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ENYATA Software engineering limited is receiving applications into her Academy. ENYATA ACADEMY is an equal opportunity, highly competitive learning environment intended for those who want to build a career in software engineering. It is a four month remote, intensive, full stack and free software engineering training, established to build world class software engineers. Earn while you learn. Click the link below http:///enyataacademy
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ENYATA Software engineering limited is receiving applications into her Academy. ENYATA ACADEMY is an equal opportunity, highly competitive learning environment intended for those who want to build a career in software engineering. It is a four month remote, intensive, full stack and free software engineering training, established to build world class software engineers. Be paid while you learn. Click the link below http:///enyataacademy
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If you are a corp member and you study engineering, mathematics, Statistics and related courses and you wish to learn Software development, send your CV to [email protected]. It is a free remote, four month program, highly competitive with monthly stipend. You can apply irrespective of your current location. Opportunity available for First Class and Second Class Upper only. Application closes on the 21st of April 1 Like |
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If you are a corp member and you study engineering, mathematics, Statistics and related courses and you wish to learn Software development, send your CV to [email protected]. It is a free remote training, highly competitive and rewarded program. You can apply irrespective of your current location. Opportunity available for First Class and Second Class Upper only. Application closes on the 21st of April |
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If you are a corp member and you study engineering, mathematics, Statistics and related courses and you wish to learn Software development, send your CV to [email protected]. It is a free remote, four month program, highly competitive with monthly stipend. You can apply irrespective of your current location. Opportunity available for First Class and Second Class Upper only. Application closes on the 21st of April |
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If you are female software developer with over two year experience writing any or some of the following languages, JavaScript, NodeJS, ViewJS or Python. Send your CV for an immediately employment. [email protected]
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What it takes to part now is a DECISION, but when you marry, parting will leave you in a CONDITION. Agreement is the bedrock of lasting relationships. If both of you can't agree on a path now, take a decision and break it. Cheers |
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Atlas Money is currently hiring interns. You must be an undergraduate in the university, on IT or about to go for your IT. Also an OND holder in the last one year can also apply. The ideal candidate must be able to write at least one programming language. Opening closes by Thursday, 23rd of August, 2018. If you are interested kindly send your CV, link or your GitHub profile to [email protected] cc: [email protected] |
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I really understand your situation ma and I feel the way you are going about it could have a bad effect on you and you children. My advice for you 1. You need to move on, your husband eloped with another woman. The scripture you quoted allowed divorce that is based on adultery. You might be surprised, he is not thinking of coming back at all. If he comes back because he is in trouble, he will break your heart again. 2. You need to separate yourself from that lady. That kind of help will only awaken some ion which will kill your natural emotion for the opposite sex. That kind of ion is cursed both culturally and spiritually. Your children might indulge in it if you don't fight it now. 3. Your mind is troubled now, you need to work on your psychology. Take time off work, it could be few days, really think and make up your mind to do what is right no matter the sacrifice. 4. This could be controversial but it's the most important. Fast and Pray intensely as long as you can for God's forgiveness, for that kind of urges(towards that lady) to dry up and for God to bring a man your way that will take care of you. You can tie something to it by SACRIFICING. Life is both physical and spiritual, you've got to approach it in both ways. You will thank me latter 5. Know that you are a good person and your emotions should not turn you into something bad. I feel you are a good person. |
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Romans 1:27-32King James Version (KJV) 27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet. 28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; 29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, 30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful: 32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them. |
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These are Jesus' words as regards tithing. Tithing, Mercy, Judgement and Faith are the things Jesus mentioned here, and he said we should not leave tithing undone but be focused on Mercy, Judgement and Faith. He quoted this after the corrupt istration of Judgement among the then pharisees. MATHEW 23:23 King James Version (KJV) MATHEW 23:23 Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye pay tithe of mint and anise and cummin, and have omitted the weightier matters of the law, judgment, mercy, and faith: these ought ye to have done, and not to leave the other undone. New Living Translation (NLT) MATHEW 23:23 What sorrow awaits you teachers of religious law and you Pharisees. Hypocrites! For you are careful to tithe even the tiniest income from your herb gardens,[a] but you ignore the more important aspects of the law—justice, mercy, and faith. You should tithe, yes, but do not neglect the more important things. New International Version (NIV) MATHEW 23:23 Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You give a tenth of your spices—mint, dill and cumin. But you have neglected the more important matters of the law—justice, mercy and faithfulness. You should have practiced the latter, without neglecting the former. The Living Bible (TLB) MATHEW 23:23 Yes, woe upon you, Pharisees, and you other religious leaders—hypocrites! For you tithe down to the last mint leaf in your garden, but ignore the important things—justice and mercy and faith. Yes, you should tithe, but you shouldn’t leave the more important things undone. Easy-To-Read Version (ERV) MATHEW 23:23 It will be bad for you teachers of the law and you Pharisees! You are hypocrites! You give God a tenth of the food you get, even your mint, dill, and cumin.[a] But you don’t obey the really important teachings of the law—being fair, showing mercy, and being faithful. These are the things you should do. And you should also continue to do those other things. Pay your tithe, show mercy, ister good judgement and be faithful. Let's live, Let's love, Let's help the needy and Let's push the Gospel. #TheGreatestIsLove |
