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egift: Guys will have been better if those heading the affairs of PDP keep robbing us in secret? Kiss and Tell - True Confession In PDP - Season 3Steal cleverly...little by little-Mobutu Sese Seko. |
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goldenval: I no fit read the full stories finish, na so so billions and trillions I dey see and my house rent done expired yesterday and I dey look for 60k to pay the rent but when I was reading this report, my blood was so hot and my eyes were turning me and I no fit read am finisHahaha,God! U'r so funny,I felt the same way. The country is kaput! |
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Trex73:Trex, the creed:KNOW,WILL,DARE,KEEP SILENT, need I say more, lestI forget, would have replied to your post on the topic I posted a while back (Any Occultist In The House), was away on business. Maybe you could hit me up with your e-mail, we got lots to talk about. 1 Like |
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A man's destiny is in his own hands, this does not exclude the believe in divine providence though, this be my two cents on the matter.
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thehomer:You don't seem to understand where I'm coming from, listen,I donot intend to get into a verbal exchange as regards all this, this man needs help and all I'm trying to do is help, email me,and you'd understand, once again I reiterate that I KNOW what I'm talking about. I leave you with the words of Dennis Wheatley, "should anyone come into with a man or woman of power it is at their own risk, " Peace. saridon_p:You see my dear friend, the occult is not what you think it is, forget what it means in popular parlance, it is far from what your gut tells you it is, if I start expounding on this I guess I'll be termed a sorcerer or whatever here in nairaland, anyways I appreciate your kind gesture in trying to help this chap, this country is plagued with so much evil, God! so much evil, despite the proliferation of churches and mosques, may God help us! |
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In an ideal world where everything is perfect,it'd be possible, but with imperfect man and what obtains in the world as we see it it is a real herculean task to maintain a relationship without fibbing now and then. sista-jay:. The problem is knowing when your partner is lying though I acquiesce to the fact that some people are born with a natural lie detector, I for one belong to that genre, which also makes us proficient liers, ![]() Either way you have to understand that sometimes you may have to do a little evil to foster a grater good, quite a paradox you'd say,but it is what it is. That white lie may just save your marriage forever, note that I said white lie. |
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You stand in a precarious position, from all indications she's either seeing someone else or she's not feeling you anymore. Either way I recommend you keep your distance for a while. Sometimes we all need space,plus nysc may have exposed her to certain stimulus that made her question what she's been feeling for you. But I wouldn't hold my breath though if I were you, I suggest you move on as being in a relationship where there isn't a 50/50 percent love situation doesn't augur well for the partner with the short end of the stick, it'd look like she's just doing you a favour for all the time,effort and will you've spent on her (some women do have a conscience you know). Goodluck. |
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So much ado about virginity and stuff, while I'm not advocating indiscriminate and reckless philandering, I make bold to say there are certain merits with having carnal knowledge of a prospective bride. How would you feel on getting married that she is either frigid,detests the act of lovemaking (ladies, forget about pretending that you love it when you don't most men in touch with their true selves know when you are faking and/or enduring the procedure despite all the oohs and ahhs) and God forbid a closet lesbian. What changes everything is the fact that the poster intends to walk down the altar, now that is some serious business, I suggest knowing your woman in-toto before taking the big step and that means in-toto. Unlike what most people think sexually related matters destroy quite a lot of marriages as opposed to infidelity and other issue that crop up in a marriage, don't sweep it under the rug in the guise of love and stuff, that love is blind and marriage is the eye opener. Goodluck. |
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Tingles:Hear! Hear!!, girlie, you are on your own in this, there are certain issues that no one,no matter how expert there are can lend a definitive helping hand, an issue such as the one that you find yourself happens to fall to that genre. Everybody makes a fool of themselves now and then in matters of the heart,but the biggest fool is he/she that doesn't know when to stop,look,and listen to the direction the wind now blows, in your situation I think it is blowing south, you don't want to go there, re-kindle your first relationship, if you were being totally candid in your post, you needed a break and you've gotten it,except there are things you aren't telling in which case all advice is rendered null and void. Goodluck. |
