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Her mother fit dan pressure her to go marry...

iRepNaija1:


Everything I bolded is a huge red flag. You haven't seen your fiancee since September? And she makes excuses not to see you? And you live in the same city? Second, stop involving the mother in this matter. If you marry this woman and when she "acts up," are you going to report her each time to her mother? The fact that the mother is saying you should take a break from your fiancee is another red flag. Finally, general advice, you need to exercise patience period because marriage is 100x harder than what you're experiencing now.

All that being said, you should break up with this woman. I know four years is a long time to invest in someone but she's obviously changed and is refusing to tell you why. Break up with her, cut her off entirely (do not reach out, it's for your benefit), and start dating other people and refocus on your hobbies. The ONLY reasons you would even consider talking to her again are if she apologizes AND she explains her strange behavior AND promises never to do it again. Other than those reasons, don't ever respond. She'll eventually understand this is the consequence of her changed behavior. Good luck.

Follow this advice and know peace.

*drops mic*

ainas247:
EDO should be a very big lesson, talk is cheap.
Ondo people have the decision

I can rank your website on Google
page1 and increase traffic chat up for
results

I'm interested

Here we go

Babyforever:
She didn't cheat he lacks evidence her sister want to crumble her relationship

But wait o.. are you her spokes woman??

Please leave...that is who she is..

Spicebros:
my galfriend of barely two months told me 2 days back, that she went to visit her lockdown exercise couch that told her he wasn't feeling too well and he slept with her. she has told her friend too and both of them has been begging for her forgiveness.. and honestly I don't know what to do...pls don't mind the writeup errors.

Never forgive this...trust me it will happen again.

#FirstHandExperience

Hello Fam, share your beautiful experiences/short story

If yes what was your reason.

Share your experiences.

Jessylove96:
Today I asked a male friend of mine for the first time in history to help me with 2k and he was trying to lure me in for sex. I can't put myself to low to sleep around because of money. Guys why do you often do this

you that went to ask, why do you have to ask for money, aint you aware there are independent ladies everywhere?? get yourself together and hustle, then there would be no need for this kind of thread again.

i will not try it

I won't advice any soul to date any girl with a male bestie, bro as my niggas in the comment section above have said, they are Bleep mates...I experienced it first hand..

OP. i can swear you will learn your lesson the hard way....just keep being there you hear, good man, you dey enjoy s*x you think say na love...your eye go soon clear......when she treats you like an option, you learn to use the door.


very hard a decision to make but bro very necessary

Good morning my neighbors

Davash222:
You did well.

Try and get yourself a foreign girlfriend when you're ready to hook up again. Stay away from Nigerian girls.

Am interested bro

Just finished a degree from the University of Nigeria, am currently awaiting NYSC batch B, I am in need of a pre-nysc job to keep myself busy and hustle a little before camp, I stay in Lagos, around the island..your help and recommendations is highly welcomed

Nksleek:

https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2020/02/13/supreme-court-sacks-bayelsa-governor-elect-lyon/

Wonderful

Let's share our experience..

Mine was because she made it a habit of always breaking up after some soft romance without even having s3x..knowing fully well I was in love with her and I will always beg her to come back..I didn't eventually have s3x with her as I got tired of that attitude she cultivated over time..I finally ended it...

Let's hear yours

Miffia:


Tiger nuts?... Will that help?,

Yes ma, a whole lot

Wonderful

tightpussy156:
from ur write up @op u are foolish an a mugu.you fell in live with a gir you haven't met.she told you about other guys that her just friends you later found out she had sex with one.she also told you about another guy who she will be going to see u agreed an you later found out she was her ex an pleading to reconcile with him.truth been told she is just using you for spear.she is,a cheap slut who Bleep around with guys.such girl na Bleep an dump.is like you have been paying her bills but you never see colour of her pants why other guys they hammer the wide hole to red.so don't waste ur time on that cheap bitch.the truth is bitter but been told.who quote me for saying the truth should hug transformer.

But I have been intimate with her already.

Ayobami7:
好的

Word..you spoke volumes

seangy4konji:
The year is too early for nonsense. I can only imagine the amount of best friend she has slept with in her life
..

Am sure she never reach 21...

Different guys go don knack her and she will still be claiming g innocent girl.

Ur head have scatter. They are frying plaintain chips in your head.

24 by march

jaxxy:



I’m sorry to tell u this bro bt here are the reg flags and even worse. The fact she slept with her best friend severally and still remains or calls him best frnd shows she has no sexual boundaries,

She just met a guy and they kissing and caressing, whilst u were away? She can’t handle a long distance relationship. She lies a lot, she’s sleeps around easily also.

