NewStats: 3,259,308 , 8,169,783 topics. Date: Saturday, 24 May 2025 at 04:59 PM 4d6pw

Topsydo:
Good morning all, please I need your advice on this, I am a recent graduate of polytechnic and I have complete my Nysc and currently I have been offered a job as a contract staff of access bank with 85k per month and now I have been shortlisted for an interview in a federal university for d post of technologist at the ICT centre of d sch, now I am confused on what to do maybe to attend the interview and drop the banking job I just got not up to a month.

As a HND holder how much will I be paid and I was told I won't be able to go further until I spent a certain years.

Please I need Ur advice

Nigerian youths are most deluded and misguided. It would be a jackpot to start career mentorship and counseling consultancy business.
" As a HND holder how much will I be paid and I was told I won't be able to go further until I spent a certain years. "
The main problem of Nigerians <Shallow mind>

jacquincy:
nigeria is the only country i know where leaders read and conditions of contract after g it......shame

Same goes to Paris agreement signed by Nigerian government and afterward Kemi Adeosun (she was part and parcel of the delegates) start ranting about the West not allowing Nigeria to use coal.

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dre11:


Buhari was said to have questioned how Malami arrived at the five percent commission for a recovery that the federal government can do by itself without engaging any company.

Third term agenda won't be a bad idea if Buhari Government continue to be selfless and patriotic.

65-80% of men purity are damage by sexually active/experience women at tender age.
I can forget because it was like yesterday.

OTayobami:
Let's reason this together:

I stole N2b and got arrested, i was asked to pay N1bn for bail and provide 2 other serving criminals if i pay them N200m each, shey dem nor go do am ni and see now o i get to keep the remaining N600m and walk free, e be like say these people dey purposely do this thing o!

You sure say brother-man no go.....

So to be granted bail mean to be discharge and acquainted.

mysticwarrior:
oga no be everybody be like you, just say you don't feel sexually arouse when you see your wife unclad, and its very obvious you no longer fancy your wife's body,

So your wife has to mixed vegetables which contains aphrodisiac for you to eat to be able to get you aroused? chai i pity for the poor woman.

Thanks for the name " aphrodisiac "

mysticwarrior:
a healthy and normal man doesn't need all those, mare seeing the wife semi-unclad is enough to arouse him sexually, there is a cause somewhere which only the man can explain, his excuses are not concrete enough.

You're not married..
Your wife semi or full unclad is nothing.
Its what you see everyday except during fasting.
Your wife rub cream and other make-ups unclad while you dress up for office or work.
Maybe you don't know.. Married women especially young couple go about with only pant and vest at home.

Increase his urge..
Go get kayan maza ( just a name though) and cook in your meals like Efirin (in Yoruba language) and other natural boosters which can help him increase his sexual urge and even last longer.
They are natural and available. Just ask those women selling vegetables and they will give you some. Don't be shy...
Its not agbo or concoction i am telling you ooo.
Its veggies. Also often use garlic and other stuffs to boil your meat. All these things are good for your healths

Informative

Because na so so work day and night. Though many would not consider leaving it cos of its six figure pay, but life is not do or die..

saddler:


Did you intentionally forgot to include those strapped in explosives and ready to meet 77 virgins?

Let media continue to tell you what to believe.
Satan need companions when he duel in hell fire no doubt some of you would be blind and deceived to the end.

Xisnin:

This topic is above your intellect.
You should have stayed away.
Now it makes you look dumb.

Dump my butt..
Intellectually, you're sounding more dumb.
Both Senate president and Speaker are from same party with the president, so what do you expect even without been told.

Are these people patriots or just because they are oppositions?
Bukola Saraki
Nancy Pelosi
Jeremy Corbyn

If Jeremy Corbyn belong to The Conservative Party, BREXIT would by now be a case closed.
If Nancy Pelosi belong to Republican party, impeachment issue would never have come up because Economically US is doing very great under Trump.

Until you the youths understand how government and governance work before Nigeria will be great again.
Your arguments are always biased and selfish. Nigerian youths are hypocrites who do not know what they actually need/want from their leaders.

May Allah hazwajal continue to bless Muslim umma , raise and increase our iman.
Continue to guide us to the right path and not to the path of those who had gone astray.

EmekaMD:
Rubber stamp Senate.
The worst ever.

Democracy means that the executive and the legislature should be separate and check each other (principle of checks and balances)

If all the executive decides is right why then do we need the legislative?

We should then scrap that arm and let the executive make laws too.
That'd save us a lot of money too..

