NewStats: 3,262,886 , 8,178,472 topics. Date: Tuesday, 03 June 2025 at 11:16 PM 51506b

You better run for your life. Someone that is still looking up to God for the fruit of the womb maltreating the one God gave her to protect. Ana again, you are not man enough, you are a weak man. You want to run away from your responsibilities by pleading with your former in laws to take your child, I mean your first fruit instead of standing your ground against your wife to behave herself or move out? You don't need any advise, what you need is to be a man.

Any organization that won't send offer letter after you have spoken to HR on the phone about them giving you the Job should never be taken serious. Then modulated salary again? Only allowances should be attached to performance and not your base salary. If you like yourself, you better stay put at your current job. This new place will sack you and nothing and you will regret leaving your job for them.

Go get original palm wine, and spray your house and give him some to drink 3 times a day.

Get Ewuro(bitter leaf, mix with palm oil or dry gin) rub it on him daily.

Then to stop others from being infected, there is this fruit that looks like watermelon, put it all over your house. ( Go to elewe omo in the market, they will tell you what to do)

All these medications and hospitals won't help, I have been there.

Guy, you get mind sha, you dey do smuggling of PMS to Cotonou and you had the effontry to call it Exportation? Na your type wan make FG comot subsidy for PMS.

Lmaoo, so it's the fault of your wife? If she says she won't do family planning, why can't you as man he using condom?

My wife and I have been using condom since our last kid in 2016, we are use to it. In fact if there is no condom, we don't have access, that is why I always ensure we have enough condoms in the house. Grow up bro.....

My issue with you guys is this, before you ed police you knew the salaries. So what motivated you to in the first place? I hate it when you knew what you what getting yourself into and you turned around to complain.

Abeg, I wan ask you, how many girls you don sleep with?

If I may ask you, why can't you the man do Vasectomy? Instead of disturbing your wife all over the place with IUD? Get it done and let your wife rest abeg....

What a small minded man.

How come you missed out the part that she is not different from the old politicians? Someone that decamped to ADP just because she didn't get the ticket to go to House of Assembly under APC in 2018....

I hope you are aware of the position of the law of the land, it you touch that girl or sleep with her, you have committed an offence. She is a minor, hence she can't even decide for herself. You are setting up yourself up to spend at least 8years in jail and become a sex offender, phedopile. Borrow yourself brain, a word is enough for a sensible person.

You meant 5years?

dyingheart:
we dated for five months. i showed him so much love and care. all he did was complain it wasn't enough, he wanted to date someone else. we're not talking anymore. i miss him like mad. i can't sleep, i can't eat, i can't do anything. it's like my heart has been broken into a thousand pieces. i can't breathe anymore. someone talk to me


****abeg, the man in question is not a Nairalander. cheating was from his part. i was very faithful to him.

To be honest, always check the custom duty rate of whatever you want to buy before you complete the transaction. If you check the rate, taxes, etc The duty they asked you to pay is in order.

Another option is to ask the seller to reduce the value of the item for custom declaration.

Customs no dey manufacture figures, they go by the goods classification.

How much dem pay the vanguard journalist to write this gibberish?

EcoBrick:


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/11/doyin-okupe-shines-at-the-pdp-national-convention/

Naazz:


What's your email address?

[email protected]

Hi, I have opening for Electrical/Electronic Eng for immediate employment in Abuja.
The person should have minimum of 3 to 4years experience in High Speed European machine with electrical s.

This is very urgent.

Thanks

Hi VO,

Sure you are doing very well.

Pls can you shed more lights on the implications of the following Visa related problem:

Cancelled
Cancelled Without Prejudice
Cancelled With Prejudice

If you have any of the above, does it mean the person can never get US Visa again?

Thanks in advance.

You get time bro..............

yusufobinna1:
please tune to channels TV and watch it yourself, stop spreading rumours. how

@Justwise, Pls what is your view on this?... Thanks.

JADESOLA15:
Hi everyone, thanks all for sharing your experiences, I'm most grateful.
pls I need clarification on something that is bothering me, I want to renew now, my initial was business visa through my employer. This is the challenge, I have a coy I ed in 2013, but I started using in 2015 after I got my visa, it was not mentioned in my initial application. The business is now functioning well now and I want to use the coy as part of ties to Nigeria and to show where some of my income comes from.
I hope this won't create a problem for me? Considering that it was not included in my first app knowing fully well it was existing before o filed my application. I will appreciate your contribution.

