NewStats: 3,264,690 , 8,184,421 topics. Date: Thursday, 12 June 2025 at 04:32 AM 4h4m3x

Mrs.Chima:
This thread still popping

Smh.

dont worry madam, you haven't missed anything. Thread has turned from 'advice and opinion' to verbal abuse and name calling. I'm out of here though. Going home to play with my lovely kids, missed them like crazzzzy!

SELFWORTH:

Don't mind him. Who knows what he is up to already ?

What I am up to? I am already doing your mama. sick pervert

Plantain_Boy: When they're tired of looking at your's, they'll look elsewhere. Are yu trying 2 seduce your daughters or what?

yes i am, and when I'm done, I will come seduce your mama too. Idiot

ijebabe: LOL @ all the hilarious and re,tarded comments.
I'm surprised at some of you guys accusing the OP of being a what-not. Some people can be fvcking stupid sha!

I bow ooo, see me see wahala

obalola7:

You are just on a defensive spree, if you know you don't want to be reprimanded or scolded for what you have done, then you shouldn't have wash your dirty laundry outside.
Also, i think you need help to comprehend phrases like the one i earlier left. There was no abuse in it, rather there was opinion and a better description of what you are doing. No one call you pedophile, however, if you think you are guilty of that, i think you are and therefore you should change your childish behavior. You need to be reprimanded and that was what my earlier opinion was all about. So grow up

'Reprimanded' LOL, you make me laugh. Because I dont see any reason to jump behind the cupboard in case my kids walk into the room and I am undressed, then I need to be reprimanded. I have done nothing wrong and it is no dirty laundry. It is dirty laundry to you because you have a perversion of child molestation in your head, that is why it is dirty to you. maybe you were touched inappropriately as a child and still have not forgiven your relative that did this to you and you are still suffering from the experience. Sorry eh!. To me, it is not dirty laundry, dont feel any guilt because I dont rush for the towel to cover my manliness if any of my kids walk in the room. 'Reprimanded' hahaha, I just needed to say that word again

Omolola1:

You are a bigger dunce! That is why you do not know what it means to do something indirectly!
What are u teaching your kids by being totally n.a.ked around them.
You can even tell them to bathe for you in the bathroom! Nicompoo

'what am I teaching my kids by being n.a.ked around them?' Nothing I am not teaching them anything.
but to your twisted p0rn0graphic mind, you think I am teaching them how to have intimate intercourse, and molesting them se*ually, people's minds are so twisted & perveted, goodness me

deaconfrost: for those of you asking where in the bible that shows that unclothedness in front of your relatives (in this case POSTER's kids), read: [size=16pt]Leviticus 18: 6-18[/size]

Leviticus 18:6-8
King James Version (KJV)

6 None of you shall approach to any that is near of kin to him, to uncover their unclothedness: I am the Lord.

7 The unclothedness of thy father, or the unclothedness of thy mother, shalt thou not uncover: she is thy mother; thou shalt not uncover her unclothedness.

8 The unclothedness of thy father's wife shalt thou not uncover: it is thy father's unclothedness.

from my undersatnding these verses you have quoted, it is not talking about seeing them naked. 'uncover their unclothedness' means to have se*ual intercourse, not seeing someone naked. it is bible language, just like when be bible says 'Abraham knew his wife' it does not mean he went to her and said 'can I get to know you?'

Omolola1: Yes sir!!!!!! She is so right!!!

How can you, how would you even UnCloth in the presence of your children? Most especially, your daughters! It is so so wrong.

You'd be surprised one day in a gathering your daughter would just walk up to you and say "daddy, show my friends how big your **** is? Then, am sure you'd be embarrassed.

Please stop this act! You are indirectly molesting your children! You can be sued for this!!!

You are a dunce, not only that, an ingnorant dunce. It's the perversion in your mind that is speaking. because your mind is so twisted and perveted, that is why when you think of unclothedness in front of a child, automatically your mind goes off to child moestation and child p0rn. Not everyone has twisted minds like you, some of us still think straight and pure and dont of think of molesting children, more so our own kids.

You use the word 'sue' and don't even know the meaning. LOL

Abbott: Idi-amin, you asked for the opinions of NLnders, 80%, at least up to page 3, said you should agree with your wife on this. I do too.
Make a conscious effort to lock the bathroom door when having ur bath or ur bedroom door when dres.
Get your children their own toiletries(?) so they dont barge in while you're dres or having ur bath. If the door is locked, they learn to knock. It helps them, beyond your environment. It is advisable you stop this NOW.

if you look into my past posts, you will see where I agree will try and be conscious and try and teach my kids to knock before coming into the bathroom, it's not about getting an opinion different to mine, I don't mind that. i would not post and aslk for opinions if i only just wanted people to agree with me. What i can't stand is abuse from people, child molester, peadophile, bad father, one dude said ' I'm planning to be having sex with my daughters before they turn 10 years old, that is why I am flaunting my unclothedness in their eyes, so that it will be no big deal to them when i start to bleep them'. LOL disgusting

violent:

I don't see anything crass in my comments nor a need to apologize for thinking it's morally reprehensible if a father does not see a big deal having his two underage young girls stare on his bareness. That in my books qualifies for the worst parenting ever.

