NewStats: 3,263,564 , 8,180,557 topics. Date: Friday, 06 June 2025 at 02:01 PM 5h12j

please tell me I'm not only one who knows that Twitter handle is a façade

SirMichael1:

mPUA, Styles...
But you can tell stories.... Phew

Gbam!!

SirMichael1:

mPUA, Styles...
But you can tell stories.... Phew

Gbam!!

Goldcoen:
Pls can u ensure ladies don't see dis otherwise is a waste

ah quite the differ...
it will challenge you and you'll stop copy and paste...



there was once a girl whose brothers were dating fanatics and they taught her everything I mean everything so she could throw players off balance hehe... ironically a player knew this and because her brothers loved him so much she practically gave her self to him cause she felt he has what it was to make her feel...well you know

OVA200:
30,000 it is hard to believe this.

Then the boy was forming million in his but na only 30K him dey get per month. All our artiste like fake life too much

I don't believe he was faking ..he's record label prolly made it that way to ensure no one suspected. you have too look successful for people to think you're successful it's a psychological thing..
yes he might have faked a bit buh its endurance...
y'all dunno wah Happened. it's best we judge after we've heard it all

sexymonkey:
I wasn't referring to ethical hacking o, I had her before I could do that.

then it's not hacking na .

for her to know you got the and she's still doing ish man.
Think about it tz either she really don't give... at all or she wanted you see it and flight for her or get angry which your doing rn

HARDDON:



Now you reminded me one smooth move i usually use to main ladies minds!; their friends!

I use this move to:
1. Make them so jealous they start claiming me before one of their friends wud out smart them.
2. They basically fall in luv there and then even if they we tagging along before. Start acting possesive when you throw jokes and all her friends go laughing. Her friends might even tell you to take care of their friend. They might even push her to go with you when she tries to follow them!

3. It sends the messages that you don't f'ing care about getting down. And bliv you me, that is when they would be curious n wants to get down. Because they wud be thinking thus " is he impotent? Is his jrod so small he cant satisfy a woman? Is he a vG? Or did he just collect from some lady and he's full? One way to find out, let's seduce him"

See? Reverse sexy move.

Here is the deal.... For the first date, tell her to come with her friends, that you don't wano be left alone behind closed doors with her before she pins u down and rapes you.

( This is totally opposite to what average jonses out they would do) it not only gets them very confy with your sleek, super confident self, it gives them a breath of fresh air from the norm.
Mess up their tot process they can't just figure you out.

Sense Pill 119:

If Ladies can't figure you out, they would always wano figure you in. Go figure...

nice word play there bruah

Mobsync:


Would have loved to. But it is not a one-way stuff. I will need to write a detailed article since my responses are usually dependent on the lady's response. And I do'n't think I want to type something that long.

copy and paste is bae

HARDDON:


Your thots thru this train have been most in-tune with the touch of dating in this IT generation n hence on.

Nonetheless, at this input i make bold to clearify as i have done to others who were very objective like you in time past.

Do you know what tautology is? For the avoidance of doubt Here;


tautology:
the saying of the same thing twice over in different words, generally considered to be a fault of style (e.g. they arrived one after the other in succession ).

Like i always say, most of what you have me say here are from personal experience. And the best ladies to learn from, are YOUR EX you parted ways with on mutual who is articulate and expresses herself with no restrain . The second group are older single ladies.
Yours truly have loads of those.

That said, I wouldnt say what I have not proved to be true over and over.

Asking a lady out is an act of TAUTOLOGY that leaves you at a disadvantaged spot. And if you have read me right all along, Yours truly hates losing touch with his God given control knob( refer to the emphasized in your post).

Here are some questions to ruminate about for all of you who stil feel asking a lady out is the way forward :

1. Why ask her out when she already knows what's what?
Immediately you say hello to a lady, only one thing pops up on her thinking process: HE WANTS TO ASK ME OUT/DATE ME/Bleep ME etc.

Which is better? Keeping her guessing or just coming out like a peacock on heat(predictable), taking out the attractive curiosity fun, and telling her upfront what she already knows?

2. Do you know why/how they go changing dresses for the first date before they finally pick one?

3. Do you know how many guys ask them out on da constant? And how they see this as one of the most boring moves by men?

4. What line exactly do you want to use to ask her out that she hasn't heard a thousand times b4? Do you know how UnOriginal that is and how they hate Fake guys?

5. Which is easier and more fun?
Go forcing out the love/dating off her by asking her out OR letting things flow naturally and more engaging?

