Jeon:
Abeg r3st. Did they tell you they are looking for marriage ?
.Hardly to see a rich or successful woman crying for marriage because she has what it takes to get a way from *poverty *. Like what Men normal says *Marriage is an empowerment to Women*.
So why will she look for an uplift empowerment, when she had all and all.
Why enbe say nah Men dy cry over Marriage and Women ?..... Crying over what you claimed to be a man's destructions.
*spit *
Modified: Hmm see mentions coming from those who benefits nothing from marriage. Their mouths are the loudest
Unah never see anything yet.
Atleast you confirmed the only reason you guys get married is because of poverty alleviation...lol. Once una get money then a dido will be best option....useless women.
immortalcrown:
Do those women say they need husbands? If no, don't give yourself headache for their sake. Most of the married ones are even plotting to become single.
Their values have changed. They don't care about marriage. Some of them don't even care about having children. They have enough money and can make upfront payment to companies that will care for them in old age.
What I worry about is the continuation of humanity.
A male speaking for female
...smh useless men everywhere
Creamypie:
This man no just enjoy. His mum enjoy both her own and his own time together
What else does he need to enjoy? Having his mum will be more enjoyable than anything he is getting now. He never lacked anything material in his life time.
stanliwise:
Except you know this lady then you can only speak on assumptions
The lady was speaking about Africa...lol maybe you should tell her same statement. Obviously I know where your sentiment lies but it is not too late for you to keep your money and don't disturb us because you gave your family.
Kingrshd3:
God bless u my brother for this powerful respond u gave that idiot
They will keep saying as if they are entitled to someone's wealth or money mthrrw African mentality
Why are you guys shouting entitlement? Are you entitled to control how ppl leave their life simply because you gave them money? Some ppl give you money and everything you have look expensive to them...lol. you wear shoe problems, you spray perfume wahala...some of you are just idiots with your money. If you choose not to give just shut up and keep your money. The same money that ppl will die and leave for banks to steal.
If you don’t know the actual case then don’t speak like it. Some cases are true to what you said, then some aren’t. Meanwhile she does not owe them to be sending them every month. Neither is a good thing to abandon your family when you have made it.
Wisdom is profitable to direct is all I can say
She does not owe them just the same she should have decided to keep her money without making noise online.
I sense too much of entitlement feeling and anger in you. She has a point,those who you're helping should tone down their living.you can't be living large at the expense of others, just like my cuz who spend 15k on a very small handbag that's not worth it but she's always begging for help. Wisdom is profitable to direct
If you choose to give your family money it doesn't mean you expect them to wear rag...Some idiots once they give you small money they expect you to use touch light phones...please they should keep their stupid money
US-based Guinean lady reveals why she has stopped sending money to her family in Africa
According to her, she visted her home country eight years ago and discovered she has been funding the lavish lifestyle of her folks back home. She said she realised that her folks back home are living a luxurious life that she who works for the money does not live in the US.
Take a listen!!!
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#wetindeyhappentv
She should shut up. How much did she send that she is making noise.
Why are the northerners protesting? Did they protest when Buhari was destroying the country? When the south protested they organized counter protest...lol. They are mad
The best time for Government to step in is now, Things are gradually spinning out of control, You won't understand the frustration that set in when faced with reality that what you earn monthly can't even take care of your basic needs.
The minimum wage review is taking too long, The stomach doesn't understand patience.
If people in Niger where food is relatively cheap are protesting what is the hope of a common man in places like Port Harcourt, Lagos or Abuja?
Northerners have no rights to protest because when The price of rice jump from 8k to 40k under Buhari they kept quiet. They cannot suddenly wake up and realized hardship. This bunch of clowns did not protest when CBN was sharing the nation's wealth to them all in the name of anchors borrowers program.
Dangote can only source from other quarters to meet up his production demands if not they might have to shut down the refinery while it will be consuming more money to maintain which el be very counterproductive.
Is it not obvious that Nigerian Government is sabotaging Nigeria?
Okortor:
I talked about hitting the streets in protest in a comment here last week but the useless mod lala or whatever his name is banned me and deleted my comment immediately...so it's crystal clear seun is an APC ronu member in disguise. We all go dey alright las las ...... Nonsense tribalism humans.
