NewStats: 3,263,784 , 8,181,393 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 09:57 PM 4i3s28

TheUpsetGirl1:

your social life shows alot about your inner personality.

infact broke people whether guy or lady shouldn't go into relationships

being broke doesn't mean staying forever broke. It's a choice , before I continue, what's your definition of being broke?

TheUpsetGirl1:


I don't have a problem with ladies depending on their man, the problem is some lazy ladies coming online to preach independence when in reality they can't fend for themselves without help from men.

Am not saying you are wrong.......but don't you think we shouldn't judge them with their social life. And everybody is opportune to air his/her own opinion

You do have a nice write up but u go about it the wrong way. Even without feminism, someone with vision(s) in life knows that he/she should not depend on anybody if he wants to achieve those visions. In life, you don't need to place all your responsibilities on anybody cus that person could disappoint u at a point in time. You should be the change you wanna see with or without feminism

khiaa:


You can learn life lessons without the lies you know.

I think it(lies) falls under challenges which makes one stronger and wiser my opinion

khiaa:



You think being lied to makes life exciting?

No and yes
No in the sense that it's gonna pain you when you get to know that you are been lied to
Yes in the sense that it would teach you one or two things and get to know that life is full of ups and downs which is what makes it complete. So u buckle up and face it the real way.

Ladyhippolyta88:

On point that is why I try to respect people's opinions even though some annoy me I try to be open minded.

But there's always an iota of truth in what ever things being said except we choose to ignore it.

khiaa:


I am Khia.

1.If he really loves me there wouldn't be any reason for me to worry about other ladies.
2.I use to have my picture up but because of a jealous assinine bytch I had to take it down, she even got my phone number.
3. I will not put up with liars, they can go that way>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>HELL
4.Are those the answers you were looking for?

That's part of what makes life exciting, you don't expect everything to be sweet and smooth, do you?

Ladyhippolyta88:

LOL how would I know
It could be the angels

Abi n
But I think we all have our ways in which we view things. It all depends on what you believe in and how you choose to interprets what you read

Ladyhippolyta88:

Hippolyta doesn't know Maybe about the solar system.
But I would like to say life is an act and God is the producer and director while humans are the cast or characters

What of the crews?

You are partially right.......but at the same time you are kind of misleading people, you portraying it to them as if it's the coach that would do everything. Fine it's good to have mentor but you need to have it at the back of ur mind that ur mentor could be wrong at times cus the situations of things might have change from what ur mentor know. So the real deal is to get prepared , face the real world, let it teach you, learn from it and become it's master. "you have to be the change you wanna see"
But ur write up was an inspiring piece....great one sire.

kmcutez:
I'm very sure it's not to make life easy for any of his . He wants to make sure he does not miss out on any offerings, tithes, etc from those of his that cannot attend church on Sundays.

Awon ole.

How does that affect you ? You better find something to do instead of complaining about someone else's issue

To me, I think it boils down to your mentality...You know what you want in a woman as a male. Except for those who are into anything under skirt, why can't you have a lady as ur bestie? What we don't seems to know is that there are some relationship that being friends is the best for them and for u to share your personal issue with the opposite sex there should be something that makes them stand out.

ubunja:
its not about ranting. if it was a rant you wouldnt have responded. you see the points im raising as valid thats why you took the time to address them. lets be open even to people who hold views that piss us off. NL is a forum. lets talk. we dont have to agree.

Everybody is entitled to air his/her opinion but you shouldn't let your opinion of things mar someone cus you never can tell the emotional state the person was.....Her coming out to say it is not an easy job bro, so u should appreciate that

ubunja:
how does talk on the internet stop rape at home?
for every crime GO TO THE POLICE. otherwise you gona stay till one day you cant take it anymore then you gona kill your ab THEN the police gona come for you. go the police.

Come on stop doing as if you are not a Nigerian.....Do you think the police would believe her words against her mum and step dad words, or the same police that corruption had eaten so deep in their system that makes the powers that be always right. If you think you don't have anyway to help why not just help yourself by just observing instead of ranting around.
As for op, I think you should follow shedrack77 advice and after that look for a way to get in touch with any organization that fight for people like you on cases like this.

Pls, am waiting for ur response on this

Good morning farmers, I want to know how much maize is been sold per kg.

sudonym:

All of them. Read your Bible.