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Nnemuka: Dear Mr Americana! If God calls you and you preach His words and got souls saved in the order of millions, your american mind will leave them under the sun to worship their God. If you know the extent to which the devil is going to recruit the hearts of people into his damnation, then you will know the church needs to preach and expand more. The more the souls we win, the more the need to get another boat to put them. Our mandate is to make sure the Gospel gets to everybody and everywhere. Wherever you please do your part by showing the way to someone which is the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Show them love they can't deny. Preach, Pray and Give. 1 Like |
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If the OP is that wise! He should know the best thing anyone can do for Pastor Chris now is to pray for him. The devil is always after Men of God like him. He is not the First and he won't be the last. Such matters should not be debated among kingdom sons but should be INTERCEDED for because we know the real DEVIL. #LetsInterceedForMenOfGod |
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THE WISDOM OF HAVING A SINGLE LOVER. Key thoughts: Maturity is realizing that the fact that you can, doesn’t necessarily mean you should. If the creator wanted us to have multiple partners,he would have given us multiple hearts. Maturity is realizing that, the fact that you can, doesn’t necessarily mean that you should. We all have the capacity for multiple love affairs in our connected world, but does that mean that we should have them? This inclination for multiple love affairs is all the more bolstered by the proliferation of mobile and social networking technologies. The real revolution of these technologies is not communication, as much as it is access. For the first time in a century, we can have unrestricted access to anyone, anywhere in the world with the capabilities of exchanging text, voice and images with them. This subtle access revolution has led to a global explosion of multiple love affairs. More than ever before, there is a need to remind ourselves of the pragmatic privileges of maintaining a single lover. This article is set forth to do just that. THE PRIVILEGE OF MASTERY AND SPECIALIZATION. Specialization has always been a function of focus on a singular thing. Once you try to focus on too many things your capability for specialization greatly diminishes. This is also true for our love lives. Those who cheat on their spouses by engaging in affairs with multiple partners,automatically sacrifice the ability to be their true lover’s specialist. It is interesting to note that, the higher the degree of specialization you have in a field, the higher the rewards you enjoy. Many do not know the reward of having specialized on their partner for decades because of their greed,lust and covetousness. The zenith of specialization is mastery. There is a depth of love that is only available to those who through focus on a single partner, for an extensive period of time,have become masters of their lover. At that level you can say you know this person inside out. Believe me nothing compares to the joy of specialization and mastery on a single lover. THE PRIVILEGE OF EMOTIONAL CONCENTRATION. One of the challenges of not focusing on one love partner is the dilution and the diffusion of love. Love leaks when we try to offer a similar quantity and quality of it to multiple partners. While most claim to have fun by cheating around, the real damage lies in the fact that it costs them the intensity of feelings that should have belonged to a single partner. The same people tend to complain to me, that they aren’t even sure of what they feel any more because they have offered themselves to too many people. I am convinced that if the creator wanted us to have multiple partners, he would have given us multiple hearts. On the contrary, he gave us a single heart because we are meant for a single partner. When we try to share that single heart with multiple partners, our love will loose its concentration and that is a sad place to be. It is time to block all the love leakages in your life and focus on the one the creator has for you. THE PRIVILEGE OF RESOURCE CONSERVATION. If it is true that where your treasure is, there your heart will be also, what do you imagine will happen to your treasure if your heart is in too many directions,with too many people? Your guess is as good as mine. Your resources will be ABYSMALLY DEPLETED. Imagine on Val’s day that you had twelve partners to settle, imagine the cost implications of servicing the twelve of them with gifts, visits, calls, sex and all what not. The day would likely be an exhausting one for you. Okay even if you lied to keep some of them at bay,your conscience and personal sense of integrity will end up depleted. My local Yoruba dialect has interesting words for promiscuity and adultery. The word “SHINA” for promiscuity can be literally translated as”misappropriation of resources”. The word “AGBERE” means “depletion of profits”. Ancient Yoruba wisdom therefore equates promiscuity and adultery with both the misappropriation of resources and the depletion of profit. It is impossible to actualize your potential with those twin forces working against you. It is time to settle down with a single lover. THE PRIVILEGE OF HEALTH PRESERVATION. The impact of cheating on mental,sexual and physical health as a whole can not be overestimated. Painfully, I have counseled with wives who have had to treat sexually transmitted diseases every time they had unprotected sex with their husbands and vice versa, knowing fully well that they had been faithful to their lover. The psychological turmoil of concealing an affair is another health depleting issue. It is becoming obvious that sticking to a single partner is a vital health imperative. All of these points in a singular direction;It is a mark of wisdom to have and maintain vigorously a single love partner. More important than this,is the determination to settle only for individuals who are responsible and disciplined enough to make you the singular focus of their emotional affection. I am not suggesting that doing so will be easy,however I can testify that doing so will be worth it. that if the creator wanted you to have multiple partners,you would have been given multiple hearts. Have an awesome weekend. THE GREATEST IS LOVE Deji Olabode. Love Dynamics Global. Enthronement Assembly Lagos. [email protected] |