Why did you not protest when Buhari destroyed the economy?
Eriokanmi:
the news hit major headlines recently. Anytime you hear them debunk such news, its actually true and that's what they'd end up doing. They wanted to do it last year but they feared they might lose elections, should they try it.
I rembered the most recent one in the electricity tariff increase..the said there's no such thing.
It wasn't even long before it was implemented.
Maybe they're trying to be diplomatic about this because some people could jeopardise their plans by rushing to the bank Monday to withdraw all their dollars. Only the wise would do the needful now, because that's what they'd still do
The news is fake and it doesn't make sense. The write up and source sounded like local beer parlor Gossip
It's just the latest incaranation of a story that appears every few years.
1) 2015
2) 2016
3) 2024.
Irresponsible News paper. They always have a stupid source that speaks with zero technicality. I read it and I was so embarrassed. The newspaper talking about a major news like this like beer parlor Gossip.
Ewedegubbler:
It’s quite likely that Blinken already informed the Iranians of the exact target and time of strike before hand. The current USA government is pathetic
lol I am sure you got this idea while eating beans from your kitchen.
Falseprofet2:
They did also lie against you when you said covid 19 was caused by 5G
Same 5G you'll soon use and even tax your to pay for
Or was it lie, top member of your church duped people of billions. Am sure its your church that took injunction against Efcc from probing illicit funds
LeftAlone:
Guys please I don't know what to do. If this hadn't happen to me, I used to think most of the stories on this romance section are fictions, so I don't concern myself with it.
My best friend Femi has a fiancee, they've been dating since our second year in school. That was in 2016. let's say the girl's name is Muna. I mean they were really in love with each other. And for some obviously reasons, we all liked their relationship. The girl seemed like a very good girl, very exceptional. In fact, Femi is a very lucky dude. Muna could as the most perfect girl on earth. They had their introduction in 2022 but I couldn't attend because I was in Kaduna. It was painful I missed my best friend's introduction, and the fact that the girl was a really good girl too. Everyone of us really liked her.
We all schooled in Ibadan and we were in the same department, same level with the girl. But the girl is from Ibadan while me and my friend, Femi are from Lagos. We've been friends since primary school, we attended the same high school and were in the same class as well. No matter how busy we are, we've always found reasons to talk everyday, mostly VNs on WhatsApp and there is almost no way he wouldn't mention how Muna has been amazing to him.
I have Muna on WhatsApp too, but we don't chat, though we all are friends but I kind of enjoy some boundaries. Yeah! They both live differently in IB but they use most of their time together . Myself was in Ondo state, but I just came back to Lasgidis.
There is one of my older cousins, he's like an uncle self because he's like 17years older than me. [i]This man sure die, e fit give me him eyeball.[/I] He's unmarried. I heard he's been asking of me so, I went to visit him on the island this last Monday. I was at his house when he read out this AY and May Edochie's alleged infidelity. So, that sprouted a conversation about women's loyalty. Well, I told him there are still some good women on earth, and I've seen one (I had Muna, Femi's fiancee in mind as one good girl).
Immediately I said that, he agreed with me. Then he started talking about his fiancee, Blessing. How angelic she is, how this, how that . He went on and on , on how the girl loves him more than he loves her. Man! and I was just there listening.
To cut the story short. He's been trying to sign in into his Instagram but he's got issues getting the code on his sim . I suggested if he could request the code via Whatsapp. Then, he asked me if I could be of help and I was like,"Nothing Spoil".
Okay! he gave me his phone and I got on it. A message popped up and I just clicked on it expecting to be from Instagram, but to my disappointment, it wasn't. It was from one of his random chats. The message reads "Are you sure you don't have someone you are fucking already?". When I saw the message, It was from a saved as "Blessing". I was like"so, uncle and his babe like doing bad thing . Bad shildren everywia, anyways, don't lemme intrude, it's only normal to respect people's privacy" . But as I was about to close the chat. Do you guys know that small round circle that displays people's DP in the conversation screen? yeah! I saw a picture that looks familiar.
