NewStats: 3,263,125 , 8,179,190 topics. Date: Wednesday, 04 June 2025 at 07:07 PM 315o5j

I believe the maker of the universe did not make any mistake,we were created perfectly and he knows what's best for us,he gave us everything we want but we choose to hurt ourselves...well here's a little thing I have to say to my fellow men out there,if there's anything at all you owe to your unborn kids...I would say it's a good mother,if there's anything you owe to yourself,I will equally say it's a good wife.Alot of men that are in the grave let me say 70% of men that are laying dead in the grave now are dead not because they didn't have money,but because of their choice of women...now if we will be sincere with ourselves, everything we do...all our efforts and stress are for the women and our children,we care less for ourselves because our heart belong to the women and our children,now this generation is fund of going after the money first because looking for a woman to marry, that's a very big mistake that's has killed a lot,the right time to look for a wife is when you have nothing,I mean nothing m,if she's there with you when you have nothing,then she's the right one,if she can't endure your little beginning don't feel bad or feel unlucky,she's not just the right one , that's how it works...you will definitely find that one girl that will accept you,love you and is ready to work with you towards your dream...hmmm
I met this girl,she liked me and started with me when I had nothing,we were both working,I had nothing she never complained but she painted the picture clear of how she wanted us to build our home,we loved each other, she's humble sincere and I am faithful too I have no reason not to be all I wanted was just that one girl I see cheating as stress... before you know it,the painted picture started becoming reality...if you're with a good woman and you build your home it's the best gift you can give to yourself,but if you chase the money and get a woman to marry, you might end up living a wasteful life,many are dead because they put the devil in the same room with them and called her wife.
so many wasted girls are out there looking for men to ruin,and if you fall in love with them after you've made money,you might end up rai her ex's children and build her life then you live a wasted life,men the first thing you need is not money,the first thing you need as a man is a good woman then you pray for money...I am tired 😩😴 I would have given more examples but mehn I need to eat

Jennyclay:
Afterall, that’s what they are good at

To rape, kill and steal

Thief!!!

Nonsense men!

This sadist has been raped incessantly,i feel your pain... having a hole forcefully drilled is not something to be happy about

proff010:
Sebi you dey Bleep her, no complain na. You don't know how much you will pay if na olosho you carry.
Give her belle asap.

Sex don tire me,i hardly touch her in a week

Tituxy:
Are you not a man?

Are you saying it's normal?

I started dating this lady

Lol...this is hilarious

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I gave up on love since i broke up with my ex, being single is so sweet if you've never been in love before so your guess is right it was hell for me being all by myself,i miss having a gist partner,i Miss having someone to call ode,i miss having someone to tell my sins yet I won't be seen as a sinner,i decided to be single for two years and that didn't stop me from having sex tho but sex with no emotional attachment to me is something i really don't enjoy but i do it sometimes because I'm a man...i started a barbing saloon next to this 25 year old lady that's a hair stylist, I hated her with ion because since my last relationship girls hardly entice me and this one no even get better character so I'm always not in a talking with her but the poor girl didn't know how much i hated her she innocently indulge me in conversations i always run away from after a while,mind you she's from Benin republic so we communicate in youruba, I'm from akwa-ibom state but I speak youruba fluently.

What i basically didn't like about her was the way she likes money,i know everybody needs Money but she's not friendly at all when it comes to money i usually hear her have fight with her boyfriend in her shop that the guy will be complaining that she wants to kill him that she likes money too much and me I'll just be like,God forbid make i get this kind girlfriend wey like money like this i go dey beat am ni,i go dey talk am for my mind....hmmm okay.

