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Not excusing her father, but the story no complete….what did she do to warrant her father doing all that to her?

Your father can’t lock you out for an extended period of time if you had not done anything wrong, especially a father who acknowledged his excesses and apologized.

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

Lies!

The other day, you cooked up a story that, your mother-Inlaw and sister-Inlaw are stay with you, today it is your brother-Inlaw coming to seduce you, I guess in their presence or you want to garnish the story further by saying they have left?

By the way when did you get married, just two weeks ago, your boyfriend said he want to move-in with you.,,🙄

Born2Freak:
As I am writing this, my friend's sister is considering divorce just after 5 months of marriage. She recently learnt that her husband is a serial debtor- a specialist in borrow-posing (borrowing things and acting as if you own them).

The husband in question is from a rich family but he spends money recklessly and borrows recklessly. His family was covering up for him and she thought that the man is responsible.

The point is that the woman (my friend's sister) was fooled by her husband's rich family and big house in Lekki. The family has a house in Lekki while the man rents in Ibeju Lekki.

But can we only blame the man? If my friend's sister was wise enough to do investigation into the man she was marrying, she would not have married him. She saw a rich family and didnt ask questions. The man does not really have a job. He just helps to manage the family's properties. The man also parties like a wild animal. But because he spends on her, she believed that he was a "big boy"

Now, the reality has set- loan apps and police have come looking for the husband at their apartment. The wife is getting different threatening phone calls and the husband quickly ran to the village to chill.

Please, for any woman that is going to get married, please do your proper investigation.
-Is your husband to be financially responsible (does he have a steady job or business?)
-Does your husband to be flirt with other girls or have cheating spirit?
-Is he a wife beater?
-Is he respected in his own family?

Open your eyes. Ask questions and be careful. Marriage is not a joke. My friend's sister is depressed today because she was carried away by greed and didnt look into her husband.

You forgot to include that, your friend is greedy and also a gold digger.

She clearly know or had the means to know that her intending husband have no meaningful job before saying I do.

She instead ignored all the red flags 🚩 and went all in, they are match in heaven, who will now marry the husband if she succeeds in divorcing him, please ask her to stay put, she can’t run away now that all the glamors are gone!

BoldBrainz:
Shonubi has been talking nonsense for about a week now!!

To the best of my knowledge, there is no medium of remittance from the Diaspora that is outside the various operating windows run by banks and financial institutions.

There's no way you can lay hands on dollars sent to you from a sibling abroad, if you don't walk into a banking hall. All the flutterwave, Remitta, etc.., run transactions across borders, yes. But they basically deal with numbers, where you stand to receive alerts into your Nigerian s or domiciliary s, as the case may be. But there is no channel that hands over paper currency to an individual as proceeds from diaspora remittance, if not banks and other money houses.

So what's this load of garbage this clown is vomitting?!

Like he stated, they are capturing those into the system, I think he is talking about thousands of diasporas who travel into the country every week for one reason or the other with their foreign currency in their pocket.

He wants those monies to also be captured in the system. But he is more clueless than I thought if he expect these people to take their eg dollars to a bank and get N450 in exchange instead of to the black market where they will get almost twice as much!

So he want diaspora visiting the country or who send money back home to their families to take their dollars and foreign currencies to the bank and get N450 on each dollar instead of the street and get N950? Approximately 100% instant lost in value!

If na him money he go fit do am? Nonsense and clueless people! Can that same Nigeria walk into that same bank, give them N450 and get $1 back?

Make liquidity available to everyone at the bank and no one would go to the black market, it will die a natural death!

ivolt:
Coward brainless thugs in uniform.
Kill him and throw the country into civil war.

They are just bluffing, why kill the only bargaining chip they have on their arms?

Ofunaofu:
One of the most foolish decision ever made by this calamitous Tinubu government is the exchange rate unification nonsense


Instead of putting measures in place to drag the parallel market exchange rate down from 750/dollar to meet the official exchange rate of 460/dollar, the government move the official exchange rate up to meet the parallel exchange rate masking it as exchange rate unification.


After he must have removed subsidy from petrol without any single local refining capacity


How did we get here as a Nation

Chief Economist,

What should they have done differently to drag the black market rate to be at par with the official rate?