Nigerians, they dont reead, and even if they read, they cant comprehend because of low IQ. you making it sound as if I line my daughters up, pull down my pants and show them my manliness, you are twisting my words and doing it on purpose. I have stated that I do not make a conscious effort to hide if they walk in, and I have stated before that they do not even stare or even notice that I am naked, cos I have been naked around my kids sice they were babies and its no big deal to them, but you naking it sound like I am purposely going around the house all day with my nuts out showing it off to my kids. LMAO, you Nigerians!

beebop: Also someone is mentioning something about children gossiping about daddy's kpekus.

AND SO.

Your daddy has a blockus, Everyone's daddy has a blockus. I can't count how many blockuses I've seen on the roadside in Lagos just peeing away merrily. It's my own daddy's blockus that is now special.

chai. you people will KEEEL me

Me I like to read on the toilet. My door is firmly closed (also who wants to smell that) and anyone disturbing me during #2 will hear from me, not because I'm ashamed I have a toto but don't DISTURB me while I'm reading on the toilet dammmit.

You are just a comedian, Oniranu
made me laugh though
LMAO

cowgurl: What your wifey is requesting of you is no big deal poster, so please don't make it one.
so just go ahead and act accordingly.


I personally do not have an issue with you being unclad around your 7 year old son cos to me, it's kinda fun, the games you both play n all
but around your 4 year old daughters now that's obscene, besides you don't want those twinnies comparing sizes when they grow up lol!

so just do as she said alright.

Believe i have decided to try, but I have to make a conscious effort and . My wife has good point, it's not like I disagree with her, but it is not in me to hide. some people here are posting nonsense as if, if I need to UnCloth, i will call them to line up in fromnt of me to see me naked. people and assumptions.

Ndeewonu: Except you want to start sleeping with your daughters even before they get to 10 years (just as some fathers we read about these days, do), that is the only reason that can justify your showing your unclothedness to your children. If your children, including daughters, get used to your m@nhood, it means it would become much easier for you to start having s3x with then, even up to their adult age, and they would not see it as anything bad.

Boy! That is too wrong! As soon as my own children get to 1 (I mean one) year, I move them to the Children's Room.

This is the kind of stupidity i try to avoid from brain dead nigerians, don't know how you get access to the internet to be honest. 'Unless I want to start having sex with my daughters' you said. Really? Is that the conclusion you have made from my post. I'm out of here folks, does anyone know how to delete a post on nairaland?

linearity: If you are staying in one of the western countries e.g. USA, UK, etc....very soon you will be getting a visit from child protective services and you will be in a difficult position defending your action.

This is the way it is going to happen: Since kids are innocent and very free, one day at the playground at school or during picnics, and as each child will be discussing living at home or body part out of curiosity, your kid is going to let it out how your manliness is bigger than his, etc...one thing will lead to another and the teacher will hear about it....then the principal...if the teacher did not her...the kids that heard it...down the road will make those comments casually to their parents and those parents will call the principal...one way or the other...your kid will be invited to the principal's office and child protective services will be called.

If you narrate what you just told the world here to the child protective service or a Judge, I do not think they will be happy with your actions and if in the USA, you will at least server time for either of the following or all of them combined:

1. Indecent exposure.
2. Corruption of a minor
3. Lewd and lascivious conduct

Since this has been going on for a long time, if the prosecutor does not like you and want to shut you down for a very long time...they would charge you with multiple counts on each charges.

Now, am not saying all of these or any of these might stick...but I do not think you will be let go off the hook free.

You have already done the damage, heed your wife's warning and stop it immediately...this might not prevent your kids from talking about it...but the further you put the incident from them, the less they will it and be able to talk about it.

I live in London, but you are blabbing a lot of rubbish here that you know absolutely nothing about. Really? so my child will tell another child that she saw me naked, then the child will tell her parent who will tell the principal, then the principal will call the police that my child saw me naked in my house, then I will be arrested and place in child molester's , abi? LOL, you make me laugh. I am a lawyer, and you know nothing you are talking about.

HQ: Read between the lines. The OP pointed out that it has been the "norm" since his kids were babies - which suggests they are sort of used to it.


