NewStats: 3,264,080 , 8,182,529 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 03:09 PM 4e5x2t

franxiz:
Good evening wonderful people on the forum.

I just want to share my depression, regrets and failed marriage experience just to let out this load in my heart and move on with life. I will be brief and straight to the point

I met this lady back in our university days, we shared a lot in common and interest. The relationship was good till graduation when we both served in different states, some months into NYSC, she messaged me to forgive her actions and try to move on with life as she had found someone who is ready to settle down and since am still serving I need time to establish myself, that message broke my heart, I tried calling her but she block me on all platforms...

Fast-forward 2years later after NYSC, I got a call from a familiar number but was not sure who the caller might be.. wow it's her! After hearing her voice... before I could say anything, she was already crying and begging me for forgiveness on the phone etc, I tried acting like commando, but the love and fellings we shared took the better of me. I let the past and we started all over again.

Few years later, we are married no kids yet and no peace in the house, we can't spend one full week in a month happy as husband and wife without quarry and not speaking to each other, I have tried to find solution to this issues, but nothing, sometimes it's goes on for months... I have tried talking the her family about it our issues but they feel less concerned as if it's my cross, I have to bear it alone.

My problem began few months after our marriage, wifey complain of being lonely at home each time I go out for work and wanted a small business to run so as to the family, good idea I though but am regretting it today. As wifey is so engrossed in this business and forgetting she has a husband to attend to, Monday to Sunday, even Christmas, easter, salla holidays, she goes to shop from 7am and comes back at night by 9 or 9:30pm with the excuse of traffic on the way or my supplies where bringing me goods so I have to wait for them to come...

Mine most worried issue is that she is not concerned in starting a family, each time I want her attention, all I get is am tired, body dey pain me, tomorrow we do it... but she can't fail to attend to her business matters even as late as 10:30pm she is ordering goods or calling her customs of the goods she has in store from her phone....

I finally man up and told her to choose between her marriage or Business, my people this lady shock me, she walked out of the marriage to focus on her business after wasting my time and resources...

It hurts but I will overcome this depression with time... thank you all and good night.

LET ME BE STRAIGHT THE MISTAKE YOU MADE WAS ACCEPTING HER BACK.. I HAVE SEEN THIS HEADING COUNTLESS TIME I DIDN;T WANT TO READ IT BECAUSE ANYTHING RELATIONSHIP MATTTER DON TIRE ME NOT TO CON TALK OF MARRIAGE. FEEL THE PAIN, FORGET ABOUT THE WHAT YOU HAVE SPENT FOR HER, GET ANOTHER WOMAN PREGNANT.

MrUchenna1:
My 37-year-old son got married without my permission. How can I teach him a lesson?

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IS 37 YEARS OLD MAN A BOY? ALLOW HIM CHOOSE WHO HE WANTS AND LIKE

Dreal1247:
Its wrong to your judgement from one point of view of a magnificent state like Lagos. Get pictures from other places.

which pictures he wan get again. have you been to lagos to see how things are? its a failed state. they are just showing you only train and terminal for una mind lagos is a mega city. mega city my foot. A state that once rain fall, residents will be afraid. not to talk of roads and market and motor parks. its a failed state that is governed by thieves and their head is now the president of the federation. go lagos and see things for your self, don't assume with what you see on TV.

And he is ing him now..

pablobellins:
My infinix Zero X stopped working after I did a factory reset

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During the hours of today at Lekki lagos, Nigeria, an unidentified man was ontop one of the bill board placing a banner with the tag "END THE GAME" What seemed to be a normal situation of just placing a banner, before a blink of an eye, someone fell from the bill board with rope dangling around his neck. LO and behold it was an attempted suicide in broad day light in the very city of Lagos. Thank God for swift response he was rescued and we just hope he is alive.

Josbreed:
I lost my job for over a year now, still job hunting. I learnt that one can access 25% of their funds with every Pension Funds , so that I can start a business. I have mine with Leadway. So I applied for the 25% since before 25th of August, 2023. Some of my friends who deal with other PFAs received their monies within 2 weeks and they told me mine too should not exceed 2 weeks. As at today, 1 month 10 days after the application, Leadway has not paid my money after providing ALL necessary documents.
I have ed them, but told me that "a search of my information in the NIMC website came back as error". Can you believe that?
All my transactions with the 3 banks and MTN, Airtel accepted my NIN. Even my state government and FSRC have no qualms at all with it. I am tayad of waiting for them. I need a guide on how to move all my funds from Leadway to another recommended PFA. Kindly help.