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Listen up, if you've got an exceptionally dirty laundry, just burn it, don't even think about washing it talk-less of washing it in public. Now there are certain things you should beware of, if the past you are hiding has a very important hold on the future that you are trying to build,then you just might take calculated steps to disclosing it, this you do by dropping hints and gauging the reaction of your partner, take your time doing this, don't drop the whole s@#tload at once, you may not survive the odoriferous fallout. But like I opined,if you are trying to let someone in on your past in an effort to be more loving and the usual there-should-be-no-secret-between-us repartee,then keep mum on matters that are exceptionally personal, needless to say she'll tell on you anyway, you know women, her best-friend (until their next fallout) would definitely know about your so called "love secret". |
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190:Seems to me you happen to be the from ilk that differentiates sex from love making, the former is devoid of emotional sentiments while the later is laden with it (that happens to be the general ideology with people that espouse the view), hmmm,well, so does the fact that you do not love the one you are having sex with negate the fact that it isn't fair on your partner, or does the fact that you let her (your girlfriend) know that you are humpin' another girl with her approval also negate that notion of unchastity. Well,as they say different strokes for different folks, if it's OK by y'all hump away. |
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This here is my take on the issue, certain sleeping dogs should remain that way. The purpose is sometimes defeated when you let it all out, the trust you think you'd be garnering just might evolve into disdain,skepticism, and the like. Me thinks the real heavyweights (as in life changing experiences that one has had, and I want to think the poster means the negative aspects of our past, correct me if I'm wrong) should remain in the closet, better yet get them out the closet,bury 'em and burn up the the piece of land it was buried. Most peeps I know never benefited from letting ALL the cats (especially the black ones) out the bag.
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Do not be deceived for a sec,the hereafter exist as sure as the air I'm breathing right now. Don't die first before you believe as at then,you can't do nothing about what state you'd find yourself in by then. But you can do something about it now, while you are still in this plane of existence. Live right. Peace.
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thehomer: Don't be deceived for a second they do exist but like I said not in the classical sense they are thought to abound in Nigeria. The poster may be a victim of what I would like to term a psychic attack from persons unknown. This assertion of mine in no way exclude the possibility that the poster's plight might be due to natural causes or even self inflicted. I just want to reinstate again that there are individuals in league with entities beyond the physical realm, such entities could be benevolent as in angels or belligerent as in so called demons. I'm not about to go into debates about the sub-conscious and stuff and theories propounded by Jung as regards all this,but suffice it to say that the supernatural IS real. Trust me, I KNOW. e-herbal:No offense,but you seem to misunderstand my suggestion to the poster, I am not insinuating the poster any so called secret societies as you understand it in the Nigerian context, personally I think there are just deluded anyway, I was suggesting an intellectual,concrete and realistic solution to his problem. In Nigeria any group of people that do not belong to the religious group(s) known as Christians or Muslims are automatically branded as being occult in nature consequently fellowshipping with the devil and the like, thus the Eckist is an occultist,the Grail Messenger is an occultist,the Rosicrucian is an occultist,the adherent of the Baha'i faith is an occultist e.t.c, unfortunately this view is a product of stark ignorance,mis-information and religious bigotry. I do hope we have a re-think in this direction 3 Likes |
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Satanist huh?, was actually looking for people into the occult arts, satanism is a religion,just like witchcraft and the like, not actually interested in that. Anyways thanks for the reply.
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Hello all,I was wondering if there were any people into the study of the Great Work in the house. Holla back. Peace.
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It's nice to see someone actually searching after knowledge, but here's my view after perusing your post, you do not have to go broke to get enlightenment. There are lot of sects out there with equally sound spiritual teachings that don't require your lessons to stop when your money stops. Just my two cents here.
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Listen,I understand your plight, just like someone else opined,witches are not the problem per se. The term witch,witches e.t.c has been taken as a generic appellation in regard to anything evil in this part of the world. True witches or witchcraft is a RELIGION and not the barbaric caricature it has been made to be in Nigeria. Though they are the good and the bad in it, no more different than what obtains in christiandom with fake and real pastors. Either way let me not bore you with religion, you need a solution to your problem, have you tried occult means, am not talking about babalawos and stuff, I'm talking about real efficacious arcane knowledge, the internet is rife with sites where you can solve your problem, ok, here is a suggestion, the yahoo group called THE GREAT WORK. when you ,take your time to post a thread detailing your problem truthfully and precisely, you 'll get help. But note one thing, you'll work hard,diligently and be patient as you'll do everything yourself, no pastor will pray for you or babalawo or whatever, the onus is on you. When you are done let me know how you have fared. There is so much I can tell you,but suffice it to say that this is succinct enough, work!
