NewStats: 3,265,151 , 8,185,803 topics. Date: Friday, 13 June 2025 at 04:22 PM 54o2a

It's not the end of life... Don't give up.

Re- package your CV and browse for various job openings.
- If possible avoid one man's business in the next applications to avoid this kind of heart break.
- If you have a decent car... Be ready to explore uber biz pending offer you might like.
- Be ready to sustain yourself with any available job around... schools just opened.

You're the miracle you're searching for. Don't sleep! Don't slack!! Don't stop!!!

Don't allow SELF PITY as hunger will soon catch up if you don't gear yourself up!
Stay blessed

Thanks OP for this insightful piece. We won't be unfortunate in Jesus name.
Certain innocent kindness can lead one into serious mess.
Thumbs up

Who Bewitched this country? Kai

Prettylitlady:
Goodday NL .. I am here for any matured advice I can get as I understand we have matured people here who can talk senses into my head and make me realise one or two things.

I am in my mid 20's, I dated my Ex for few years, we were both students then in one of the West Universities (graduates now) and I really loved him, it was true love I felt for him to be honest, he wasn't working, I don't demand for money from him or anything, I sell clothes, shoes, bags and do other small businesses while schooling, that's how I foot my own Bills and also give him money sometimes when in need. His family knows me, my family knows him like we were so much in each other(or so I thought). I saw no other guy except him, I built my world around him, we were best of friends as I am an introvert and really don't keep friends so he was my all.
Even though it was a tough decision to make, I had to break up with him due to the following reasons;
1. He has beaten me once and promised not to do it again but he still slapped me in every slightest provocation.
2. He wanted to go into yahoo yahoo. That's not the kind of partner I want, I want a legit hustler not a fraudster.
3. He sometimes cheats on me and I will forgive him always. He tells me I am the main while the others is just for cruise that every guy cheats
4. He suddenly started smoking and drinking due to friends influence I guess (Eew, I don't want that)
5. He is Lazy, always wanting big money buh doesn't want to work. I told him to Start from somewhere after our graduation no matter how little buh he won't heed.
6. He always talks dirty with his female friends even in my presence, I wonder what happens behind me.

I ended the relationship after so much talking, pleas and counselling hoping he will change but he didn't. I dated another guy 2 months later, I know nobody is perfect but trust me when I say my current guy is all I ever wanted in a man. But the truth is I really do not love him that deep, He treats me fine and all but I still feel something for my ex maybe because I was already soo used to him. My boyfriend has told me to go back if that's what I want because he doesn't want a divided attention. I know I can't break up with him because it will hurt him so badly and my conscience won't even allow me because he has done literally nothing wrong, yes we normally have our ups and downs but he hasn't done anything worth breaking up over with.

I just need advice on how I can get this my ex off my head for good. We don't communicate, I have deleted all his numbers, We have been separated for few months now but I still think of him every single day even when I have a good guy already. I don't know what is wrong with me pleasee

It's unfortunate the earliest response triggered fear factor instead of help.
Birthday and personal questions have nothing to do with your situation safehoroscope and other indicative practice.
Trust me, you should not be bothered to be used by people... This is online!

2. I wasn't in your shoe but seen number of cases as this. It's normal to still feel the way you are for the meantime. Because you invested your whole heart to the initial relationship, time & resources... Perhapsit was your first relationship.
Without much words... Moving on is in your best interest...
If not you don't love yourself & want to waste your precious time & being.
I will advise you to trust God for your life Direction & be guided by purpose...
Dwelling on meaningless past won't be a priority anymore.
My piece

Odewaleadesoye:

This piece is thought provoking... I still can't fathom. How our leaders developed such thick skin to call for responsiblility.
It's pathetic... Yet they flew at once to these countries developed by other leaders.

So shameful.

@tete7000
You captured my thought.
We're really in for Long thing...

ValCon888:
Putin thought he was going to take over Ukraine in a matter of days. Probably 7 days at the most before sanctions have any meaningful effect.

But projections and reality are two different things.

The economic hardship that will hit the Russian people is going to be enough to stage a revolution.
After all, the French Revolution started because of a piece of bread.

I won't be surprised if someone in Putin's inner circle tries to kill him.