This 25 year old lady that's not educated that's a hair stylist next to my shop she started talking to me about her relationship how her boyfriend is so jealous and treats her badly i started understanding situations and i started to feel i was all wrong about her, she's actually somehow nice o..hmmm
This lady now saw me as her gist partner and i was enjoying it,she told me secrets about her and i started to feel for her...hmmm

This lady was preparing semo in her shop the other day she carelessly pour hot semo on her hands and it was no small injury i was next to her and her boyfriend stop caring about her so I felt i was in the best position to look out for her so i was there for her and naso i enter am o.omo if a prophet had told me that i will fall in love with this lady i for beat the prophet i swear, strong boy later fall like mumu...and you know what,after asking her out and she agreed to be my girlfriend,mind you I'm a handsome guy and I'm 25 Year old too she couldn't resist someone like me no girl can actually resist someone like me because i know myself that i sometimes can be a mumu when i care Abt someone, I'll put you first and make sure you're always smile no matter how hard it is for me, that's why I'm very careful with who I develope feelings for because i know if i later fall finish na you go enjoy me because I'll be more than sincere with you and I'll love and care for you like mad but i get angry easily na wetin spoil me be that, that's Abt me.
I started dating this girl and things were working well for me,i started my saloon with a tiger generator and in ni Time she encouraged me and not even a month into the relationship i got a big generator and i did wallpaper in my shop and things were really going good that people started seeing me as a big man o,i really was there for her too and I did everything she wants,i love this girl so damn much that i don't go home without kissing her.
I'm the only son in my family and i have two elder sisters that are married so i stay with my parents and my two younger sister and we own where we stay but when i started dating this girl she said i should rent a house so we can stay alone... though it wasn't a bad idea to me because i feel I'm old enough to stay alone and i love her but my mom doesn't like her because she not educated and she's attends cele,but i love this girl like crazy i really don't know how i got here.
I started saving money not from my barbing business but i also indulge in small yahoo when I'm not barbing so since she suggested we rent our house i started saving money and in no Time I saved 800k and i always tell her how much i save in my opay everytime i keep money there,we tell each other everything,so since I have 800k i told her i was ready to rent the house so we started looking for a house but my mom got to know i had plans of leaving home and staying alone she kicked against it and was ready to fight me if i try to leave home i wasn't ready to fight her,at least not because of a lady i met just a couple month

So,i told her my mom wasn't gonna let me leave home...she wanted me to do my barbing business and go to school,so i told my girlfriend that I wasn't ready to fight my mom on this so I'm using the money for something else,i spend like 450k in my room,for my TV, biggest mattress,a chair and my PS 3 new table and wallpaper, then i used the remaining money to start my school because my mom had always wanted me out on of Nigeria and that's what i want too....hmmmm

My girlfriend was happy my room now looks different and that I'm now in school but she still wants us to rent the house because the place she's staying is owned by a man that's a family friend that works in a different state and will be back this December,she didn't tell me that at first she kept saying the place she stays belongs to her brother and this brother calls her everyday to check on her,she said she wants to be out of there before he gets back because there's no way she's gonna stay in that house with him that he's not gonna try to do something stupid because they are not related by blood...hmmm,she didn't explain all this to me from the beginning now I'm beginning not to be happy with her, I'm broke now the chances of we coming up with money for an apartment now is slim because I'm now in part-time school and i have fees to pay...hmmm

This girl wants to get pregnant for me because she says her Mom is pressuring her that she's not getting younger again that if she see someone that likes her and she likes that she should get pregnant,i want a baby too but i want a better life for my baby, I'm still with my parents and I'm still in school though I'm a barber and my business is doing fine at least,my love for children is the reason i want a child but I don't think I'm ready but this girl is a hair stylist and she owns her shop her business is doing fine too,she says she'll take care if the chili that I don't have to worry much,hmm

Now, I'm fuckin going crazy because i love this girl so much that i can't imagine not see her for a week i go lean,she wan kill me with respect, she's my gist partner though she still like money but i dey chop her money sometimes if i broke, I'm really confused here...she wants a baby i want a baby too but I don't think I'm ready,i stay with my parents and i really don't know what to do someone should please advise me I'm going crazy...is having a baby with her safe? Should i rent a house and stay alone with her and make baby,will i be able to travel out still? Is this relationship healthy for me? But i really love this girl i swear but I don't know if she's the right person for me, she's very smart...is she playing me?

Jakumo:


Despite my having no credentials as a mental health expert, a perusal of the above writeup paints the writer as a clinically depressed individual who is clearly suicidal and could at some point take their own life. There is not one single shred of positive thought evident in the above diatribe, which dwells on the writer's bitter resignation to accept sadness and rage as a lifetime's abiding philosophies.