The true and accurate Naira rate is the black market rate, that is the rate determined by the forces of supply and demand.

The so-called ‘official rate’ was an artificial one prop-up by Government subsidy to enrich a few persons at the top who get cheap money from government and go sell it.

Nigeria problem is endemic and cannot be solved overnight, we gotten into this over many decades and even if you start getting it, it will take years if not decades to dig ourselves out.

The first and foremost thing is to totally rid out corruption, introduce public firing squad and zero tolerance on corruption especially on public officials.

The trial should just be three months, if you can’t give of your stewardship, it should be firing squad straight.

After establishing that, we should then start looking at good policies.

Lonestar124:
When God want bless a marriage, it make the onlookers to see it as it will not work out.

But trust me, the marriage will make up a lasting happy couple and family....you will not understand..only me!!

U no dey fear God?

Where and when did God say that? Chapter and verse please?

Una go just dey open mouth dey lie for God head by ing your personal opinions as if it is what God said, stop using His in vain, there are severe and irreversible consequences!

cococandy:


It’s the way y’all pick and choose which part of the Bible the Bible is applicable for me

If the man is impotent or not virile, can she cheat too? As long as she respects him?

You didn’t answer my direct question though, is it because the answer will betray your current position on this issue?

If your blood brother is married to a lady and that marriage has produced zero children, what would you do?

I very well know you will be in the forefront of those making his life unbearable until you get a new wife or get a side-chick pregnant!

cococandy:
Pretty sure you guys believe in “for better or worse” but only where the woman is concerned though.

Following this logic any wife is justified to step out on her husband if she’s not getting what she expected from him when they got married even though it’s no fault of his?

My sister calm down Jesus, married women have been stepping out since infinity, it is nothing new!

I am 100% that, if this man is your brother, you will be the one to introduce the new wife to him sharp sharp.

Let’s not pretend that, we don’t understand our culture and traditions and the pressure that man must have been under.

Plus, he housed and keep his first wife and never neglected her on of her barrenness.

Nigeria women, una no dey copy better thing from Bible self….Sarah was in a similar situation and he profound a wonderful solution.

Nigeria ladies, God forbid if your marriage is barren be the Sarah in that family, go out and look for a young and delicate young maid for him, that can bear children through her for you, he will worship for eternity.

IconicR:
Second paragraph is where most women get it wrong , how can you not interfere in your husband's dealings? Why then did you marry him if you don't want to interfare in all his dealings. Men are very cunning and manipulative, they will always come up with lines that will give them space for cheating e.g don't pick his calls, don't check his phones, don't question his movements and all that. A relative of mine was doing her traditional wedding and all those elders (men) were busy giving advise that'll enable the man to cheat, each time they give the advise I'll giggle with a bombastic side eyes till my mom stylishly summoned me and took me inside my aunt's room 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Checking his phone would prevent nothing, more so for a 15 years old marriage with no kids, it is a handful Nigeria men that would stay and she must have seen the red flags but wished off.

Dexy4yah:
I dated this lady for few years... doing our courtship we had unprotected sex.
I later relocated to another state because of my studies....that's how the relationship died.

She later got married

After about 13years of not hearing from eachother....one day my phone rang and behold she was the one...she called to tell me a secret...she said her first child is mine and not her husband's.
That doing our courtship she took in, she tried to abort it but it didn't work out for her, she didn't tell me about it because she knew that i was not ready to father a child at that time.

It was at that moment that she met this guy who is now her husband...the guy hasten everything and got married to her...she made him believe that the pregnancy is his own whereas that's was not the true...the boy is 8years old now.
She said her conscience has been disturbing her that's why she opened up to me.

I told her never to let the husband know about it and let the child be the husband's own....let her just forget everything about me being the father of the child so that her marriage won't crumble.
She has a loving husband and she is blessed with three kids aside the boy.


But she made one comment that when the boy reach 22years she will tell him who his real father is....she insisted. But am against it, i told her not to try it because if she end up telling the boy about it there is every possibility that the husband will end up knowing about it and i wonder how he is going to react towards it.

(Women can keep secret sha)
Please i hope i did the right thing??

Cook n bull fairytale by moonlight!

You dated this lady, had unprotected sex with her during your courtship and you left and didn’t hear from each other.