Bros go and sit down.
Democrat want to impeach trump not because their economy is better and bigger but because he is republican and going by polls, he might win next election.
In politics, your party is your first family anywhere in the world. Its the duty of the opposition to let Nigerians know the inappropriate bill sent to both chambers so that we the citizen can go to twitter or take to the streets to say no.
Death penalty for hate speech will never see the light of the day.
So nothing like rubber stamp or puppet senate president.
Canada ruling party lost majority in house which is a great setback for the ruling party.

So let criticized wisely, critically and technically so that the corrupt politicians can take the electorates and Nigerian youths serious.

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DonFreshmoney:
The second pics usually happens around your private area. Usually between your laps and groin..

But I wonder why people go dey post their problems for Nairaland.. why dont you visit the hospital for heavens sake?? Nairaland is full of quacks

He want to have idea what it might be and the cause of it so that he can go and argue with doctor who is a professional.

Ardar:
Actually the major culprits of situations like this are usually the yorubers.

For an ethnic group who prides themselves on respect, they sure do know how to insult people at every slightest opportunity.

That's very true..
They will turn everything to joke when they realize you heard them.

Depressed101:
This is what caused the fight in FUTA yesterday.



In a video making rounds online a supposed school father is seen defending her school that she is not an hoeloasho, by beating up a supposed female gossiper...


After the event, the Dean of Student, Professor G.E Onibi made a statement prone to the decision of the that 'all culprit involved in the brutalization would be expelled including the camera man'.

The big question:

Is it right for camera man to be expelled?



Lalasticlala MYND44

Olodo reporter

What is Dean of Student?

Professor G.E Onibi made a statement prone to the decision of the that 'all culprit involved in the brutalization would be expelled

University student... Mtswww

ednut1:
Just buy a 2004 corrola or big daddy. No go buy problem

Big daddy for 1.4m ?

freemi:
so is it worship or prayers she's talking about?

Worship

wirinet:

Sex is not a right by for any one male or female. It is a choice, a consensual choice. There is no must. If he does not feel like it, she cannot rape him or divorce him.

It you guys that religion has deleted some of your neurons, sex is not a right.

Lazy running away from religion? Who has religion help? Certainly not China or Japan or even modern day Europe.

Prayer did not make China the second biggest economy in the world, planing and hard work did.

Prayer did not make Saudi Arabia rich, petroleum resources in the ground did, unless you are saying prayer put the oil in the ground.

Prayers did not make Japan rich.

With all the prayers Nigeria does fives times a day, 365 days a year, Nigeria is still one of the poorest countries in the world. In fact the amount of time a community and country wastes in praying correlates to the amount of poverty in such community or country.

Of the top 10 richest persons in the world, over half are atheists.

Prayer (and juju) does not respond to the laws of economy.

Let me add. In my family my wife does all the praying, while I do all the working, and yet it is I that bring in all the money. If prayer brings in money, she would be a billionaire by now. I often ask her what will happen to the family if I also go to church almost everyday and spend the whole of Friday night in night vigil and unable to function properly on Saturdays? we'll all starve.

Let all put hands together and advocate for full Sharia law implementation in Nigeria and suspend the constitution. Let see if Nigeria will not get back on its feet.
All the countries you mentioned write and implement their constitution along side their religious believe and rules that why their economy is active and booming. China, Korea, Japan and India etc pray and respect their religion more than people do in Nigeria. Nigerians are hypocrites and liars.

Beside, there is a big difference between worship and prayers.
Worship is a must in Islam.
Prayer or invocation is for you. If you feel that its your hardworking that is making you the money and you don't need to pray for more success in your day-to-day dealings, OYO. But worship is a must.
You must worship your God as commanded in Islam.
In Islam either you can afford a square meal in a day or not, you must worship your God, its left for you to pray to God to change your situation if you need improvement.

freemi:
why lie against her? She prays bt nt 5 times daily. .i dnt c anythn wrng wt that. Thank God God is nt man. .prayers cnt b too much or too small. Do nt force it anyone

Worship is different from prayers when looking under the hood, there is big difference between the two.
You can pray to God about anything at your will and time:- Praying to God to grant your wish.
Praying to God for successful outcome on your business deal
Praying to God for good outcome etc.
You can also praise and thank God in your own way and time as you wish but worship have specific time and how to do it.
This is Islam and not just any how mainstream religions which can be subject to change or modification at anytime by anybody.

wirinet:

Sex is a basic right in Islam, but not a basic right in the constitution. Unless you advocate we jettison the constitution and adopt the sharia as our supreme law.

What happens if she refuses sex, or if she due to one condition or the other can't have sex. Does he rape her or find another woman. Why is sex so crucial to muslim men? I honestly do not understand.