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THE WISDOM OF HAVING A SINGLE LOVER. Key thoughts: Maturity is realizing that the fact that you can, doesn’t necessarily mean you should. If the creator wanted us to have multiple partners,he would have given us multiple hearts. Maturity is realizing that, the fact that you can, doesn’t necessarily mean that you should. We all have the capacity for multiple love affairs in our connected world, but does that mean that we should have them? This inclination for multiple love affairs is all the more bolstered by the proliferation of mobile and social networking technologies. The real revolution of these technologies is not communication, as much as it is access. For the first time in a century, we can have unrestricted access to anyone, anywhere in the world with the capabilities of exchanging text, voice and images with them. This subtle access revolution has led to a global explosion of multiple love affairs. More than ever before, there is a need to remind ourselves of the pragmatic privileges of maintaining a single lover. This article is set forth to do just that. THE PRIVILEGE OF MASTERY AND SPECIALIZATION. Specialization has always been a function of focus on a singular thing. Once you try to focus on too many things your capability for specialization greatly diminishes. This is also true for our love lives. Those who cheat on their spouses by engaging in affairs with multiple partners,automatically sacrifice the ability to be their true lover’s specialist. It is interesting to note that, the higher the degree of specialization you have in a field, the higher the rewards you enjoy. Many do not know the reward of having specialized on their partner for decades because of their greed,lust and covetousness. The zenith of specialization is mastery. There is a depth of love that is only available to those who through focus on a single partner, for an extensive period of time,have become masters of their lover. At that level you can say you know this person inside out. Believe me nothing compares to the joy of specialization and mastery on a single lover. THE PRIVILEGE OF EMOTIONAL CONCENTRATION. One of the challenges of not focusing on one love partner is the dilution and the diffusion of love. Love leaks when we try to offer a similar quantity and quality of it to multiple partners. While most claim to have fun by cheating around, the real damage lies in the fact that it costs them the intensity of feelings that should have belonged to a single partner. The same people tend to complain to me, that they aren’t even sure of what they feel any more because they have offered themselves to too many people. I am convinced that if the creator wanted us to have multiple partners, he would have given us multiple hearts. On the contrary, he gave us a single heart because we are meant for a single partner. When we try to share that single heart with multiple partners, our love will loose its concentration and that is a sad place to be. It is time to block all the love leakages in your life and focus on the one the creator has for you. THE PRIVILEGE OF RESOURCE CONSERVATION. If it is true that where your treasure is, there your heart will be also, what do you imagine will happen to your treasure if your heart is in too many directions,with too many people? Your guess is as good as mine. Your resources will be ABYSMALLY DEPLETED. Imagine on Val’s day that you had twelve partners to settle, imagine the cost implications of servicing the twelve of them with gifts, visits, calls, sex and all what not. The day would likely be an exhausting one for you. Okay even if you lied to keep some of them at bay,your conscience and personal sense of integrity will end up depleted. My local Yoruba dialect has interesting words for promiscuity and adultery. The word “SHINA” for promiscuity can be literally translated as”misappropriation of resources”. The word “AGBERE” means “depletion of profits”. Ancient Yoruba wisdom therefore equates promiscuity and adultery with both the misappropriation of resources and the depletion of profit. It is impossible to actualize your potential with those twin forces working against you. It is time to settle down with a single lover. THE PRIVILEGE OF HEALTH PRESERVATION. The impact of cheating on mental,sexual and physical health as a whole can not be overestimated. Painfully, I have counseled with wives who have had to treat sexually transmitted diseases every time they had unprotected sex with their husbands and vice versa, knowing fully well that they had been faithful to their lover. The psychological turmoil of concealing an affair is another health depleting issue. It is becoming obvious that sticking to a single partner is a vital health imperative. All of these points in a singular direction;It is a mark of wisdom to have and maintain vigorously a single love partner. More important than this,is the determination to settle only for individuals who are responsible and disciplined enough to make you the singular focus of their emotional affection. I am not suggesting that doing so will be easy,however I can testify that doing so will be worth it. that if the creator wanted you to have multiple partners,you would have been given multiple hearts. Have an awesome weekend. THE GREATEST IS LOVE Deji Olabode. Love Dynamics Global. Enthronement Assembly Lagos. [email protected]
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majekdom2: AMEN!!! |
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I receive grace to build a church worth billions for God in my life time. Grace to push this gospel to the next generation. Thank you Jesus
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It is wise to know that, you are only worthy to criticize a level you have attained or more than. How foolish it is for a single guy on the street to criticize a married home. Whatever level you have not attained, try not to stain. There is more to life than you think. Some of us here cannot manage a friend let alone a partner yet you criticize this men of God who have been gathering millions of head for decades without it scattering. Do you think that is ordinary? Face your life and let it work. Leave Men of God alone. To their master they stand or fall not you. Let your works speak not your words. I stand for all men of God that are genuinely called and have been consistent. Thank you for giving hope to the hopeless, thank you for delivering the message of Christ to the world. We know the devil and his agents are fighting hard but we know the gate of hell will never prevail. Let us love. Love builds and not destroy. Follow simple people for simple people last. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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Why not approach corporate affairs commission and your own church too. Then Install your friends and families as stakeholders and se e within a year whether how much you could make. If you have your bible, try read Eph 4:11-16. You will know that people are called. And to the one that called them, they can only answer too not you are freeze. Go and start your church first, when you or freeze can manage hundred heads with professors and learned personalities for a decade, then you can criticize these men of God. Who are you to judge someone else's servant? To their own master, servants stand or fall. And they will stand, for the Lord is able to make them stand. Rom 14:4 akeensbussy: |