Hi everyone, thanks all for sharing your experiences, I'm most grateful.
pls I need clarification on something that is bothering me, I want to renew now, my initial was business visa through my employer. This is the challenge, I have a coy I ed in 2013, but I started using in 2015 after I got my visa, it was not mentioned in my initial application. The business is now functioning well now and I want to use the coy as part of ties to Nigeria and to show where some of my income comes from.
I hope this won't create a problem for me? Considering that it was not included in my first app knowing fully well it was existing before o filed my application. I will appreciate your contribution.

Congrats o, but did you say she didnt declare she was going to give birth? or you meant she declared? If she didnt declare at the interview, the best and honorable thing to do is for to use the Visa for the purpose she mentioned in her application and during interview. My 2cents

Baniboy:
Hey folks, nice one being here. This is my first attempt for wify. Got 2 yrs B1/B2 M entry annotation. didn't declare she was going for child birth. No appointment yet with any medical care center. Feel blessed I can share from your wealth of experience. No relative there. How do I begin? Any suggestion will help.

julzz:


No reply

OK. We have been there, and it turned out bad. In our own case, nothing like pregnancy during interview, pregnancy came 4months after visa was issued. We couldn't travel for vacation due to father inlaw's sickness (later died) and burial.
We decided to give birth in Yankee, tried to process visa for mama, na dia katakata happen. Told mama to say na childbirth she wants follow go do. Naso VO said we lied during interview. To cut long story short they called all of us for interview and guess what after few discussion visas were cancelled.

Be guided, let her use the Visa for the actual purpose first.

sugah:

Positive: PTA would become easier to get
Negative: 'CBN' rate is no longer 199naira...it's now whatever the bank 'decides' to sell at

OK. To clear the air on the new forex regime, there is nothing like official rate anymore.
CBN will only participate occasionally, they have appointed primary dealers.
With this new regime that will start on Monday, anyone can work to any bank or primary dealers and buy FX at the rate that market forces will determine.

The rate could be 250 today and 400 the following day.

BDC guys and the abokis would close shop soon cos no one will be patronising them.

For intending America mamas, it's going to be mixed feelings, BTA/PTA will be probably be abolished. While your Form A will no longer be at the rate of 199 or whatever, it will now be determined by market forces of demand and supply.

I hope it's clear a bit for my people here.......

Austine2020:
You are very correct,the best is to use the visa first for the purpose it was given to you and come back before even writing the intent change letter then child birth. The VO is angry that they haven't used the Visa for the purpose it was given to them before Getting for his mum to for Child birth which wasn't the reason the visa was issued in the first place. Thats why its good for her to be in the US first and pay some Doctors and hospital fees like some people did,then send the receipts for her MIL to go along with it to the embassy. I just feel for them and i hope they will reapply backing it up with necessary "Burden of proof" and make their case known to the embassy,with God all things are possible.

Thanks so much. They are obviously angry, most people yesterday were either Dropbox renewals that requested to see, and they denied lots of people. Even the VO guy wanted to call security for someone. A lady that had her baby like 3years ago in US too was denied, she submitted through Dropbox. They said her bill was low that she took medicaid etc, but she said she didn't etc.

Like I said, not the end of the world. Wifey don take am well. We shall use our saved up USD and Naira for another purpose, maybe it's time to start the new house project. Maybe na wetin God dey tell us be that.

We will apply next year with our new baby.


Gracias

LadyGuinivere:
This is a new season. Either that its Trump foot and mouth disease or there's a coded policy to hold back visas. Personally I have the conspiracy theory that they are 'afraiding' us now cos this economy can even make Buhari pikin run away.
Saw this and thought to Share...

Madam, you are absolutely right, I guess they are not convinced that people can funderstand birthing with this dollar wahala.

Though it is painful for me and you family, but I'm not bothered, also happy that wifey took the situation very well. We are forging on.

At times, you feel when you say the truth, it gets you into trouble, which is the case here, if mum had said vacation this wouldn't have happened. But what if we were turned back at POE? But God knows.