Life is what you make it. If you see only negative aspects of everything about you, then logically your descent into despair will naturally follow, with the very real possibility that such a complete abandonment of hope will ultimately lead to self-harm or suicide. All the best with your doom and gloom, NewManFred. As for me I am about to hang pipe to a smoking hot 22-year old woman whose delectable and super sexy physique could easily ignite a civil war.

I vividly disagree with you,i mean this so called life on earth is a disaster no one can explain...if you try hard not to look at the negativity it comes with you'll be so stuck when it Hits you hard...i mean we work hard vigorously everyday to make sure life continues without knowing if we will live to see the next day,no real love, nobody to trust everyone is fuckin pretending to be real until they at your back...i won't say the Master planner of this whole bullshit called life is a sadistic but this is the worst plan i have ever come across

This is apparently blackmailing and the OP should be banned from nairaland for this.

Nnaemiemax:
Every woman has one precise need that captures everything in her world. If you are able to discover and consistently address this need, then she’s all yours.

Mumu dey address need, them go help you dress her pants

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram The sooner u know say WOMEN Know no waiting dem want, the better for u!

A woman can love u because u are rich, she fit see POOR man way get big PREEK, she go leave u immediately follow that 1...


My brother all off the above can get a woman easily but abeg try make MONEY for dis life, E GET Y


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

God bless you for me, Lighting up my weed in peace ✌️

NewsLand:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TNeyZJVIP3g



https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/6/delta-man-cries-out-for-help-over-wife-allegedly-assaulting-him-repeatedly-video-2.

Please anybody that has airtime should call woman right fir this man,tufiakwa...efulefu!!!! JESUS

nlfpmod:
As shared by Vashti Vash Offo:



https://twitter.com/Vash_Offo/status/1660702453648465927?t=iG_-zSFySZJMgg1RI7BOoA&s=08

What where you expecting?
You want her to go into the marriage and start deciding for him,of course na husband go tell wife what to do and what not to do,the fact that she's married to someone will change a lot of things and she has to adapt to it so why are you here shouting like it's one big deal,if he didn't have money would she have gotten married to him,now he's telling her what to do she's crying,awon werey.

malcom1X:
I have never seen women trying to be men. Na only men trying to become female I dey see?

Looks like there's money in being female.

Na the update be that,no cast am.

Ronaldo723:
My girlfriend of 8 months has broken up with me because she says I have no plans for her

I was surprised by the outburst cus she is still very young just 19 I don't know what she means by this statement because non of us are ready to marry now

I love this girl so much... I suspect that because her birthday is coming up next month and I haven't said anything about it so she feels I don't take her seriously


I have pleaded and talked to her but she is adamant about her decision that she is tired as I'm wasting her time


I haven't talked about her birthday yet cuz I'm having a hard time, things are pretty tight with me but she just can't understand


Please guys what should I do I'm truly in love with this girl that I'm having a hard time moving on

I really don't have to waste my time trying to talk sense into your head because i see that your simptuous heart is already attached to a pussy but for the sake of saving a bro let me educate you.

*As a young guy aspiring to be successful it is vigorously dangerous to fall in love with a girl that sees relationship as a job expecting to be paid salary and wages.

If it where to be your birthday and she buys you nothing but prayers, you're fine you'll still love her regardless but why doesn't she see it that way, because she feel its her right as the girlfriend...if she's not giving you money and helping you financially too i see no reason why i should be giving you money always and you won't return the vibes, you're a simp for not seeing this

*Only a mad man will beg someone to stay in his life,mehn is your life that ruined... don't tell me you're in love how can you fall so weak and beg someone to stay,when you should be working your ass out to avoid things like this you decided to ridicule yourself my seeking advise on here,i know what you're expecting to hear.
Ohh, continue begging her, don't give up in someone you love,true love is hard to find
Ohh,go and borrow money and organise a good birthday party for her,by so doing she'll know you take her serious.
Ohh,buy her flowers and take it to her house and present it to her on your knees crying and confessing how life is gonna be miserable if she leaves you...you think say na your mate dey here?

