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I av serious issues bothering my marriage.

Pls i need a lawyer or a marriage couselor urgently around ibadan/oyo town area. Thanks

Good day all, a close associate of mine confides in me and wants to know if is a sin for him to make love with his wife mentally via masturbation when she is not available for sex. Born again christians, moralists,realists,free thinkers etc etc, ur contributions are needed. Thanks in anticipation.

Enough of all these ur diggressions people! Pls dont be too frivolous abt it. Am asking u to help someone that needs to know wether self servicing his wife in a mental way if his she is not available for sex is a sin or not?

Good day all, a close associate of mine confides in me and wants to know if is a sin for him to make love with his wife mentally via masturbation when she is not available for sex. Born again christians, moralists, realists, free thinkers etc etc, ur contributions are needed. Thanks in anticipation.

We do sex occassionally, but each time we av sex she always want me to appreciate her immediatly even though she always have zero response during d act. Is it right pple to say thank u to ur wife wen she reluctanly give u sex once in a blue moon?

My wife takes me for granted especially cos am not too financially bouyant, though am working towards getting mysef out of the mess seriously. She feels so free to deal with her ex boy friends even in my presence by encouraging dem to call her even at home. I have warned her on many occassions to stop that irresponsible nd disrespectful idea bur she wont listen. Now i want to really know how important am i to her by ignoring her totally. I dont want to cheat on her cos am trying to practise true xtianity. Pls intelligent nd experienced nairalanders help me out.

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Unoccupied parcel of Land is available for sale(525/OLG/C/8849)
Size - 500.127sqm+497.836sqm(997.963sqm)
Location - Ire Akari Estate(Lekki close, way) By Soka Bus stop Off Lagos-Ibadan express way
Neigbhouring features - *Golden Bridge College, Oxford Rose Montessouri School
*Hamdallah Academy, Access College
*Attractive Tourists Site
*Natural Canal with mild current
*Well-planned Layout for vehicular and General Movement
*Developed Residence
Electricity Supply - Regular
Water Supply - Self-generated/private
Current Value - N2,500,000.00
Status - Suitable for a trusted investment security on Business Operation Cycle not exceeding 6-18months or
Development of Mini-Resort center/Recreational Spot serving the Estate and its surrounding Communities
Leasing Fee(per sqm) - Negotiable
Leasing Agent
- 07032391889; 08060274015

moreeni: Keep off her for another month without bringing up the issue and stay away from couple's gist time as well.If she doesn't still feel concerned enough to bring up the matter, enter unilag

go do wetin? Lolz lolz. Oomo ake!

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berem: And why should I change my number? Was he there wen I bought my GSM line for 12k? If I must change mine then he must do the same! Pata pata nobody go use phone!

Ok dont worry by the time he sends away frm his house u will know that der is diff btw a man nd a woman.

emiye: See long neck !!!! Are you related by blood to Agbani Darego?

u ar not serious at all, we ar trying to solve a problem nd u ar creating anoda one. Ar u a builder or a destroyer?

Pls i need the service of a lawyer. How can i get one? Thank you.

Plenty money and total freedom to flirt around with male friends.

Apart from the fact that there are some men that cannot stick with one pussy for life because of the kind of life they lived while single. What you dont really know is that some women will never change thier attitude when it comes to intimacy with thier husband, they are the one that encourage those men to be visiting brothels and those young gurls. Do u think is normal for a woman to starve her husband of sex for 2weeks despite the fact that they sleep on thesame bed? Do u think that man will not look for a way of offloading some of his goods when he is filled up one day? Married women too encourage those men to visit harlots. Am i right nairalanders?

I once asked my ex that question and she said "WHEN I GET THERE" ofcourse my question was answered when i got there.

She said she just feels like wearing it. I told her dt der is no smoke without fire. Wen she discovers later later dt she has not been able to convinced me, she now removed it.

Sorry case, i actually mean she is wearing beads around her waist. Pls i really need elderly contributions. Not all these childish contributions. Any woman who wears it wat ar dey really up to.

Experienced women/ladies in the house pls wat does it mean for one's wife to start wearing bids around her waste again after she decided to stop using it many years ago before she got married?

Thank u all 4ur contribution so far. @princess zoe, yes d story is incomplete, actually d author of d story really want 2know wat he can do to rekindle her love back apart from his wife suggestion. Sex has really been d issue here. The wife sexual urge is gone, may be due to child bearing or the hard times dey are going tru in d family. So d man is now taking it up against his wife dt she must cooperate, he even threthened to end d marriage. Summarily, wat d husband said he needs now is how to win her love nd d sexual urge back even wen der is no money nd d inability of d husband to secure a job. Pls assist!

Nairalanders and marriage consellors advise if it is good for husband and wife to live seperately so as to rekindle thier love nd respect 4each other, considering d danger in it. The husband has been complaining dt his wife has not been satisfying his intimate urge, so his wife now told him dt the only solution is 4 him to go nd live seperately nd come once in a while wen possibly she must have missed him nd thier intimate activities. Presently things ar hard 4d family cos d husband is jobless. Wat do u think can be done.

TRUE CHRISTIANITY IS ALL ABOUT AVERAGE DISCENT LIFE. TOO MUCH OF BASIC NEED OF LIFE IS WORLDLINESS, THE EXCESS FOOD, HOUSE, CLOTHING, CAR AND MONEY SHOULD BE DASHED OUT TO THOSE WHO HAVE NONE. Christians in the house, do u agree with me?

Women in d house has anybody mention turning down ur hubby's intimacy wen der is no money nd wen d man is jobless? Cos i know all of u will not mention dat o

Naturally, a woman does not like weak men. Wat do u think are the signs of weak men?

dont u have any branch in ibadan?