As in, you nailed it! Ultimately

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And how risky it is![/quote]
It's nothing much. It will go naturally, it's understandable that you may not like how it affects the face.
I ve once had it... Caused by dust/irritation.
I consulted with an optician who advise it would disappear by itself. It's been 9years since it never resurface after 2months then.

obembet:
There is questions I want to ask our religion brothers and sisters here..

Please can someone educate me why God allow all this suffering?

Hello Sis, God is not unjust. Woes of humanity are caused by ourselves - choices, actions & decisions. God has laid down rules/guidelines for man to live with. He is never in haste, everybody will still report to him. Of course, humans thread our own course most times against God's counsel.
Most of the wicked fellow who exert suffering on others are elected/celebrated/aided by men until they start revealing their true nature, even as at then many will still be ing them. How do we blame God on this or want God to interrupt human Organization to destroy them.

2. Human authors what breeds sorrow - e.g bomb, greed, money, nepotism etc if wicked people got no by majority they will back down and bury their heads in Shame. Always consider when majority fights tyranny, high-headness, poor istration, looting...the result can be predictable

3. Evils suffer woes and many of them experiencing untold chaos but because they are not being made public atimes. We conclude it's nothing or everything is fine.
Take for instance, if Ten people venture into evil....just a few let's say 2 can survive it. And for all of them peace would be lacking, while reputation (good names) will be tattered.
Money alone is not a determinant for Success.

4. We human, considered some people to be evil, yet once the opportunity comes, we do worse... Indicating nature of greed in man, it takes God's Grace to be subdued. If God were to impress mark of sin, who will stand?
Though, there are still upright people in our generations.

Let's make efforts to consistently guide our behavior in the right direction always.
Surely good(Godly) people enjoy more than evil. God still offers peace through Jesus if one reconcile with him.

These are my submissions.
Your question is a very thoughtful one.
Thanks

OP. You ve made serious mistake already... Don't aggravate it by going for abortion.
Rather face the shame, allow the situation to challenge your mind to work harder, become responsible to accept being a family man - your life, girlfriend & foetus destinies are hinged on this decision.

You can still make it even with the situation. Take a clue from Ooni of Ife.
Seek God's mercy & face life with boldness & shame your fundamental fears.

Comedian of the year

Dear Nairalander,

This is a link for employment opportunities...
It can save a life from joblessness.

https://advans.aragon-erh.com/new_rec_portal/index/NGA

Good luck

A joke of a country...

The so-called people's representatives turning to be the Enemies of the state due to personal interest.
Even when it's obvious the Executive ideas are shitty yet they are ready to block their brain just to appear loyal.

This country Tiya me... Any Hope?
Sorry it appears the malady is beyond redemption.

AAbuja:


A times I feel really sad and end up praying for those unemployed graduates going through the same phase I am phase I am ing through. Even though you don't know me, I pray for you

@OP don over-analyze your situation.... There are many who sleeps under bridge with no hope
Let alone those who robbers in a bide to make people around them proud.
The country itself lets many people down.
The rule remain the same.... Don't give up on your quest not to settle for low life.. Apply as much(if possible) go beyond your local area but reach out to Urban where there are opportunities & Mega pay.
And U may take up some skills or side hustle - Personal home teaching/Tutorials or start up a trade withal
With God on your side.. Tomorrow shall be Great.
A living dog is better than dead Lion.

barojana:


Handouts in what way The US human dev index is not even as good as that of Norway to begin with. How then can America make Israel what it hasn't achieved?

Israel is in the same league with USA and other Scandinavian countries like sweeden, Denmark etc. It's only unfortunate it is surrounded by historically proven unfortunate Neighbours which has meant it spends heavily on defense what it could have spent on other things. Not Finland, Sweeden or any other countries can survive what Israel has survived and still remain a developed country.

Isreal has the second highest concentration of high valued startups in the world second only to US. It is home to the research and dev hq of most high tech brands like HP, Intel etc.
Jews holds the highest number of Nobel prizes held by any ethnic population.

It has over a thousand ultra high networth individuals which pack $744 billion in combined wealth within a population of just 8 million people packed within a country the size of Oyo state. Coming only second to UAE ($825 Billion) and far ahead of Saudi ($482 Billion) and Turkey ($422 B) and Iran ($266B).