6. Which is better? Be like every other average Jones out there or Stand out from the crowd and do You? Be different?


Ignoring all the aforementioned, in the final analyses, we all must chart our courses individually through this manual-less life and discover things for ourselves.
But i stand gallantly Still on my well informed/experienced tentacles and without bating an eyelid, with no recourse to equivocation nor any iota of doubt, declare that asking a lady out is an act of self destruct.


Ball's Principle 4:

Only fools live to experience all the crudeness of life in different forms before they learn. Smart People read/learn from the life of others and minimize life/heart aches.

listen to drop the world by lil Wayne and Eminem... there's a verse I cannot type on nairaland due to itz obscene nature..... secondly... have your girls experience this complex where they start addressing you as boyfriend and introducing you to their friend as their boyfriend ? and you like " waaaait oo i haven't accepted your proposal yet o " in reality she's waited so long for you to ask her out she's trying to force it on you and act out her fantasises... that always get me cracking lool

DavidTheGeek:

Hey bro,

It's not totally your fault. Most girls are boring.

Honestly, while chatting with some girls, i do wonder if they have anything upstairs because they bring nothing to the table.

Girls like this, i end up making them laugh by taking fun jabs at them all through the chat... no meaningful discussion... Which is quite boring for me cuz i love deep conversations.

However, it's your fault cuz you are the guy and your job is to guide the conversation.

When i was starting out, i used google to get lots of questions. Go there and get some.

When you start getting better, you'll discover it's quite easy to come up with questions of your own.

If you've asked the right questions and the chat is stall, tell her Goodbye and text another girl.

Never, never, never force a chat. It'll be boring and she'll see you as a boring guy even if she's the boring one.

Forget about the girl that is acting up. Delete her number and go get other girls.

You shouldn't deal with a girl who can go for weeks without texting you, such girls can mess up your mind if you "catch feelings" for them.

At this stage, your focus should be on having a smooth conversation NOT dating any girl.

oh deep conversations.... the one diamond in the rough for me....
I find that I only seem to have this type of mature conversation when I actually like you( the girl) or we've clicked on a different level or she intellectual capable... if not..hehe Nigerian girls can jus fall your hand.. they see deep as boring.. it jus makes me ears cry.. lool

Emasel:


Apparently, you're still rolling with kids. Take it or leave it at some point in your life you're gonna ask a woman out, or how are you gonna get married

I put it to you that you don't know the purpose of the thread... and as they say when the purpose of a phenomenon is unknown, abuse is inevitable
we're here to help boost our collective game...eventually you'll find some alpha female and ask her out as an alpha male the trick is not to let her out-alpha you.You're are suppose to be the one who stands out from all her male friend such that she looks up to you when you're dating but now focus on creating attraction which turns into respect which turns into love...still if you wanto remain a player... when you experience player's paradox like I have your perspective will change..

Mobsync:


I've been following the asewo thread for almost three years -- followed it from the old thread to the new one. I saw it evolve from just sharing s and sexacapades to more sensible discussions (even though numbers and sexacapades are still shared), HIV awareness and the likes. In fact, at this moment, they're debating over whether pussy is gold.

That said, regarding the first bolded: it isn't that you won't ask the lady out. You'll ask her out but not directly or immediately. You see, regarding those two ladies I talked about earlier, I left one part out. The first one that told me she was thinking about my proposal (after accepting), told me something when I reminded her that she had earlier accepted. She said "Hope you know you are not the only one asking?"

That line is true with most ladies. In today's society, even the ugly ones get hit on several times a day. Now imagine how many times the semi-beautiful ones get hit on. Not to talk of the beautiful ones. In fact, there are some categories of ladies that these drills won't work on, no matter how you do it. One of this category of ladies are the slay queens. I mean, the real and hardened slay queens, not the 500 naira tight wearing broke girls claiming slay queens these days.

Most ladies are used to hearing the same thing. "Tell me about yourself," "have you eaten," "I love you," "I see my children in you," "Can you be my gf," "Can I get your number," Let me introduce myself to you" and so on that they have gotten tired. And since they know the guy would almost always toast them, they immediately build their defences. The whole agenda is how to break this defence by being different.

In fact, I have a strategy that I use to chat ladies up on Facebook and get their numbers in ten minutes or less (if they're quick in replying) and it works 85% of the time. The 15% it doesn't work on are not slay queens. They are not even usually as pretty as the other ones that give me their number, yet, it doesn't just work. Funny enough, three still initiate chats with me on Facebook. Yet, they refused to give me their number. I too have a policy of not asking more than twice. I have asked two for their numbers once and one for her number twice.

