NewStats: 3,261,460 , 8,174,086 topics. Date: Thursday, 29 May 2025 at 10:58 AM 14k6f

AyobamiOluwole:
So this girl has been coming to my place, eat the best food and all that. I've asked her if she has a boyfriend and she said no. I do give her money without asking her for anything on return because I could see she is not the lazy type and she is really hardworking. I am very much ok with finances and I see no issues with some of her demands.


Yesterday I called her and told her that I'm not happy and that I need cuddle only and not sex(I lost so much Dollars from futures trading that night). She later called and said she will come to my place for that reason. In my mind I was thinking this will go down as sex and all, but I don't really want sex.

All I just needed is someone to cuddle and get distracted with that's all. This is the only time I am demanding something from her.

So she came during the evening time, and later that night we went to supermarket and I got her something's to eat at home for the night. We got back home and everything was going well. We were both on the bed when I reminded her why she came. This is someone I've been doing quite a lot for without even thinking twice out of pity. She wouldn't give in and wouldn't let me know why she can't just allow me to cuddle her.

Mehn, from the loss I had earlier and all that, I got infuriated and called another girl telling to pls come over for the night. Then I told this girl to leave my house since she can be that selfish. I sent her out of my house around 10pm. She was telling me she doesn't have money to go home, I didn't care and I shut my door against her. Though I was scared letting her out on that road and that time of the night but my anger got the better part of me. It was later after getting over the whole thing I confirmed nothing happened to her from someone else.

Pls is there anything wrong with what I did?

Modified: Anger is a bad thing. I am wrong sending her away at that time of the night. This is probably the judgement I'll get 😔

Idikwa very wicked. And we wonder where our bad leaders emanate from.
Just imagine what you did.

Hi, I just stumbled upon your post
Hope my message met you well. I don't just want to trade or be traded for I wish to learn and trade for myself. I am a novice. Can you please point me in the right direction?

Exactly my thought too. Until I saw it was just 2months old separation and they are already having strong feelings. Nansense

Toks2008:


Read the title again and tell me if this is not a stupid question?

I actually thougt the sister in question is late.

Congratulations baby girl on destroying your sister's marriage. Accept the proposal. Happy married life.
What do they say again about 'what goes around.....'

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

kennyamusan:
how are we sure she is 6 years old , looking s her , she could be sixteen , they just want to tarnish the image of the person that raped her , they might even be trying to use her as a bait ............ May her soul rest in peace

Are you sure you are ok like this����

[quote author=bluefilm post=99015613]That's the only thing they know how to do best

The idiot is even boasting that he still got his cultist connection.

Okay na, lemme see how his cultist connect will help him now.

Nonsense. [/quote

clockwisereport:


Anunkanka don come back naah. E be like say he dey teach for PALG

Anunkanka mpi wey don die since

McCoy662:

E dey pain u die
Igbo Amakaaaaaaaa!!!!
Igbo bu Igbo!!
Ndi nwe m na ndi m nwe!!!
If e dey pain u, snipper na 2h for my area oo

Palema007:
Lol.... I'm very Lazy oooo. 1/2 yard is too much, them never see raw resources to produce my own material.

Thank you nne. Beautiful response.

NDakota:
The career dilemma...

Many years ago I was where you are now.

I took the road less traveled. I settled for a career in Nigeria.

I got a job in a Big 4. Then moved on to an FMCG, where the perks are much higher!

On education, I got chartered, and I'm finishing an MBA.

On family, I got married to my best friend from University, and I just made my first baby.

Do I regret not moving to the US to my mom, a US citizen?

I do. Every. Single. Minute.

Why? Nigeria is a very uncertain place to stay and thrive. You could be up there in the sky today and the next week you're back on the mud. In a country of many poor people, you run the risk of becoming a victim of crime due to envy...post COVID-19 it'll get worse.

Look at you at 30. You're dithering. You're pussyfooting.

Look at me at 28. I still regret the mistake my 25 year old self made. I'm pushing daily to leave Nigeria.

I want to leave, not because I'm broke in Nigeria, but the collective poverty in this country scares me...

Most crimes committed today are more out of envy and hunger than of greed.

If you can, please run. For your SAFETY!

If only I can like your comment a million time. OP, listen to him. If you have the opportunity now, flee. I am in the same system as you. Flee.
God be with you.

Ineedtoheal:

I wish he will let me be and not try sweet talking me into opening my heart to him again.

