NewStats: 3,263,812 , 8,181,481 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 June 2025 at 03:31 AM 5bb6a

Prettygirl200:
You can't force polygamy on her, yes polygamy isn't a crime in Africa according to senseless men like you, but that still doesn't change the fact that everybody has what he or she wants, before u marry a woman it's good to let her know that u are a kind of man that likes having more than one woman, they are lots of women out there who are cool with it, not after marriage u then wake up one morning to change the whole thing, she's against polygamy same is yul's family, thank God her kids are grown at least her first child in her 20s that makes the whole burden lesser. She's backing off because she doesn't want to be counted, so if it will give her peace of mind let her leave, after all she has given birth to all her kids and they are grown,

she should quietly leave the marriage and leave us out her drama . you don’t need to say much, a manipulative person is not hard to notice .

Prettygirl200:
Do you know you don't have sense? Let me ask you, since this issue came out have you heard May's voice? Have you seen or heard her coming to social medias to talk and rant like a mad dog just as the husband and the second hand wife is doing? The woman has been silent even in the midst of all these contraversies, she lost her son cried in silence, and remained strong, it's very obvious that the immature person here is yul, he's a boy in a mans body. I must commend May for her silence she has proved her ex husband is a mighty fool that's controlled by a second hand ladys pussy that jumped from her marriage to destroy someone else's one.

You’re the only person with no functioning brain dear

no manual to picking the right person o, na church virgin don do israeldwm like this.

obonujoker:


Did May ever insult Yul?? It's Yul that brought it upon himself.... Don't worry, that bottle will soon break.

As for the name, it won't be dropped... It's her business name, and also for the children in future

She’s not serious

obonujoker:


Hell hath no fury as a woman scorned

but if he does back , he’s the bad one? lol

As the father of my children i will not be happy people insulting him all over social media. so i don’t understand the delight she sees in it

lordnkem000:

Thanks dear for speaking the truth, it's not about gender here. She may not be attacking him directly, but she calculates her every move and always carjole her misguided fans to bully him because she doesn't want him to feel happy. That home was truly not a happy place and he had to seek happiness from another woman, why don't she do same in peace. Quit this bullying

Honestly .

PoliteActivist:


*Politeness*
You said you'd know exactly why your husband, now living with a another woman, would say the year you lost your beloved son died was the happiest year of his life. That "exactly why" is what we're waiting to hear

i can’t be repeating myself again and again ma. i don’t agree with you.

Zaheertyler:

If the leaves the marriage of the second wife no go sweet again lol

abi o!! the hate self will make them stay together to prove them wrong.

Qatar2022:

Stop believing what you hear on social media, were you there When he was beating her? Women uses every possible means to bring down a man

oga relax for her son to affirm it he definitely did it. wife beaters are everywhere.you don’t expect a couple to keep cameras in their houses to post on social media to make y’all belive. he’s not even confident enough to deny it.

lordnkem000:

He had a right to announce anything that suits him please. Not everyone chose to dwell on their loss, some only focus on their gains, my gf is an example. So maybe he didn't want to dwell on his loss, so she had to say the opposite knowing her fans will attack yul for that. That lady is toxic and it's clear. I like her alot, so I'll advice she leaves the marriage completely if she's not okay with polygamy

that exactly what she did, she enjoys social media bullying him , she doesn’t want him ever to feel happiness, that’s enough to tell me , that home was not a happy one.

PoliteActivist:

*Politeness*
A fellow lady. So u ought know better!
Please regale us. God forbid, your favorite child just died, your husband just moved in with a second wife. Then, without prompting, he came out to announce to the world he just had the happiest year of his life. Regale us: why EXACTLY would he be saying that?

and you assume he’s saying that because his son died? are there not other things he’s doing with his life? if may hates him so much , she should return the bride price, he’s married to a new wife , it’s not new news in africa. if she’s so frustrated by the whole situation, she should leave the man

PoliteActivist:


*Politeness*
What has what we are discussing have to do with being together or being happy or two kids?? We are talking of what he SAID and the fact it could only have been heartlessly directed at one person!
If, God forbid, someone very dear to you dies, and your wife (without any prompting whatsoever) comes out to announce she just had the happiest year of her life, is she human??

i’m a lady. and i and my husband are still together, i’ll know exactly why he’s saying that .

etrange:


The kind of nonsense these boys on Nairaland all in the name is gender solidarity is just mind blowing.

it’s not gender solidarity but common sense, y’all are the ones ing wrong for gender solidarity

PoliteActivist:


*Politeness*
What would you have said if, after Ifeanyi died, Davido (now with another woman) came out to announce that was the happiest year of his life? Won't you say there is something INHUMAN about such a person? There are things you just don't do. He could have kept quiet. He could have said he made most money. But happy? It can only be directed at one person and it demonstrates total HEARTLESSNESS!!

