NewStats: 3,265,241 , 8,186,106 topics. Date: Saturday, 14 June 2025 at 03:07 AM 3b1a4o

I'm very sensitive about this kind of things, Why keeping her ex numbers? you don't keep such number for nothing. I believe very strongly that she still have a feeling for the ex, Don't forget, this's the guy who has done all kinds of sexual things with her. If she's real, it should have been over when marry. I know this guys and I have some of them in my office, bleeping married women, There's no need for her to keep such number, Who're you fooling, not me?

I need some clarity on the whole thing, what do you mean her ex, boyfriend or husband. I do not think however that she's completely hornest in this relationship, that's a fact,I want to know which EX, there's a difference and if you want to win this, show some maturity and with caution,

I don't usually come to this site, but interesting question.I came to USA in 1989 immediately after my WASC exam,and even before the results were out. For the past 6yrs, I have been travelling home{Nigeria} at least twice and more every year.I know Nigeria very well and this part of the world I'm still staying. You can be as diplomatic as you want to be, even my wife who's not nearly as conservative as I am, agrees with me that it will be like jumping off from the 20th floor building without a scratch, I'm sorry

Find out what he's up to. Just call him, that's of course if have his number and say,"hi, just checking on you" keep quiet and listen without saying anything more. If he asked for your numbers again,give them to him. End the conversation politely, eg," OK, take care".  Sometimes, I lost things I consider important just trying to keep it safe and away from others. Every case like this one's different. So, find out. You might be completely wrong

No mam, men don't think its ok. I think you're over generalizing to make your point. if all married men you met want to sleep with you, then that could mean its time to re-examine your behaviour in general around these men.Their wanting to sleep with you may not necessarily mean that you're attractive. it could just mean that you as a lady or your behaviour is cheap. Hopefully, you're not enjoying the foolishness you're describing and I wish you well.

after dating for 3yrs you did not find much about her, suddenly you're beginning to find out these things after just 2months of marriage. what a wicked man you are. most people, man or woman are not comfortable discussing their age. did i hear you right, 2months? . you're at the point of beginning to plan your long life together, a time of really enjoying each other. its unfortunate what she's getting after 2months of marrying you is your deadly poison, called stress. imagine your own sister, after just 2months of marriage, constantly being reminded of her age, lie and not able to conceive. how in the world can she ever conceive under that kind of stress. not able to conceive is a two way street and so, it could be you. you need a good dr, 36yrs is nothing. she can still feel all the rooms with babies as soon as she start feeling like a loved wife and your stress kept to yourself, and i wish you luck

JUST A REMINDER,THIS TYPE OF MEDICAL PROBLEM CAN COME FROM EITHER OF YOU. WHY'S YOUR OWN SISTER IN THE PICTURE? YOU DON'T PROPOSE TO SOMEONE YOU DON'T KNOW. 5YRS, YES IS A LONG TIME, WHAT HAVE BOTH OF YOU BEEN DOING ABOUT THAT?

happy birthday my dear friend. as the head of stares, he made lots of mistakes like every other human being. i love this guy cause he has a vision for nigeria. i'm still against any retierd president from running again. he looks good for that age, happy birthday my friend

you're a confused woman and should never had married. he doesn't love you more than your husband even if it looks that way. maybe you deserve him, two confused loosers. a dirty old fool, trying to sleep with a unintelligent confused woman if he's not done just that. i'm 47, when i first got married, it was also the period i was building my carrier, young families go trough that.get this to your scull, your husband loves you more than he.s showing. what you need to do is to pay more attention to your marriage. i also pray that my two sons will never meet a confused woman like you, and i wish you well

I'M STILL WONDERING WHAT KIND OF ADVISE YOU'RE HONESTLY EXPECTING TO GET HERE. OBVIOUSLY, YOU MUST BE THINKING THAT PEOPLE WHO TO THIS SITE ARE LOOSERS LIKE YOU. THE WALLS OF THE CLASSROOMS DID NOT HELP YOU, I'M SO SORRY. USUALLY, WHEN ONE'S INVITED AS WAS IN YOUR CASE, THEY'RE LOVED AND HAPPY TO BE SEEN AND EVERY ATTENTION GIVEN TO THEM FOR HONORING THE INVITATION. BUT FOR YOU, THE HUSBAND INSULTED YOU. YOU ARE REALY A LOOSER. YOU SLEPT WITH THREE FAMILY , WALK AROUND WITH THEIR NECKED PICTURES, WAS INSULTED IN A PARTY YOU WERE INVITED, WOULDN'T MINE BRAKING UP THE FAMILY,NEVER SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH YOUR BEHAVIOUR AND PROUDLY CAME TO THIS FORUM FOR AN ADVISE. YOU'RE A TOTAL DISAPPOINTMENT TO YOUR FAMILY. I LEAVE IN THE STATES, PEOPLE WHO BEHAVE LIKE YOU DO, DON'T LEAVE LONG. TRY COUNSELING, AND I WISH YOU WELL

Actually, I mean NOT TOO FAR AWAY from the main district. Thanks anyway

I'll be visiting my family at Abuja for the first time and will prefer to stay in the hotel. Any reasonably prised one not too far away from the main district

Why not?

nobody, i mean nobody slaps my wife and walk. you may not be that lucky next time. i take it to be an insult to the husband. good luck

I HOPE THE SE-X'S IS GOOD BECAUSE THATS ALL YOU'RE GETTING. SOME WOMEN ARE JUST NOT 4 MARRIAGE, I"M SORRY. THEY"RE JUST GOOD FOR FUN. ARE YOU REALLY HOPING FOR MORE THAN THAT? I'M NOT KIDDING

