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Why do some Nigerian wives go abroad and take advantage of western culture against their men?

Temitunz:
There’s a growing trend among Nigerian men relocating abroad while leaving their wives behind, sending only money home as if that’s enough to sustain a marriage. Financial is important, but is it really a substitute for presence, partnership, and emotional connection?

Many of these women bear the weight of running the household alone, raising children without a father figure, and dealing with the loneliness of a distant marriage. Some endure years of waiting, hoping their husbands will return or send for them, only to face broken promises and fading love.

Marriage is more than just financial responsibility. If you're leaving your wife behind, are you also leaving behind your role as a husband and father?

Let’s talk what are your thoughts on this trend? Is money enough to sustain a marriage? #MarriageMatters #Relationships #NigerianMen #LongDistanceMarriage

Drag the clinic that gave you wrong result to court.
So that they stop giving people fake test.

Mdcool26:



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1. Blind Bartimaeus, a poor beggar, calls out to Jesus and is healed.
Mark 10:46–52 – "Jesus, Son of David, have mercy on me!"



2. Jesus feeds thousands of hungry people with loaves and fish, many of whom were poor.
Matthew 14:13–21 – Feeding of the 5,000.



3. Jesus helps a grieving poor widow by raising her only son from the dead.
Luke 7:11–17 – "When the Lord saw her, his heart went out to her..."



4. Jesus honors a poor widow who gave a small amount of money out of her poverty.
Mark 12:41–44 – "She, out of her poverty, has put in everything she had."



5. Jesus teaches generosity toward the poor.
Luke 14:13–14 – "But when you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind..."

Epiphanyglobal:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UvCqBg1okOU?si=pMatn6dKdzm0S6k-

Seun:
Hello Guys,

I'm throwing this question to you because it's very important. Every time I ask, "how is Nairaland?" I'm told that it is fine. If I ask what are the challenges I'm told there are none.

So I need to talk to you guys directly about what you think is going on and what you want us to do. I have not had the confidence to make major changes on Nairaland. I have a little confidence now because of AI.

What are your complaints, your challenges, your issues. What are the things that can drive people away and need to be nipped?

Speak your mind, but don't be rude. Thanks.

Control the use of hate speech, people insult people here so much and is bad.
Ensure people post verified information...

I pity this ugly double toothed individual behind phone keys deceiving her gender. Don't worry when you reach 30 your mentality go change.

I love girls with this kind mentality. Relationship is not a transaction.

TruthsFM:
I can’t allow a guy spend 100% on me. We must split the bills — Lady.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OWiZ16-CRls?si=SDQ--Z-VqlPICgZu

The most yeye former governor of Abia State. If I see you for road eh pure water go land on your coconut head. All our money wey you chop you will pay for it soon. Look at how serious work is going on in Abia State but when you were there we didn't experience any significant change. Abia State was rotten and smelling, it was like glorified village. Nonsense and ingredients. See my amiable Excellency Alex Otti making the state look like where people are living.

Metrix147:


Source: https://abntv.com.ng/news/i-have-no-plans-to-leave-pdp-ex-abia-gov-ikpeazu-assures-/

The lady that did this is very heartless, you see even an ordinary animal(Dog) value life am.

post=129274901:


Source: https://www.facebook.com/okudo.elochukwu/videos/1183194759727060/?mibextid=rS40aB7S9Ucbxw6v

Some ladies are very wicked. The fact that she isn't your biological daughter doesn't matter she is a human treat everyone rightly. What kind of wickedness is this?

NairaOcean:
What are your thoughts on this photo of a woman enjoying time with her children at an eatery while her maid sits far away without being served anything?

Just shut up if you don't know what to say. Who are you to say Abia State don't need all those development.

Ezewuzie01:
Abia state does not need an airport. Port Harcourt airport is close to Aba while Owerri airport is close to Umuahia. Akwa Ibom airport is also there to serve them. As for seaport, Onne port in Rivers state is not very far away.

This talkative they call Reno Omokri he keeps casting Peter Obi and I feel he was been paid by some set of people to help pull the man down. We never hear am talk again, his a nonsense man.

Truths9ja:
Na fact daddy freeze dey talk here oooo. 2027 is around the corner, the youths should decide who they want



https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2024/2/a-younger-president-like-peter-obi-or-omoyele-sowore-would-have-done-better-because-the-youths-will-rally-around-them-daddy-freeze-2.html

You haven't paid much attention to her. When last have you discussed with your daughter?