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Mathew 26:7-13 A woman came to him with an alabaster jar of very expensive perfume, which she poured on his head as he was reclining at the table. 8 When the disciples saw this, they were indignant. “Why this waste?” they asked. 9 “This perfume could have been sold at a high price and the money given to the poor.” 10 Aware of this, Jesus said to them, “Why are you bothering this woman? She has done a beautiful thing to me. 11 The poor you will always have with you,[a] but you will not always have me. 12 When she poured this perfume on my body, she did it to prepare me for burial. 13 Truly I tell you, wherever this gospel is preached throughout the world, what she has done will also be told, in memory of her.” The heart of a man is desperately wicked. Why are you so wicked to think a man of God that preaches the gospel of Jesus Christ that I know should be poor. You can't preach that gospel, lay your life for your sheep, fast, pray effectively for years and be poor. Even if you choose to be poor wealth will follow you. The prophet Isaiah prophesy this in Isaiah 2:2 In the last days, the mountain of the LORD's house will be the highest of all--the most important place on earth. It will be raised above the other hills, and people from all over the world will stream there to worship. Some of you don't have a clue into what the church will be in this last days. See let me tell you, men of God will be very rich, church will be very rich. Presidents of nations will run to church, people will seek the church. Wealth will move massively into the church. Every good andd God ordained denomination will experience this no matter where the church may be located. For some of you who think men of God live on tithe and offering. Ministry is a calling, if you are called and deliver the mandate God gave to you, you can't go hungry. I once lived with a man of God that has never collected salary from his church. But this man of God devoted all his life praying and fasting for the sheep and for the advancement of the kingdom for over 2 decades even till now. Now his converts and the people his prayer has worked for all round the world can not do without blessing him per day even if he says no. Once you are called and the oil of God is on your head, queen of shebba will bring gift even when you never wanted it. Wealth, money, gift will follow you. So first forget about tithe and offering if you really want to attack the wealth of a man of God. You should fight the oil on their head that makes their prayer to be answered for years and still counting. Check this bible verses Deuteronomy 8:18 - But thou shalt the LORD thy God: for [it is] he that giveth thee power to get wealth, that he may establish his covenant which he sware unto thy fathers, as [it is] this day. Jeremiah 29:11 - For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end. Philippians 4:19 - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Malachi 3:10 - Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith the LORD of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that [there shall] not [be room] enough [to receive it]. 3 John 1:2 - Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth. Psalms 128:2 - For thou shalt eat the labour of thine hands: happy [shalt] thou [be], and [it shall be] well with thee. 2 Corinthians 9:8 - And God [is] able to make all grace abound toward you; that ye, always having all sufficiency in all [things], may abound to every good work: Psalms 1:3 - And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper. 2 Corinthians 8:9 - For ye know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that, though he was rich, yet for your sakes he became poor, that ye through his poverty might be rich. Proverbs 28:25 - He that is of a proud heart stirreth up strife: but he that putteth his trust in the LORD shall be made fat. Zechariah 9:12 - Turn you to the strong hold, ye prisoners of hope: even to day do I declare [that] I will render double unto thee; Job 22:23-27 - If thou return to the Almighty, thou shalt be built up, thou shalt put away iniquity far from thy tabernacles. (Read More...) Luke 6:38 - Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over, shall men give into your bosom. For with the same measure that ye mete withal it shall be measured to you again. Psalms 1:1-6 - Blessed [is] the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful. (Read More...) Deuteronomy 28:1-14 - And it shall come to , if thou shalt hearken diligently unto the voice of the LORD thy God, to observe [and] to do all his commandments which I command thee this day, that the LORD thy God will set thee on high above all nations of the earth: (Read More...) Jeremiah 29:11-14 - For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end. (Read More...) Nehemiah 2:20 - Then answered I them, and said unto them, The God of heaven, he will prosper us; therefore we his servants will arise and build: but ye have no portion, nor right, nor memorial, in Jerusalem. ( |
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Mathew 26:7-13 A woman came to him with an alabaster jar of very expensive perfume, which she poured on his head as he was reclining at the table. 8 When the disciples saw this, they were indignant. “Why this waste?” they asked. 9 “This perfume could have been sold at a high price and the money given to the poor.” 10 Aware of this, Jesus said to them, “Why are you bothering this woman? She has done a beautiful thing to me. 11 The poor you will always have with you,[a] but you will not always have me. 12 When she poured this perfume on my body, she did it to prepare me for burial. 13 Truly I tell you, wherever this gospel is preached throughout the world, what she has done will also be told, in memory of her.” The heart of a man is desperately wicked. Why are you so wicked to think a man of God that preaches the gospel of Jesus Christ that I know should be poor. You can't preach that gospel, lay your life for your sheep, fast, pray effectively for years and be poor. Even if you choose to be poor wealth will follow you. The prophet Isaiah prophesy this in Isaiah 2:2 In the last days, the mountain of the LORD's house will be the highest of all--the most important place on earth. It will be raised above the other hills, and people from all over the world will stream there to worship. Some of you don't have a clue into what the church will be in this last days. See let me tell you, men of God will be very rich, church will be very rich. Presidents of nations will run to church, people will seek the church. Wealth will move massively into the church. Every good andd God ordained denomination will experience this no matter where the church may be located. For some of you who think men of God live on tithe and offering. Ministry is a calling, if you are called and deliver the mandate God gave to you, you can't go hungry. I once lived with a man of God that has never collected salary from his church. But this man of God devoted all his life praying and fasting for the sheep and for the advancement of the kingdom for over 2 decades even till now. Now his converts and the people his prayer has worked for all round the world can not do without blessing him per day even if he says no. Once you are called and the oil of God is on your head, queen of shebba will bring gift even when you never wanted it. Wealth, money, gift will follow you. So first forget about tithe and offering if you really want to attack the wealth of a man of God. You should fight the oil on their head that makes their prayer to be answered for years and still counting. Check this bible verses Deuteronomy 8:18 - But thou shalt the LORD thy God: for [it is] he that giveth thee power to get wealth, that he may establish his covenant which he sware unto thy fathers, as [it is] this day. Jeremiah 29:11 - For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end. Philippians 4:19 - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Malachi 3:10 - Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith the LORD of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that [there shall] not [be room] enough [to receive it]. 