Even though she said we can reapply anytime, but I'm not interested. Let me go and convert our already saved USD at zone 4 for another use.

When you lied and you are caught, it is not painful, but when you say the truth and they said you lie, it is seriously painful and hurting. Wisdom is profitable to direct.

Thanks LadyGuinivere for sharing my story. Let people learn too.

Cheers

abujaniv:


Hello JADESOLA15,

Your current visas are still valid and you may travel on them as you wish. Just be sure to tell the agent at the POE exactly what your purpose of travel is. If you plan to have the baby in the U.S. you must provide the agent at the POE with all the documents that demonstrate your ability to pay for the ENTIRE birth (you may not accept any public assistance).

Regards,
Nigeria NIV Team

Hi VO, thanks for your great work here. So I received email from Vice Consul that we should bring our ports for interview, and today VO asked why we didn't travel and I responded. Asked how m7ch we both earn, and we answered.

She stepped out for minutes and came back with our ports with CANCELLED stamp on the visas.

Even though wife was not pregnant during interview, I guess VO felt we lied.

I have taken it in good faith, even though it was painful that being truthful led us here. I will continue to be honest even with this setback. may God keeps us all. Amen.

Thanks and I really appreciate.

Una sabi lie sha. Saraki was in that meeting with Dogara...

abujaniv:


Hello JADESOLA15,

Your current visas are still valid and you may travel on them as you wish. Just be sure to tell the agent at the POE exactly what your purpose of travel is. If you plan to have the baby in the U.S. you must provide the agent at the POE with all the documents that demonstrate your ability to pay for the ENTIRE birth (you may not accept any public assistance).

Regards,
Nigeria NIV Team

Dear VO,

Thanks so much for your swift and apt response.

How do you suggest I go about my Mum's application, can she reapply again? I really want her to stick to the same information that she wants to follow her daughter-in-law to give birth, we are just afraid the VO will say again that we lied about our intentions. We are even ready to if invited to show that we are capable of taking care of all cost that may arise from the trip.

Thanks

Dear VO,



Sure you all is well.



Need your help on this, Myself and wifey with our kid were issued B1/B2 visa in October 2015, and we were suppose to travel for vacation in December but father in law died, and we couldn't make our trip again cos Burial was in February due to preparation and all that.



The Visa officer asked if she was pregnant, but she wasn't at all in 2015, but she became pregnant in January 2016 with EDD September 19 2016. We felt she could give birth in America since we have the capacity etc having checked your site and the requirements to give birth etc, I decided to process application for my mum to follow her to help out, and during her interview she informed the VO that she wanted follow her daughter in law to give birth, and she asked for copies of our visas which I have already added to her envelope. At this point, the VO said we lied during our interview, according to her VO kept saying we lied.



The truth is this, wifey wasn't pregnant at all in 2015, she became pregnant in 2016 January, and that is why her EDD is 19 Sept 2016 they wanted to travel at 35weeks(19 August 2016). According to my mum the VO was calculating the period the visa was issued and now, if she was 3months pregnant during the interview, her EDD would have been April 2016, if she was like 2 months pregnant, her EDD would have been May 2016, and if she was 1month Pregnant during the interview in Oct 2015, her EDD would have been June 2016. If the calculation is done, the VO will realised that we didn't lie during our own interview, and I can understand why her application was denied, even though mum didn't lie also as she mentioned why she wanted to go based on the information we gave her.



I just hope that it will not affect our Visas, as it is not our intention to lie at any point. I have told wifey to forget about giving birth in America as I'm more concerned about our integrity and being truthful at all time.



VO, sincerely sorry that I had to bother you with all these, I just want to know the way forward.



I will appreciate your opinion about our situation.



Regards

Thanks so much, I really appreciate. These figures, does it include doctors fees for JPS?

How do i baylor to get this 3750USD?

Do you have any Dr you can recommend in JPS?

Thanks in advance.

ZillyO:



If your host is a Tarrant County resident then count yourself lucky and head for JPS- John Peter Smith hospital and access their maternity package totalling $4,500

Or you can do Baylor Hospital, Dr Stimage is surprisingly $800 but hospital is either $3,750 or $5,700 depending on how u them. But Dr Stimage is at Carollton just 30mins away from Dallas

Just search for hospitals in Dallas, a lot of people here have gone to Dallas