Religion is simply mass hypnotism and mind control. That has been the role of religion throughout recorded history. It's simply a tool used by a selec few to control the masses. How else do you think religious or spiritual leaders can get people to blow up themselves or drink poison?

Forget big bang, forget creator. The most important thing to all living things - plant and animals is survival, and to survive in a less painful manner.

Comprehend before typing OK..
I said sex is her basic right. If she wants it or show any sign of need, he must give it to her.
He has no right to deprive her that. So stop spewing trash. Women want it more than men most time especially if the spouse knows how to make her happy.
You're just been lazy by running away from religion. Praying five times a day is a big task for some and as such come up with different excuses to justify their laziness

wirinet:


My sister, you have received enlightenment. You have been free from the hypnotism and mind control of religion and want to asset your dignity and freedom as a human being. Religion is a mind control tool to keep you perpetually a slave to others.

The redded quote gets me very angry. He eats your food and have sex with you but still keeps malice with you. That's sadistic. All with the excuse of you don't pray enough. Is he God?

What happens if you refuse him sex, will he rape you or throw you out of the house?

Anyway, you have to realised, you are highly disadvantaged here, because you have kids. He will abandon the children if you dare leave him, and the children will suffer, except of course you make enough money to house, feed and educate them.

That's why I always frown at ladies who feels, their whole existence must depend on a man, and once married, they will not work again for the rest of your life. That's is very precarious position to be.

You cannot assert any degree of freedom or independence without some degree of financial independence, so you have to either get a job or start a business. He can decide to throw you put any minute or take a second wife.

You also need to inform your family what's going on. You family can ask him of his grouse with you. If it's only prayers, then that's easy to accommodate. You can do eye service and form Sister Mary (or sister Mariam) whenever he is around. Most Christians and Muslims pretend anyway. They say in one thing in public and do another when no one is looking. But, if there are other issues, then you have to start preparing for an eventual separation.

Sex is part of her basic right in Islam. The husband is fulfilling his own end of the bargain, both as a Muslim and as a husband but what about her. She spend more time with the kids yet she's is not praying so tell me what kind of example is she to her children.
Stop the crab of saying religion is hypnotism and mind control. if you have been abuse or traumatized by a religious leader before, say it out let council you.
You need a religion to connect to your creator. If you believe Big Bang, then OYO..

Obason22:
were u d one that provided the food, is only arrogant and disloyalty woman that have this to say, from ur point is like u already set ur mind somewhere as at 35 u still consider ur self to marry and remarry, simply cos u cannot pray. shame on u.

Don't mind the mumu old cargo.
She will go and marry a married man or a widower na.
Women and stupidity.... "He will eat my food"

arinpe16:
@baby124, He prays regularly and we have kids.
@pharmagba Did you read the post at all? He's the one telling me that I'm not marketable again. As per obedience and humility, don't judge please. You do not know me.
He doesn't set good example for me. He will pray, eat my food, have sex with me and still keep malice with me? Is that what the Qur'an says about religion? We've been together for 5 years and he didn't see it as a big deal. Why is it now that everything good is coming his way, he suddenly start seeing me as being a devil, not marketable and what not.
So, I'll have to pray for him to love me and do his right? Just imagine. He can't even correct me without threatening me with divorce. Is being divorced a disease?

As long as I never wish him bad and I'm trying, he should know I'll get there, but it takes time. So, i ask again, is divorce the answer?

That's why the Hausa's have problem with Yoruba Muslims, please try that shiit in Hausa home, I am sure you will by now be typing this rubbish in your father's home. You have kids yet you're not praying so tell me what kind of example are you setting for them.
If God decided to test you, what will you do? Run to Alfa, one baba or a prophet for solution abi.
Lazy 35yo.
Start praying OK.

Mandyvicky:


Haba Wawa mutum must u comment
If u don't know the best advice to give keep ur mouth shut
Don't come here and make her feel like she is stupid
People like u won't even make a good home

You and the OP are yeye..
Everybody wants a prayerful home and a prayerful partner.

arinpe16:


I'm not fighting God. I'm not used to praying 5 times daily before we met and he knows. I think he's only using it as an excuse. Is it enough reason to.want.a.divorce?

Are you purposely writing so that Islam and Muslims can be insulted on a public forum.
If truly what you're saying is real, then start praying. A prayerful home overcome all evil.

deji17:
Nigerians and their vainness. You look at this picture and you try to guess who is the "BOSS" here

That's our culture, that's the way our brain is wired, something for average black people all over the world. It's better we accept it and move on.