NewStats: 3,265,015 , 8,185,336 topics. Date: Friday, 13 June 2025 at 07:23 AM 3y5421

Saviola86:
A lady I met online came to visit me and after eating what I prepared she pleaded I gave her some to take home for her family to eat.

Luckily I cooked enough and gave her all to take to them.

She was grateful. Next time she came, my fiancée was around, we stayed and gisted, after eating I thought she wasn't going to ask because of my fiancée's presence but she jokingly pleaded and my fiancée dished some for her to take home.

I loved her courage and originality. She is a brave girl

why do you invite strangers you meet online for dates at your home, if you have a fiancee?! it sounds like this babe is only coming to your place for the free food giveaway.

Mom007:
Again, you see what you want to see. If u take someone like me, a foodie to the core who loves to cook, to a very pricy restaurant most of which sell mediocre food anyway, I can just take one look at the price list and say bro, just give me the 20k and give me 3hours. We will fuel up the gen, I'll cook up a powerful meal and we will have a great time on that same money.

...and i would gladly accept the offer, because compared to what that above babe did, you stil found a way for us to get to know one another. whether we go on a date in a fancy restaurant or at your house cooking a homemade meal, because at the end of the day, the result is the same... aka we will be comfortable and get to know one another.

ittedly it's an awkward thing to do on a first date but I still I ire her frankness. If I was looking for a woman to wife as a man, I would look at her twice.

here is something to never forget...if we go on a date and you are not hungry, i am NOT obliged to give you that money i was ready to spend on that date. that money is not for "you", its SOLELY for the pleasure of me and you on that date, and nothing else. the minute you decide that you want that money, but to go and spend/enjoy it with someone else, then you have missed the concept of what "a date" is.
i think you are mistaking being frank with being desperate... thats a complete waste of time IMHO. if thats how she felt, then she shouldnt have gone to that date, and instead use the small money she had to feed her family, rather than waste that money on transport to come see me. it shows misplaced priorities and/or failed intention IMHO.
now here is the important question any man in that situation should ask themselves: did she come to the date because she wanted to get to know me OR solely for the money handout (she is expecting me to give her)?

Chiderao1:
You wan dey talk about love when she no get food for house

so you believe that a person who has no food to chop at home, should waste time going on dates to beg for handouts (rather than go look for ways to feed their family)?! better yet, can a man arrive at a date and tell a babe:"listen, i am just here to fukc, so why dont we skip the date and go straight to my house for sex?"

nattyGENT:
So you prefer fake girls over the real, humble, truthful and sincere ladies just because of "DATE". You'll still complain later how you've been meeting fake ladies

you are fully missing the point... any girl who meets you solely to get the chop money for her family is FAKE... she doesnt care about the date, she only cares about the handouts. this woman is no better than any yeye woman who go on dates just for the free food.

Majesty7:
You would have preferred she lied, took a sip and act as if everything was normal with her? I won't hire you as a staff or do any business with you as a partner. You obviously can't reason beyond your present situation and would likely be someone who is not flexible. Be honest with yourself. Have you been a good worker or a manager? Just be honest

brolinderick:
I bro I think you're getting it all wrong. You just said the reason for the date is to know each other. You offering her drinks and what have you is to make her to be comfortable. She can't be comfortable with an empty stomach. The drinks you offered may cause her stomach upset because it's on an empty stomach and you wouldn't want her to embarrass you. She did the right thing bro. Just convert the money for the drinks to buy her the food

is what i wrote so difficult to understand?
A) if a girl cant be comfortable on a date because she is hungry, then she shouldnt accept to go on a date... and instead let her take care of her life's priorities FIRST, before thinking of going on dates.
B) a man spending on small drink/snacks for the babe to be comfortable during the date is completely different than a woman going on date for her daily 3 square meals. if her main aim is NOT to get to know me then why should we go on that said dates, to begin with?!
C) a hungry girl can never embarrass the man she goes on a date with, she can only embarrass HERSELF.
D) if the babe is hungry then there is only 2 things she can do: to eat during the date OR leave with an empty stomach. but only a damn fool would even allow a babe to show up and tell the above nonsense to therefore wait for the handout and run back to her family. the problem here is that you guys are using your misplaced emotions to judge this issue. how would you even enjoy a date with someone who is hungry, but rather stay hungry so that you can hand her money for her family to feed?!?!? the only reason a man would even remotely think of spending the money is FOR THE DATE to be nice, not to become father xmas! the above scheme is no more a date, thats CHARITY based upon a POVERTY ALLEVIATION SCHEME concocted by that hungry woman

now here is the important question: whats the purpose of going on a date with someone?!

as usual, yeye deluded xtians quick to want to associate with anything positive on earth, while their bastard ogas in robe are busy raping children all over the world.
***SPIT ON FLOOR***

why would you listen to someone who tells you all the "supposed" greatness of some heaven yet doing everything he possibly can to avoid that same yeye "heaven". here is the important question:" WHY IS THE POPE AND/OR ALL OTHER YEYE MEN IN ROBE ARE AFRAID OF DEATH?!?!

it works with "some" women, and certainly doesnt with others. some women will simply believe that you are not interested and they will move on with their lives.