Mrperfecto:
I will just be brief without writing too much.

We are based we have 4 children, my first child is 13 from my previous relationship, she has become very terrible, she doesn't listen to me or my wife. She tells her that she is not her biological mother and she cannot control her. She had threatened to call the police on my wife telling her if she touch her she will fight her back and call the police. She goes to school and closes at 3.45 her school is 10 mins walk from home, but she is always late for home.

She comes home around 6 sometimes 7pm , as I am writing now every friday she closes at 12.30 but she is still hasn't come back home yet.

I am on my way to work. I start at 6.30pm till 2.30am so I rarely get to see her and she only misbehaving when I am not around. So far we have seized her phone because we had found so many inappropriate messages exchanges between her and boys. We had also removed the TV from her room and her behaviour has gotten worse. She is behaving like she's possessed.

My wife and I are fed up. Even her siblings are tired of her. We want to send her back to Nigeria maybe in a boarding school until she is 18 in order to protect her younger ones. If we keep her and she continues with her terrible behaviour I may beat her badly and we may end up loosing all 4 children to the authorities.

Please what advice will you give to me concerning this issue?

Aunty, guys that don't smoke plenty

press9jatv:
It’s very hard right now to find a guy who doesn’t smoke — Nigerian lady laments



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUortsJC6ac?si=7TqkSGP9HH_atiVb

Teach me please

Thundafireseun:
Just earn in dollars

And all this won’t matter to you

Una just deliberately dey thief Perer Obi's ideas

Gjrich:

https://saharareporters.com/2024/02/17/senate-says-its-ready-amend-nigerian-constitution-okay-state-police

Cassava, garri, ewa don finish o

Good01:

https://dailytrust.com/protest-against-high-cost-of-living-spreads-to-lagos/

This man is shameless. I thought they worked had to impose Tinubu on Nigerians. Why is he now complaining?

adenigga:


Source: https://punchng.com/Im-not-ing-Tinubu-for-appointment-Asari-Dokubo

Hmmm, I was thinking am the only one. I also receive flash from such numbers. But I think it was when I created with upworks that I began to notice it.

labake1:
Hello everyone!

It's been awhile I have been receiving calls from different international numbers mostly from Zimbabwe, Pakistan. Due to this, I have to reset my phone factory but it didn't stop. I always receive the beep almost every night, I don block tire.
I heard that if I should mistakenly pick it, most of my social media s will be banned.

What can I do to stop it?

Op I won't lie you guys are the one abusing yourselves in the name of work. Only because of hunger any amount your boss tells you, you will just accept. Come they lament here

yaseer111:
Good morning all Nairalanders!


The title seems funny, right? Well, na reality. I received my salary yesterday in the evening 7pm or thereabouts but before 6am this morning it has finished.

Na only 5cups of rice, 3cups of garri and 2cups of beans with grandnut oil i bought the money don finish. No even for Maggi and sugar can you imagine? This Life no balance shaa

Some private companies are slave masters they don't care about minimum wage na only nlc dey make noise.

If you are christian. You are allow to divorce your wife on the basis of cheating. According to (Matthew 19:9), I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery. From your write up she's not a cheating wife rather is sex that's the problem. Communicate with her, it could be she does too much work that gets her tired. Find way to help her so that the stress will reduce and she have enough energy for you.

ADURA123:
Good evening fellow NL ,
My story may be long but pls endeavor to read to the end so that you can make proper suggestions or advice.

I have been married for more than 10yrs now with beautiful kids, my marriage is one that many Young guy will wish to have, but along the the line I don't know what happened things begin to nose dive. In the last 6yrs I discovered that I struggle to make love to my wife, she will either tell you ohh, she is tire or she don't like sex much..this I have endured for all this years with no cheating.
Her qualities are
She can cook
She can keep the house clean
She can manage resources
And she is accommodating to my people
In all this years I have never cheated on her, proudly saying it coz my dad warned me of cheating on my wife rather I should divorce her and go for another wife.

My qualities are
I work and earn like about 700k net a month.
I give feeding allowance and personal total of 100k a month while I invest the rest on a project which she is aware of.
I don't drink or smoke
I don't keep late night
and I am the best friend to her and my kids.
Honestly having talk to her for over 5yrs on this issues of love making and she refused to change, then I have decided to yield to my dad advice and ask her to leave...she is not aware of this plan, but trust me it will hit her.
I allow her to do little job to have her own finance is not as if she contribute anything in the house, but she is claiming stubborn, I love her so much, it will hurt me to cheat on her, something I have not done since I got married to her.
I plan moving to a new place in February, and she doesn't fit into my plans.