13 years after she called you to tell you a secret that, that unprotected sex you guys had about 13 years ago resulted in a boy…..and the boy is now 8 years old.

I guess she carried the pregnancy for four years? You can’t even lie!

Suicide by cops, plain and simple and he had it coming!

MrPRevailer:
Anyone who thinks Biden is a good president is a victim of FAKE News Media a.k.a Mainsteam Media. And you probably also thought Trump was a bad president. When he was infact the best President America's ever heard and fought to drain the "SWAMP creatures."

Biden is the worst President in U.S.A history. Under him, the U.S.A has quickly accumulated $41 trillion in debt.
A chief advocate of LGBTQ, including Pedophilia. Open borders, increased taxation, dispossesion of private gun ownership, and persecution of conservative Americans.

Unlock your eyes here:
https://twitter.com/realtpv


I've known the MSM a long time to suspect this is most likely twisted. In the coming days, we could find the real truth/motive from the independent journalist media.

You can now go and take your meds.

kaludestiny10:
Okay, that amount is insignificant to him. So paying the fine shouldn't be an issue to him. The main issue here is, will the US government be able to extract whatever information they need from his platform?

Yes they will and yes they have already gotten what they need through clandestine and other under handed ways before making the former request, in fact that is why they know what to ask for specifically.

The only issue they had is that of issibility in a court of law, hence they are not coming through the front door to ‘officially’ ask.

Most of the things Jesus didn't right weren't recorded. Only those with controversy made it mostly

If tithing was very important and critically essential for the kingdom Jesus would have done, so he leave an example for his disciples to follow.

They would also had been recorded in the Bible. Jesus did and demonstrated every single thing needed for us to emulate today that would secure our salvation but he never once tithed.

I think it is very safe to say, that if one emulate Jesus examples, the person would make it to heaven, don’t you think?

micellgevity:
A friend came to me yesterday, he wanted to sell his house to relocate to Canada. He is 42+ yrs. He is assured of a tourist visa that will cost him 1.8m excluding ticket.

He wants to know if it is worth it considering his age. Also he is afraid that if he sells his house in Ilorin (a new site) and the things go south what will happen.

Another thing he is assured is that his visa can be extended before expiration. He wants to know whether he can truly work with a tourist visa of 5 yrs and whether his visa can be extended.

Your inputs will be appreciated.

Thanks.

He is assured is that his visa can be extended before expiration……and he is asking whether his visa can be extended? What is confusion.

FYI: there is nothing like assures anywhere, you can’t work with a tourist visa.

here to read comments from the Defensive Female Camp (DFC).

Call him back and tell him that, you have equally quit your job and you are now a Petrol Station fuel attendant on the advice of a very good friend that it is more lucrative!

That since two days now, you guys have only sold petrol to three customers.

The problem with not forgiving is that, it affects you more and gradually kills you from inside or cause you to do something you will forever regret against your target.

Forgiveness is a medicine, it will heal you from all those hurts you ed through. It will bring you inner peace, it will unchain you so you can move forward, it declog your mental mind, emotions and drop those things that are weighing you down….take this medicine and see how you will start to heal.

I said forgive and not forget. That stage is your life is a teaching period, it was learning period. You should never forget the life lessons, use those knowledge to guide your today and everyday life, use them to navigate your family life and how you bring up your children, them and put them to work for you.

It’s too late, go and start buying diapers.

Kakamorufu:
she's still thick. but looks prettier now

All na packaging na him I dey see.

If you know the kind of packaging she did in that second picture, you will be surprised!

Packaging aside, there is little to no difference between the before and now.

chatinent:


Big shoe makers wear the best quality.

The quality of iPhone screens are far better than those of Samsung, they must not be using the best quality.

chatinent:
And you'd be surprised that Samsung makes some real quality spare parts for Apple...including iPhone OLED screens! So the comparison with Apple phone is actually wrong. Samsung is better.


See here to correct it: https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://www.androidauthority.com/how-to-fix-green-line-issue-on-phone-screen-3342058/%23:~:text%3DRestart%2520your%2520phone%2520to%2520rule,trip%2520to%2520the%2520service%2520center.&ved=2ahUKEwia6ovL9cGAAxVKQkEAHTZ3CjQQFnoECBoQBQ&usg=AOvVaw2q8oh-aPqRu6VhQnl1hJ3W

The fact that Samsung makes quality screens for Apple for a fee does not mean that, they use those same quality high end screens on their phones.