You You mean Abraham and the rest are poor? bro Lemme come and be going

shineeye1:
I can authoritatively tell you that majority of "Men of God " have betrayed the Lord Jesus Christ in Nigeria today. That betrayal is no different from the betrayal of Judas Iscariot because it also borders on money. The cardinal doctrine Christ delivered to his believers was to live a life of Sharing as opposed to self service. True Christianity is synonymous with Sharing. What is commonplace today is a counterfeit version of Christ and Christian brotherhood.
For the inner caucus of his believers who were principal officers of his mission, he set the qualification for entry into Discipleship as Sharing of their entire life! So whenever and wherever you find a so called man of God emphasising on his personal wealth, you have seen a cunning charlatan! Such ones either don't even know the WRITTEN price of discipleship or know but intent on ripping the church to satisfy their lust. They are certainly not of Christ but of themselves and shall be so judged.


Luke 18:22 Now when Jesus heard these things, he said unto him, Yet lackest thou one thing: sell all that thou hast, and distribute unto the poor, and thou shalt have treasure in heaven: and come and be my disciple. 18:23 And when he heard this, he was very sorrowful: for he was very rich.

Can u pls name one prophet or man of God in the bible that can be termed poor

Fazemood:
The truth is always bitter

People always prefer to be told lies than truth. These people who parade as men of God are vessel through which the devil does his work.

All you people going to these men for counselling and prayers and pay for their services and in the end nothing happens yet goes back to pay for more eh,

Sorry 4 Una

Since u think it's as easy as this, why not try it out and let's see if you'll be to achieve what he has achieved.

olaboy1:


Why do you guys keep making unmatched comparisons. Your BF willingly chose to buy your mum a valentine gift, OP is been requested to do so under the guise of dating her daughter, both are not the same situation. OP has no financial obligations to her and should only help at his own free will if he has the means. Trying to shame him for declining this request sounds very childish.

Fellas try and watch Chris Rock Tamborine Netflix special.

No one is saying it's an obligation on the Op's part but the bitter fact is that the Op's way of approaching the matter is bad. The fact that the woman relay her msg through text means she is not proud of what she did and that could be because she as exhausted other options. First impression matters a lot bro though not on the expense of your convenience though. There are some things one we do and not know the impact of it at that present time but in the future

frank202012:


Mr helper,relationships re not employment opportunities.
There are ways things re been done.
What is wrong with u guys sef.
Oga if u have a mom go and take care of them nd free ur in-laws
Smh

Yes that's true to some extent. But you that wanna have a relationship with someone should know that there are some things that come with it. They are unavoidable just like corruption is unavoidable in naija. Am not saying you should make it a responsibility but there should be a follow up on ur aide about the things happening in ur wife's family and do the little you can do to help.

nike4love:


that's a good idea u just made there,
the guys that are claiming big guys on this thread just to use the guy shine....
but Oga op,it takes a courage for someone to say no.....there is no need of displeasing urselve to please someone else....from ur write up u have a good relationship with the girl nd between u two even the mother is a third party.....If u feel u want to help the family,talk with the girl and know her mind set nd do it through the girl not the mom,nd don't expect a payback......

It's someone like you that'll visit and won't deem it fit to buy something along. For Pete's sake, even if it's not ur mother in law you should help. And it's someone like you that girls turn to ATM just like how the snake turns Benue Jamb office to ATM

OnePunchMan:

Hello sir,
Which seller/cost?

I mean how much it'll cost me

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B077PQ1VNY/ref=mp_s_a_1_6?ie=UTF8&qid=1518460590&sr=8-6&pi=SL75_QL70&keywords=laptop
can u find the cost of this

miqos02:
my new stock will be available on Friday.I will update u then sir

Waiting for ur response on this

Is the offer still available?

noeloge82:

This year easter is earlier and during festivities size matters slot so if u have weight without size it's not the best but if u have good weight and size then ur good to go

Yes but you should be aware that there is a limit to what the buyer can pay no matter the size

noeloge82:


I don't think is up to that cos easter is April 1 which is 5 wks from February third wk that's making it a total of 8wks
What do i think

Thought easter would be around 3rd week of April and even at that, a 8 weeks old broiler should 2.5kg and above

noeloge82:


How many weeks are u looking at selling if u stock by third week of February

That should be 10-12 weeks. but I'll prefer 10 weeks

Mzora:
when can I start stocking 3wks old chicks if I want to sell them this easter?

Wait till the 3rd week of february before you stock it. If you consider the rate at which u will sell it then you wouldn't like stocking it now.

basmur:
As today mark the end of this memorable year, which English word should be the 'most used word' on Nairaland forum for 2017!! You can specify for front page and comment page!!

Some commonly used words
React
Stun
Hypocrite
beautiful

which do you think is most used.
Specify if other!!!

Happy new year in advance !!

hmmm.....na d word slay queen