So I clicked on it, and I saw the picture"live and direct " . This is Muna, Femi's fiancee. So I thought, maybe it's one of her friends or her sister using her for dp. I do that too, I even use random funny people.
But something pushed me to pick my phone, I checked Muna's number, lo and behold brethren, It was Muna o, in flesh and blood. You know sometimes, when you have a huge respect for people, you help them find excuse for their Bleep ups. Again I said, maybe big bros was lying. he might be crushing on the girl and the girl might just put him on the side.
As I was on her WhatsApp profile page on my bro's phone(that my cousin wey I dey call "egbon".
I saw that they've shared plenty media files, pictures and videos. From the thumbnails, I saw a pic that caught my attention so I clicked on it. Guys you wouldn't believe. I saw penis, penis o, which I believed was my bros own. Ha! what is this? It was really disgusting. But because of time , I couldn't afford to view more pictures. Then it occured to me that I should just export their chat. Nice move.
So I exported their chat, with media options.I knew there was going to be trouble in paradise when the file was 120MB zip file. you know WhatsApp exports in zip?
Immediately it finished, I shared it to my own WhatsApp on my bro's (that my big cousin, wey I dey call egbon, uncle or big bros) chat list.
Once it went thru, I deleted it on his own phone, from his own chat(I didn't delete for everyone) so I still have it in my own chat with him. Then I ed it, went into my WhatsApp folder, moved it from there and I extracted it into another hidden folder.I went back to delete it on my own chat screen. I later finished up with the Instagram thing and I returned his phone.
Now I went into the folder I extracted the chats into and I saw lots of videos and VNs. I connected my earbuds and I was listening to the VNs. It was really her voice. But when I went thru the chats. literally they've been dating since 2019 or so. They did lots of sex chats and shared nudes, most of the nudes have been deleted, and the remaining ones don't show either of their faces. Just from the shoulder downward.But one thing I've noticed is, whenever they were about to share their nonsense. My bros would always request she put on one particular customized waist bead that he gave her. My other cousin, I mean that big bros younger sister is into all this bead thing and he mentioned it in their chat that he told his sister to do a customized one. The bead has my bros name on it.
All of the nude she shared has that waist bead on it.
In their chats, they talked about private videos all the time, but I noticed those videos have been deleted. I saw other videos of when they went to the beach together, restaurant, in my uncles compound e t.c
I know my guy does not like waist bead on women . Femi hates it so much. From their chat, my uncle only sent her money 3times from 2020-2024(20,000 , 10,000) I don't know the third amount.I wasn't really comfortable reading their chats because it was too erotic and the people we are talking about here are two people that shouldn't be. Big bros told me how he has tested this girl many times and ed. From their chats, this girl is madly in love with bros or maybe she's pretending well, but the thing is why is she pretending?
Not like she's using bros to cash out. I also discovered that they've had sex countless times, my bros has even visited her in IB and they've traveled to many places together.
As a matter of fact, she's been trying to visit bros. But because he's observing some praying and fasting moments doesn't want her to come for now.
Femi my guy is by far more handsome, taller, well built , more romantic than my bros. He's a programmer, and he is doin well for himself. His mum is a practicing nurse in the US and his elder brother started work 3 years ago in the US too.
My Bros is also doing well but not Handsome lemme not lie. This same girl 's mother knows my bros o. I told you he has been to her place like many times. And they even speak over the phone
Femi is crazy about this girl , My bros is also crazy about this girl.
The girl cannot marry the two of them, if she ended up with Femi. It's going to break my bros.
If she ended up with my bros it's going to break Femi.
I've been thinking about it guys. Please what should I do? I cannot mind my business o and I can't stay one place because this my bros knows Femi well, they are very close too.
Dear Nairalanders, please what should I do?
Detective are you this jobless? Instead of you to focus your life you dey WhatsApp chat when no concern you....lol. get yourself busy abeg.
shortgun:
Girls now design and distribute flyers for
hook up all thanks to the abysmal handling of the economy of the country by Tinubu.
Young girls have now resorted to prostitution and selling their bodies without shame, decency or any sense of morality.
Tinubu is the worst thing to ever happen to this country, we've never had it this bad as a nation.