Young man this it the time for you to be working and fighting your way to success love will make you weak and you might not be able to face life challenges if you're weak in the heart...if you end up being a poor man this gender will frustrate your life till death and you'll regret falling in love when you should be working your way to the promise land.

*If she's saying you're not serious it simply means she has someone that's being serious with her, incessant begging might make her date you as the second guy but you'll be frustrated in the relationship and beg her to go later because you forced her into the relationship she's readily tired of....i really hope and pray for a society of wise and sensible men,it takes a smart man to know who a woman really is because she fits in every role you want her to act as.....i know you'll still be in her DM begging her regardless of what anyone says on here, saving a sinful soul is way easier than saving a simp

Dailyhappenings:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HIe7yF8DgGs

The Nigerian veteran singer, 2Face Idibia and his wife Annie in a show where he talked about the impulse that triggers men to cheat



https://dailypost.ng/2023/05/19/men-are-wired-to-cheat-because-of-their-genitals-2face-idibia/?amp=1

See to me i no wan hear anything,a successful man has every right to cheat,it is only a simp that will be rich and not cheat on his wife because he feels it's not right...mehn if you must not cheat it's either because you're not that kind of person or maybe you don't like it, don't let one stupid gender come and tell you what to do,noo!!! I will spit on any rich man that makes his wife decide for him,tueh!!!!

Look at it from this angle if that man didn't make it in life she'll definitely leave him for someone that's rich or cheat on him with someone rich that stupid gender can never be loyal when you don't have this money,men stop being stupid..very stupid
Understand the fact that if you don't have this money this rubbish people we call women will never be loyal,so tell me...i now went out of my way .. fought the battle of life ,see shege i con get wetin you want you still wan com dey decide for me mehn you go dey chop slap like doctor's prescription ni,see ehn my wife go dey summisive like mad, infact na eye signal i go dey use take communicate with her on Sundays if i do my eye she go loose guard lasan i fit slap am...yes na,i have what you want i have paid for your bride price i am legally married to you,i spent my money,you con enter house wan con dey decide for me,when i have my money,haaa dey no born any woman well

You can only bring suggestions and i fit decide do what you suggested but you have no right to tell me what to do or fight me for my actions as long as I'm doing my duties as a husband do your duties as a wife and don't interfere with my outside affairs if you no wan chop slap .....men are dying,this women are frustrating, simps are going out of their way to get this money all in the name of Yahoo just to impress this useless beings and dey still will feel its not enough

MechanicMike:




1. U use somtin call COMMMMMON SENCE

2. Common SENCE shod tell u nairaland is not a clinick

3. COMMMMMON SENCE shod then tell u you best thing to do is visit chemist or hospitul.

THANK ME LATER (no offenscce)

If you had the same common senses you'll realize that it's not your father that owns nairaland,your common sense will also remind you that it's not your mother that contribute money to buy my phone, common sense should Also draw your attention that when i wanted to buy data i didn't beg your father, common sense should also remind you that when i wanted to sign up on nairaland no be your mama me,if i can sit in the comfort of my home with just a little data on nairaland i can get answers to my problem or even have more ideas on what's bothering me why will i rather waste money and go the one clinic or chemist,i only made enquiries and your common sense didn't make you look away, instead you decided to talk rubbish..

Jagermeister:
You're dirty my man... See where you chop leave plate.

Make she wash that green lace wey she wear with better hot water, the demon fungi wey dey cause the rash dey green too so e dey camouflage inside the green cloth 😌

That thing fit even be bed bug.. start by debugging your bed and improving your hygiene.

Lolz,wetin you sef look reach where plate dey

My girlfriend has this on her skin an i think its ringworm but I'm apparently not sure of what to use,got her drugs... she's been using it but it seem to be spreading more, please suggest what can work

Starz825:


avoid the latte factors.....spending money on things you can do better off without

do you know you can start a POS business with 120k....


think bro...think...

