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MrFollowFollow(m): 6:05pm On May 07
bennybuhari:
Z

Z for Zebra
MrFollowFollow(m): 6:05pm On May 07
Richtaiwo:
4

4 what?
MrFollowFollow(m): 6:04pm On May 07
SeeWahala:


See wetin the hatred of an Igbo man made this person write here undecided

Is Nnamdi Kanu not a noise maker?

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MrFollowFollow(m): 6:03pm On May 07
angry
MrFollowFollow(m): 5:00pm On May 07
Anyone who can't fed himself comfortably in Nigeria at the moment has no business buying this thing!
MrFollowFollow(m): 7:20pm On May 05
Nature can be complicated atimes
MrFollowFollow(m): 7:13pm On May 05
Commentor:
The Oracle.


The Oracle of Omaha

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MrFollowFollow(m): 7:12pm On May 05
FeliciaOja:
My love💖💖

shocked

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MrFollowFollow(m): 7:11pm On May 05
wiseone28:
Can i apply for the position?

Yes, please send in your application grin

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MrFollowFollow(m): 6:33pm On May 05
Why is this thing still alive?

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MrFollowFollow(m): 5:57pm On May 05
I don't even know what to say
MrFollowFollow(m): 7:21pm On Mar 26
Which kind coffin be this?
MrFollowFollow(m): 7:06pm On Mar 26
Johnames:
if you must use them, look for way of paying them their complete money, because they are licensed

What you are indirectly saying is that even if you take a loan from a friend you will not pay back except it is from a licenced loan company because they are the ones who have capacity to report or flag your BVN angry
MrFollowFollow(m): 6:12pm On Mar 26
Buharidgeneral:
Get ICAN certificate and thank me later. That's if this story is true

Will having an ICAN certificate automatically give him a job?

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MrFollowFollow(m): 6:08pm On Mar 26
There is no way they could have carried out this scam without collaboration from an insider
MrFollowFollow(m): 6:04pm On Mar 26
Someone will wake up and start planning how to scam a fellow citizen who is also struggling cry

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MrFollowFollow(m): 5:49pm On Mar 26
Emekayoung:
Why is Ai included in her name?

Because her content involves acting like a robot
MrFollowFollow(m): 5:38pm On Mar 26
hush15:


Nothing gives her the right, we agree but a wise man don't just react... So if you wife tell you to shut up, na to slap dey go. That is the same mistake Akpabio did with Natasha.

When a woman or anybody is trying to provoke you, that is time to wise up because you have no idea why they trying to make you angry and nothing good comes out of anger but regret and frustration. So you wise up and act differently. I am not saying you should defend yourself and rebuke any insult but you must present it in a more superior way that will make the other person realize they messed up.

when she said shut up, he had the leverage to win the case for the senate but his response threw away that advantage.

So you expected him to keep quiet and accept the insult from the woman thereby setting the tone for how other people will address him in future
MrFollowFollow(m): 5:35pm On Mar 26
YeyeGbami:
You cannot not see any omoluabi talk to an elderly person or woman like that. Bro went out of line totally.


The elderly woman should have maintained decorum if she did not want to be insulted
MrFollowFollow(m): 5:32pm On Mar 26
Everyone has a twin somewhere
MrFollowFollow(m): 5:24pm On Mar 26
Why is his family always declaring him missing when they know where he is?
MrFollowFollow(m): 4:52pm On Mar 26
Dpsychologist:
Have you ever given your all to someone, only to realize they were never truly invested in you?

Veteran Nollywood actor Emeka Ike recently opened up about the painful experience of pouring his heart, soul, and over N1 billion into his ex-wife and her family, only for her to leave him. His story is a brutal reminder that money alone cannot keep a woman.

Let me quote him directly :

“I built for her in Lagos. I built for her mother in Isoko. I trained her in school. I changed her life. I bought her every car she ever wanted—Prado, Charlotte, Lamborghini, Infinity. I gave her everything because I wanted her to have fun as a ‘big man’s wife.’ But I was investing in someone who wasn’t investing in me.”

