NewStats: 3,262,917 , 8,178,515 topics. Date: Wednesday, 04 June 2025 at 04:28 AM 2p6j18

TooMuchStuff:
Lack of respect for Senate President is the cause of all these wahala on top Natasha.

In your next life...respect old men in power...

Pride Goeth Before a Fall...

Wisdom is far from you.

Rocktation:
My mum used to reduce me to tears whenever she called me away from my 96.9. And whenever i was at school, i listened on line. I've been listening to Dees since 99 & can still tell all the end-of-the-year number ones from 2k1 until date. I'm a big time rockbuff now and this countdown's to blame.

Please there is a song I'm trying to from that era 1999-2000 and I don't know who sang it, it was only on 96.9 and it had a Spanish mixed with English chorus. Sounded like "una amigo si mia envocada... Swinlis morakus, We speak the language to you.... Swinlis morakus play.😂😂😂

Pardon my horrible ears but that was what I thought I heard. I will be glad if anyone knows the rapper or group that sang the song.

How far with this 30k mirage? APC and gimmicks

Stop lying to yourself. Nigeria can never be worse than it is currently.

Remove it. It doesn't add anything to you or your beauty.

completey:

Pics? Good battery? Which Model?

No. Battery was faulty from the start. It's the pixel 1. It feels like the battery totally collapsed and I haven't changed it or attempted to change the battery since it went bad in February. But now that you have mentioned this, I will see if I can find the battery in Abuja to fix the phone.

Dead Google Pixel, smashed screen, in Abuja.

Does it still have some Babanbola value?

Kobojunkie:
This is terrible advice!

Meeting people does not solve problems particularly of the mental kind. When a person's mind breaks, it is because of inner turmoil. No outsider that is not a professional can help in that kind or situation.

Why do you think only a professional can solve a problem that requires common sense?

Don't keep to yourself.

One, you are young. You should be full of life.

Why are you hiding from the world ?

No matter how bad your situation is, part of the solution lies in meeting people, talking to new people, and being active.

Stop sleeping and start creating something. Learn a language, learn a skill, learn a trade, just do something.

pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and .

Go back to the first pastor and speak to him. What exactly did he see, he should tell you. Arm yourself with that information and begin to pray or find a way to meet a real prophet who has divine authority to pray for you.

Tinubu lied about Econet. He did not bring Econet to Nigeria.

The Econet idea was ed by Delta State government among other investors and Lagos was not the initiator.

They didn't include the cars that he bought for masquerade carriers in this documentary?

Bobmarie:
Keep accepting things that make you uncomfortable in the name of friendship. You left the roommate that acts like she’s living in a school hostel and called the complainant crude? I think you should look up the meaning of the word.

What is so crude about wanting the next person to cover the Bleep up? These are sound like women not small kids in high school or university. What if she is overweight and has green varicose veins?


Smh.

A woman should be comfortable in her body or with other women's bodies.

It is called TOLERANCE. And it is advocated in the Bible.

The roommate is naked in the bedroom and not outside the room.

If she's pretty or deformed, that's not part of the conversation.

The point is, someone gave you the opportunity to share a room and split rents, shielding you from incessant rambling on social media & sleeping in open places like an orphan, and you get upset that the person is open and down to earth?

Really?

And then, bringing the issue to social media to rant about her choice to sleep nude?

But only doing so, after she tried to imitate the person but she couldn't keep up because it isn't her nature, yet she wants to vilify the nudist.

If this isn't clout chasing then it's the beginning of a mild form of schizophrenia, hence my reference to a crude mind.

And you, taking her side and spewing all sorts of stuff without considering the context... I have no words to describe you, that you haven't already heard from people around you.

Sion47:





They are room mates and not spouses,
Ur comment show ur degree of ignorance and irrationality.

If what u like doing puts ur roommate in discomfort, why not have a rethink and condition .

If the Op is a smoker and her nudist roommate detests smoking, will they cohabit without complain.?

If the Op is someone from Christian family, perhaps one giving to prayer and fasting often, won't her roommate's habitual nudity be stumbling block to her prayer life yet folks like you is talking down on her for speaking up against a weird habit.
Shame on you

You can't compare smoking and nudity. So, coming from a Christian family is equal to being a judge or bigot?

