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prince3009:


I write but not as an interest but more of where there is something to gain...sort of like for profit.

I once took time to write a movie script which i presented to a Nollywood producer with the intent of starring as the lead role to make a debut into the movie industry. He read the script and told me he wasn't interested but little did i know that he made copies of my script and shot the movie behind my back with a different title. That was way back in 2005 during my university days.

Wow!!!! That’s bullshit. You didn’t copyright your work?you could have sued him honestly.

prince3009:


Where to find you? Like seriously??

Let's start it via the e-channel so it would paint the picture of what it would look like face-to-face

Interesting, I like that. BTW, you are a writer? That’s quite interesting. I write a lot as well but majorly movie scripts.

prince3009:


You said you wanted to challenge me first...you are like the bull and i am like the mastiff...you are the one to "charge first" bedore i do the needful!

I don’t wanna engage in E-challenge.
Anyways, you know where to find me.�

jericco1:


Challenger

What’s the matter my dear?

prince3009:


I'm game!

I’m challenged and charged. I’m not much of a talker(with strangers) but I don’t say NO to challenges.
So how do you want it?
Bring it on!!!

Come here let me challenge you intellectually @Op

Well crafted. Thanks for this piece.

What makes us human are those little things we do to help humanity.
I love the needy and I am so ionate about them. God bless this kind man.

Oh wow! If there is something that matters in marriage, it is friendship because love in its entirety can not sustain and keep a marriage.
You need to sit with her and have a discussion, perhaps she isn’t into you.
Communication is vital, talk about it and then you decide if you wanna go ahead with the marriage or quit.

dulux07:
Probably the lady lacks content, she isn't into him or they are not compatible.
Introverts are free with whomever they are very close to, and do hold interesting long conversations.

I concur 100percent. I’m deeply introverted but when with my own person(s), I’m just something else. Though I find it hard to make friends but when I eventually do and I am very close to the person, it’s always bliss.

This institution called marriage scares me but with dedication and selflessness, all will be fine.

Why do people do this?
This is heartbreaking. I would rather go to Makoko with goodies than to give someone I’ve never met my small change.

Crispels:



Not all Nigerian guys abroad date for papers. I’ve seen cases here in the US that guys with papers still don't want to end up with Nigerian-born girls based on past painful experiences. I prefer marrying a Nigerian or at least a Nigerian - American but many Nigerian girls that I’ve come across abroad are usually arrogant, condescending, childish, and impatient. Many of them will look down on you when you are struggling to find your feet in the abroad and once you get better - financially and socially - they will suddenly expect you to roll with them when they kicked you on the face when you were down.

One of my friends in Washington, D.C. was mocked, and treated like a piece of shit by Naija girls when he first arrived in the US - because they felt he had a thick accent, his dressing was not yet American and he was not that social. They even called him ”fresh off the boat”(imagine immigrants deriding a fellow immigrant).
This my guy was almost depressed but the good thing is - he found genuine friendship in his friends from other countries - who helped him to settle down and made sure he found his feet. When my guy finished his grad school program and he got a 6-figure job, the same Naija girls that looked down on him now wanted to be his friends. He just laughed them off and when they saw that he was dating a white girl(who ed him through the thick and thin when he first arrived), these girls got mad and started saying it's self-hate leaving your fellow Nigerian girls to marry a white girl(mind you, he does not need papers. His company filed for him already). My question to those girls was, when you were treating him like a piece of shit, you didn't see it as self-hate then abi?

Many of the Nigerian girls don't want to believe that life is a process. A guy maybe struggling today - things can change tomorrow. But no, they are looking for perfect ready-made products - tall like Lebron James, handsome like Chris Brown and rich like Anthony Joshua. Them go wait tire!


Cc TimiRume

Great thought you have up there and I totally agree with all you said but I would like to say African looking down on their fellow brothers and sisters outside the shores of Africa is not just about females, I mean it is not gender based attitude. However, guys are more receptive than females. Most guys abroad are still more open to helping females because guys naturally ain’t condescending and proud (even though I know some proud guys).
When you say many of Nigerian girls don’t want to believe life is a process, I think that is too much of a generalization. Ofcourse I am aware of the entitlement mentality of Nigerian girls because I have colleagues but however, there are still quite a number of good ones. I grew up without a father and that still hasn’t given me the right and mind to live and feed on any guy that comes my way.
I graduated from Lasu at 20 and I have been working since 20, providing for myself, taking care of myself with my small salary. My mother taught us independency because she single handedly raised myself and my sibblings without even remarrying at 39. I attended Lasu at a time the fees was skyrocketed and she did sponsor me.
So I would say a lot of good Nigerian girls exist and some of us are a huge believer of love. I love Love and when I do, I do it in totality regardless of who you are and what you have. I love girls who go against all odd just to be with the one they truely ire. Where there is love, understanding and success will come in handy.
I personally cannot women because I have colleagues and I always get upset when they say things like “somebody should come and buy me a car o” and I’m always like “Have you bought one for yourself?.
But that being said, I hope we ladies of this generation realize very soon that our self worth depends on what we bring to the table not what we look like. Depending on a guy or waiting for a ready made is not the best.
Sometimes, the woman is the KING (with hard work and dedication and God).
BTW I’m new here. I just want to feel at home.