The Harsh Reality of Modern Relationships

Many men today believe that if they provide financial security, their partner will stay. But love is not a business transaction. You can give a woman everything—luxury, comfort, and security—and she can still walk away.

Emeka Ike’s mistake was one that many men make: assuming that providing for a woman equals love. He spent years giving without stopping to ask himself:

“Does she even love me?”

The Provider Trap: Why Money Isn’t Enough

A lot of men, especially successful ones, fall into the "provider trap." They assume that if they just give enough—money, houses, cars—their woman will be loyal and devoted. But the truth is:

A woman who doesn’t love you will take everything and still leave.

Emeke Ike continues :

But do you know what breaks my heart? I was investing on someone who wasn't investing in me. So I just kept on loving her not knowing whether she loved me in return or not. That's the mîstake we make as young people, especially young men. All we think about is getting the girl but we never stop to think 'Does she like me?'

Financial stability is attractive, but it doesn’t guarantee emotional connection.

Love should be mutual—not one person giving while the other just takes.


Lessons Every Man Should Learn

1. Love is about reciprocity, not just giving.
If you’re the only one sacrificing, while the other person just receives, you’re not in a relationship—you’re in a transaction.

2. Ask yourself: Is she with me or with my lifestyle?
Before making major financial sacrifices, check if her feelings match your effort.

3. Emotional connection keeps a woman, not just money.
Many wealthy men have been left by the very women they built up. If she doesn’t love you, no amount of money will make her stay.

4. A woman who loves you will contribute to your growth.
She won’t just take—she will you emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.

5. Invest in a woman who invests in you.
Before you build her an empire, buy her cars, or fund her dreams, be sure she’s building with you, not just benefiting from you.

Final Thoughts

Emeka Ike’s story is a powerful wake-up call. Love smart. Love wisely. Choose a partner who values you, not just what you provide.

What do you think? Have you ever experienced something similar? Let’s discuss.


Na who dash Emeka Ike money for Lamborghini?

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MrFollowFollow(m): 4:48pm On Mar 26
Fetula4u:
go to 3rd mainland bridge 🌉 and complete the mission

grin
MrFollowFollow(m): 1:30pm On Dec 19, 2024
JAPAHTML:
Threatening him with death openly 🥲
in 2024 ? even if una won run am make una do am on low key

E get as person go owe you the next thing na to damn the consequences and take matters into your hands
MrFollowFollow(m): 1:25pm On Dec 19, 2024
Nemesis0147:
I sent money to my brother for Christmas stuff but I didn’t call him before sending it because I have his as my beneficiary in my app only for me to call him this morning to confirm if he got the alert,,he told me the has been having issues that they keep deducting money from the and he never told me.

I asked him to check his balance and the money I sent was gone,,,I messaged access bank on twitter and they said it has been rectified but the money will reflect after 24hrs.
But he called someone in the bank and he was told that his was on loan and he still has an outstanding balance of 77k to pay but my brother never took any loan…..is it possible that one of the bankers used his to take a loan or what?

I’m a kind of mad at him because this started happening for like 5 months now and he never bothered to visit the bank.

Your brother is being economical with the truth, he took a loan from the bank which is what they have started recovering from inflows into the
MrFollowFollow(m): 1:20pm On Dec 19, 2024
Oyindamolah:
My business

What is your business?
MrFollowFollow(m): 12:49pm On Dec 19, 2024
easytig:
I have learnt my own lesson, people are never satisfied,just do one good for them,they will start asking for all sorts,some foolish ones will even be applying small pressure on top another person money.


grin
MrFollowFollow(m): 12:31pm On Dec 19, 2024
GrifindorHouse:


U be mu.mu

Goat, he has stated his opinion, you should state your own without insulting him!
MrFollowFollow(m): 11:08am On Dec 18, 2024
MrFollowFollow(m): 11:06am On Dec 18, 2024
What was she doing in an abusive relationship for 15 years?
MrFollowFollow(m): 11:01am On Dec 18, 2024
spartan117:
This by God's grace

Does the total package include the table or is it for the chair alone?

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