Without no oil, it has now sured the UAE this year for the second highest Gdp per capita in the Middle East ($43000) suring Saudi, Kuwait, Bahrain, Oman etc.

Israel has a 4.2% unemployment rate compared to US with 6%. It has inflation of 0.3% compared with USA of 1.7%. This are economic data published by world Bank.

Israel from 1948 - 2021 fought her wars SINGLEHANDEDLY. It has beating a coalition of Egypt, Iraq, Jordan, Lebanon, Saudi, Sudan, Syria on numerous occasion without any US boot on ground for . Some of its replenishment during war came from as far as chezk Republic not USA.

During the war of attrition, Egypt brought the USSR's ground troops and airforce numbering 20000 to fight Israel's Sinai presence. Israel dealt with USSR (Second Most Powerful Country In The World) on air superiority destroying several airplanes and killing their pilots till they ran away. During did not at one time invite US. Even if it did, US would not come.

The $4 Billion US gives to Israel in military aid is not unique. It equally gives Egypt ($3B) and Pakistan ($2). For Israel, the money helps America's ally with significant advantage over Iran an adversary of USA.

Know wetin you dey talk.

Respect Man!
My iration is huge for people who are versed in these anti-intelligence environment.
Well done for the Tap of Fingers Data Exposition there.

Tripitaka:
The problem with the Nigerian political space is that, no matter how woeful, insipid, clueless, miserable and wicked a politician is, there will always be a majority cheering them on.

If you criticise them, their cheerleaders will automatically switch to the tested and trusted ethno-religious antics of divide and conquer that has always worked magic.

I would never understand how these cheerleaders sleep at night.

You u nailed it Baba, many people's conscience in this country are dead having being sold for money. It's so pathetic.

post=94273462:


Why Do you love it, Our Pastor?

that's not Righteousness89, rather an impostor esp from the moniker spelling

sogodihno:
I need to urgently disburse some cash in Bank, about 5 million to some people, but I have not been able to do this due to lack of NIN number, the NIMC center is currently not functioning, so their is no way I can't get it. The bank won't accept other means of identification like voters card or driver license, only NIN.


Please, what can I do, I need to transfer the money before this month end?

Banks do not accept NIMC without NIN, because the preliminary printout do not have DOB. You can do self identification Affidavit at Any High Court to back the NIMC. It's crime for them not to accept it, having done that.
Regards

naptu2:


Drowning in work?

Hmmn... I respect your intelligence #Salute

Hmmn... Well articulated! May we not be left behind... Great piece.

This is what Lockdown can do...
Resurrecting a buried post since 2017... Yet no convincing answer. How we go take find OP now
Wetin we wan gain on top this matter sef

Thanks @ OP, U re incredibly funny.... I can't stop laughing... U are super talented & 100% sure the comedy world would fetch you endless fortune.
You made my day. Thumbs up!

Naija and media trial.... After all the trending... Reality always negates initial Gra Gra.

She won at the social media so this is for Fatoyinbo.

Minding my business.

YorubaPrince:
Not new... I also discovered a formula at age 7.

Anything multiplied by 11.... See below.

Example.... 43*11 = 4[4+3]3 = 473; 24*11 = 2[2+4]4 = 264.

Any question?

Good one... But unfortunately you in Nigeria.... Discoveries are swept under carpet.

Which way Nigerians, when reputable people keep quiet on issues. We tagged them insensitive, when they speak out... we still call for their heads. Lending a voice against #NextLevel of suffering is appropriate at this crucial time.

Fake News sighted! Lie Mohammed comman see o



Wetin remain for us to eat... Imagine this OP sha... U sha wan trend...

Haba.... Naija Politicians.... This one weak me

Dino Dino... I wonder if this guy were to be senate president... The kind of stunt and drama he would be displaying won't be in this world.

Dino Why naa?

Shibaraba:
E be like say you dey mad op.what sort of racist post is this. Eleven men. Why add black. Eranko

Walahi... U are something else.... U raised important matter but in a abusive comic form.

Hello Mr President, now that you ve appointed people you know... We hope you wont lay blame but would rather take responsibility for your governance.

By the way will anything be different? ... Mtcheww

Lovechisom55:
hunger dey for land

Clown sighted!

Interesting facts... Hopefully we 'll do well. #GoNaija

Haa, make person pack well o... shine your eyes