LEAD WAY.. AND ITS THIS SAME LEADWAY I AM USING. FOR OVER THREE MONTHS HAVE NOT GOTTEN ALERT YET. FROM THEM.

You went there in the evening. At exactly what time. And also what was the resumption time stated to you.

want to know how to do that, from a to z, drop your mail or whatsapp let me send you the fulll video and procedures and tools required

The Federal Government announced a N5bn palliative for each state of the federation, including the Federal Capital Territory to cushion the impact of the removal of the petrol subsidy. This was during the month of August. Please since this announcement, how much have you as an individual gotten as a palliative from this TINUBU GOVERNMENT that's causing untold hardship to Nigerians?

blacksam01:
...i run a proxy POS center as my side huzle....and in the last three months i have been arrested twice by the police and special investigation bereau (SIB) , all because Nigerian tefusd to do the simply right thing...

please what is so hard with getting an ATM card,why cant especially the youth stick to a simple instruction

talk waitin happpen which one be all these words thats difficult to get the story line

absolutely nonesense. there is no evidence to that. he didn,t give any money. he is lieing, big lie

ChildOfDoom:
Just lost customers 45000 naira

Lost sleep

Was broke and wanted to recover some of what brothels took from me

Bet9ja took it all

I am in big trouble

the customer will come for you. look for a way to pay the money back asap. gambling is not the way. use what you can afford to lose that will not pain you. or abstain totallly.

placeofallure:


I want to borrow a little from this. I gave my giant fridge to the technician since February; up till now na so so, e ma binu ma, I'll bring it this weekend I dey hear. The thing is I have paid him the 25k he charged cause he made it look like, it's the full payment that will facilitate a speedy repair. Now he's playing hide and seek with me. I'm considering paying the police to deal with him for me.

waitiin you dey wait for. go pick am sharpaly.. collect your money and your refrigerator sharp sharp.... thats how technicians in Nigeria behave.

Who is EKPA? you guys are not ready to tackle him yet and you people will continue to complain. when you guys are ready the entire federation will know.

IamAtikulate:
Virtual card, not visual card.

correct.

Zeboy17:
Anyone who can help me out please. I tried using Kuda but it declined.

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topoftheworld:
Which business can I start or invest 1m into here in Nigeria?

have you tried any of the agri businesss before? its boom. people will eat and will continue to eat

MarvyWhiz:
Has anybody here traded with the seller @kwet on nairaland before? How reliable is he? I am about to make a trade with him. Please response needed thanks.

don't come here and cry later oh..

MarvyWhiz:
Has anybody here traded with the seller @kwet on nairaland before? How reliable is he? I am about to make a trade with him. Please response needed thanks.

What are you trading. Drop your digit let's talk and tell you how to go about it..

If you have another key to the car, go move the car out from his workshop. Get another competent technician to come fix it at your yard. If you have paid him before, look for a way to retrieve your money. And also before you move the car out from his workshop, check if all parts are still intact..

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Messaged you

Mysmartnetwork:
still need

Drop details

If you have all evidences get a human right activist. Police is suppose to protect.

KiNg0G:
I am not here for financial aid but help from people who have overcome such problems.


I can't help but think, when I get married with a wife and kids to feed, is this how I am going to continue? How will my family respect me.

This is the 3rd time of me replacing my tv set in the last 2years. Whenever I run out of money, I search for anything valuable to sell in my home, with the mindset that I will replace it. Which I normally do but sometimes it takes time because i know i might sell it again within some weeks. This is getting on me deeply with the number of cartons of phones and receipts from same equipments I no longer have.
My generator is another thing to talk about that my neighbors and landlord are starting to gossip because I can't explain changing of generator to and fro when its always placed outside.

I know I need help but don't know how to go about this.
I am not here for financial assistance as claimed by some peoples in anyway please, some of us seek for ways to stop some certain things when we know we are falling off tracks.

I am on my way to lg office to replace my TV for the third time and the thought of it warrants this post.

just seeing this now. answer the following questions.

1. When you sell your item what do you use the money to do?

2. Do you sell your items during emergency situation ? like health issue need to be resolved, rent need to be paid, or selling to assist a
family member. (don't talk about food, cos that's everyday routine and you must provide that anyhow anyway but not by selling what you
have bought already)

3. What's that one thing you are doing in the hide that is eating your finance up, only to come out here talking about feeding. Are you into
forex, crypto, gambling, check your self very well those things might be eating your finance up and its reason why you end up selling what
you have bought.

audio publication... Action should match with words

Confidenceads:
please how do I reach you jackmrandy I sent a mail. I also want to track a number

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Confidenceads:
please how do I reach you jackmrandy I sent a mail. I also want to track a number

sus