3 John 1:2 - Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth. Psalms 128:2 - For thou shalt eat the labour of thine hands: happy [shalt] thou [be], and [it shall be] well with thee. 2 Corinthians 9:8 - And God [is] able to make all grace abound toward you; that ye, always having all sufficiency in all [things], may abound to every good work: Psalms 1:3 - And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper. 2 Corinthians 8:9 - For ye know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that, though he was rich, yet for your sakes he became poor, that ye through his poverty might be rich. Proverbs 28:25 - He that is of a proud heart stirreth up strife: but he that putteth his trust in the LORD shall be made fat. Zechariah 9:12 - Turn you to the strong hold, ye prisoners of hope: even to day do I declare [that] I will render double unto thee; Job 22:23-27 - If thou return to the Almighty, thou shalt be built up, thou shalt put away iniquity far from thy tabernacles. (Read More...) Luke 6:38 - Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over, shall men give into your bosom. For with the same measure that ye mete withal it shall be measured to you again. Psalms 1:1-6 - Blessed [is] the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful. (Read More...) Deuteronomy 28:1-14 - And it shall come to , if thou shalt hearken diligently unto the voice of the LORD thy God, to observe [and] to do all his commandments which I command thee this day, that the LORD thy God will set thee on high above all nations of the earth: (Read More...) Jeremiah 29:11-14 - For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end. (Read More...) Nehemiah 2:20 - Then answered I them, and said unto them, The God of heaven, he will prosper us; therefore we his servants will arise and build: but ye have no portion, nor right, nor memorial, in Jerusalem. |
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LOVE DYNAMICS TODAY! HOW NOT TO BE CRUSHED BY YOUR CRUSH. Key thoughts; If distance can kill love, it certainly can heal lust. I consider a crush to be an intense attraction that we sometimes have for another, owing to their possession of certain desirable qualities. No matter how spiritual or lofty we claim to be, We will most likely be faced with this love equation at some point in our lives.The legitimacy of such attractions is the subject of another debate, but the certainty of their existence is what I am addressing here. These intense attractions could exist between professional colleagues, academic colleagues, spiritual colleagues and in some extreme cases extended family . In fact, the context of occurrence of these emotional enchantments are endless. It is therefore important to know how to manage such attractions to your own personal, professional and spiritual advantage. The consequences of mismanaged attractions can be devastating. A crush not properly managed can cost you your marriage, career, ministry and even leadership. Our society is rife with examples of people who fell from grace in several fields of endeavor, simply because an intense attraction was mismanaged. The casualties range from first grade politicians to sports and entertainment celebrities, to even revered ministers of the gospel. While none of us is in any position to judge them because we all possess our own areas of struggle,theirs are simply more pronounced. We must begin to acquire the skills necessary for the excellent management of both same and opposite sex attractions for the sake of our destinies. It is important to state a very candid fact before we go too far. The fact that you love one doesn’t necessarily mean you can’t be attracted to another. In most settings we have shied away from this fact to our own peril, because in many extremely conservative settings, attraction for anyone other than your spouse is considered to be betrayal, even if you did not act upon the attractions. Spouses tend to not mention such minor attractions to each other, until they become major scandals. I believe that many sex scandals could have been averted if they were sincerely discussed at the elementary attraction phase. It is therefore important to build a social infrastructure of transparency into our relationships , so as not to be victims of unvoiced attractions. We must also unanimously agree that an attraction isn’t betrayal except it is acted upon, or fantasized about. The second thing I always tell myself is that attraction is not authorization. The fact that you are attracted to a person, doesn’t mean that you are authorized to act upon it. Those whose actions are solely based upon the authority of attraction make the worst kind of lovers on earth. Their loyalty to anyone is skin deep not heart deep. The moment they see someone more attractive they are gone. Such lovers should be avoided like a plague. Their love always stings,bites and maims in the end. The authority to act upon our attractions should not be derived from something as fickle as looks,it should be based on things more substantial like character,integrity forthrightness and the likes. Thirdly, all attractions require clarification. You can’t afford to let your eyes and sexual organs decide for you. If you allow them decide for you,you are going to make a shipwreck of your life. What ought to be done, is that every attraction you have must be subjected to the rigorous analysis of your mind as well as the meticulous inquisition of your spirit. Only then can you be sure not to make a mess of yourself. There are several strategic questions I use to process attraction at L.D.G. I will share a few of them now. IS THIS PERSON AVAILABLE? There is no point wasting your precious emotions on a person who is obviously committed to someone else. I once heard of a lady praying that the husband of another woman,whom she dated in her past be restored to her, after he had, had four children with his wife. That is paranoid. This question enables you focus your attraction in fruitful areas. Bearing this in mind that if you use your attraction as an excuse for destroying an established relationship,you are most likely to be haunted down by similar experiences in future. IS THE PERSON APPROACHABLE? I see a lot of people virtually going crazy over celebrities that they aren’t likely to ever meet in their lifetime. The real danger is when they subconsciously begin to use such celebrities as a yardstick for measuring the beauty and capacities of the practical lover