NewStats: 3,264,408 , 8,183,640 topics. Date: Tuesday, 10 June 2025 at 11:11 PM 5h4r5w

Nothing like extension. Do transfer If money no de your hand that's the point of the whole cashless policy

Slynation:
When a girl is crushing on someone, she tries to adjust and coordinate herself whenever her crush is around and not to avoid him totally...so delete that crushing mindset from your memory

Your only sure bet here is that they have known eachother from somewhere and your questions should be channelled to either your friend or your girl...

But if you ask me or few NLers to be honest with you, we go just tell you say they don use preeq wire your girl before...

I doubt that, they barely know each other and I met her a virgin.

Shalommy:
There's something about them that you don't know. Dig deep and you'll know the secret.

I'm not sure but she claimed she didn't like how she dressed thats why, making me wonder you dressed that way all through the night then all of a sudden you felt you should look way proper because you just came across a friend of mine and cos she also didn't feel like talking to anyone
Just imagine

Vanzcharles:


Ask your babe why? She is in the position to give you the best answer not us.
We would only speak on assumptions.
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My own opinion is that your babe has a thing abt your friend? One tym fling, or your friend has seen her cheating on you.
Ask your friend to tell you the truth instead, if truly they have no history then she is crushing on your friend. Period!

Thank you

I've been dating this girl for about a year, our relationship haven't been the best tho but we've always tried making the best out of it.

Now, she's and extrovert kind of, and loves spending time with her female folk, sometimes she likes being in the company of my friends too and is actually a good vibe. But there's this friend of mine she's always shy to meet amongst others. I've noticed it a few times but overlooked it.

But today I bumped into that friend of mine and the usual happened again. We greeted but she pretended to not see him cos it was a bit dark, the next minute we left there and headed to a supermarket lo and behold my friend was there again, as we approached the supermarket she refused to come with me, I insisted she refused then a random thought ran through my mind. I then called her and assured her I'll really be mad at her if she didn't come to the supermarket with me. She abruptly said she isn't coming and took a few steps out and left. I was immediately angered and pissed.

Here begs the question, is she crushing on my friend or? Cos they have no history so what's she shy about.

Try de live upstairs

ThaThinka:


I wanted to keep quiet because I knew someone might "attack" me if I typed what's on my mind.

Is it not the same country where married people are fighting for 30k minimum wage? There must be some ulterior motive behind these questions, I think.

There's no ulterior motives, I'm feeling like its not enough but right now that's all I have at the moment

Not neglecting other side hustle, but is 250k monthly job enough to start up a family? Depending on the current Nigeria situation.

Ok, I need your advise nairalanders.
Serious replies only.
Thanks

How much is a bucket of garri again?

1F30M4:
I do not think you overreacted in any way per se.. However, I think she's not totally true to you.. She told you that she left the other guy just to be with you, she just wanted you to feel that there are better chances with you.. The truth is, she's still weighing her options with the other guy hence she's always bringing up topics about him.. She wants to be 100% sure, she made a better choice of being with you.. There will always be a comparison, if you don't meet up with what the other guy is doing/has done/has promised to do, she may have to rethink her stand with you afterall.. I cannot say for sure that she loves you but maybe, just maybe she has some feelings for you, you could wait it out orrr strike it out.. Either way, I don't like having someone make me feel this way like I'm in a competition when no be say na bazaar auction sales lmaoooo.. I meann, c'mon if I'm not treating you right, why don't you just tell me straightup and not tell me that "see ehn, I be spec oo, there are other people also dying to have me, so shey normal or you lose me" , it's so vague.. Tell me what exactly is the issue or what's bothering you then we can talk about it like adults and know what to do about it.. Nobody wey no be spec abeg

This is beautiful, thanks a lot

Chris525:


She’s confused, leave her be. I’m guessing she’s 26 or thereabouts, at that age it can be tough for women. She feels drawn to the other guy, I guess out of curiosity since they never had sex and all. It could still be genuine, thats why you need to give her sometime to sort herself out. Thats usually the best solution.

Thanks man

pozehnani:
The girl is catching cruise with both of you but I think she's more attached to the other guy.

Also for you to be aware of the other guy ( and he's not aware of you) shows shes protecting her relationship with him because she values what they both share more than what you both have. She's only keeping you as option B in case her main doesn't come forth.

Move on already.

The guys knows about me and was even upset with her for saying yes to me.
But I don't know what happened lately cos of the changes she began to display.
That's why I wanted to see their chat which she refused.

