NewStats: 3,263,261 , 8,179,590 topics. Date: Thursday, 05 June 2025 at 09:58 AM 9m3k

Dude,
I had to re after a long time to advise you properly. And here is why you should take me seriously.
1. I'm abroad
2. I'm married.
3. I was exactly in your shoes before I married.

Forget the thrash you see on movies about Love & marriage. Love will clear from your eye within 2months, but compatibility will see you through.

From what you've shared here, this girl is your match and If you lose her because of stupidity, you will end up being lonely, confused and regretful abroad. No one tells you about the Loneliness out here.

Who told you Wives are easy to come by abroad?most men flee from Naija girls here & end up coming home to pick someone to marry, which in that case means long distance arrangee & risky dive. I have no less than 3 Guys coming back home this month purely to find wives. I fear for their choices & put them in prayers everyday.

Back to the Girl, when is it ever wrong for a girl to marry a man with concrete ambitions put into action? Who wants to take that risk? Would you advise your sister to risk it? She clearly knows what she wants in a Man & that in its own is a sign of focus.

My case was worse, I watched my babe treat me unseriously when i was in Maiduguri, and her mum treated me with scorn. By the time my visa came out, I went back to that house & everything changed. I proposed, travelled out, returned in a few months and married her. I knew what I wanted and up-ed my game to get it. I wouldn't let stupid womanly behaviors to ruin my plans. She was the girl i wanted to marry(I no even love am then sef) & I ruthlessly secured my bag. Women are women!

Females of all species are wired to mate with the Alpha male. Love will come at some point when you Guys have surmounted Challenges together.
(na when they give you list & you start spending, you eye will clear from Love)

What even makes you so sure telling her your plans may influence her decision? You may be in for a rude shock.

Leave Naija movie package, call her, sit her down & tell her you are travelling abroad and she's the wifey you want to take there. If she says Yes. Quickly see her family and sort things halfway before you leave, they and your family are another major obstacles you might face.

Ambition is not a crime, & we must begin to respect women who bring out our best game, not those who take blind risks out of "Love" that may sink you both into poverty.

You are even lucky you found someone you love, and you wanna throw it away because you lack game. Use your advantage and secure your bag! Its all ing what you have to get what YOU WANT!

Shalom!

rabluk:

DIFF please. They use procedures specific to ur needs. I had a baby girl n my friend just had twin boys.

Price Kwanu?

SendAbroad:


What is the husband's situation SFA wise?

Last Time I checked.. He was okay

Azaebere:


God bless you for doing this for your sister. This one will not fail in Jesus name. Fertileaid and Grabbo are good, but Grabbo is pocket friendly. Baby dust to them

Amen

shithapuns:


let her take out minimum of 3months to prepare her body, detox and be on ubiquinol and royal jelly.

Thank you very much.. I'll find it and buy for her.

Mommadd:


Thanks for having your sister's back, this the kind of the thing I hope to be able to do for people somedays
I live in Abuja and having used both Grabbo and fertilaid, I will say both of them are ok but I will rate fertilaid higher anyday though they are way more expensive.
so since you are looking at multiple trial, I will advice you use grabbo as they are quite affordable.
Also, grabbo just moved to a new facility and have lodging within the premises
You can pm me for any further assistance
God bless

Thank you.

Bunny19:
God bless u for this gesture sir. Why don't u try fertilaid in gwarinpa abuja. A lot have women have gotten success there. U can do ur findings

Thank you very much.. I'll ask around.
I've read through the thread and heard alot of positive reviews about Gabbo in Gwarimpa. Will keep the 2 high up.
Thanks again.
More comments appreciated please.

Good afternoon people,
I am about to surprise my Elder sister who has PCOS that has resulted in 9years of subfertility and 2 ivf failures with 1million naira to restart her ivf trials again. She's in Taraba with the Husband, thus the closest place for her is abuja.
As much I as know the fluidity of outcomes of this procedure, I also recognize that informed decisions do alter the prognosis abit. In this regard, I would like to know the following.

1. Which ivf center is the most cost-effective in abuja( she and and husband are having financial setbacks so I shall be paying most of the way?)

2. Which one is most flexible in of appointments and followup considering their location which makes travelling for Cycle correction and ovarian hyperstimulation inevitable.?

3. I know your chances increase with more cycles.. Which ivf center is the cheapest ast for multiple back to back cycles if néed.

My questions are not exhaustive, this couple have done in Nisa premier and India without success before stumbling upon hard times which is making feeding difficult how much more ivf.. My prayer is that this gesture kickstarts some progress in their lives.


Comments are welcome.
Thank you my Queens

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My Doctor friend was given an Anatomy Diagram to label at JFK airport 2 weeks ago too...Trump ain't smiling.

Better Voice

OP, God Bless you..I am a Doctor too, though a Deist. I ire your courage, for it takes courage to renounce the infidelity that religion bestows upon us..I do not oppose those who believe in miracles( after, the mechanisms of Placebo could for Miracles), neither do I blame those whom experience have shown that prayers are futile exercises.
Working in a Hospital, especially in a 3rd world country like Nigeria exposes one to so many contradictions of life. Religion has its role in the evolution of societies...However, the Nigerian religious system promotes stupidity, idiocy, delusional inclinations and crude naivety even among Educated citizens.

