MeghaneMorgane:
I’m currently in a relationship where both my guy and I are very petty. If my guy does something I don’t like, I tell him the first time, if he does the same thing the second time, I don’t talk too much and I just give him the exact taste of the same medicine. It works every time and he adjusts immediately. Same for him when he tells me he doesn’t like something if I don’t adjust, he will give me the exact taste of my medicine. So far, it’s been working for both of us because we both adjust accordingly.
My question is that I hope this petty behaviour from my guy and I is not a toxic one?
If it is not toxic that’s good. But at what point does this behaviour become toxic?
NB: So far, this petty behaviour has been working well for the both of us.
I’ll give an example of our petty behaviour. My boyfriend went to visit his mum. 24 hours after being at his mum’s place, he didn’t pick my call and he didn’t call me either, and he didn’t respond to the numerous messages I left on his phone. I was so worried, I had to call his mum and told his mum to give him the phone. His mum gave him the phone. His mum also confirmed to me that my boyfriend had arrived 24 hours before I called her so it wasn’t a case of him playing games with me. Obviously I was very angry and I asked him why he wasn’t picking my calls. His response was that he is busy. That he will call me when he is done with the job he was doing. I said ok. I didn’t call him again until he called me. He called me a day and half after speaking with him on his mum’s phone. All the while I was lamenting to his mum how her son has refused to call me or pick my calls. His mum kept consoling me that he will call me immediately he finished what was doing. Guess what?, when I went to visit my own parents, I did exactly the same thing to him. He was so angry. Since then he hasn’t tried that rubbish again. Then we had to promise each other to always pick each other’s call even if we are very busy. Since then we’ve been picking each other’s calls.
So if he sleeps with another woman ,you will also sleep with another man ?
That’s not the best way to correct s man !The both of you needs to work on your self and take responsibility for every action
babazak:
I decided to clear the bush on my idle plot of land, to start a small backyard farm today. In the course of clearing, I noticed some little snails,which I ignored them and continued my clearing. Some minutes later, I started seeing big snails, Kai! That's how I dropped my cutlass and turned snail hunter. I was able to pickup sizeable number of big snails which were later used for snail suya.
PastorOlokonla:
I am sick and tired of working from home. My social life is dying. I never get to drive my car or wear my new clother. Which kain whala be this.
I don miss social life and office romance tire.
Let me help you with your job !you go on your social life and we share the Revenue ??
ValCon888:
Considering the location and time of the crash, it's highly likely the Wigwes had planned to attend the Superbowl holding in Las Vegas.
Many people don't understand the difficulty in flying a helicopter compared to an airplane.
Once a plane generates enough lift, it takes off. All the pilot needs is to get the aircraft to cruising altitude and after that he can sip a coffee or go use the toilet. The plane will fly itself until its time to land.
Helicopter pilots on the other hand need to actively control the aircraft from take off to landing.
In simple , they need to control the helicopter up and down, and left and right while the helicopter is moving forward.
Don't forget you're simultaneously controlling the X axis and Y axis which tilts the nose and tail up or down like a seesaw.
And this doesn't include landing the helicopter which is another challenge by itself.
There are so many variables that can stall the helicopter causing it crash.
A perfectly good helicopter can crash because it's traveling over a pocket of thin air and can't generate enough lift. If there's engine or rotor trouble, just start praying to God.
In sum, if you have alternative means of transportation use it. Only travel by chopper if it's absolutely necessary you do so.
His purpose is to bring experience to the team, he’ll be brought in at the final minutes just to lift the cup.
By the way you need to substitute Ademola Lookman, Chukueze and Iheanacho before you can play Musa, because they are fresher legs in the same position. So what’s the possibility?
Thanks for the insights ! Because I was wondering why he hasn’t been used all this why .. I don’t know much about football but we know him to be a good player too
beekind:
I am the 2nd born out of 2 children, my elder brother has been married for some time with no kids as a result I am super careful with issues relating to fertility.
I am in my late 30s and have been dating a 27 year old lady for 4 months now, the relationship moved so fast as she is a perfect match for me .
I have met her family and she has met mine, we are already planning marriage and have started counselling sessions in her church.
She complained of irregular periods so I told her to do a hormonal profile test and see a gynecologist, turns out she has got PCOS.
I have done my own fertility test and I am fine, I am at a cross road now, I cannot afford to struggle with child birth considering my age and also my only other sibling still also having issues with the wife also still trying to get pregnant after many years.
The only other option would have been to ask her to try for pregnancy before marriage but she is a virgin and wants to keep it that way till wedding, besides if I disvirgin her, how will I be able to walk away incase she doesn't get pregnant ?
I am at crossroads now, its not too late but walking away at this point will be very costly for me since we have already started plans towards the wedding and our families are already in touch.
My heart is heavy and I am confused, I need good advise as I cannot discuss this with anyone.
If she loves u sincerely it would be hard to replace her! Sometimes the problem is not about cutting the head off !you can work together for the treatment
Coolsperm:
Nobody is suffering, we Yoruba Muslims are very ok with Tinubu leadership, all this picture is ipob made, we Yoruba Muslims are ok and happy
Rapture2021:
Before I say one thing my wife has abused the hell out of me,she was such a calm and reserved person before we married,but today at the slightest of misunderstanding she begins the insult,even getting close to my face telling me to beat her,I have never laid a finger on her,but she is tempting me to do that. How can a woman calls a man fool, idiot, animal? I have reported her family severally and yet she is not changing.
I opened a boutique business for her last year,now she said she wants to sell baby things,and I have done it half way,I had to just prank her that the other money I was expecting hasn't come, immediately she began the insult again to my face,as it is the prank is getting real because I will not give her the money anymore
If you abide with what I said you will come out of it ..I hope you understands this
You are at fault in everything ..Don’t you know it takes a disciplined woman to know what she needs and not want ?
You have spoiled her that at any demands she gets it ..Why not try the other way round ?
Have you form brokenness before? Or you feel you are too caring and feel pity for her even when you have and u can’t do without given to her when she ask you for anything !
As a man you don’t answer all women’s wants they are insatiable means u can’t satisfy woman unless she is in need!
Sometimes the solution is good slap to reset their brain but I won’t asked you to go that lane
Let’s take this steps
1.Get enough foods stuff in the house and make sure there are more than enough food in the house and all the basic utilities are handled
2.Form brokenness and feel down at times this is to know her real identity ..
For evening go out chill for beer parlour or just refresh your mind ..Don’t cheat but be free..Dont over drink just make your self happy !
3.Dont eat too much in the house ,sometimes tell her u are filled ..that you don’t have appetite
4. Hit the Gym and pour your annoyance on that
5. Dress well and smell nice
6.All the business you want to open for her ..Tell her you will but she need to take her time and ask her sensitive questions about her feasibility study on the new business ..tell her to give you time like some months ..
7.Surprise her needs not gratify her immediate want
8.Be careful too and pray more ,if she wasn’t like that before work on your self so u can be the book she reads
9.Dont insult her back just give her silent treatment ,do all you need to do to the house and for sometimes avoid over familiarities and mind your business.
10.Read more or research more !keep working on your self
in all leave it to God
I come in peace I hope it meets you in peace .. God be with your marriage
issylarry(m): 3:03pm On Aug 19, 2024 
