NewStats: 3,264,787 , 8,184,712 topics. Date: Thursday, 12 June 2025 at 11:30 AM 287112

Maryofficial:


Okay. Thank you.
But how about I apply with my SSCE, is there a chance I can upgrade with my B.Sc later?
I just don't want to make any mistake.

Definitely ma’am
All the best
Check your dm

Maryofficial:
Does it mean I can't apply with my B.Sc certificate. I have to apply with my SSCE?

Mchearan

Just try your luck ma’am

Pejajure:
Please I need the help of anyone that can connect me with a sure plug for lecturing jobs. I have acquired so many degrees, applied to so many places but non is forth coming. I discover most of these vacancies are done underground. I don't have any connection that can help. I have decided to bring my issue here.
Please help me if you can.
I pray our efforts will not be in vain.
Thank you.

Kindly list your areas of specialization in those degrees, it would really help

Jewessgratitud3:


Amen my brother.

Merry Christmas to you too.
God bless you.

Thanks dearest sister

Jewessgratitud3:
Throwback from 7years ago when we traveled to villa for December. How time flies.

See smally giving me his Moms makeup stuff. He no dey let me rest.

Merry Christmas dear may God almighty answer your secret prayers remain blessed

Naijanascam:
That city must scanty by now... After 4000 people are on their way to Europe for their secured job.... Congratulations to them though

And merry Christmas to those that doesn't make the trip

4000 people indeed
😂

Greetings to my Nairaland family , please kindly tell us when you will be celebrating Christmas and new year, probably you might get to link up with fellow naira land in that location.... I will be celebrating Christmas in akoko land🍾🕊❤️

akube34:
lol ok

Just send you a mail kindly reply
Thanks

akube34:
yes. What else?

thought as much... nothing just keep being a blessed mom to your kids and be strong 💪 would like to be a friend

akube34:
you are clearly a stupid man. What do you mean Divorced Women, is it a curse or something?

Seems akube is divorce too🤣🤣🤣

L1TTLE:
She brazenly told me "I have a 5yr old son", before she did I was crushing hard, then she told me she has a son today, I was taken aback for a while but much to my shock, I find her more attractive now? Instead of getting repulsed by the new information I want her more now, is it weird? Lol, I'm even thinking she can bring her son and live with me like we're family.

Please advise me.

From looking for a foreigner to marry to dating a single mother... my brother, if you can handle her well. By the way what happened to her baby daddy....

naijamanyoutube:
I don't have a clue o! I'm not in those world.

World.... I don’t understand you boss

mamagee3:
Why would someone not have a single family member on social media as a friend?

Hello ma’am

Season greetings my Nairaland family
Is there anyone in ikare akoko here.

naijamanyoutube:
I was in Manchester for 2 weeks as my first stop on my Europe tour, I plan to visit over 20 European countries on this tour.

I stayed with my sister and her family in Manchester, I was treated like a king with so many delicious Nigerian food.

I took pictures of some of them and here they are. These food might look like no big deal to



many on here, but it is for me, since I don’t know how to cook and I live in Las Vegas where it’s very expensive to eat Nigerian food at a restaurant.

I’m in Edinburgh, Scotland at the moment, will make my way to Glasgow, Scotland tomorrow, and then board a bus that will take me to Northern Ireland. The bus will drive onto a Ferry to cross the Irish Sea. I will stay one day in Belfast and then jump on a train to places I don’t know yet, but I have to be at the airport in Dublin on Monday the 23rd of October to catch a flight to London, where I will stay with Dj Douglas for 1 week. He’s is a childhood friend of mine. He’s the one who taught Dj Neptune how to Dj. The last time I saw Douglas face to face was back in December 2005, when he went to the airport with me when I was traveling to Amsterdam from Lagos, on vacation. Before I got back to Lagos in January of 2006, Douglas don japa go London. Lol

He’s established now with a wife and kids.

I will post more as I go about my journey. Stay tuned.

Congratulations boss, please avail us with any opportunity for jobs with visa sponsorship or scholarships opportunities.
Thanks sir.

