NewStats: 3,263,712 , 8,181,134 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 01:34 PM 2y423m

OP didn't mention how you asked to go back the way you came so that they can get your arrival on camera.

Took late Dad there when I was still a boy. It changed my perception about some MOG. The only reason he wasn't published was because I sent a threat message, bringing to their attention the likelihood of a scandal, because my Late Dad was a well known Journalist and people will want to congratulate him.

I won't talk much so as not to distort anyone's faith. Truth is, God is omnipresent and ever faithful. If you're able to do a deep soul searching, confess your sins and ask for mercy, He will come to your aid. Sadly, I didn't know this as a boy. Hopefully, my faith would have healed my late Dad.

For a guy that opened a thread asking if licking ass is ideal, I'd say you had it coming... Be thankful it's just herpes you contracted...

What is the name of the hotel? Where is it located? If all your claims are true, he should be arrest and the hotel closed down.

Forget about the money. He's never going to pay you.

You can also drop your details for those that are willing to assist you

Don't be too hard on him. Some guys have done worse before their time of reawakening. OP needs this kind of humiliation to help him set new standards.

Ballzproblem2:
there's a reason why women are fighting hard to keep redpill from spreading,this OP is the reason.



I stopped reading when mentioned you open cake business and rented apartment for her.
You rented apartment while another person dey do the fucking how useless can some men be?

Quote me and take me very seriously as an old OG.... Leave this babe! She no send you! Never Ever Ever compromise your sanity or peace of mind because of woman. Focus your energy in building and developing yourself. I swear on all I hold sacred, you'd be overwhelmed with the number of non-liability babes that'd be chasing after you. You don't need anyone in your life to define your happiness. Grow up and Move on.

Stay single. You are not yet ready for marriage. You're more concerned about getting older. When you find your wife, you won't need to ask us to help you choose.

Seun has always been a wise fella... Use 3Ps (Peter Obi, Psquare to project his show....

Some words cut deeper than knife. You're a verbally abusive husband. Fix yourself before you try fixing your marriage. Get help with your incessant nagging and anger issues...

You're at the early stage of NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) and you don't know it. You're compelling him to a forceful savings into you own believing you're more financially prudent and also anticipating that he supposes you financially to leave the country. Advise him, not compell or threaten him.

My guy, this feeling you are feeling at the moment will fade out over time. Fast forward to that moment and ask yourself if you'd still be able to deal with this even when the love flats out. You're most likely not going to... This lady may be hold some sentimental attachment to her baby daddy. I don't think you're ready for such drama in your life. My candid advise is that you pray that she finds herself another man while you find yours.

Why are you quick to coming here to tell us when you ought to have gone to report to your friend. No tell me say you don dey reason her offer?

Idowu116:
Hello nairalanders, there is this very good friend of mine who got married this year, early April.So last week Friday,i came to do some projects around that ibeju lekki side of Lagos.So my friend lives there with his bride and after closing for the day,i decided to say hi to them because it's been a while we met.I got there,knocked on the gate but to my surprise I met the gate slightly closed then I begin to wonder what if thieves entered the compound.I entered the house and heard moaning. I called my friend number to let him know am around but he told me he is not around that his wife is home.I went to the room the moaning was coming from and I could here bleeping sounds.I knocked and the action stopped.The wife opened the door I saw her in underwears,she was shocked to see me.To cut the story short, I saw the leg of a man beside the bed and that was how they started begging me,the guy was so dirty and unkept.I snapped his face by force on my phone and the bride started begging me not to tell her husband.Telling me she will do sleep with me to compensate me and I got more annoyed.
This is a lady my friend spent millions for her bride price oo.Women are indeed useless
I haven't told anyone about the incident though but am going to tell my friend soon

Get yourself a dollar debit card from your bank or a virtual dollar card (chipper is reliable)

Bonzojoko:
Please I have many questions. How did you exceed the $20 monthly limit when using Nigerian ATM cards? If you didn't use Nigerian ATM card to pay, how did you pay for the starlink kit and subscription in USD? Also can you test online gaming using starlink internet and see if it's smooth. I use Airtel to play online games. Sometimes it's smooth but most times, it lags.
What is the average latency like? I can see 60ms from the picture you posted. Is it always around 60ms?