Shout Out to all Fighting Men out there.
Our Military has become the most formidable on the Continent despite the sabotage by our Frenemies (like the US and UK)...We are fighting on two fronts internally while maintaining batallion sized overseas deployments in more than 4 Countries of Africa not mentioning Policing duties within the country ( to complement the efforts of a police force that has refused to modernize)!
Respects to you Guys.

Dear Egbons and Umunnas in the House...Good morning.Once again, I have come to trouble you.

Quickly, I have a Colleague who is interested in pursuing Nuclear Medicine as an area of Specialization. However, being an evolving specialty in Nigeria with very few centers that render Nuclear services, I fear he may be unemployed at the end of his residency program when He becomes a consultant.
I have asked him to consider areas like Oncology(Radiotherapy) or even Radiology itself since these are well grounded specialties in Nigeria and the entry requirements are similar for all three even though financial prospects differ, but his reasons for preferring Nuclear medicine beats me.

I will appreciate the kind input of our Chiefs in this regard, since Medicine is like a Maze.

9jakohai:


He probably did....but dialysis , frequent dialysis , can cost up to N15000-20000 per week.

You never add Erythropoietin Injection, Blood for IntraDialysis Infusion, and other Orishishi oh..
I no wish my Enemy CKD!

I love this Guy!

Why not HardRoof kwanu?

Could just be a Schizo...Mental disorder comes in various forms and his isn't bizarre.
His dreads look worn and his posture lean enough to tell you this man has suffered a lot.
From tagging Old women with Dementia as Witches to Calling Homeless people Ritualists, the Nigerian Population manifests it's gross illiteracy levels for the World to see..
2 Months in Rehab and you won't recognize that man.

WizBLANCE:
History students i heard the duo (tiv and fulani) are brothers - like same father and same mother. How true is that?

One migrated from Guinea, the other from Congo... Where's the Common ancestry here?

For how much bros and what us the Ba3 life like?

Even before the insurgency, Colonels have traditionally commanded Brigades in Nigeria.. 33 and 34 Field Artillery Brigades in Bauchi and Owerri have been commanded by Cols for ages..Most of them attained Brig during their Tenures as Brigade Commanders.. Wale is right.

PrimeEagle. Pls remove those pictures, you are putting those men in Danger-abeg!

HungerBAD:
Laughing.

Hilarious seeing grown ups this way.

Almost 40 Educated Graduates, kneeling with their hands in the air, controlled by one Gun-less Soldier. These Corpers kneeling down, are all embarrassment to their educated minds, and to their rights.

Never ever allow any man put you on your knees, no matter what.

Every Great General ed through a Drill Sergeant and ate his shit at some point...Even Princes Charles and Harry of the UK were drilled by a Sergeant and made to learn the basic rudiments of Discipline, Decisiveness, Order and Speed. Go to Israel and see finer and more rugged Girls fighting Palestinians and Excelling in all endeavours of life at the same time.Bleep with an Eritrean Girl and see na ..Wake Up Mate.

Going to Southern Kaduna Tomorrow.

I need this kinda woman to marry..she's light years ahead of her peers in thought.

Idiots! Why take the award ceremony to Lagos- another man's state? If Taraba was good enough, why didn't they use Jalingo as the venue,?
Everybody for the list na Mr & Mrs.. No academic titles..nothing!
A state with huge potentials but absolutely zero human resources!
Shame!

Na dis kind analysis I dey hate...OP only sees the problem with a monochrome lens. The Hardest hit in a recession aint the Upper Middle class, but the Lower Middle class who are pushed into full scale poverty.

Has OP noticed there are more children at home during School hours this period? In my compound, I can count 5.Parents can no longer afford school fees.

Has OP come to Public hospitals to see how people dying? Ordinary Antimalarials go for above N1000 now, and quackery is on the rise because people just can't afford healthcare.

Teeanage Girls have turned to prostitution just to feed themselves and their siblings.

Teenage boys beseige Sport Betting Offices daily, waiting to hammer, because work no dey..not even labourer job.

Things are definitely working for some, but for the 70% "TYPICAL" Nigerians, Destitution stares them in the face.

Elxandre:

Most likely your phone doesn't Glo's 3g band.

But na the same Cubot other people dey use...why my matter come different na?

No specs? Haba..let's know if it's bulletproof or thin skinned, run flat tires or not, etc

The Sharia drive of 1999 in Nigeria came out of Zamfara...eventually spreading to other states leading to riots were Christians were killed in Kaduna, Kano, Bauchi...why hasn't Sharia law been a deterrent to these rustlers? Karma?

Illegal Gold mining has been taking place in Zamfara for ages secretly until the lead poisoning saga which blew the lid on this covert sector which I hear receives sponsorship from alot of Ex military men..we all know what happens in Mineral rich areas in Africa- Liberia, Sierra Leone, Congo DRC etc... Violence and illegal mining are in separable. Karma?

Let our senators thoroughly investigate the mining activities in Zamfara with the view of securing and regulating it, only then can violence be curtailed.

I don't wanna mention thebl camera because I am not a camera freak, however, since I brought this phone my glo 4G LTE has never worked...even though I recharged specifically 4G subscription and stay in a 4G coverage area... Any hlep in this regard will be appreciated... BTW, I rooted the phone and the functions improved..thanks peeps

I'll rather visit beegeagle for more authentic news