they have in their lives at the moment. One thing is certain, the real will always fall short of the ideal. So Kim Kardashian is your ideal portrait of a lady? Okay go and see her and tell her so. Most men must realize that just as we hate to play second fiddle to the fictitious characters in lady’s romance novels, ladies too hate to, have to compete with the Playboy super model images that most of us have come to idolize in our imagination. It’s time to grow up and get real. IS THE PERSON AFFORDABLE? This question deals with the underlying costs of the attractions we are indulging in. And I am not just talking about the financial costs alone but the total life costs of a particular attraction. Certain mismanaged attractions can cost us our peace,our reputation,our leadership,our career,our family and even our spiritual precision. The question we must ask of every attraction is this. ARE YOU WORTH IT? IS THIS PERSON RESPONSIBLE? This has to do with the person’s overall outlook on life. Believe me when I say there are certain attractions you consummate that will lead to threats, blackmail, abuse, extortion and the likes. I mean being attracted to an irresponsible person may upset your total life balance in ways unimaginable. We must be discerning. IS THIS PERSON ATTAINABLE? Certain attractions are blatantly unrealistic. Even if our affections are deceiving us,we must be noble enough not to deceive ourselves. I have observed certain relationships and realized without much effort, that they couldn’t work. Most of them went ahead only for things to crumble not too long after then. IS THIS PERSON SUSTAINABLE? In this you try to answer the question can this last? We must learn to begin with the end in mind. If we don’t have what it takes to finish it,why start it? Many have wasted their time and lives on pointless attractions that weren’t going anywhere. Their regrets tell us that it won’t be wise to make the same mistake in our lives. IS THIS PERSON JUSTIFIABLE? This answers the question of legitimacy,morality and posterity. What will my family say about this, my children, my spouse, my society? It answers the question Am I on solid ground? Do I have a right to assert this attraction? Or will I be in violation of eternal principles if this attraction is consummated? If the answer to all of the above is a categorical yes, then such an attraction can be a stepping stone to an intimate relationship. But if the answers to them all are a capital no, We must withdraw from such attractions and seek out alternatives avenues for our attraction. If the “No and Yes” are evenly distributed,then we should be patient with such attractions until we are fully certain of its rightness. I can almost here someone say sir, but it is not easy to withdraw your attractions from another. To that I say, DISTANCE is the solution. While all attraction is definitely not lust, I often teach that if distance can kill love,surely it can heal lust, and I am fully persuaded that distance can at least regulate attraction. These guidelines are sure to keep your crushes from crushing you,so long as they are systematically applied. I believe in you and I will see you at the top some day soon. THE GREATEST IS LOVE!!! Deji Olabode. Love Dynamics Global. Enthronement Assembly Lagos. [email protected].
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PROFIT MASTERS One of the greatest challenges of new enterprises is the guilt of profit. You must be comfortable with the idea of profit in order to attract profit. For every good services render, there should be a corresponding profit traceable. This might be very difficult to internalize but except it is accepted, you might never resolve your profit challenge. There must be rationality between the quality of your product and the quality of your profit. Every quality service demands quality profits. The longevity of any product should be justified by its profitability except you are running an NGO. Don’t be unwise, if after a lot of innovation and manipulation on a product and it’s not profitable, cut it down and replace it with a more worthy product. Emotional attachment to a product that does not guarantee profitability leads to liquidity. Below are the reasons why I think you should consider profits for your products. REASON WHY YOU NEED PROFIT • New Product Development: It takes finance to develop new product. Research and development of new products require a lot of finances for quality delivery. It is often advised that quality time, energy and resources be invested product development. This will enable the producer to determine the profit margin. In the case where the product is less excellent, the market dynamics and consumer behavior could have a say in the percentage profit. • Privilege of Expansion: Profits also give you the privilege of expansion. Every large scale company today started as a small scale business yesterday. Most of these companies grew because; profits generated were well managed and strategically invested back into the business for expansion. Small Medium Enterprises (SMEs) must be comfortable with profit to enable them expand. This is not to say they must be profit engrossed without focusing on the quality of their product, what I emphasize is that, for every quality product released there should be a corresponding quality profit except you are running a charity organization. • Acquisition of Talents: It takes profit to hire and bring in talented employee into what you are doing. The finances at your disposal will determine the level and quality of the talented employee you can bring into your team. It takes profit to bring them on; it takes profit to maintain them also. • Running Cost: It takes profit to run an existing business. For your products to remain competitive, it takes profits to maintain and project it among the classes. There are businesses up there among the “classes” and there are businesses down there among the “masses”. What determines your position is the level of profits at your disposal for your product projection. Businesses among the classes invest a lot of finances for them to remain relevant and competitive. Profit gives a product a competitive edge. • Infrastructural Development: It takes profits to bring in infrastructure. Every business environment must be conditioned to attract customers. Infrastructures are needed, comfortable enough for business interaction. A writer once said when I see your office infrastructures, I can tell your financial structures. How funny that may be, I think he has a point. • Product Continuity: Profit determines whether a product will last or not. There is no need being emotional with a product or an idea that is not generating profit. A lot of SMEs are emotionally attached to a product due to how fantastic they think the idea is. Sincerely speaking what determine the longevity of a product should be its profitability. If it is profitable let it remain on the shelf, if not cut it down and let another product takes its place. Profit therefore guarantees product continuity. Conclusively, adequate intellectual investment and resources should be put in product development in order for the producer to be able to determine its profits.
