distraction, then you are in for a long thing...I mean emotional depression.
guy am realy depress. Am even staying away from my office but cant still stop thinking about her.
mudility(m): 7:57pm On Nov 15, 2015
Omotayor123:

Follow your heart!
if i want to follow my heart, i would call her right now and start begging for her love. but i don't want to appear desperate.

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mudility(m): 7:49pm On Nov 15, 2015
Anyss:

Not somtin permanent. Is a temporary arrangement
okay i will oblige your service for two weeks.lol
mudility(m): 7:43pm On Nov 15, 2015
MrsPhyno:

True. And u seem like a nice and honest person bros. There are only two things left to know. Is she single? Does she also like you? Love is not by force grin
Good luck sha I want an invitation to the wedding
lol..invitation..abeg pray for me first.. I don't know if she has a boyfriend. would have asked her.
mudility(m): 7:38pm On Nov 15, 2015
Omotayor123:
I don't see any Big deal here!
so what do advice? should i still bring the issue up or ignore?
mudility(m): 7:31pm On Nov 15, 2015
Politicos:
You call it a kind of poo? People find attraction anywhere. It is no crime! But as a boss, your business place is not your love garden. Once it becomes your love garden, and the love is wrongly managed, your business becomes the first casualty.

Lust or love? You need to filter it properly because it could be either. As for the lady, she is now uncomfortable around you. Two possibilities. One, she doesn't share what you feel for her. Implication. She could date you to get financial and workplace favours to the detriment of your business. Two, she probably sees a boss who wants to ride a 'disfavoured' ass. She might be right.

Use your conscience. Unless it is mutual, let her be!
I will let her be. This is actually the first time am falling for my worker.
mudility(m): 7:23pm On Nov 15, 2015
MrsPhyno:
Oga u put her in a really uncomfortable situation. Now if u do anyhow e go become another tin grin

Seriously tho, it's kind of inappropriate and irresponsible of u. Don't mix business with pleasure

I know, that why i told her not worry about my feelings that i value her service more to my business. But to be honest i have falling deeply for her.but it will not be a crime if a boss get married to employee na

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mudility(m): 7:16pm On Nov 15, 2015
BuddhaPalm:


A good rule of thumb is to not sh1t where one eats.

yea i have come across that but i thing there can be an exception to it. I do realy love her.
mudility(m): 7:12pm On Nov 15, 2015
noblemails:
she is simply having cold feet on giving u response... maybe she thinks u just want to play around and dump her... let her see the seriousness in you and start making moves to meet her people...
Do you mean i should meet her people?

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mudility(m): 7:10pm On Nov 15, 2015
Anyss:

A gal frnd. Might be temporary. Works like magic
seeing a good girl hard me calculus. still finking were to find one.
mudility(m): 7:00pm On Nov 15, 2015
UnknownT:
lol. See question, make I come give am Belle for you?
ahan.. i will not impose my feelings on her just because am her boss. Infact i don't want suit of sexual harassment. I only made my feelings known to her as a gentleman.

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mudility(m): 6:54pm On Nov 15, 2015
Cholls:
My brother nothing do you joor. Just don't tell her anything again after two weeks she no respond move on.
Thanks for the advice

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mudility(m): 6:50pm On Nov 15, 2015
Anyss:
Dude above. Wetin doctor wan do for am. If d gal no gree den u gotta try n forget ha. Easiest way is to get a temporary distraction.

what kind of distraction will you suggest for me?

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mudility(m): 6:48pm On Nov 15, 2015
kilode100:
Make person no disvirgin himself quick, na bad thing.

Op, go ashawo house relieve yourself when you're pressed, and you need to ride a horse.

My prayers are with you!

Thanks for your prayers but i dont do olushos..

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mudility(m): 6:45pm On Nov 15, 2015
UnknownT:
Turn her from employee to Oga Madam. It's as simple as that

lol..please how will i go about it?

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mudility(m): 6:34pm On Nov 15, 2015
Please friends I need your help on the way forward.
The thing is that I think I have fallen in love with one of my female workers and it's driving me crazy.

I am running a sport betting shop and i have two female employees. Lately i have caught myself sleeping and waking up with the thought of her.

Am currently single and i love the qualities and character she possesses.

Three days back i told her how i felt about her and realy want to start something serious with her. Omo after i told her my feelings, she has been uncomfortable around me.

I told her yesterday that i noticed she is uncomfortable with what i told her. I told her i really value her services to my business and it's okay if she says no.

Honestly i do love her but don't really know how i will go about it anymore.

Please if you have been in this kind of shit before, let me know how you handled it. help a brother out please.

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mudility(m): 11:16am On Dec 04, 2014
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mudility(m): 7:04pm On Nov 23, 2014
donogaga:


Am not a specialist pe se, I am an HSE supervisor//coordinator with hands on experience in providing professional services in HSE Management System..... (Offshore - rotational basis)

I'll advice you equip yourself with valuable certifications if you can.

Bros i have certification on HSE level 2 & 3. I would love your assistant to get hands on experience in this field. You can reach me through [email protected] . Thanks
mudility(m): 9:56am On Sep 29, 2014

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