I don't follow that useless strategy that most guys use. They say "hi," she replies, then they ask whether she has eaten. Thereafter, they tell her to tell them about herself. Ladies black out from these kind of chats and I would too if I were a lady. I used to follow the same strategy too and it rarely worked. The few that gave me their numbers started asking for recharge card after few days.

The major idea of this thread is "how not to give a lady the upper hand (your balls) in a relationship." You as the man should call the shots and not the lady. The moment she starts calling the shots, you'll run into problems. I allowed those two ladies call the shot for sometime and I ultimately regretted. I just did not allow them punch me into the maga zone. The one that told me she was still thinking about my proposal was even telling me to take her to "Dominos."

Another night, I called her and she started talking to me rudely. I hurriedly cut the call and didn't call or chat with her for some days. She later chatted me up and apologized. The first thing she asks me whenever I call is why I haven't been calling -- irrespective of when the last time I called her. I always ask her why she herself doesn't call and she says she doesn't have airtime. I tell her I don't have airtime either and our discussion proceeds from there.

At that point, most guys would have apologized and promise to call regularly or even everyday. I didn't. Had I done that, I would have given her the upper hand in the relationship.

The bottom line is: a man will definitely ask a lady out. But don't make it too conspicuous else she might start misbehaving. Don't make her think you need her more than she needs you. Don't make her think you're after the sex either.

Again, you should know that there are some alpha females out there. One of my female friends and ex-crush posted something on her WhatsApp status the other day. She wrote "Whenever a guy tells me I'm beautiful, I tell him that is an insult to my intelligence." Before that,
she written the name of her friend who taught her to always use that line to throw guys off balance. And truly, most guys would be thrown off balance, since they will never expect such from a lady.

That said, regarding the second bolded, Harddon (the OP) already stated that in the first page. To quote him, he said:



This thread was created for weaklings in mind. But at the same time, those who want to improve on their game or change/adjust their strategies will find it useful.

I love the hard to get slay Queens they actually challenge my game and make it easier for me to toast the semi beautiful one a whole lot faster... some are jus wicked tho... they know your waaaay different but want you to suffer lool girls sha...

DidiLove1:
Nice dog. Quite a number of genes are at play here, GSD and terrier most noticeable due to spiked black and tan fur. Like the post above advised, please spay (castrate) the dog to avoid further breeding.

no offence buh
why should he avoid it...
is it Wrong or dangerous..?

he tried tho..
buh azikiwe looks like he's on cloud 9 ;Dhe tried tho..
buh azikiwe looks like he's on cloud 9

IamAirforce1:
You don't deserve a reasonable reply with that pic up your profile ..

you don't look too bad yourself...

HARDDON:

Mail request to : @datingdrill.com

bruah have you seen my rather immature and a bit informal one..?

dudesexy111:
harddon i need your advice on this.i met this girl for like 2weeks and we do talk mostly on phone because she is never really active on WhatsApp.i have followed each rule here and make sure i was not the needy type,i make sure i give her only 2missed when i call her.There was a day i asked her that why does she not come online on whatapps and she said because she does not have money to sub.i just gave her this no care atttitude and said okay and told her when she sub she should let me know....no be this recession girl go dey use me for maga and funny part i have not even asked her out and she doesn't even call which i do most of the calling most...now she is now asking me for card and i dont know the reply i can give her that it won't be possible.i dont want to mess things up

ask her how much...and when she tells you...tell her you too need jus #100 airtime that you two should put it into prayers...
this is what I mean


HER; boo...I need card oo
YOU; hian...is she trying to flirt or is she calling me a bulldog...? anyways how much card do you need..?
HER; just #1500
YOU; Awwwwn.... how cute! me I need jus #100 sef...
let's put into prayers���


use playfulness to turn them down... with confidence and charisma to make it look like you have it buh don't wanna give it...without looking like a stingy kinda person

Does Nigeria have animal control..?

inscreAF:
And stay away from GNLD type of jobs especially those you didn't apply for.

what's gnld jobs..?

pappy4real:
if only money could buy everlasting young looks


modified: so finally I am FTC on a front page topic. I dedicate my FTC to all 2017 IE DSO Trainees n my bae.
I even thought there's going to be payment for the FTC sef. there's nothing special about it

why do people like to be FTC..?

HARDDON:
@ihatelove @ KiZiie


But if sensitive or.... Mail: @datingdrill.com

hehe!..bruah it's about the group oo