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LOVE DYNAMICS TODAY IF THAT LOVE DOES NOT SHOW, THAT LOVE IS NOT SO! Key thoughts; The rewards of love can never be attained without taking the risk of getting hurt. However never confuse the expression of love with the intensity of love. I believe love is a show business. If a love does not show, that love is not so. Simple as that sounds, a lot of people struggle with the expression of love both in human and divine relationships. Hopefully by reading this article we intend to solve this complex equation permanently. The first reason why most people in our generation struggle with the expression of love in their relationships is because most of us are descendants of parents who are stoic in disposition. Stoics are people who subscribe to Philosopher Zeno‘s school of thought, that people should be free of ion and unmoved by joy,love and grief. Though our forefathers might not have studied Zeno, their propensity for expressionless relationships was a confirmation of his ideologies. This is especially true in the African and Asian contexts. As a young man moving close to my forties, I do not have any clear memory of my Dad ever hugging my Mum. The implication of growing up in such expressionless homes for the first 18 to 20years of our lives meant that we lost the opportunity of learning how to express love in our first learning environment. Most men still struggle with this foundation today. The second reason why people struggle with the expression of love in their relationships is because of the globalization of evangelical/puritan Christianity and Islam. It was as if the pioneering missionaries of these global movements equated spirituality with the denial of emotional expression. As these religions gained social acceptance, many people began to pay the high price of emotional denial in other to attain the lofty height of spiritual excellence. Most clergy were even trained never to comment on the emotional side of human beings. Teachings on sexuality were rare, and many adherents of these religions went underground with their emotional nature while these religious institutions lost the vital opportunity of being a defining influence in the emotional lives of the people. We must commend these flourishing religions for the democratization of morality in our society, without which our civilization would have been long extinct. We however must also acknowledge the fact that, the emotional denial generated by the extreme advocacy for morality needs to be addressed by a more engaging and socially relevant generation of clergy who are not afraid to have a say in the emotional struggles of their day. The third reason why some struggle with the expression of love in their relationship is temperamental in nature. Some temperaments seem to be saddled with a deficit in emotional expression. For example, phlegmatics and melancholies compared to sanguines and cholerics who are expressive and buoyant by nature. This is not to say that the first two temperaments do not feel love deeply, they simply do not have as much competence in expression as the other two temperaments. This enabled me coin the term “feelers” and “expressers” in my research on the subject about a decade ago. Feelers to me, are people who have greater depth of feelings than they are able to express,while expressers are people who have greater competence in expression than they actually do feel. The two fold implication of this understanding is that every lover must find out if your partner is a feeler or an expresser. Then with patience and understanding help your partner develop the strengths necessary in their predominant area of weakness,in a non judgmental atmosphere. The final reason why many lovers struggle with the expression of emotional love is due to past hurts of people who took their love for granted. Almost every lover has had the experience of someone taking your revealed feelings for granted. Most lovers leave such painful circumstances with a vow never to be hurt again. Many therefore will rather conceal their love for another, than risk getting hurt again. The truth however is that the rewards of love can never be attained without taking the risks of getting hurt. On this I agree with Eddie L. Long when he defined love as giving another person the power to hurt you but trusting them not to do so. Sometime in future we shall address the subject of risk management in love. It is however crucial not to confuse the expression of love with the intensity of love. The heart is deceitful above all things,and desperately wicked: who can know it. There are certain wicked individuals who derive pleasure from leading people on emotionally for the fun of it. Others do so, in other to get back at someone else who hurt them in their past. This is why you must prove all things emotional and only hold fast to that which you have proven to be true. That said, every lover must understand that demonstrating open love for your partner is a fundamental lover’s right. If you can’t show them you really love them,it is best you leave them alone. All emotionally stingy lovers must prepare their heart to loose their partner once a more benevolent lover shows up in their partner’s life. Finally we must understand that there should be responsible limits of expression in love for unmarried couples. For example, sexual expression is best reserved for the depth of marital union, if you won’t get used and hurt. There is no better way to end this article than the way we started it. Love is show business,if the love does not show that love is not so. THE GREATEST IS LOVE!!! Deji Olabode LOVE DYNAMICS GLOBAL . ENTHRONEMENT ASSEMBLY LAGOS. [email protected] 2 Likes |
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LOVE DYNAMICS TODAY IF THAT LOVE DOES NOT SHOW, THAT LOVE IS NOT SO! Key thoughts; The rewards of love can never be attained without taking the risk of getting hurt. However never confuse the expression of love with the intensity of love. I believe love is a show business. If a love does not show, that love is not so. Simple as that sounds, a lot of people struggle with the expression of love both in human and divine relationships. Hopefully by reading this article we intend to solve this complex equation permanently. The first reason why most people in our generation struggle with the expression of love in their relationships is because most of us are descendants of parents who are stoic in disposition. Stoics are people who subscribe to Philosopher Zeno‘s school of thought, that people should be free of ion and unmoved by joy,love and grief. Though our forefathers might not have studied Zeno, their propensity for expressionless relationships was a confirmation of