My decision between now and December is
1 Avoid asking her for lobe making
2 Continue taking care of her so she won't suspect anything
3 when she comes close I avoid her.
4 February I issues divorce papers and give her like 1m to go get her life back

Is there anything more I can do for her?
Advice me pls...

$15million for this chain smoker😂🤣😅

ExAngel007:
The announcement raised eyebrows and sparked a heated debate among online s, with some expressing shock, while others questioned the sincerity of her claim.

Controversial Nigerian lawyer, Ifunanya Excel, has taken to Twitter to reveal the cost of her brideprice.

In a tweet that caught the attention of many netizens, Ifunanya boldly declared, “My bride price is $15 million.”

The announcement raised eyebrows and sparked a heated debate among online s, with some expressing shock, while others questioned the sincerity of her claim.

Ifunanya went on to explain that her virginity was the primary factor behind the exorbitant sum demanded for her hand in marriage.

She wrote;

“My Bride Price is $15 Million because I’m still a virgin,” seeking to justify the astronomical figure.

See Post Below;

https://www.tori.ng/news/240719/my-bride-price-is-15m-because-im-still-a-virgin-po.html

Emefiele has shown the world and Nigerians that his grossly incompetent and overwhelming.

He can't bring a working policy that will make life easier for the people. POS capitalized on his devilish policy to swindle money from people.

People work so hard to earn the little money they have. My company cannot pay extra other than what we agreed on, yet I pay tax and ordinary POS collect huge charges from me. In the end, I have nothing left, making someone appear seriously broke.

nlfpmod:


https://punchng.com/nlc-protests-cbn-to-flood-banks-with-old-naira-notes/

Bros feed your wife well. She's looking unhealthy

benjackugo:
Nollywood actor, Artus Frank has cautioned Nigerians who are of age-shaming his wife, IGBERETV reports.

In a post shared on his Instagram page, the Liberian actor wrote;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CqD9MVaNMeZ/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Godwin Emefiele is a big cow. He should find a way to stop the mess he put us into. Than been insensitive, bunch of idiots.

adenigga:


Source: https:///Naira-Scarcity:-Latest-CBN-News-Update-On-Naira-Notes-For-March-22nd-2023

Wike is a snitch and full of betrayal. Rubbish

peekspot:


https://www.channelstv.com/2023/03/20/wike-congratulates-makinde-mohammed-sanwo-olu/

Meaning that POS is suppose to be used by people who buy and sell things. Not as a business venture.

domack99:


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/03/cbn-bars-agents-from-using-pos-terminals-for-transactions/

But you participate in causing hardship, death associated by your evil policy and folding small businesses.

Nemere2020:


https://www.thecable.ng/fake-and-malicious-news-emefiele-denies-plotting-against-tinubu/amp

You may think you know what you were saying, but I bet you is impossible in your lifetime to attain Obi's level in politics with this mentality.

FreeStuffsNG:
Oga sir, you are being led by the nose sir. Mr Obi is a well respected Nigerian and I have never called him unsavoury names because I respect and appreciate him for stepping forward for leadership.That is where it ends.

When it comes to digging deep on his public service record, it is completely ungodly to attempt to compare or elevate Mr Obi over his former Boss, HE Atiku let alone bring him near Asiwaju Tinubu. Even HE Fashola and Ambode will trump Mr Obi in of public service records.

I just want to beg you to stop rewarding with your those who were mediocre in public service. 3 years from now, Mr Ifeanyi Okowa too will start gunning for Presidency and when he pays the Economist , a foreign newspaper, to do PR and sponsored post for him, you will tell me that they know more. You must think some of us are naive. smh

The more you hate the more we love HE Peter Obi more.

We have seen how good your Tinubu is. Person who is demented and suffering from Parkinson disease. That's who you guys are packaging for Nigeria....

abc115:


https://twitter.com/adamugarba/status/1615083640026791937

Old picture

nwekeugochukwu:


https://www.instagram.com/p/ClL5sOwjf5I/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=

He didn't mean to say is a great country. Stop deceiving people.

oikirodah:

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Source iReporteronline.
https://ireporteronline.com.ng/?p=90572&preview=true

I was thinking am the only one noticing that Tinubu doesn't have any idea of how to better 9ja. He always talk big big talk without having the interest of ordinary Nigerian.

SecretAgent770:
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