Mom007:
Smart girl. Wife material but u guys will not see it like that. You want the ones that will front and order rubbish. Sigh*

see what exactly?1 that she is using the date as a POVERTY/HUNGER ALLEVIATION SCHEME? that aint no wife material....a proper wife material would look for meaningful ways to make money for the family, rather than go on dates with strangers for handouts.

I will simply explain to her that the reason we are going on a date is to get to know each other, and the little i was gonna spend on that date (aka drink/snack or chop something) is for her to be comfortable as we get to know one another and discuss life and see if i want to see her again (or not) etc.... if she solely came to that date because of hunger (with stomach making hungry noise) and she is only looking to get out of there with my money so that she can go feed her family, then whats the point of her coming to the date (apart from my money)?! she is missing the whole point about what "A DATE" is.

i would just say:"HELL THE FUKC NO!" then get up and walk away!

how is separation (And not divorce) gonna solve the issues your mentioned?!

what you should do is GROW UP and FACE YOUR PARENT about your divorces wishes. if you and hubby already settled the pregnancy issue then just divorce the man as marriage AINT FOR YOU.

who are you to believe that you have the right to park in any location you desire, regardless of the rules and regulations of that parking spot?!

if a security personnel tells you to move from their private premises... THEN YOU MOVE THE FUKC OUT

thats the type of shit that makes people understand why women live longer than men....

HueyNewton:
Finna forward it to a lost brotha. Dude needs a pïmp backhand.
Yo thanks. Let me go back to watching real teams play, not one funded and run by two nation-states.
Viva la Marseille.

as a PSG fan, i will let that slide lol... even though you are right that football today is indeed corrupted by all these entities buying clubs as people buy chewing gums.

ICI C?EST PARIS!!!!

people can/should have sex wherever they desire, whether it will kill them or not. to each their own misery in life.

it all depends on how much money every month you wanna spend on building that house AND how many years...

HueyNewton:
Playa, do you still have that booty call agreement pic?

use it wisely:

some of these yeye pikin sef....so the man was married, ok... when the wife busted your affair, why didnt you JEJELY GO BACK TO YOUR MOTHER'S HOME?!?!? so being raped by strangers (under bridges) for handouts, was better (in your mind) than going back home your mother?!

with children like these ones, no wonder some parents die of stress and high blood pressure!

ok sir...

the least you should give is the reason why he died... he died from a pulmonary embolism... thank me later.

everyone has the right to deal with such issue as they please.... just because you easily can forgive your aunt, doesnt mean others feel the same way. there is absolutely nothing wrong with how your sister feels/reacts. thats her life and her cross to carry. just do whats best FOR YOU and basta.

very true, IN NIGERIA, the minute that man says he is a Uber driver, he is dismissed by majority of women (as broke). thats not these men's fault, its these brainless women who have to be blamed.

no wonder so many lost brothas are solely focussed on making money before approaching women

ABEG, YOU IGNORAMUS SHOULD EDUCATE YOURSELVES INSTEAD OF WRITING YEYE NONSENSSE ONLINE!!!!

all the fables that are written in the bible/qur'an or torah are all collection of spiritual writings (and certainly not facts) written by some men who knew about THE BOOK OF THE DEAD. if you want to follow any historical spiritual writings, then use the oldest of them all aka the Egyptian book of going forth by day aka The book of the Dead, which all your religious books of today descend from.... and who was written 4000years before any bible/Qur'an or torah etc was ever written.

everything written in the bible derives from something that was written 4000 years (in Egypt) before the bible was even written by some xtians with fake story. the bible was invented by men, and they just removed women as gods and made themselves "holy"... in Egyptian mythology men AND women were gods. only women can create life, so they had to take away that power from women and thus why most of these religion look down on women.

