 Magnitude111: 9:59am On Mar 31, 2023 |
Scholace:
I believe your mom meant well, it must be that hard on your family. I pray all the help and your family need comes. God be with your family.
Yes, she meant well. Things were just hard for the family which resulted to making wrong decision for the young girl. I pray the family get all the needed.
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| Magnitude111: 8:22am On Mar 31, 2023 |
Kemabassi:
Op should setup a whatsapp group so we can start the process. I have other options to get her here but School will be her best bet. Lets stop talking but start doing something now.
Please reach out to amdman. A WhatsApp group has been set up to this effect. Thank you.
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| Magnitude111: 8:15am On Mar 31, 2023 |
sirjamesjnr:
How do we go about it? I propose setting up a student in the girl's name. We can use the first bank so that the money can be used exclusively for the education of girls. One of us can make plans with the family and go to the bank with them to open an into which we can deposit donations. I can be reach through this email.: [email protected]
This is a very brilliant idea. The girl should open a bank while money for her education deposited into the . She should also get sewing machine to improve on her fashion skills, it is also important as well her education.
@amdman please take note of this.
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| Magnitude111: 7:57am On Mar 31, 2023 |
Latty88:
This brought smiles on my face
Honestly
I am happy the young girl will not waste away with that old divorcee. So many destinies had wasted in Nigeria. I am happy for the young girl.
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| Magnitude111: 7:51am On Mar 31, 2023 |
VoidLife7:
I was on this platform with heavy heart seeking for individual opinion pertaining to my mums decision to forcefully give out my little sister's out in marriage to a 43 years old divorcee with three kids
You can go through the thread i posted on the 14th day of February, 2023. From the link below you'd have a clue of where I'm coming from
https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/7569238/mum-planning-forcefully-give-out
All thanks to everyone for their contributions on the thread that very day. I was encouraged to stand by my sister. I was convinced never to allow my mum take such decision. All thanks to @keepingmum who sent me some money to complete her apprenticeship fees. I got a DM from @amdman asking for my phone number and house address to confirm my genuity through his lawyer. I gave them all they needed from me.
His lawyer and one other person came to my house last Sunday (19/2/2023) to see my little sister, my mum and her younger siblings. They met everyone of us in the house that very day
My mum was questioned concerning her decision to give her out in marriage. She made them understand it's never intentional nor her wish but situation of things in the family. She's not comfortable seeing these children suffering while she was still alive. She's scared what will become of them if paradventure she's gone. It was a friend who talk her into it considering the situation of things in the family. She was so emotional and started crying. She went back to memory lane (25th, May 2005) when the girl was birthed through CS and handed over to her by her brother. She cried that very day of visitation when the lawyer was talking to her.
The girl will be 18 by May and she wish to become a lawyer and future SAN. She hope to also run a large fashion store as a seamstress with lots of girls working for her, and all my mum could come up was to give her out in marriage to a divorcee. She thought giving her out in marriage will help reduce the burden in the family.
All thanks to @amdman who sent his lawyer to . After their visit, my mum began to retrace her steps. They promise to her achieve her dreams. A good Samaritan sent us money for her to put in for JAMB
After the visitation, @amdman set up a WhatsApp group with some kind hearted individuals who had shown interest in ing the little girl and her mother
I'd beseech anyone willing to this little girl to @amdman on this number +1 (437) 221-5476 to be added to the group for collective efforts.
All thanks to everyone for your advice. Y'all are awesome❤
your mother is a good woman indeed. Despite her condition she was responsible for the upkeep of those children and they didn't know she wasn't their biological mother.
Thank God your mother changed her mind. I will not blame her completely for the wrong decision she took for the young girl. Poverty could make someone take wrong decisions thinking it was the best thing to do.
God bless you @amdman and everyone who wants to help this young girl. I hope and pray she succeed at the end.
Op you're a good brother to reckon with. I wish you good luck.
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