You're the one noth thinking here, person say him wan buy phone you dey advise am to do pos,did he ask for a business idea or your idea on what phone to get

Ronaldo723:
You know have come to agree with Nairaland repillers on a lot of things but not this one

I believe a girl can be loyal if she decides to irrespective of her sexual status and have had a first hand experience on this

I met this girl last year tho we have known each other for quite a while before we started dating around august and in due course I found out she was pure(virgin)

It took me a while to disflower her because she was extremely tight and couldn’t handle the pain
Coupled with the blood it took me like a month cuz I was very patient with her and whenever she complains I will just stop

Now we have been dating for up to 7 months now and guess what I found out from my virgin girlfriend? She loves another dude!

She confessed to me after a series of quarrels cuz of her attitude… this girl started giving me attitude like hell would be online no text no call nothing!

I had to confront her she then said she needed some space in the relationship that she is stressed… why on earth will she be stressed? After series of questioning she opened up to me that she likes another guy and is confused between the both of us.

I was awestruck! What! Can you believe she had to guts to tell me she don’t know if she should date the both of us? I was so angry and broke up with her

I confronted her bestie who told me everything and said she has told her to choose between me and the guy and my supposed girlfriend Said can’t let any of us go that we both satisfy in different ways which neither of us could do individually 😂

Girls! What do you guys even want? She called me today and was begging me that it was all a prank that there wasn’t another guy that she just made the story up to see my reaction lol… maybe she thinks am a kid

I played along and accepted her back and have decided to use her for just knacking until I get a new chick she is now a certified hoe in my eyes… that’s what I now take her as…. someone I loved with my all..

So to cut the long story short my Guys, virginity is not a guarantee that the girl will be loyal after you disflower her thank you 😊

Okay, a quick one...i really don't have to waste my time on this post because it doesn't make no sense,if you're not rich enough to get married and start a family you should never get your heart attached to no girl because it'll drain you,drag you back and you won't be strong enough to face life challenges because you're in love and you seem jobless to me cuz why d hell will i waste my time talking to a girl that way.... that's aside

I'm a redpiller let me explain something to you,a girls heart and her pussy are two different things,you being the first guy to have sex with her gives you the key to her pussy anytime any day even if she's married and even in love with someone else, unless you decide to let go...if not you can have that pussy anytime anyday.

Here's why she said she wants to date the both of you,you have her pussy the other guy has her heart,she can't let you go just like that because she gave her all to you and she feels you owe her everything,will you let someone that's owing you a lot of money die? That's it,she gave her everything to you and she feels you owe her everything too so that way the pussy is all yours but her heart belongs to someone else,as a redpiller i see you on the winning side,you have the pussy anytime any day and the other guy has the heart,he might not even stand the chance of getting the pussy, depends on the girl tho...ohhh,i have wasted too much time talking to a simp, redpillers don't do that

brain54:
Where is the fun of dating/marrying a 100% submissive woman…


Na robot you wan date or marry?

Everybody with their own sha… as for me I can’t last 2 days in such a relationship.

I like my woman independent and knows what she is about. Not some over submissive “anything you say boss” type woman. You even said “rules and order”. Is she my pupil or employee? That’s weird.


Like I said everyone with their own.

Boring!

If you understand this bitches you'll realise they mess up when you let them think with their head,dey can be easily manipulated,they need to be told what to do everyday of their lives hence they end up doing the wrong thing...a woman needs someone to control her not someone that's gonna let her control herself.

Well,i just ed this morning that I've really been single for 2years now and i still don't feel the need to have a girlfriend.
It all started two years ago when i got to know ubunja,a nairalander...i read all his topics on nairaland and i must say it really changed the way i see em bitches,now I'm a certified redpiller but sometimes i feel pity for the woman I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with bcus my dear you'll be 100% submissive to my rules and orders the discipline will be strong,i know I can't get the love i really want...my wife can't love me the way i want but the respect must be 100%.
Men have been cheated for way too long and I'm not gonna let no bitch rip me off,NO.
Relationship is supposed to be a 50-50 thing how the Bleep will you want everything from me and in return all i get is pu**y,i give you my heart,my money,my dick,my attention and everything and i get is just pu**y and headaches mehn ain't in for that shit no more...so the reason I'm single is basically because i have refused to be scammed and ripped off... what's your reason for being single?