Social media people so if he decides to date someone else it a problem ? because of chioma. judy and yul were already together before the boy’s death, they have two kids already, so he shouldn’t be happy forever till may allows him to be happy. nonsense talk.

ednut1:
a year he lost his son, the idiot came out to say its his best year. Like WTF, na May type that one

read through i can’t retype for every one

PoliteActivist:

*Politeness*
There is NO PAIN in the world that approximates the pain of a mother losing a loved child. She'll rather die herself ten times. It takes a truly HEARTLESS husband to have hatred enough to stoke that!

shoke what? is he saying he is happy he died?

they should return bride price and divorce in peace. he’s talking about his own life not his, and it’s social media. you expect him to be crying all the days of his life to make her happy. that’s the victim nonsense that’s becoming annoying

PoliteActivist:


*Politeness*
A star child for that matter. The only reason for that statement has to be to stick it to the mother.
How HEARTLESS can a person be!

so he should be saying negative things about himself to make her happy? what kind of enemy of darkness be that

Kobojunkie:
So she has no right to speak out about her own year and what? Some of you no get better for your lives to do at all.

na you no get anything to do for your life to even be here complaining say people no get weyti to do for life . nobody force you here.

may knows exactly what she’s doing

vislabraye:


Men are allowed to speak. I totally agree with you. Did you listen to Emeka Ike's trouble with his wife ?
He got the sympathy of the public. In fact, many eyewitnesses spoke on his behalf. Truth is that Emeka Ike's was hardly at fault. He was a responsible man who loved and took good care of his family.
Can you compare that to Yul ? WHich reasonable person would come out to say 2023 was his best year after losing a child ? You have to be sensitive. What would his other children think about him ?

are you comparing emeka ike to yul? i’ll pick yul any day anytime over a wife beater.. how foolish can one be to think people are expected to put their problems on social media to know their pain. i see it as him being grateful for what he has achieved and not making people concentrate on his shortcomings. there is nothing he said that was bad.

Asawoboy:

as far intimacy gadget and blue firm dey i’m good without sex

vislabraye:


But May is not the one who comes to Social Media everyday to talk about his family. Yul would troll his wife and his fans.
He would make controversial statements here and there. Btw, You and May, who has been talking more ?
Yul isn't acting like a man.

men should be allowed to speak out , and not stigmatize for it. all he said that 2023 was his best year for reasons best known to him and social media started, and may came with her own that 2023 was her worst year, they started insulting yul. let her disassociate so what ever they say isn’t connected to each other. weyti!!

Jogs1900:
She should be the first wife in peace than looking for another man to marry her. They will just deceive her. She's the officially recognized wife already.

i don’t know what she’s gaining from all these drama. they are officially separated. she’s still using his name, staying his house, while he’s living in a rented apartment with judy. what joy does she derive from people insulting the man continuously for her sake. for marriage that has happened plus the fact judy has two kids already. i’m seeing her like a drama queen at this point

i feel may is using the fact she’s a female to manipulate the public to keep insulting yul edochie and i understand why he’s getting annoyed by it. leave the marriage and move on with your life, or be a first wife and let’s hear word, Enough!! last year was your worse year but you have been galavanting and having endorsements no remorse in your actions but want to be the one keep playing victim. May is not the first to be in a polygamous marriage, or leave a marriage she doesn’t like.

Let see where she’ll meet a single man with no woman in his life, with her four kids.

Madam move on with your life

tesppidd:
Maybe his conscience is not letting him honour the agreements anymore he made with Wike.

So he's not comfortable with anything like settlement under the past conditions he made with Wike.


Common we are not fools, for Wike to have chosen an unknown Fubara to succeed him, we should know that the conditions would be outrageous..

What we already have in public domain is that already 17 out of 19 commissioners were chosen by Wike, Chief of Staff, CSO, all Assembly chosen by Wike, Rivers state jet still used by Wike,


Habaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!

Which kain level of godfather be this one??

dude is obcessed with power jeezzzz

Liliantalks:
i really do not like living, i legit feel like i’m living because i know i have people that love me or would feel bad if i die, not because i really want to be here, i see no benefits of being alive, i know people call it depression , but what are the benefits of being of living?

??

No one’s helping

LADIES FEAR MEN

Nonexisting1:
If you are broke and depressed, I can understand but if you have the essential needs of life and depressed, you need to see a psychiatrist.

many poor people are happier than rich people o, you’re yet to answer the question