his ideologies. This is especially true in the African and Asian contexts. As a young man moving close to my forties, I do not have any clear memory of my Dad ever hugging my Mum. The implication of growing up in such expressionless homes for the first 18 to 20years of our lives meant that we lost the opportunity of learning how to express love in our first learning environment. Most men still struggle with this foundation today. The second reason why people struggle with the expression of love in their relationships is because of the globalization of evangelical/puritan Christianity and Islam. It was as if the pioneering missionaries of these global movements equated spirituality with the denial of emotional expression. As these religions gained social acceptance, many people began to pay the high price of emotional denial in other to attain the lofty height of spiritual excellence. Most clergy were even trained never to comment on the emotional side of human beings. Teachings on sexuality were rare, and many adherents of these religions went underground with their emotional nature while these religious institutions lost the vital opportunity of being a defining influence in the emotional lives of the people. We must commend these flourishing religions for the democratization of morality in our society, without which our civilization would have been long extinct. We however must also acknowledge the fact that, the emotional denial generated by the extreme advocacy for morality needs to be addressed by a more engaging and socially relevant generation of clergy who are not afraid to have a say in the emotional struggles of their day. The third reason why some struggle with the expression of love in their relationship is temperamental in nature. Some temperaments seem to be saddled with a deficit in emotional expression. For example, phlegmatics and melancholies compared to sanguines and cholerics who are expressive and buoyant by nature. This is not to say that the first two temperaments do not feel love deeply, they simply do not have as much competence in expression as the other two temperaments. This enabled me coin the term “feelers” and “expressers” in my research on the subject about a decade ago. Feelers to me, are people who have greater depth of feelings than they are able to express,while expressers are people who have greater competence in expression than they actually do feel. The two fold implication of this understanding is that every lover must find out if your partner is a feeler or an expresser. Then with patience and understanding help your partner develop the strengths necessary in their predominant area of weakness,in a non judgmental atmosphere. The final reason why many lovers struggle with the expression of emotional love is due to past hurts of people who took their love for granted. Almost every lover has had the experience of someone taking your revealed feelings for granted. Most lovers leave such painful circumstances with a vow never to be hurt again. Many therefore will rather conceal their love for another, than risk getting hurt again. The truth however is that the rewards of love can never be attained without taking the risks of getting hurt. On this I agree with Eddie L. Long when he defined love as giving another person the power to hurt you but trusting them not to do so. Sometime in future we shall address the subject of risk management in love. It is however crucial not to confuse the expression of love with the intensity of love. The heart is deceitful above all things,and desperately wicked: who can know it. There are certain wicked individuals who derive pleasure from leading people on emotionally for the fun of it. Others do so, in other to get back at someone else who hurt them in their past. This is why you must prove all things emotional and only hold fast to that which you have proven to be true. That said, every lover must understand that demonstrating open love for your partner is a fundamental lover’s right. If you can’t show them you really love them,it is best you leave them alone. All emotionally stingy lovers must prepare their heart to loose their partner once a more benevolent lover shows up in their partner’s life. Finally we must understand that there should be responsible limits of expression in love for unmarried couples. For example, sexual expression is best reserved for the depth of marital union, if you won’t get used and hurt. There is no better way to end this article than the way we started it. Love is show business,if the love does not show that love is not so. THE GREATEST IS LOVE!!! Deji Olabode LOVE DYNAMICS GLOBAL . ENTHRONEMENT ASSEMBLY LAGOS. [email protected] 3 Likes 1 Share |
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Study Mathew 26:6-13! It will help you 'The Poor you will always have with you' Whatever opportunity you have to be a part of building the kingdom of God, you have to embrace it. Whatever grace you have to help poor, also render it. jayson87: |
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We know people like you! Always against what is good! If you are that wise then you should know that whatever you attack you can never attain. Let your marriage be 50 years first, when you are at his level, you can come back and talk. For the first time in humanity, Facebook gave people like you ACCESS without COST! No sacred Intelligence! Not wise enough to know what to touch and what not to touch! I believe in the authority of results and not authority of Ideas. Let your results talk If you don't have positive things to say, concentrate on the issues of your life ShyCypher: 1 Like 1 Share |
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Jesus is the Solution to all these! Accept him, relinquish your sinful ways and grow in the knowledge of His words and watch your life turn around. People beware of the MEDIA! Anybody caught in rituals nowadays is always called a pastor to attract traffic to their page. The gate of hell can never prevail! Halelluyah You have won the victory Halelluyah You have won it all for me Death could not hold Him back michytluv: |
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I beg Mr. Shegun, I have 4 invites ooo with different dates. How do I know which one to go for?
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busuyem: Please Can we get the link to the advert again so we can go through the JD for the various positions d in 2016. |
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shegfun: Thank you sir for your response! I now know the positions I applied for. Please what is the salary range of an ATE Instructor in training! Also whats the position all about. Cheers boss! |
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