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This here is my view, first and foremost,distance relationship is not recommended for most people (save the real matured in mind,temperament,and emotional disposition, do you honestly possesse these attributes here enumerated?). Secondly,no matter what anyone thinks or opines a woman that ask for financial aid consistently and irreverently (for lack of a better term) is not to be reckoned with. In Nigeria,you'd be regarded as a "mugu" or better yet "maga". Having gone through your post, I'd say that her asking is consistent with her inner being, the character that you'd see should you make the grave mistake of tying the knot with this damsel. She'd leave you at the drop of a hat nay pin,should (God forbid) you happen to fall into a serious financial quagmire occassioned by you possibly leaving losing your job or the like. And another thing you kept mentioning was your basing the seriousness of the relationship you have with her by the calls you make to her parents, news flash! that don't mean jack when the rubber meets the road, that you are in cahoots with her parents does not preclude a disastrous outcome in your relationship, you are getting married to her and not her parents!, this issue brings to the fore something I said here a while back, bout dating girls still in school while you are out and employed or whatever, moreoften than not it's always a sad story, more for the guy than the madam. |
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This be my take on the issue: If your pal is hanging out with her for the sake of just having a companion, you know,someone to keep him warm without thoughts to something permanent,then he can continue with her. But if he has plans for something concrete, like settling down with her, then he's in deep s@#t. The lady in question is not a wifey material (granted we all make mistakes but, there are certain things that are sancrosanct in a relationship that may lead to the altar, foremost of which is not sleeping around with the family, ). Leave that to the white dudes (even at that,they don't cotton on to it either, infact it cuts across race and gender, stay away from amorous relationships when you are already involved in one!). Furthermore,you'll be doing real good to keep an eye on that pal of yours, a man that can sleep with your wifey,would wrest the inheritance of your off-springs from them should you leave it to him, yeah, yeah, yeah, I know y'all aint married,but see this as a harbinger of things to come should you decide to pitch tent with this girl.
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Hi y'all being away for a while, but kinda back, here's the deal,been thinking bout this recently and decided to bring it up so I could hear your take on this. In your opinion which of these words is the most abused: 1. LOVE (Typified in a statement such as; I Love You) 2. GOD (Typified in every ramification of it's use or abuse (sic)). |
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Hi there could you please relate the specs and price to this e-mail add: [email protected] thanks.
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more specs pls
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Hi there,I'm interested, but I have a question, is this an american spec or chinco spec?, please be candid then we can deal.
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Hello everyone,I'm in need of a fairly used laptop in optimum condition . Preferably a HP with the following config: Intel duo core with at least 2.1ghz and above processing speed. 250gig and above hdd,2gig and above ram. Bluetooth,webcam,remote and preferably a 17 inch and above lcd vdu,all necessary usb ports,expansion ports cum slots and whatnots. Of course a notebook with the above specs will come with a top notch video card,,,geforce or nvidia preferably. Quite a list considering I cannot for now afford a brand new save it comes with an instalmental payment option. Get at me via this cell number: 0803-5689-344. or this mail, [email protected]. Thanks. |
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Nope, it's reality not just a number.
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This here is my take on the issue, he may really dig you and like you surmise just trying to see how much you care for him through the games he play, on the other hand he may have had a rethink about the whole fiasco and decided he doesn't want you anymore, so, trying to be the gentleman he's sending you signals via his attitude,hoping you'd take the hint and make yourself scarce. But then,you said you aren't feeling him anymore,so I guess it's kaput now, be on your way,me friend, so much freedom and goodness out there, I choose to see the single lady that's a woman in every sense rather than the nine that act the fool, keep that mentality and you'd hit pay dirt, wishing you the best.
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This here is my take on the issue, he may really dig you and like you surmise just trying to see how much you care for him through the games he play, on the other hand he may have had a rethink about the whole fiasco and decided he doesn't want you anymore, so, trying to be the gentleman he's sending you signals via his attitude,hoping you'd take the hint and make yourself scarce. But then,you said you aren't feeling him anymore,so I guess it's kaput now, be on your way,me friend, so much freedom and goodness out there, I choose to see the single lady that's a woman in every sense rather than the nine that act the fool, keep that mentality and you'd hit pay dirt, wishing you the best.
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You can say that again, life being tough. Insightful piece though.
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