A shoemaker does not necessarily wear the most expensive shoe they make, in many cases it is too expensive for them and they cannot afford it.

Puss360:
Tell me Dat rubbish, then I'll walk away...

You don't have money and you want to date...
If it's only men that brings things to the table, then you as a man , marry another man so you both will bring things to the table....

Ndi ara....

Every purposeful and sensible men sensed your worth before approaching you, hence they left every other girls around and started to chase you.

If they approached you for sex or one night stand, that is their assessed value of what you can bring to the table.

For a guy to start getting serious with you to the point of wanting to wife you, they would have known your value and what you brings to the table.

However, for a man to ask you…” What do you bring to the table?” They have already checked out, that is a rhetorical question because they already know the answer and in their mind, the answer is ‘nothing or very insignificant’.

A man asking a lady ‘what do you bring to the table’ is a polite way of saying “You worth nothing to me, I don’t see you adding value to me and my future and I don’t want to be with you again”

Honeybadgerxx:



Exactly what I'm thinking. But this girl swore with her life that she hasn't even kissed a guy before not to talk of sex, I guess she masturbates.

Now bro, what do you think, let's assume she hasn't been penetrated by anyone before and she lost her virginity to masturbation, should one go on with the wedding plans with such lady? Since the whole reason behind this virginity stuffs is to avoid fornication. I really don't care about her masturbating provided she will stop it after getting married, my problem is her having sex with someone else. Should I go on and marry her, I really love her and she loves me more than I do to her, she's respectful, she's beautiful, she's educated and sensible at least for a lady.

And I also want to know if masturbation is same thing with fornication?

Masturbation is the same thing as fornication because you can’t masturbate without lust and a guy some either in real world or in a video on your phone is the target of that lust and the Bible say he that lust after another have committed fornication.

So if your whole goal is to remain pious and reap some blessings from God, that is not going to happen plus the risk outweighs the benefit.

Do not underestimate the importance of sex in marriage, both of you have to be compatible. If she is masturbating now, she will masturbate when you guys get married. You would not be able to satisfy her as her masturbator plus she is now familiar with masturbation which will be a fall back place for her.

Do not go into marriage with blinders on, you were suppose to put the blinders on after the marriage but not before.

For starters both of should go and run many medical tests, eg STD, Genotype, fertility and someone mentioned virginity.

Many have taken this ‘no sex until marriage’ highway in the past and are regretting it today, don’t be a statistics, this is your life, be serious about it and don’t walk into it with blinders on.

Crime pays after all, that is what this judgment is portraying here.

She sold the video defaming her for N200k and she after conviction, she was given the option to pay N150k, she essentially made a profit of N50k, which represents 25% gain on investment, not a bad investment at the end of the day.

Kobojunkie:
By suing this woman in this way, May has revealed that there is no legality to the supposed marriage between Yul and the Judy. That is what this announcement has served to reveal to the social media[b] world. Yul is not a polygamist but an adulterer by law. Judy is just a sidechick and a baby mama for Yul. . That is what the revelation from this law suit to all Nigerians out there is.

I corrected my earlier post, I met to have said, May can’t sue Yul for Adultery, adultery is not a crime in Nigeria.

She can only sue him for divorce with a cause, citing adultery.

She does not really need to sue him to reveal that Yul and May are not married, since their marriage is statutory, it means Yul is not legally married.

Even if they were married under customary law, May still had to ask for a divorce for her to be able to marry.

Beremx:
May Edochie wants a divorce and he has refused to give her.
100million naira is too small for the emotional pain he has put her through.

Nice one May Edochie.

She can’t sue him for committing adultery and that is not what this lawsuit is about.

He is suing for divorce and the cause she is pleading is adultery.

She is suing Judy for damages, having been the person who caused the breakdown of her marriage. If Judy can prove that, the marriage was already shacky, she walks without paying a dime.

harsysky:

That Helicopter go don reach 30 yrs before dem buy am. Though air transportation is the most dangerous form of transportation cos e dey hardly produce survivors.

Air transportation is the most safest form of transportation period!

Audio buses!