Your anger is justifiable. But this is marriage. It's never flawless. In my opinion, I don't think you're both psychologically mature for this phase of life. Staying away from each other to heal may do you some good.

The harsh reality of life is that marriage isn't a fairy tale. There are trails in marriage. If it was an abusive marriage, I wouldn't talk you into returning. However, over issue like this, you may need to step back a bit and choose a good time to express your disappointment.

If he's unwilling to apologize and you're unwilling to forgive, then you guys should just stay away from the institution of marriage. Coz there are more trails ahead that your less than 5 years marriage is yet to encounter.

Am I the only one that read the part where she said her dowry has already been paid? Meaning say they are wedded traditionally...?

Madam, you don get husband... Which advise you come dey find again?

Send me her details let me help you talk to her...

Go for the Benin job and come back here to thank me. Be like Lagos sufferhead and stress never tire you. Na when old age reach you go Sabi wetin backlog of stress mean. The only condition I'd advise you go for Lagos option is if the pay is very good to afford you a healthy and comfortable lifestyle. If you're running a program or have set goals for yourself. If not, RUN!

Baby her no baby...

You're not in love, you're in lust and obsessed. And you need help. You have brought enough disrespect you your wife and marriage at large and have enjoyed the philandery while it lasted. You are expected to move on. However, becos of your starved se.x life, your brain is playing mind tricks with you. You really don't need her anymore. Don't let the devil push you any more further than he has already. You may not be able to come out of it. Use your head!

Any job offer other than the bank is a better offer... Most of the bankers out there live on loans

Except she's willing to take some certified courses in other financial institutions to up her game and employability

You are lucky to be able to make this post from the comfort of wherever you are. If not, you'd be in Jail. It's clearly written that such offenses is punishable by the law. However, what I'd advise you do is go to their office. They'd give you and option to bribe them so as to get reconnected or have them generate an LOR (Loss of Revenue) from the moment you stopped paying. Penal charges and other byed charges will be factored into you bill. You could pay as low as 100k or as high as 500k. I'm not capping. I've seen it before. They offended had to even pack out of the house because he had been bying for over a year and kept bribing instead till higher authority got involved.

Do the right thing!

How is the girl the manipulative person? I think he needs to the revived from the claws of his own fo*lishness... Poor girl has done nothing wrong. She has made her own choice.

You also need to mind your business too...

How can one be broke and be in a serious relationship? Especially with a liability too... It's ridiculous

Leave Jonathan with His Patience and move on.

The exiting tenant and landlord should be held responsible. Period!

Nozino:



It is almost impossible to catch an STI via MouthAction.

Go and read about herpes... HSV-1 (oral herpes) can easily lead to HSV-2 (genital herpes). And what most people don't also know is that it has no cure... Virus builds itself a mansion and comes out when it feels like. The blister heals by itself with 2 - 3 wks... Depending on how potent the immune system is. MouthAction may seem erotic and cool, but it has its own unforgivable dangers. There is also tendency of throat cancer to deal with... Be wise!

The bank is living by it's name. Its providing ACCESS to all tom dick and harries.... I was forced to open a salary with access... But has to put a standing order to transfer the money to a more secured . I was forced to do this the moment I started getting notification email around 2am almost everyday of the week .... For those that may care to know, I change my regularly using native names with special characters that I can't even pronounce... Yet boiz they Access am

OP, you've got a community girlfriend. Live with it or move on

Send her to my place. I have a full furnished luxurious guest room. She can stay for as long as she wants.

DPR!

A tale of two stubborn goats.
Wife no dey hear word
Husband no dey hear abeg
And you're just 2 months in marriage...
You guys have a lot to learn and unlearn

I don't get how some of you guys don't check for permissions granted to some of these apps. There is no way in the world they will be able to send such condescending messages without you giving them access to your .

daveyjay:
I should unlock and evict her??!

I don't actually want to be the one who tells her to leave.

She should make that choice herself

Kick her out with her nasty disrespectful attitude before it gets out of hand.