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What does "almajiri" mean?

A few recent pics,

whitelexi:

most men like to take things in stride and like a woman who's patient. Just like a woman would like a man who is patient during the courtship period, a man who doesnt flip out and give up when they delay and delay, so too most men are uncomfortable about issues concerning marriage and women who act like they're desperate.

Excellent answer!

I take back what i said before.

sweetpie23:

1)why is it that, most boys doesn't like to date girls taller than them, and why?
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I suppose most men just don't find that to be physically appealing. Like, a woman of normal height probably would not ordinarily be attracted to a man who is 5'3",

sweetpie23 link=topic=313581.msg4404603#msg4404603 date=1251008714:

2) Is sex the most important part of a relationship?

No. However, it is very important.

sweetpie23:

3) Are you against the idea of marriage?

No! Every day and night I pray that God sends me the beautiful, special woman that I am to love and make my wife.

sweetpie23:

4) Could you date an ugly person or do you value looks more?

Yes and No. Physical beauty is not an absolute necessity, but i could not date someone who is ugly on the inside.

Hello Chi-Baby

Nothing like natural beauty,

It always amazes me to see healthy beautiful Black women putting in disgusting unnatural looking hair and doctoring themselves up with make-up and silly looking designer threads only to be rejected and disqualified. All of these fake approaches to beauty just signify to me that the woman's self-concept is out of whack and her thought process has been overly manipulated. I am attracted to Black women who like me wear their "Blackness" in a proud and respectful way,

You handled the situation correctly, IMO

deji2009:

As in phsical apperance or how human they are ?

Both.

1)Tgirl4real
2)Bluespice
3)Godmother*
4)DaPhoenix
5)Lady Topup
6)Sistawoman

Don't know about the remaining 4 though,

Irene_love:

I can't understand why some girls think the way they do. i think this topic is trying to teach us how to pretend to be good so men can take us home as a wife. These are the qualities they desire from us and we need to adapt or pretend to posses these qualities. They think its men's world, but it is so easy to decieve them when we pretend.

@topic, thanks for the EXPOsition.

You're wrong sweetie

^^Right, ^^

EFOSA VAL:

hunnnm! good for ya

Yea.

Great topic!

It's always interesting meeting an ugly duckling - turned beautiful swan.

I know this topic is regarding ugly girls who turned cute, but I am a guy who also became like a wonderful "blast from the past" since my school days. However, it is not that I was ugly before and am handsome now, but simply that I gained in self-knowledge, self-love, charisma, and confidence.

Actually, I practice abstinence. I have not had sex since last August.

In fact, two more days will make a year for me since I have given a girl the pleasure of enjoying me in bed.

Sometimes, it can be challenging to resist temptation because I am such an attractive guy, and because I live a lifestyle that constantly brings me into with so many beautiful women. But, I am so disciplined that I am able to abstain from sexual behaviors.

I have learned that this self-control actually makes a man more attractive to some women, so the more I commit myself to being abstinent, the more women respect me and are curious about me in a sexual way. Needless to say, it is a wonderful perpetuating cycle.

It is true that alcohol is one of the only proven "afrodisiacs". I don't see how drinking wine would actually reduce a persons sex drive,

Wow, What a bizzarre situation

I doubt it. But the human libido is too complex to even say.

What is "writing her jamb" btw?

From what I see here, the good far outweighs the bad. In my honest opinion, I say marry this woman by all means!

There's no such thing as a perfect mate. Each one will have a few characteristics or stipulations that you do not desire,

The tribal difference is not important like true love is. Your friend's opinions should be somewhat disregarded since your babe is beautiful in your own eyes. Afterall, you won't be marrying your friends, correct? Her mum attends cele church (whatever that is), but once you make the girl your wife, she will follow your guidance, not her mom's,

Sorry, It doesn't sound good at all.

Tell him you are against it. Do not agree to him remaining friends with her, and stand firm with that decision. If they were friends before, that is one thing. But they were not friends. They were LOVERS. There is no acceptable reason for him to keep her around as a supposed friend, Especially after he lied to you about her being a relative. That is pure deception. So, if he refuses to let her go totally and permanently, do as Titi said. If you come across another who will love you fairly, keep on stepping and don't look back!

Hope that helps!

Best wishes, Magz

THE AMAKA:

like i said, where are you living in this world?
there are 100s of nollywood movies on youtube that certain people .
the popular ones are from Wande0, 6ixtus, loctorious. . . (something cant spell it lol), prettyconsultant, and a couple of other popular youtube channels where people movies

there are so many. you should watch some.

Sure thing!! Will do,

Why was this thread moved??

Shouldn't it be in the Romance Section?

You need to read and study romance.

Love and Marriage, believe it or not, is a part of psychology. There is science behind it. So first, you need to begin by communicating with her your thoughts and try to gain eachother's empathy. Once you have established those grounds for communication, the next step is to try to uncover and ultimately address and correct the psychological reasons that there is sexual miscommunication.

For instance, it is a known fact that women are sexually stimulated in different ways from men. Maybe re-examining your approaches with her can give you some insight into why you are not getting any. Are you spending enough time in pre-intimacy / afterplay? Do you constantly do things to break the monotony of everyday life? Women are more sexually and romantically responsive when life is not predictable and mundane, so try planning a special romantic getaway to sweep her off her feet and get back into a more satisfying sexual routine. Also, do you compliment her on her body, beauty and sexual performance? that women want to feel appreciated. They want to know that you appreciate it when they give you their bodies. There are many possible problems and even more possible solutions regarding getting the sex life you desire with your loved one. It should also be mentioned that marriage involves compromise. Are your sexual demands reasonable? If you want it 20 times a week and she would be satisfied with only 1 time per week, perhaps you need to find the common ground and grow to respect that and appreciate more the time you have to have sex with your wife.

I can assure you that begging / threatening, etc will only make your problem much worse. Using these negative approches will not win you any respect or consideration. All that will happen is that you will repel your wife, cause her to feel unsafe, unsecure and non-trusting, and you will both be more unhappy than before.

If her reasons for not wanting sex are religious, Well, you're probably on your own with that one!

All in all, I wish you the best of luck, good sir!

It is very simple!

In a girlfriend, we look for qualities that equate to FUN and GOOD TIMES.

In a potential wife, we look for qualities that will lead to SOLIDARITY, STABILITY and SURVIVAL.

nawtiichic:

u dont want her yet u couldnt stop urself from f**king her?
mehnn, uve got some issues.
uve just encouraged her even more by doing her now learn to deal with it
mcheeeeww!!!

Exactly!

WTF, Sometimes I see why women bitch and complain about the actions of men. Sometimes they can be so boneheaded. (I won't say we, cause I am a wise man who studies self-knowledge and practices self-control).

@ Poster: BEWARE WHAT YOU MAY BE GETTING YOURSELF INTO

To follow up with this thread,

I ended up not going out with the girl again. However, she still calls or e-mails me every few days and apparently has not given up hope. I did some deep thinking about it, and realized that it was important for me to follow my instinct. 

Meanwhile, I am still looking for the perfect stranger,   

Thanks to everyone for your advice and counsel!