NewStats: 3,263,944 , 8,181,994 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 June 2025 at 09:47 PM 6850

Hello Romancelanders,

I'm a boy in my early 20s, I actually need mature comments and opinions about my current situation and how to get out of it. The major issue is I've actually gone through a lot while growing up to my present stage. It started with the fact that I was a timid boy while I was very young. I battled low esteem for the better part of my primary school due to the fact that I actually thought I wasn't good looking and all sort. Maybe it was because of the environment I grew up and I left my village to attend secondary school in a city, so I was very intimidated and I saw myself as out of place among peers and this really affected me psychologically and my esteem detoriated drastically.

I actually transfered all my strength to being a nerd and came out with flying colors but I missed out on somethin; Socializing with people. This trend continued till I gained ission into a University.

Though I have actually conquered my low-esteem and in fact I'm now a good public speaker and held several leadership posts during my four years on campus here. The problem I have is I have never really had a successful relationship with girls (dating ), though I have some few female friends but close girls have come to see me as a "very responsible young man" (Don't know if that's an automatic turn off). I have been able to ask girls out easily online but I'm not cool with that, will like to meet with someone in the real world here and fall in love conventionally. Most of the relationships I have have never being perfect, it is either I don't like the girls or they don't like me....it just doesn't add up. I have not being choosy (permit me to use that ) though I have a thing for intelligent girls.

So mature peeps on here should come to my aid, I really need opinions on how to get around this.

NB: THE major reason why I'm worried is because I'm almost through with my degree programme and I have a paying Part time job, I believe it will best if I can meet my other half while I'm here because when I'm all made it might be difficult to find someone who's going to be true to me, plus all my friends are in serious relationships and it is always embarrassing anytime we go out with only me coming alone.

Thanks in advance.

The truth is you still care about her, if not you won't even notice her ... You cab give it a chance ..Good things don't come easy.

decatalyst:
Be living in abject poverty and continue to claim oba

Hunger never visit you, nah you go first auction the crown sef


Accept Christ as your Lord and savior and experience true freedom!

What does accepting Christ has to do with this...the way you hypocritical Christians even address issues sef can be irritating.

braimeddy:
Na wa 4 u op. So because d original poster made some blunders in his English, u kuku follow am dey copy words for words. You don't know you will edit ur writeup right? Plagiarism Don really spoil una and I doubt if u even took d time to read the content before pasting it here. Weldonsir

Nah oversabi dy kill person..... What has the op plagiarized? Obviously you don't know the meaning of quoting someone. He made it clear that he is quoting the original poster, this is not a write up sir... ITK.

darfay:
What is the benefit of this yeye show to humanity
Only in Nigeria
Scholarship and debate 200k
Project fame. 3m
Pagent. 5m
Bbn(soft porn) 25m
Which would you rather do? I weep for naija's future

I don't know whether it is through sheer ignorance or otherwise that Nigerians criticize show like this because of the perceived outrageous prizes. This is strictly business and it will be the same anywhere in the world. The number of views the BBN gets per day is something a National debate will never get. Besides it is not a government thing, tell your government officials to invest.
How many Nigerians complaining even follow important programmes on TV? rather Nigerians will sit with DSTV stations all day.

I'm not a fan of BBN and I don't watch it but I'm surprised at the publicity they still enjoy despite millions of Nigerians criticizing daily, One can't but wondered whether the viewers are ghosts.

mikkypel:


Chai... See spoil wey u type... So as e sign deal 4 dubai.. U think say na dubai e go dey sing... Dat shayo video was sponsored by the same record label... So cuz YBNL dropped him, he shouldn't pursue his career abi

The way you used the word "drop" is mischievous. Olamide didn't drop him ,his contract expired and he moved on. The guy has been all praises for Olamide, the way una go shook mouth for matter sef fit cause wahala. Naso una nearly use mouth scatter psquare.

The funniest thing is all these guys on naira land shouting money,money don't have it. Y'all be sounding as if all girls are whores, money will not buy love, it will only make you a gullible ATM. Please don't quote me if you have never had or still have some little "change" in your life. Guys who have money will agree it is very difficult to find true love when you have money among low lifes.

Nick4life:
I jst dy watch all this fyn girls oo. Them jst dy busy they sleep with all this sugar daddy's. Hope say them go marry una.! Jst notice since una done resort to old men becos of money. We dy go village go marry the once wey no follow sugar daddy's o. Them go chop una finish come leave una leta una go they expect us to marry una, God forbid!. Slay gueen /bae, instagram escorts we dy watch una o! #GlamourBoy

Bros no guck am, them Don even sly all village girls ....red dy guys eyes everywhere.

NNVanguard:
Not really funny at all. A repeat of 1984 scary woes.

Enough ing PDP or APC party of old men and recycled political cronies.

The New Nigeria Vanguard!

While many of us are sitting down by our keyboards complaining, other young, intelligent and resourceful Nigerians have begun taking steps.

We have no affiliations or sponsors.
We are young Nigerians who will defy the anomaly.
Do not be left out

How do I ?

Anybody who attended a Public University in Nigeria and is denying this is just just being delusional. The conducive environment at CU is enough to put them ahead in all aspect. Come to my school , we have some department where more than 300 students receive lectures in a 150 capacity lecture theatre.

The only thing this federal universities lives on is past glories especially OAU, can't forget my experience the day we went for a competition there. Their life is so rough that I kept wondering how people survived in that kind of place like slums ( hostels). I know dome people will quote me with the " it prepares you for the future shit" No it doesn't, we are just used to suffering in thus country. Visit any of this top Private Universities then you will know most of us in Public universities are suffering .

APCHaram:


The beast was gored and already down and wounded until they gave additional breathe to it.

By their actions in 2015 they took us back 40yrs and gave the northern beast more arrogance and audacity.

Ask them why they ed buhari and the north today and they can't give you a valid reason

Your comment reeks of ethnic bigotry against the southwest, in 2011 when South west voted heavily for Goodluck Jonathan they were not the problem of the south? out of 6 states, he won 5 with wide margins. Most of us here voted during the last election with a plain mind that this country needed a change in government. it is saddening to see people defending Jonathan'a government that almost brought this country to its kneels with embezzlement perhaps because your kinsmen were the pillars of his government. History will repeat itself come 2019, the same faults and shortcomings of the last istration are evidently being displayed by this present government. Mark my words and If Buhari doesn't loose heavily in Southwest.

Nigeria presently have two set of people constituting problems
1. Those who are still of the mistaken belief that GEJ government meant well for the country (ethnicity is a major factor here)
2 Those singing praises to the present government in face of glaring failures ( ethnicity and religious sentiments) .

Please anybody with details of how I can get artificial tanks for rearing catfish should please tell me how I can get them and if possible the prices or pictures.

Thanks in advance for the positive responses

iluvpomo:
Will indiscriminate killing of snakes end when the recession is over??

Be forming animal activist o

Left to me you just finding fault where there's none.

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