Hello ma’am
Miss yah
Just checking upon you.
Regards ❤️

BirtherOfKings:
ur phone number

Good evening ma’am

Graduate2015:

Sorry this is going to be lengthy. I dont know how to shorten this.
I'm married for 16yrs but I cannot say that I have enjoyed my marriage. My husband is lovely when in a good mood but worst during his bad mood. His mood goes up and down but he thinks he doesn't have a problem. I think he has a bipolar and I've always mentioned to him that his behaviour seems like that but he never acknowledges it. Two yrs ago it got worse and we ended in couples therapy. During this period he revealed to me that while in the uni that he goes through period of sadness and the thing affected his grades anytime he experiences that mood during exam. I encouraged him to see a doctor and the doctor gave him antidepressant but he only used it for two weeks and stopped, saying he doesnt need that. But what he doesnt realise is that his period of sadness did not only happen in uni but its currently happening in his marriage. Our marriage is Iike a roller coaster. He finds problem but never suggests or initiate or even action solutions when suggested. He believes that every problem we have in our marriage is my fault ..
During his sad moments he eats unhealthy food, orders food everyday and says i make him sad and that i have caused him to gain weight. He suffers from diabetes and hypertension but he orders ice cream, chocolate smoothies during our silent period time. I've asked him for a separation but he refused. He calls me a wicked woman, that I make his life hell, that he will kill me one day. All this outburst just because u said something like can u clean up that plate u left in the sitting room(even though there was never a problem just before u ask). He uses visitors toilet but has never cleaned it. I have asked him several times not to use it. No other person at home uses it. Every morning I check and clean the toilet because he always leaves it unflushed.
He works almost everyday and provides for the family. I also work but since having our last child I only work on his day off which is once a week or twice because my son cannot stay in daycare due to his disability. He only goes to work, comes back, eat and watches tv. He detaches himself in family involvement while i run around with our children. He basically provides everything at home but he asks for my when the need arises such as investments, I bring money for house or land deposits to him or school fees. We have many houses. Our last duplex in Nigeria. He did foundation and stopped because he was building a house here. So I took over the building and finished he only continued from interior deco.
He doesn't help around the house, in short he messes it up and when I ask for it to be cleaned he gets really angry and can call me names. Because of my son's disability therapists comes to our house every day but he doesn't care if they meet his socks, belts and used plates in the sitting room because he leaves them there and rushes to work next day. He also doesn't delegate or ask our older kids to do any chores. He also doesn't involve in training them or in homework. He is a chronic porn addict and for the past few months he has stopped having sex with me. The last two we had in April I initiated it so I don't initiate anymore. He said anytime he ask for sex I always turn him down. But the fact is that he works everyday, sometimes nights. We.dont sleep in the same room because he snores and have sleep apnoe yet he is still not seeking any medical help. I end up staying awake the whole night if we sleep together not only does his snoring disturbs me but he also goes secs without breathing which scares me. He stays in the sitting room watching TV and comes to my room to demand sex around 4/5am which I can't do at that time. I suggested we watch TV in my room at night and have sex before sleep but he won't do it.
He also doesn't communicate his mind but end up using ive aggression to communicate. He gives silent treatment and I used to ask what was the problem as I sometimes don't even know what the problem was. Sometimes it's something I said which he could have told me off immediately. I dont ask what the problem is anymore because ive asked him to always communicate but still the same silent treatment. He can just burst into anger even with little issue. Right now I know he has some resentment and animosity towards me because of not being able to express his feelings. I buy everything in our house because he doesn't take charge or in control and always likes to be led. I think after all this yrs he is now feeling like he has lost control and i sense low self esteem even though his career is in the top highest paid job in the world. Our marriage has been like two weeks of good mood, then two weeks of silent treatment. He avoids discussing any problem and keep saying that there is no point discussing it because it will not bear any fruit that I will not change. Anything I dont do doesn't happen in our marriage. He takes responsibility of our car insurance but its not until I got into accident that I found out he hasn't paid our car insurance for a yr or two. Even our house didn't have house insurance since 2020 until i found out in April this year and immediately paid for it. He basically takes no responsibility for anything and its getting worse. It's like having a child but then u cant correct them because they can beat u up. I have a friend that her husband works all the time too but cleans their home on his day off. He also buys gadget like robotic cleaner to ease her suffering. I basically buy everything in my house. He doesn't have initiative except when investing in property, that's only place he takes leads, oh we should buy a house or land but this happens once a yr or more. It's not something you do everytime. He doesn't even know how to use a washing machine. I had to teach him when I was going away and this man damaged all his white designer clothes because he washed different colours together and also used cleaning bleach to wash clothes and my children kept saying how could he not know because they can use the machine.. I also pay for his clothes to be ironed. I don't know how he sees me as an evil person because he calls me that during quarrell.
His behaviour makes me so sad because we live overseas where is no help or family . I'm always tired and he doesn't care. I stay awake at night with our son and he doesn't come out to help even with his cries he sleeps through it all. I don't think I can continue like this because he doesn't realise the problem. He thinks he helps around but I'm being ungrateful. I don't mind if he can own up and confess that he wants to be a traditional man but he will never confess but his actions tells me otherwise. His good part is that he gives me access to his money may be that's because I can use it to be running the house and remove that responsibility from him. He also buys me expensive things like range rover, gucci but my love language is not material stuff but hands on man because I believe I can afford that myself.

