NewStats: 3,265,241 , 8,186,101 topics. Date: Saturday, 14 June 2025 at 02:31 AM 15415e

Usefulsense:
Last year, I sought the opinion of Nairalanders concerning my plan to move to Australia.
My major worry was my age (48) and also considering that my net salary in Nigeria was a little over a million Naira per month as the financial controller of a manufacturing company in Onitsha.

Below is the link to the thread I opened to seek peoples advice and I recommend that you go through the thread to fully appreciate
the story that follows. Can you please talk about the one dark side, I really want to know now if you have the chance. I mean the divorce talk.

[url=https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/7825207/japa-confused-please-advise][/url]. I promised to tell my story after 3 months of my stay in Australia.

I finally left Nigeria on December 7th, 2023 and arrived the country on December 9th with my children. Today, I am exactly 3 months, 2 weeks and 6 days old in Sydney, australia.

This is not a hearsay, it is not an eye witness , it is my story.

This is intended to guide people who maybe planning to travel outside Nigeria. Should you migrate at an age over 45 or not?

Those who told me not to go are right and those who told me to travel are also right.

Given another opportunity, will I take the decision to move out of Nigeria at 48? Have I made a mistake? How am I surviving?

You will find out in this thread.

To be continued shortly .........

Jennyclay:
God bless all rich men that are taking good care of their wife and children!!

why only rich husband na

Abovebest:
Cover your face with shame bro

Why will your cousin be tempting you

Imagine your blood sister giving you erection

Cousins are far far different from blood sisters.

Not having such feelings toward cousins would mean you guys stay together or grew up together in a house and have always known each other to be cousins and invariably like sisters. Without that, it is completely natural to be attracted to cousins. Just because of the culture we found ourselves in, you just have to manage and tame the urge, but it is completely natural just to stress this fact.

Again to answer the Op, it is never an abomination to love, have sex and even marry a cousin. It is allowed in many cultures, and for me as a Muslim, it is allowed in Islam.

FalseProphet1:
I see that girl dumping him for not being a graduate when she's through with her own education, I see her going for a more successful, vision oriented and career person, I see her poor ex broke boyfriend coming to Nairaland to rant about how Nigerian girls are useless, I see his fellow jobless, visionless and broke colleagues liking and sharing his posts.

This I have seen.

�...So you assumed Unilorin is going to rusticate only the guy and leave the girl to complete her studies in style? You assumed wrong bro. They are both facing Tanke. You gerrit

OneCandleAway:
Black Africa is operating under a serious curse.

How can you grant China rights to mining gold in exchange for infrastructure. Why can't you mine yourself, sell and use the proceeds got infrastructure?

I am tired

I like. Seems pretty easy. You just pictures and make money. Meaning they can use the pictures on ads anywhere in the world and by any brand since you already sold them.

Money is good..

08036335540 - please add me to the whatsapp study group. Thanks

SavageResponse:


It probably started whnile your brother was living at your aunt's place.

At 26 your brother should know that incest is not not proper and usually leads to birth defects in new born babies

This is not a case of incest. She is not the direct sister to him just cousins. And to set everything straight, she is lawful for his brother to marry.

Draw pleaseee

thorpido:
Where do you stay?
There is an organisation you can report to.Please Ministry of women affairs,Alausa or Mrabel centre or simply report at the Sarz office.Please Google their s.
Please make sure you report, don't let this idiot roam free
As for the wife,let her sit there and 'enjoy' her marriage.

Xclusiveme:


It seems you just ed social media recently. The woman that bore him this boy child is his soon to be Bride. Coming 2020#ChiVido

Or Davichi

contigiency:
It's just strange. meanwhile, dead bodies are usually heavier than the living ones.

ships are heavier than cars but ships float while cars sink...same principle

jtjohn:
Evil men keep ruling this country....90 percent of all the politicians do rituals...

You're being modest

elChapo1:
How does the little girl explains to the innocent child that his/her father is also his/her grandfather AND that she(the mother) is also his/her elder sister while the baby's grandmother is his/her step mom. Crazy world we live in!

Crazy world my brother....But all for test

Lexusgs430:
Girl pickin no dey her bodi?

no dey him body...point of correction

chijudith:
May the lord bless their home. Pheeeeewww i go love ooooo!!!!! Where is my own husband na, getting tired of waiting ooooo.

Are you sure you have been waiting.. You have not been chopping preek

Cadec007:
Must the whites produce everything? Y can't the blacks that brought the disease find a cure.
I think the Q that should interest us is 'why are we so dependant on the whites?' for christ sake these guys are our equals not our masters.!!!

Equals YES. But different purpose and role. Just like man and woman are equal but different roles.

emperor94:
This kind of testimony makes me wonder, were the ones who perished not good enough to be protected, did they deserve to die while she was too good to die as well, what's the criterion for being alive which if the living no longer possess, they die. Like who gets to live, who gets to die? God help us all.

Just believe everything is a test, for her, and for the dead's relatives, and for us reading this. You will see you have explanations to virtually everything and when you think it that way.

Must these peoples prophecy be about politicians. I tire for them pastors oo

Vic o

This is nice. Committing to not cheating on your spouses.

Nice. Sometimes you need to capture or do it publicly to encourage others to do same. This is giving to the poor, different from giving to assist someone in a business or something, that you can do with your right hand without your left knowing about it.

earthsync:
instead of the guy trying to make his life better he's hating on people who are a hundred times better than him.

Just richer, you can't tell if he is better.

MD45:
Messi needs to step up his game. He is not as hungry for success like Ronaldo. Anyway congrats to Ronaldo.

Not as hungry you say after 4 or 5 win.

We should learn to appreciate success without comparing. If he does unimaginable things in the name of being hungry now , you still be the first to start condemning him. To me he is hungry enough and he's achieved enough

stankezzy:
you are a very big fat fool

Pele o

I definitely try marriage, what's the worse that could happen?

I sure know I'm not very happy being single, even with all the girls in the world. You can't continue doing the same thing and expecting a different result, you try out other options and as in this case; if you're single and you're not happy you try being married. But always try with the best of intentions. My two cent

misterh:
I have asked this too and no one has answered me.

Arabic word for God is illah. While the Arabic word for the one true God is Allah. You should be OK now

I'm motivated

pocohantas:
LOL.

Prick and brain no dey work at the same time. When prick stand, brain shuts down. Maybe he promised 20k when he was still erect, the moment he ejaculated, his brain came on...and he realised he has overvalued the poosie.

epic

Like the idiot that kept spending on my sister even as she kept giving him signs that she wasn't into him..... She ended up using him to start up her life after service year and got married to her husband...Dude wasted two years of resources on her for nothing!

the only resource I can waste on any girl is my sperm. Which in actual fact I don't consider a waste as too much of it in the body gives an upset stomach for me