here are also some other stories written in the bible that derives from Egyptian mythology written thousands of years before the old testament was remotely written:
- the story of god creating life out of dust is the exact story of Egyptian god Khnum who was known to create life out of clay.
- the 10 commandments story is exactly what is called the NEGATIVE CONFESSION aka 42 rules of life or even the GOLDEN RULES OF MAAT aka the ethical and moral principle that all Egyptian citizens were expected to follow throughout their daily lives. They were expected to act with honor and truth in matters that involve family, the community, the nation, the environment, and the gods.
- the story of jesus and his virgin mother Mary (aka immaculate conception) is also a story that happened in Egypt way before the bible story of mary and jesus.... The god Kneph (Holy Ghost) and the goddess Hathor hold crosses to the head and nostrils of Isis (aka a virgin) and blew in it to mystically impregnate her. Isis (a virgin) gave birth to her son, Horus. Horus is the Egyptian version of Jesus. Horus was a child god born 4000years before jesus, and Horus story is well documented on various pyramids/tombs in Egypt (example Luxor).
- jesus ressurection story is the exact same story as the king Osiris story.... aka he was killed and resurrected.
- the story of the pearly gates of heaven is what is well known as the Spell 125 in the BOOK OF THE DEAD aka the Weighing of the Heart of the deceased standing in a judgment hall while his heart is placed on the scales of justice and balanced against the weight of a feather.
- the story of Moses himself who was born in Egypt and lived all his life in Egypt... you want to tell us that he never heard of the BOOK OF THE DEAD...which was the most famous religious book in Egypt with all these stories?!?! come on now, this make no damn sense! wasnt Moses tried for murder 40yrs before he received the 10commandment? how can they have rules in Egypt against murder then if supposedly it was god who sent the 10 commandment to Moses 40yrs later? thats because these laws were present before the 10commandment, aka you should not kill, you should not steal etc
- the saying "Amen" derives from the name of the supreme Egyptian gods called Amen and Ra, which thereafter were combined and called Amen-Ra (Amunra)

same with stories taken from torah etc... all of them derive from Egyptian stories written 4000years before their jewish/hindus/muslim holybooks were created, and that you can still see in Egyptian pyramids and tombs. the only difference is that the Egyptian had women gods while all these xtianity/judaism etc removed all the women as goddesses when they created their religion to enslave people mentally (instead of better your life).

SpaceX:
It's demonic and should be avoided by holier than thou xtians.

FIXED

is there any other way to really kiss someone you desire (but French Kissing aka tongue wrestling)?

AwokenVawulence:
So I live in a flat apartment. One of my neighbour is a family of 9 the grandma , the parents and 6 children ( one is yet to be born).
I usually talk with them , we have a good relationship. They are currently struggling due to the economy right now so things are hard . I have a pet cat and I try to feed it everyday at least twice .
Yesterday I gave it a boiled egg in the evening and the neighbours mom saw me and said why would I be wasting food on a cat , that why would I give a cat egg. Omo I didn't know how to respond.
So I'm asking is it bad to be giving an animal food because I know sometimes the family don't eat and I help with the little I have ,but i like the cat and wouldn't want to let go of it

why should you care what yeye people think of your lifestyle? you should have simply answered:"because i want and i can do what i desire with my life, my food or my belongings!"

never let irrelevant people with miserable lives try to dictate how you should live your life... just because they are unfortunate, doesnt mean you should be too. you better protect that cat before it ends in your neighbor's pot.

its called CAPSULE HOTEL... invented in Japan and very famous there for anyone who was drunk late and couldnt go home, and now exported almost everywhere on earth.

whether wife material OR low down dirty street corner oloshoes material, everyone will manage and be merry... these non wife material will need love too!

as a mathematician, he should know that the odds of this marriage lasting are very low...

brotha Abba190, you again, with your yeye nonsense, trying to revive this old thread?!

here is what you posted last year and try to delete it afterwards (but i had already quoted your confession):

Mrwhite09:

abba09, abba114-deleted, depressedlad, trueseeker01-deleted... mrbrownjay1 they r all my monikers u can call me anything you want. how i wish the hatred u have towards me is so strng that u can kill me i how i wish me nd u live in the same state i will come nd kill u or u kill me iether way is a win for me. i kill you nd end up in a prison cell to rot away or u kill me to end my miserability

... and here i thought he was white, so thats the reason they are burning down hotel who house refugees?

this is still a British terrorist, let them call him for what he really is. the dude will not last 1 week in jail before they beat him to death for his evil actions upon children.

stop celebrating MEDIOCRITY.... when countless African countries (Egypt, Uganda, Ethiopia, South Africa, Algeria, Tunisia etc) have won medals at the Olympic games, Nigeria has yet to win one single medal, to the point where its "reaching the finals" that you are celebrating.

NIGERIANS AND CELEBRATING MEDIOCRITY...