Your room mate's nudity can NEVER interfere with your prayerlife, except you are a same-sex advocate.

I'm married. I pray at midnight, my wife's nudity does not cause issues, so rest.

jimyjames:

As a guy I won't want to see another man walking around naked all the time, not even my brothers

That's you. Other people don't mind because the person is a nudist and not a sexual predator.

I grew up with senior men and they didn't act like sissies neither did they make jokes about things like this.

This is ridiculous.

It shows you have a crude mindset. You are both female and she chooses to be naked, that is her choice and if you don't want to see her naked, close your eyes.

As long she is not making advances towards you, learn to tolerate her. If you keep acting like a judge, you will have no friends or acquaintances.

Rickmann:


Its legal that you all be given a 6month grace to at least get yourselves a new place.. But come Oh!..renovating a whole building because of soak away? Which kine shit una dey shit there biko

Perhaps they clog the septic tank with sanitary pads and plastics which obstruct the age of effluent.

My problem is the epidemic of women looking to sell their eggs from tomorrow after hearing this.

anonimi:


Can you please explain the connection of STDs with the procedure? Thanks.

If a person has health problems , especially STIs, they are not fit to donate eggs or spermatozoa.

Oluwatobike:
“I got pregnant nine years ago while dating my current husband and then the issue of marriage came up.

I wasn’t working then. He told my family and I that he doesn’t want a court marriage for no reason.

My parents tried talking to him, I cried and begged him severally to legalize his marriage with me but he stood his grounds not to wed me in a court.

I involved his family to help me beg him but they said, he’s old enough to make his decisions.

He even refused to do a white wedding either because my church requested for a court certificate, so we ended up doing only traditional marriage.

I later got tired and gave up on the matter. I was hurt and broken but I resolved to marry him like that just to save myself and my family the shame of having a baby outside wedlock.

My dad was angry and disappointed in him but he didn’t care and because of that my dad vowed to see me a successful and independent woman with or without him.

After I gave birth to my baby, my dad helped me secure a job with a
multinational company and things started to turn around for me.

I could now take care of myself and secure a future.

Though I married my husband but I never forgave him from my heart and it made me not to do anything in my husband’s name.

We currently have three kids together but all my properties are in the name of my children. I never used him as my next of kin either.

Just last month my company decided to transfer me to a branch in Texas and the company is willing to pay for my entire family to relocate with me.

My husband’s business is not doing too well and he’s willing to relocate also but we have no legal certificate to show that we are married.

Now he wants us to go to the court to legalize our marriage and I have said “No”

My dad has threatened to disown me if I ever go with him to court.

He’s been tagging me everywhere as a bad wife who is not loyal to her husband, spoiling my family also.

His family have been calling me trying to persuade me but I told them I’m old enough to make my decisions also and I have stood my ground just like he did to me nine years ago.”

What is your advice for this young mother of three?

When your church mind is ready, you will forgive him for God's sake.

However since your street mind is still in charge: Kala; Daju; Wu wa Ika, Ko gboju. And afterwards you will reap what you sow.

When did you start earning 97k?

Why don't you go to RenMoney to get a loan if you are truly interested in taking a loan?

What job are you doing? And are you sure you are supposed to be in Lagos?

I'm sincerely sorry about all you have gone through.

Please find a way to visit this church in Ikotun this Sunday.

Christ Apostolic World-end time Revival Ministry. ( Cawerm)
13 Alhaji lateef lasisi str Opp Diamond pure water, Hostel Bus stop ikotun egbe Lagos.

You need help.

This is a very common custom in the Niger-Delta.

I will advise you to negotiate with them to pay her bride price for peace sake.

Don't be the one who will start a war against himself by refusing to listen to advice.

You are not marrying her corpse, you are settling the traditional rights to keep your child.

If they are fetish people, you won't like to see the other side of their actions.

traffic scam

Dragon snake head is a sign of marine interference or activity.

2 moons merging could mean @ the end of 2 lunar months.

The 1st of April was the day of the New Moon and the beginning of the Hebrew New Year.

Something significant may just be about to start in a short while. Between the time you had the dream & the space of 2 months or 2 years.

Uprightness100:

Brother, The Decision of who to marry is in your hands. Irrespective of who gives u Direction, it's solely in your hands. Any true Pastor who tells you about a Partner, will also ask you to Pray about it for Confirmation.