Guyman93:

I dey catch cruise forget

Lol
Ok oo

Guyman93:
Bro u talk like person wet dey date my ex but we are still cooling , I want to marry her coz I love her , I have two side chick already , u are just a pussyfooting man she never loved you every time we had sex she keep asking me to give her more ,coz she can't get enough bro so sorry for u that u caught feelings for person who don't give a damm about u next time avoid girls that still talks to their ex

Her pussy is sweet and I can never leave her for you ok

For your mind na u get sense mtcheew

Please nairalanders I really need your help on this one

I have a girlfriend I love to the bones, but before we met she had a man she had known 2 years before me that claims he loves her too and really wants to marry her.

I asked but she assured me that there's nothing wrong. Infact she left the guy for me when all her friends felt she should have stayed with him instead of me.

The truth is I love this girl and I really wanna marry her but I want to be sure she's on the same side with me, cos she once visited the guy without my consent but when I found out she had to apologize which I did forgive.

But lately i discovered she was still chatting the guy and the guy still call her. We can be talking this minute and she might bring up a topic about the plan the guy had in mind for the future, and how the guy claims to even marry her if another guy got her pregnant.

After a while she decided to stay away from sex, saying it feels wrong and is only ready to do it till marriage.

The part that got me most confused was when she jokingly asked me if I could marry someone that assured me she had never being in a romantic affair, but I discovered later that she lied, that would I go ahead to marry her?

This was the case of her and the guy cos I was her first(guess you understand )

Now I was getting confused and insecure and needed to be certain and absolute with whom I'm dealing with.

I called her and told her how I felt and the only thing to make me feel better was to see their chat.

She instantly refused. I got angry and told her is she doesn't show me the chats that she shouldn't bother calling me again, she insisted that she isn't showing it to me

I had to leave her and told her that I'm done, she got angry too and we both haven't talked in a while
Pls forgive my lengthy writing I really need all the advice I can get.

Did I do the wrong thing? Or am I overreacting.

O lord of Mompha please visit me

Nicepoker:
Op grant me the permission to insult you first before I can advise you.

I'll advise you swerve

WonderManly:
Wetin concern you concern her phone! Shey you, you dey allow her touch your own phone? Stop asking for wetin you dey gree do.


And for information. Her real Boyfriend dey get free access to that phone wey you, you no dey touch. And with this ready to accept Molue Bus with full engers. I bet you!

I've dated lots of girl, none has been very protective of their phones, at least they let me watch movies wtf.

This one wouldn't even let me touch it

Kirkman:
Marshal9; Baba I give you one week to find her replacement ASAP, simply put you were never in her bigger picture or future plans you are just an option to her or just a means to an end. It's time to put an end to her nonsense. Her time is up. Time to move on.

I get you bro, but I love this girl man, and it ain't gon be easy for me

Mrscarter:


Maybe shes losing interest in the relationship or has her eyes on someone else.
Ask her straight up n if she feeds u bullshitt n isnt honest i would move on.
When someone loves you you can tell.
If u have doubts all the time then its ur brain trying to tell u something

Yeah thanks man

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga to slap you dey hungry me

If you got nothing I suggest you shut the hell up and keep moving.

My girlfriend always snatches her phone from my hands whenever she sees me with it, not like I'm reading her chats

She wouldn't even want me assessing her gallery not to talk of pictures.

Lately she brought up the idea of not wanting sex again, cos of reasons best known to her.

But when I choose to stay away, she wouldn't let me. And would never stop talking to guys that I warned her about, making me feel like she's exploring her options.

Not like I don't know what to do, but I'm feeling a bit weak cos I was her first.

Any advice house?

Edobabe20:


Haa anonymous forum indeed, do u know if her siblings are on this platform, do u even know if I know her? Oshi keep deceiving urself wicked man

Shatap there

Make una kuku tell me how to delete the thread sef
I don tire ni

Anfield247:
But my guy, u for use fore*play take start the bike!

I did oo, but harmattan de dry am

Edobabe20:
Op this was exactly why she was crying because she knows you will end up telling the world about it chaii no man can try this with me before you can even kiss me , you must marry me I really pity that innocent girl

Will u keep quiet there, I didn't say shit to anyone moreover this Is an anonymous platform I'm just seeking adult advice cos u folk can turn something to rape instantly.

None of my friends knows shit ok?

JOACHINpedro:
Wetin pain me be say you put the tip. Kasala burst, preek no gree stand again.
Damn! What a quick way to lose virginity

I swear the thing weak me anything and na she cause am oo dey do body like earthworm

Bankerboy:
Thats women for you with their weird self. This minute they want this, the nxt minute they dnt want it again. . Bro just keep petting her. she'll be fine.

I just tire

Sluvist:
You supposed to have finished what you started, living it halfway means another pain when she come for another vigil. If you wants you log-in, make sure there is enough lubrication down there. Play with her and suck her nipples so that lubricant will go down, then you start pushing your rod gently, bit by bit until it reach the end. Then you draw out and push again, the rest of all yours.

Ok man

edoman2016:

How old is your girlfriend?

She's 20