My submission Ure inlove with a hoe. U better enjoy urself and run. That’s not a serious gf material ok. Enjoy. Love ko, love ni

NB: she might change later in future or u might be able to change her bt u can’t do that while I’m a long distance relationship, u can’t monitor her real progress in changing. U will be deceived again and again. Have this at the back of ur mind. Cheers.

Intend bringing her down to the west for her Nysc to close down distance..

Bondinus:
Why do I feel she wants to plant so many fruits in one plot of land.
What does she do and did you tell her what you do for a living.
P.S. I have my reason for asking.

Software developer working with a tech firm in lagos and she is yet to start serving hopefully March..of which we have concluded plans on she coming to stay with me during her nysc

ShagariBillions:
You are being a child, relationships don’t work like fantasies. Action speaks more than words, even though the girl won’t be blamed for being into people, no one can exclusively be dating a someone who only exist on social media. If you are willing to date her make yourself more available or you just let it go, there are different kind of people; some people can’t handle absence even they love the person especially when he was never there.

Intend bringing her to stay with me for nysc by march, all plans have been concluded

Zimzy:
Believe you me, this your girl will never change and it is not as if you can do anything to break the distance barrier. Let her go no matter how painful it may be, God will bring a better person into your life. Be careful of people you meet online so many of them are fake.

Intend bringing her to stay with me in Lagos for her Nysc..I stay at the island

martowskin1:


What ever u are smoking stop it, is not good for ur health, she is not ur GF.... The girl self is not alright, I wonder how old she is

She would be 24 by march

Zaheertyler:
When I saw bestfriend
I said not again
She probably did all that because you guys were not close
But now she'll do it over and over again

I don't get please..like having sex with him again? After we talked I saw in her chat where she broke off the sex thingy from their friendship ... although I can't vouch for anything

I Am Losing My Mind, Could This Be Love Or Foolishness?

Okay, I'd be quick and brief as well.

So about 6 months ago, I met my girl on facebook, And after months wooing her to date me, she finally agreed and we started dating..

Like everything was perfect and indeed I fell deeply in love with her even before I met her.

So along the line in our relationship she told she had a best friend who is a guy and they have know each other for like 4years..and that they talk very well (calls and chat) and that they tell each other they love themselves, but if I wasn't cool with it,I could break up she would understand.

As a guy I knew I had fallen for her and I embraced her telling me about the guy after a strong assurance from her that they were not into any sort of relationship with each other.

So my girl called me like let's say a month after we started dating that there was this her friend who she hadn't met and that wanted and she was going to see him, and I was like fine, she should just be fine.

P.S:- I hadn't met with my girl even till the point she went to meet the guy...I was in the west and she was in one of the states in the East..more like a long distance relationship.

Fast forward to days after they met I became uncomfortable with the relationship between my girl and the said new guy she met..I talked to her severally about it and she was at some point swearing not having anything to do with the new guy she just met.

Fast forward to the festive season I came back and I met my girl for the first time..indeed she was everything I imagined and we flowed amazingly well.

Long story cut short in the midst of one of our long conversations I discovered she have at some point had sex severally with her said best friend...so I was like since it was before we met I forgave her and we moved on..

yesterday I asked her if she has anything with the new guy and she swore again not having anything with him that the guy has been asking her out and she refused dating him.

She said plenty of things that convinced me into believing that nothing was going between them.

P.S:- before yesterday I told her to tell the new guy she has a boyfriend and she promised to..(from the actions of my girl I could tell she loves me.) She later told me that day that she told him and she had blocked him and stuff..and trust me I did believe her.

So this morning while she was sleeping I reaching out to her phone and went straight to her WhatsApp.. opened the chat with the guy and what I saw broke me..

She was reconciling with him over the break up she instigated of which was caused by something totally different not even because she told him she had a guy..what killed my spirit was a message she wrote to the guy saying "she left me for him even though I was far much a better option"..I confronted her and she has been pleading saying she loves me but she likes him and that they haven't had anything except kissing and caressing..that she loves me so much..that she started liking him when she started talking to him more frequently and I was far away. She hadn't know me..so she got fond of him and she likes him.

I love this babe so much, I told her I forgive her..but please I need your opinions..am I blinded by love or am being foolish..

How would you handle the situation. If it was you..
La La.. please help move this to front page
Am breaking every hour.