Marriage Committe is a Department in the Church just like every other Department in the Church. They have their roles and Funxtion.



Sex outside Marriage is Fornication . It is Immorality and it is a Sin. Having Said that, the Product that comes from it is not responsible for the act, so he/she cannot be unwanted by GOD.

In response to your first answer, I will say the same Peter who confessed Jesus as the son of God cautioned Jesus, when Jesus said he was going to die. Jesus had to clear him by rebuking Satan and saying he does not know the work of God.

The key is hearing from God about difficult situations because the world is deeper and the Bible says "Man shall not Live by bread alone but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God".

Psalm 90 further states that "We live our lives like tales that are told... So teach us to number our days that we may apply our hearts to wisdom". The reason for quoting Psalm 90 is that every person has a story written by God.

If you don't the story for a particular person, and you apply a one size fits all solution, the consequences may be disastrous.

As for the 2nd question I asked, marriage committees and church disciplinary committees are often Pharisaic- in nature. Obsessed with dogma but lacking in the spirit of God.

Individual situations need individual solutions.

No child is unwanted because men were meant to populate the earth. Man is higher than the animals and that is why he is called to abstain from fornication. Fornicating reduces man to an animal like state and subjects him to manipulations but when the law of procreation is engaged, a new soul comes into the world with a story to fulfill irrespective of his/her Genesis.

I close my argument with Jeremiah 33:3; "Call unto me and I will show you great and mighty things which thou knowest not." This is the path of life. Asking the heavenly Father for revelation. Not all things are black & white.

Uprightness100:
My Dear, that is absolutely your concern.

My duty is put out GOD'S Word Unadulterated, showing you the Path to Life and Death.
Your Duty is to Choose the Path you wanna follow.
GOD'S duty is to put you where you belongs based on the Choice you made.

I want to ask you a totally unrelated question. If a person anointed as a pastor misleads a person, who bears the blame?

Secondly, there's a trend in Pentecostal churches where they have marriage committees, is this scriptural?

Third question, When an unwanted pregnancy comes into the world is the soul also regarded as unwanted by God?

Mbo07:





2017 I married a gay pastor who drugged me every night to have anal with me, I never knew untill I realised any night he served me dinner I slept like a dead tree, not up to a month after our marriage. I couldn't hold urine or feace, I was ashamed to tell the same person that left me in that condition. He would always tell me he was tired of having sex with me, but once he served me water or food I'm off.

When I wake up, my anus will be swollen and I felt pain, I felt something was wrong with Me, I was scared to confront him untill the day I was cleaning the house and I saw a pack of sleeping tablets. I text the name to a Facebook friend that works in the pharmacy and what she told me left my heart in my hands bleeding.


I confronted him, but he denied it, he wasn't ready to change. Days later I discovered he was doing this with the gardener's daughter, again I confronted him and he denied it, despite seeing pictures prof on his phone of him and the girl. I left a marriage not up to 3months.



I left because this things happening to me was never what I prayed to God for, and if your God will judge me because I left a sex, gay, predator who hide under the robe of a pastor, then That you God is not My God at all. Because my saviour Jesus Christ saved me from premature death

You never really got married though you went through the procedures.

You have yet to meet your true husband.

Child bearing and correct sexual orientation is equally important in a marriage.

This is one of the reasons why a Christian should pray before going into marriage.

Take time to pray and be sure you have found your mate as ordained by God.

Secondly, people need prophetic counsel. Not all people are humans, some are under demonic possession, agents of darkness and under household bondage. When you receive direction from God, and you keep your marriage based on God, you will know how to react and you will avoid broken marriages.

The reality is that Nigeria itself is a mini-hell that brings the worst out of people and many marriages are creaking and breaking down because of the condition of the country.

However, if your partner departs and for whatever reason divorces you, pray to God and remarry under divine instruction.

It is useless quoting the Bible without hearing from God because every situation is different. If we say the full marks of human libido is 100%, and a person has 80% libido and the marriage breaks down at 35 years, and the person still has 45 years to live according to the plan of God for such a life, will you leave that person to continue unmarried? In pains of unfulfilled sexuality and potential? I don't think so.

The daughters of Zelophedad in the Bible, who asked for their father's inheritance even though he didn't have a male child, is an example that some situations need specific solutions because people are different.