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A man that will stay will stay with or without sex, if sex is what you think will keep him then forget and move on.

Wait O, seems the woman no wear pant sef

thank ur God O!

CsRockefeller:
After over 25 years, I wish I wasnt an introvert.

Men!!....... I'm tired and exhausted. Even when I try to go out of my way to make friends or meet people it never ends well.

Dont wish to be one ever again.

U were born that way, no one chose to be an introvert/extrovert. It's all about working on ur weaknesses and developing more of strength. Like for, I'd rather have the right company around me than be all alone, I hardly enjoy my own company. Relating with people has become easy for me.

U1:


I can relate with the bold, bro. The second sentence captures what I was trying to state in a post here some time ago. Some of us can seem like extroverts when in the right company.

I could when I was in secondary school many years ago. Most of my classmates initially thought I didn't like relating with people, except a few that used to sit close to me. Two to three years later, they were somewhat shocked about the talkative I had become. The same thing happened during my university days.

It's not even really about people reaching out first in all cases. There are times you'd try to relate and you would probably get a cold response, if any. That right there can send an introvert back into their shell!

Exactly once given a cold treatment that's it

U1:


I can relate with the bold, bro. The second sentence captures what I was trying to state in a post here some time ago. Some of us can seem like extroverts when in the right company.

I could when I was in secondary school many years ago. Most of my classmates initially thought I didn't like relating with people, except a few that used to sit close to me. Two to three years later, they were somewhat shocked about the talkative I had become. The same thing happened during my university days.

It's not even really about people reaching out first in all cases. There are times you'd try to relate and you would probably get a cold response, if any. That right there can send an introvert back into their shell!

Exactly at the bolded, once we get such treatment just forget it

Bros your shit don strong, go take lots of oranges, cucumber and vegetable soup and it'll soften

Wow!

How many men are in Nigeria? And how many of them are on social media? U can't use the few who say bad things about women to come to a conclusion that "all Nigerian men are hypocrites".

Guess you're speaking for yourself or you're just trying to get the ladies attention. Weldone ladies' man. Why do you think women from other regions like Nigerian men? You think it's just for money and sex?

Hakeem12:
wouldn't say they don't think deep, maybe just not all the time or over think like introverts do. For instance, where I work, I watch a group of introverts brainstorm all the time. I roll my eyes knowing at the end of the meeting, I'd make a suggestion, explain it and the solution is chosen. One other thing that annoys me about them is wanting to get together for meetings for even the little things without considering people who may not be that social.

U're right, they're mostly not patient enough to listen.

Xzbit91:


I used that caparison for lack of a better analogy, but that's besides the point. Human beings are not a monolith.

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Karleb:
You're comparing Cat and Dog I'm comparing human and human.

On a final note, do you know why psychologist are mostly or all introverts?
Let me help you, it's cos introverts are better at listening than extroverts. So who can help someone with socializing issues or dysfunctions? Someone who'll listen and let the person speak out his mind (without being judged) and who'll understand..... So an extrovert can't help an introvert. As an extrovert if you succeed to drag ur introvert friend to a party for example, at a point when you hook up with ur other extrovert friends u'll forget ur introvert friend cos u're catching fun with ur other extrovert friends.

Lack of understanding is what's affecting Africans

Haba OP! This is too gruesome
What did I just watch!

Some women have lost all sense of dignity

Karleb:


This is exactly what I am saying!

How do you expect people to relate with you when you don't relate with them?

More often than not people will relate with others that are ready to reciprocate the gesture, even you.

What could have really saved you then would have been asking your brother how he does it, I'm very sure he would have happily taught you what no Introvert can teach you because he had the real experience not some copy paste solutions.

Now you don't even relate with your own relatives. Image!

This is why I strongly suggest this thread should be opened up to all especially extroverts because of people like you, people who have real life problem.

Please note that the problem I'm talking about is low Social Awareness.

Nah, it doesn't work that way. My parents siblings knew I'm quite outside cos people don't understand me, but at home I'm very loud cos they know me and accepted me for who I am. But those outside will just assume he's quite and will not even make an attempt to reach out first. Funny enough some of them later see me with those I'm comfortable with and will shocked and be like "so u can talk like this". In summary what I'm saying don't make an introvert feel like him being an introvert is socially wrong, cos if you do dat he'll withdraw further back into his shell. For me no one helped me to become outspoken or out going and I didn't beat myself up cos I wanted to be out going. And I've met a lot of introverts and still meeting them, all I do is study them and try to pick their interests b4 you know it we're flowing like we've known for ages.

Ehn..... For your own good just let go if u're truly her friend and want her to be happy. Cos you can't provide her with what she needs for now, and you don't know how long before u'll be comfortable. Relationships without money is very frustrating.

Hmmmm..... Lockdown is good if done properly, u're locking down without providing all that'll make the lockdown less stressful for the citizens.

Karleb:


You are the dumb one here.

Bros the mistake most of u "extroverts" make is thinking there's something/everything wrong with being an introvert. Being judged for who you are is what turns most introverts off. I when I was a kid, I was most times quite, but my younger bro was the outspoken type. So, people like relating with him cos he's "outspoken". What I did then was to totally cut off from such people. I grew up not relating with most of my father's people. People made me felt like there's something wrong with me being quite, but when I came to accept who I am then I found my peace and don't bother to impress anyone.

Karleb:


That's issue with some of these guys. You read, read, read... For what?! It's more like saving without a purpose.


This thread encourages self pity. Imagine somebody thinking staying indoor for 72hrs is normal. Some of them won't even pick up calls if it's not from Daddy or Mummy.

This thread should be opened up to all especially extros.

A blind man cannot show another the way.

Nah, u're not getting the purpose of this thread. Introverts need a place they can freely express themselves without being judged, with people who can understand and relate to what they're experiencing. And if u read through all the threads u'll see a lot of tips on how to improve on themselves. And reading books is the best investment anyone can do for themselves. Lastly, they're introverts cos that's how they are created, only people with understanding can relate with them, or let me with us.

Slimranky:


Is that your blog bro?

Nope, it's where I've been ing pc games from for years.

Slimranky:
Guys plz I recently bought a CD plate of call of duty unfortunately
When I started installation
It stopped halfway
Now I'm fed up and want to know if I can successfully this game on line for my laptop?
Where can I this successfully and it will play,?
I don't want a site that will rip me off my data and still wouldn't work
The only game I have on PC is PES 2017
And I'm tired of playing that
I want mission games Guy's pls help me overcome boredom in this lockdown series

https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/

Nobody can say cos you don't know what transpired between him and God in the last few seconds b4 his death. On the last day many will be shocked to see people they've condemned here on earth in heaven. Every man for himself, work to make heaven.

How would someone ever believe he's a man as in someone that has never heard of him before.

The mark of the beast will only be given after the rapture, during the 7 years tribulation before the final battle Oooooo...... Christians study your Bibles.

Kingjay007:
Only in Nigeria!

Read before commenting

This is hilarious, and how did you come about this data?

Hmm

Finally