It well...
I will really like to discuss something important with you ma’am
Text me your
Thanks

BirtherOfKings:
Hi guys

Ever noticed that in 10 new threads, five are talking about sex and poronograhy

My ask is, why does Nairaland not ban them?

Also, the people posting such satanic thread, don't they know they are literally cursed and would Die a early and a shameful way?
Mail me on [email protected]

Desist today and Surender to Jesus Christ

BirtherOfKings:
ur phone number

Thanks

bamideleoyin:
Am Searching for a soulmate

Hi, let’s connect

BirtherOfKings:
wen u say Christian or Muslim, I know say the person is not serious

Birther of kings
I will really like to know you
Text me.

Shokoloko:
Hopefully after this Covid nonsense, we are looking to train staff who will provide book-keeping and ing services for potential clients in Canada. Since these activities can be done off site, I am thinking of having Nigerians trained and performing these tasks.

This is the source of my confusion: I am only looking to employ single mothers, and widows with young/teenage kids as a means of helping them economically and believing that they will be happy to have a job that they can perform from home (I believe that this will reduce staff turnover). I have tried to do some research to find out if there are legal implications of employing only these sets of people.

Please I need non- emotional responses with links to sources if there is a legal implication of that. Thank in advance

Note: I am aware that a lot of women do not work well with others but this risk is already mitigated by the fact that they will be working in their own homes and probably attend a zoom meeting bi-monthly.

Hello, please do you have any available job.
Thanks

DIAMANTE1759:

I'm currently in benue
07067723295

Thanks for reaching I’m out of the state now

Ammmy:
I'm a 37 year old lady that has a child, although my child isn't staying with me. I don't know what is happening to me? I'm a beautiful lady that is looking younger than her age. Ever since l quit my last relationship, strange things started happening. Like I'll be walking on the road and men will start iring me, then if there's the one I sense is decent and responsible that's asking me out, I manage to give him attention. Now there's a guy that's been calling me all these while the one day he decided that we see. He told me right away that he wants us to have sex bla BLA BLA. He doesn't want a relationship just a hook up stuff. I got pissed and walked away.

Another guy I met recently has been pushing for us to see. So he came around my area and told me he's around, I stepped out of my house and went to see him at the street where he was standing, on sighting me he started moving forward with speed, I was following then he stopped and entered inside a Keke someone parked along the road, then he asked me to enter the Keke so we can talk, but I refused and said I can't. Then he said I should follow him to a hotel so we can get a room. I looked at him from head to toe, hissed and walked away. What is happening to me? The men I meet these days are not even talking about starting relationship talk less of marriage. I've been so depressed. Am I getting old? Or have I reached that stage of not meeting reasonable men again?

Hi ammmy
Text me
Let’s connect
There’s a way

Happy Sunday to all the Nairaland family....
I will like to meet anyone in Benue state here