HOW YOUNG? I DATED A LADY ABOUT 10YRS OLDER THAN I WAS. IT DEPENDS ON WHAT YOU"RE LOOKING FOR. THE IDEA OF DOING WITH AN OLDER LADY IS JUST WHAT HE'S LOOKING FOR. NOT SURPRISE YOU'VE BEEN HURT SO MANY TIMES, YOU CANN'T THINK STRAIGHT. GOOG LUCK

STOP! ITS NOT A TRIBAL THING. SHE JUST DOESN'T SEE YOU AS MARRIAGE MATERIAL. MY FRIEND, THATS WHY PEOPLE DATE, TO FIND OUT WHETHER BOTH OF YOU HAVE FUTURE TOGETHER, SHE DOES'T THINK SO. JUST MOVE ON, SHE'S MARRIED NOW.

INTERESTINGLY, ONLY A FEW PEOPLE ARE SAYING SOMETHING ABOUT THIS MAN'S WIFE. THE MOTHER IN-LAW'S NOT DOING ANYTHING DIFFERENT FROM WHAT THE MAN'S WIFE'LL DO.YOU DON'T DO ANYTHING YOU DON'T THINK YOU CAN GET AWAY WITH. WHAT WILL MAKE A MOTHER IN-LAW TO SLAP HER OWN SON IN-LAW IN HIS OWN HOUSE OR WHAT WILL MAKE A MAN WANT TO LEAVE WITH HIS IN-LAWS IN THE IN-LAW'S HOUSE. THERE'S MORE TO THIS STORY. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 17YRS AND MY MOTHER IN-LAW KNOWS THE TYPE OF THINGS I ENJOY AND SHE ALWAYS VISIT US WITH THEM.SHE'LL COOK ALL THESE GOOD STUFFS BUT WOULD NOT EVEN DIRECTLY PRESENT THEM TO ME. SHE'LL ALWAYS SHOW THEM TO HER DAUGHTER IF ITS OK OR NOT BEFORE SHE GIVES THEM TO ME. FROM WHERE A DISTANCE, I CAN HEAR MY WIFE SOMETIMES SAYING ITS OK OR DO THIS OR THAT. IF IT GETS TO THE POINT OF SLAPPING HIM AND HE DID'T SEE IT COMING, I THINK HE MUST HAVE A PROBLEM. HE NEEDS TO RE-EXAMINE HIS RELATIONSHIPS WITH HIS WIFE.

Are you that weak? In this fedral building here in the state capital, i work very closely with hundreds of women, most of them very beautiful and work under me. no woman will stupidly fall in love with any married man without getting the green light from him. actions are better than words in this kind of thing. what you do will tell her whether to or not to back off. there's no confusion in this case pls. YOU"RE MARRIED, PERIOD. You must change your life style. I"M NOT JOKING

my friend,i don't think your constantly ing her past is out of the line. men. males, whether they're human or other animals are very protective of the opposite sex in their lives. my problem with all of these, and by the way, i have been very happily married for 14yrs, is why your wife decided to tell you all of her past sexual life? what's the benefit here and how's that going to help your marriage? i also can tell that you're not very close to your wife. i'm not sure where you're, but here in the US, counselling would have been appropriate. your thinkings about her past will definitly affect how you treat her and her respond to that. the last thing a wife who knows that her husband loves her very much would do is thinking about her past. i spend so many quality time with my wife,take her to unsuspecting crazy places and do funny things with her in these places. yes, she may asked, with love, where you learnt all the things you're doing with her, but will appriciate all the energy you're investing in her too. try it,some people will think she's going crazy with her love for you,her husband and her past will just be that, PAST

my dear, if you're in a civilized world, phsychological evaluation may be proper. its not that you're in love with a yoruba man, but are attracted to all yoruba men. i'm a man, not a yoruba or ibo, but what i have noticed, the yorubas are good when dating not marriage. get the unseen load on your sholder off my dear friend. you're soooo blind, and i wish you well

its open to all single men or women.if you're not married just call this person and be married.

if you don't do anything out of anger, you'll do it right and your way. and win. like igwe said, the first thing will be dna test to determine paternity. there are good possibility all the kids may not be yours. i'm sorry, your marriage is over, you don't need a rocket scientist to tell you that. your wife has reached the highest level of infidelity. there are lots you don't know of this woman. you must move on to the nest level, your health,emotion and your kids are better off without her.

don't leave now until she brings home some kind if std.

pls be truthful. i'm 41, married with 2kids

You got it all wrong, lady.In your statement, you added"you all know how it is" because you've been married for 10yrs. Get this in your skull, people don't usually grow apart because of the lenght of marriage, they bond even more. Yoy're the type of woman every good would be husband prays not to meet or marry. I have been married for 14yrs and some times, I feel so sorry for people that are not married. If you're looking for people like you to encourage to start having afairs, you've come to the right place. I hope you'll not teach your kids with your own understandings of marriage. Just go back and read your own writing. "when you're old in this thing called marriage." Shame on you. you married the guy already in your head, thinking it may not last for long. If you think you're unhappy, wait until you start dating, exactely what you're dieing to do. good luck

yes, in african setting, our culture demands that and its called respect. I have been married for 14yrs. at home i do practically anything at home, not your typical african man. but when we go for functions,shes always the one who jumps up to get me whatever i want without asking.learn the culture. your husband may not mind but youwill be irritating and annoying to everyone around you.

your own child,boy or girl would do the same many times over. you really need to pray very hard and long. you don't seem to know the shit you get yourself into. good luck