Ahhhhhhhhhh! Nne, idibero Serious. Bye bye

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Babes, whatever we say to you here, won't change aa thing except you talk to yourself and say "enough is enough". You know your worth, don't allow any person treat you less. That your 40 years old guy is a commitment-scared type of person. In the next 5yrs still, he won't settle down not with you or any lady.


Please, value your self-worth and flee from that relationship and man. Do the talking - to-self, yourself to avoid 'had I known'.
Peace nne

Umu azi��. Ana akogheri

Slynation:

It's no biggie... You can do your research
Few popular examples are spelling of Awka(Oka), Owerri (Oweri), Onitsha(Onicha) note 'CH' is a vowel sound in Ibo alphabets....

� Nna forget it, I am sorry but you know nothing about the igbo alphabet. Igbo vowels are[b] (a í ó ú - e ì ò ù)[/b]. ch is a consonant letter of the igbo alphabet

BabaIbo:

Don't let that person mislead you... it's written and spelt Igbo. He is telling you two consonants are not spelt together, ask him how do they write Ogbuefi, Ogbuagu, Olugbo (bitter leaf), Ogbor, Okpa, Okpu etc.
He doesn't know anything about igbo alphabet but this is Internet where people claim to be professors.
If you pronounce it as Ibo in the midst of Igbos, they will look at you as a non-igbo.

Ordinarily, the way Ndigbo, Igbobuofu, Igboboy and other Igbo related topic is being spelt should serve as a guide.
Didn't you write waec, neco, newspaper etc or haven't you seen it on any official or important documents, check and see how it's written...

Dalu nwoke oma

BabaIbo:

Are you OK?

Say what you know please...

Thank you nna. @slynation,we have (gb, gw, kw) as letters of the igbo alphabet. Please don't misinform people.

LearnITsmash:
Why this young girl come fat like cow naaah, if she gets married she will become a hippo

She's happily married with 3 healthy looking kids. Let us be mindful of what we post and say about people on SM

Mitesh02:
Presidential candidate of the Peoples Democratic Party, PDP, Atiku Abubakar has defeated President Muhammadu Buhari of the All Progressives Congress, APC, at the polling unit of Babajide Sanwo-Olu, governorship candidate of the ruling All Progressives Congress (APC) in Lagos State.

In Enugu, Atiku also flawed Buhari in some polling units in Enugu North Senatorial District. At Femi Okunnu polling unit in Ikoyi, a polling unit in Lagos where the APC governorship candidate, Sanwo-Olu and his wife had earlier on cast their votes, Atiku polled 52 votes while Buhari polled 48 votes.

In Enugu, particularly from PU 016, Ogui New Layout LGA, Obiagu Road Primary School 015, Enugu North Senatorial District, Atiku polled 64 votes while Buhari polled 3 votes. Also in the polling units in Enugu, for Senatorial position, while PDP polled 56 votes, APC polled 8 votes. In ward G, Olowora, Koshofe Lga, Ketu, Lagos state, while APC poll 78 votes, PDP polled 59 votes. In Abia senatorial polls, for Abia north, while PDP polled 15 votes, APC polled- 154 votes.
In Plateau state, at PU 023, Janta Adamu ward, Hill Station Junction, Jos north LGA, while APC polled 7 votes, PDP polled 34 votes.

In Adamawa state, Lokuwa ward, Low-cost PU 016, Mubi north LGA, while PDP polled 156 votes, APC polled 78 votes.

In Anambra state, at the vice presidential candidate of the PDP, Peter Obi’s polling unit, particularly in PU 019, Umudimakasi Square, Agulu, PDP polled 258 votes while APC polled 1 vote.

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2019/02/2019-results-atiku-buhari-in-close-marking/

Agulu, my hometown. We really need to fish out that 1 sabo in our midst. Okpa aturu

I reactivated my because of this Man's opata yarn. Iberibe n'enye onye ara MORALE

[quote author=tokuns post=58054355Thank you

meetgaya:
Who is with me Pls

Same here

noetic5:


Nigerian professor, Akindele Adetoye, blasts 2face for planning to lead protest against the FG

Read what what he wrote on his social media profile, below

"You are a bloody illiterate. You had sex with all manners of girls without using condoms. You impregnated them and made babies all over the place. You now want to lead protest against the government because of lack of governance! Have you governed your own personal life? Charity, they say begins at home. Nonsense!"

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Source: http://www.latestamebonaija.com/2017/01/you-are-bloody-illiterate-professor.html

And you just said he is a professor

dragonking3:
Criminals.

Nsogbu di

Nsogbu di