IMO, I don't think it's a good idea to continue with the practice when your kids hit puberty (now I'm talking Dad vs Female Kids & Mum vs the Male Kids).

At their current age they may not see it as anything but as they grow older(and hit puberty), they could re-act differently.


Think of what happens when a child goes by "Oh, Mum doesn't mind when I pop into the Bathroom when she's bathing" and does that a lot more often (with a bad motive).

I just hope the kids grow up to understand that it wouldn't be regarded "normal" if they did same to "someone else" (say dash into the bathroom without knocking when someone's bathing and so on).


Just My Two Cents. I'm not a father yet, hopefully when I get there, I'll understand better.

Good points. not sure if my kids know that this is just 'normal' in our house alone, that is entering bathrooms and rooms without knocking, they dont do it at home. maybe need to start teaching them about knocking. But when we drive to Cardiff and stay in my sister's place, they dont go to toilet without telling me or my wife that they want to pee. i think it's just the familiarity we have at home, nut good point though

Sgtkoselupa: I have children of about the same age and I don't cover or lock the door too. Also, my wife does not lock the children out or lock the door while dressing. Me, I don't see anything wrong.

At least I know now I dont have mental illness or a peadophile like a lot of posters are making me look like. I don't make a conscious effort to dive behind the chair or bed if my kids walk in and I'm naked. People just see this differently, some judges here have already comdemned us to the child molester's , if they had their way, we will be behind bars with no parol

naijababe: This is not a moral issue, depends on what you are comfortable with. I have never made any conscious effort to hide my nudity from my kids but I don't go around the house nude either.

thank you ooo, same thing here, but everybody going on like I an a child ab putting my manliness in my daughter hands to touch and feel. This is what I have been trying say, maybe I did not write it right, 'conscious effort' is the word, I do not make that effort, but its not like I go around the house saying ' look how big daddy's manliness is :-)

baby_123: Lmaoooo. Wow, am out of here. Must not be reading this post right. Pissing contest and flaunting. Imagine a kids mind so corrupt to be looking for a size bigger than her dad's. Rotflmao. *laughing seriously*. Even bible quote too. So I can not be comfortable in my own room. My parents rooms had bathrooms in it, and so do mine. Maybe people think OP is talking about shared bathroom or face me I face you.looool.

Lamoo, abi ooo, they turned topic into pissing contest and flauting. someone even said I am teaching PRACTICAL sex education, have been called a child ab and bad role model, see me see trouble ooo . LOL

obalola7:

I think you are one of the people that are not worth of being a good role model as a father or leader of a house. First, looking from the above highlighted sentence, it appears that your parent taught you well, but you just decided to do injustice to your own kids. You are immorally wrong and indiscipline to abuse the children like that. You better grow up and stop acting like a high school boy

Anyway, I should have known that when you look for opinions from dull headed people, all you will get is abuse - calling me a bad role model, peadophile and a child ab and molester. Nigerians! SMH anyway thanks for your , appreciated

Mavor: Dude are you a Christian? If yes, the bible has God speaking against children seeing the unclothedness of their parents. Not good.

No I am not a christian, dont subscribe to any religion. And I believe (correct me if I am wrong) that when the bible says 'children should not uncover their parent's unclothedness' the book is talking about sexual intercourse ( i may be wrong, just my thought on the verse)

Siena:

You asked for opinions, I gave mine. It may not have been what you wanted to hear, but that's life. Note, I said opinion, not fact. How you choose to raise your children is your business, though once you posted here, and asked if it was right or wrong, it became everyone's business.

No need to get defensive either. I never said you were a p@edophile. And as for it not bothering you, why are we having this conversation, if this is the case?

thanks, u are indeed correct, it is my business. You are right it does not bother me. the reason I am having the coversation (as i wrote in my post) is taht it bothers my wife, not because she thinks I will do anything improper. she just thinks it's culturally wrong (she can't say why, or give me a solid reason), 'It is just not right, don't really know why' she says

Teju babyface, anyday, anytime

slimyem: You shouldn't even wait for them to ask but when they ask it shouldnt be because you been flaunting your thing in their face all over the house.
Sex education is good but it has to be verbal not practical like you are doing and its has to be when the child's mind is developed enough to understand and digest the idea not at age 4 or age 7.
What they should be learning now is how they shouldn't allow anyone touch them in those places and/or let you or their mum knows if such happens!!

Ok, I see what this is turning into. I never said I 'flaunt my thing' or teach them 'practical sex education'. people are starting to assume I am telling my daughters to look and touch, and tell them this is balls and this is manliness. anyway, thanks for the

Mrs.Chima:
Since OP doesn't have an issue with prancing around nekkid...then he shouldn't have an issue with his children prancing around nekkid to other people as well.

If he doesn't give a Bleep...neither should the kids. Prance on!

Madam you making assumptions here. I would defo have an issue with my kids naked around aother people. we are a close family, i have been like these with them since they were babies. It's no big issue for them, they dont even look at me, or my manliness. it's not like they go around the house laughing 'I saw daddy's manliness, hehehe'. because we are a close family, they dont even look, I can be in the shower, my son can come in the bathroom pee and walk out without even acknowledging that I am naked in the shower. I get your point though

Mrs.Chima:


YOU DON'T HAVE AN ISSUE BUT YOUR WIFE DOES. You do not owe no one an explanation on this site but you do owe respect to your wife's feelings regarding your flaunting around your body in front of the kids. She is uncomfortable with you prancing around or you simply do not care?

We can't help your marriage nor we can prevent whatever comes your way but you simply asked us our opinions and we gave it to you. Now you can simply have a chat with your wife and find out what is good for the both of youse...until then she is unhappy and you don't give a Bleep.

Look, it is not like I am walking around the house with nuts dangling from left to right. I wear clothes in my house, let's get that clear. It's just not in me to close the bedroom door when I come in from the bathroom just because my kids are downstairs and they could come up anytime. if I am lotioning up and one of daughters walk in, should I dive for cover behind the bed, and shout 'get out'.

I undersatnd my wife's feelings but I have to consciously think about it and do what she is saying. it's mot like I think to myself 'should I do it or not do it, my wife might get annoyed. I will do it anyway'

slimyem: Op,is it until your son starts asking you why your thing is bigger than his own that you'll know its wrong?
...or until your daughters ask you why your own isn't like their own?
They are your children but they are well grown past that totally innocent stage....
Be wise!!

Even if they dont ask at home. dont they go to school? they will ask sooner or later, they will have peers in school. When you start hiding this this education from your kids and make it a taboo to ask about their private parts, that is when they will start exploring at age 13 and bring disgrace into your house

ayabunmi: My opinion as one raised in Lagos. It is wrong for children above the age of 7 to see their parent's unclothedness. It is believed that they are matured to start forming images in their mind (i guess the question of why does mummy have breast and daddy "rod".

believe me, children will still ask why daddy has rod and mummy has bossom, regardless of whether they see their parents unclothedness or not. Infact, they will ask why does my brother have rod and I don't. It is in their nature. And my kids have never treated it like a big deal. they have never even referred to my manliness or said anything like 'look', they just behave like it is NORMAL. maybe because I have been like this with them since they were babies

Siena: Personally, I don't think it's appropriate. They may well be your kids, but there are some lines you don't cross, undressing in front of your kids (especially the girls) is one of those borders.

I'm with your wife on this one.

tell me why do you think that because a little girl has not seen manliness before as a child, then it means she will grow up morally better than the one who grew up seeing her father's manliness.

what do you mean by 'there are some lines you should not cross' I am not a peadophile abegi, and will not be Nigerian Josef Fritzl. It just does not bother me, that is all I am saying.

Need your opinion, me and my wife always disgree about something. It's nothing major, but she takes it too serious.

We have 3 kids. 7 year old boy, and twin girls, 4 years old. My wife has a problem that I do not hide my unclothedness from my kids. If I am urinating in the toilet, and my son wants to pee as well, he comes beside me and pees, and he will even joke and try to shoot my pee with his pee. I do not tell him to wait outside so that he does not see my manliness. Even if we are in the bedroom and I'm lotioning up and daughters run into the room, i do not hide and tell them to go outside so they do not see my manliness! Why should I do that? they are my children. My wife will tell them to go outside.

If we have no visitors at home, and Im taking a bath, I dont lock the bathroom door. My wife would come and say 'you need to lock the door, these children can come in' and I will be like 'So? they are my children'

she keeps telling me it's not proper in our culture, it is morally wrong and can cause disrespect, it does not happen in Nigeria, bla bla
I can understand where she is coming from. I stayed at home for 23 years and I can say I have never seen my father's manliness (or maybe I did as a small child and can't ).

Is it wrong?

I no trust this Oyinbo people, they are freaks.

I dey suspect the dog dey phuck the owner

This is a blessing in disguise
I trust TD SNAKES, his business mind will already be spinning like shiar barber.
books will soon hit shelves written by Sarah henson (about failed marriages) and the mumu congregation will make it number 1 best seller.

TD snakes is a movie director as well. He must release new movie. Woman Thou art Loosed: The Sarah Henson Story .Gbam, and his daughter don turn celebrity be that, talk shows, interviews, book endorsements.

of course now. what did you expect before?
when be say they rushed the marriage Shio! Pastor pickin dey chuck prick out of wedlock at age 14!!!