NewStats: 3,259,170 , 8,169,282 topics. Date: Saturday, 24 May 2025 at 05:41 AM 32gh

BeninRefugees:

Go to that backery and get flogged for ₦100 stale agege bread before you to talk to someone that can feed you and your family for years

ebi npa wa crooner

Good evening sir, please can you feed me and my family too?
We need it.


This is the first time I heard or read this can of statement under this APC regime

aribisala0:

Have not lived in Nigeria for decades
probably before you were born
I can see the quality of your life and level of frustration

So living outside Nigeria can categorize someone of being rich?

Small yansh dey shake

Indirectly they have turn this country to Islamic state and we keep shouting and making noise, while they are working underground.

DEWKID:


This is my first time logging this year and that's same thought I have.

I believe most of them must have created another . Omoh, shame no go fit allow that mannabbgril to talk anyhow here again

Ezmans:
they went to island to collect 100 naira bread with koboko

I wonder how some reasonable fellows believe that Mr Shaky shaky can transform the economy of this country

Bahamas95:
Na person wey chop belle full go get strength talk nonsense.

They don't make noise again like before, the few ones still ranting are only doing it outta pretence. Dem wan just talk make people nor laugh dem.


They're all feeling the heat in one way or the other......Tinubu nor send dia papa.

I dey tell you. Imagine after all their noise and they now realize that their Baba has no plan at all.

Peter Obi must learn this lesson we are teaching him in a hard way.

Please oo, it's been long I left Nairaland. I want to know how these staunch ers of APC are doing.

Do they still talk anyhow again?

To stop crimes in this country, we need to have severe penalties.
We need to start prosecuting them publicly, both the criminals in the street and our politicians.
Killing them is not ideal. They should stay alive and face the shame and embarrassment that comes from it.
Be it a politician nor a mere criminal, everything that belongs to you must be seized even your father's farmlands.
Your name and pictures should be published and paste in an archive that will be in your local government and state headquarters.

Nobody from your children and relatives will contest for public position again.

The government will seize even your port and will never issue another one to you.

This mandate we are standing is seriously shaking oo

Your own indigenous languages are vernaculars. .we are not yet done with this slavery mentality.
China, Japan, and some other countries teaches their students with their languages.
They wrote physics, chemistry and so many other books in their languages. Why won't they do well?
Here in Africa, we are good in borrowing. We have never for once valued what God gave us.
That's why these people can boldly come down here and steal what we have and use them to develop their countries.

lordnkem000:
Op I've been in this position before in 2019 and I can tell you it's not pretty, my gfs mom did same thing to me as it's happening to you and my gf also listened to her mom as yours is doing today. It was hard for me like you today too but I somehow moved on. Look man just move on and you will be fine. Your kid will be fine and one day you will see your kid, just work on being better and successful

Thank you

ikeno:

If you truly believe the baby is yours why not go with some elders to meet her parent and tell them even though if they don't want you to marry their daughter they can't deny you access to your baby it's your blood and you need to there for her.

I met somebody from her village and he told me that it will be a bad idea. In their village, they accept babies born out of wedlock. That the elders in their village will stand in favour of the girl and her family. Whatever logic I may bring, for the fact that I haven't done anything, they will never me.

Trustedapparel:
Op let me give u my true life time experience, my girlfriend back in nasrawa state ,eggon by tribe precisely ,while I am ibgo by tribe ,run away with my pregnancy ,I try reaching them back then in 2009 but ,to no avail .....only for the mother to call me and said that the child is dead...fast forward to 2017 my then exgirkfriend was asking for my number true my friend in nasarawa state.... while after graduating in uni ,I relocated to Enugu...I said he give number....lo and behold,my exgirlfriend told that her mom is already late ,,,,that the child didn't die ,,,that is her mom that formed that logic ,so that the will take the baby away....I said ok let her send me the picture of the child,,,,the child just resemble me everywhere.....let me stop here....if the child is yours ,trust me even if it is after ten years the will come searching for u

Thank you brother.

duduade:
Take your mind off it
Cause from the way you wrote up there you are obviously emotionally disturbed already about the issue
Leave them for now when, calculate birth period from now ... After you have done your due investigations silently that she has given birth and she's comfortable taking care of the baby

Strike by requesting for a DNA first

Thank you

ikeno:
Oga, are you sure you're the father of that child? U met her Jan,by July she told you she's pregnant and she's 2month off but you insisted you had sex with her 3weeks prior so let's assume it's June and i know say pregnancy na 9months dem dey carry am, the belle never suppose reach 9months talk less of giving birth. I just dey ask, you sure say na you get belle.

She's still pregnant and probably will be due for delivery by ending of march from my calculation.
The issue now is that they hide her from me.

ExudeLoveToAll:



Wether terminate or Keep both moves are wrong.

I can't even get to this stage with a girl, you didn't pray while we were getting along you now found it worthy to pray for 39years when I want to marry you you go pray tire no evidence.

We prayed brother. In fact she's a church type. She literally lives in church.
Is not that I just rushed into a relationship. We took our time and everything seems so normal. And it was really lovely but these changes starts when the pregnancy hit in

Authoreety:
So many girls that age are so terribly... Daft!

Imagine allowing her mum ruin her relationship... Bros let her be for now and for a very long time..

Leave her alone... She's not worth the stress since you have played ur own noble part of trying to right the wrong

Thank you...

Fattycheque:
You met someone this January and you already planning marriage around July. She is in her prime expect her to do that. And next time, not every relationship will leads to marriage, have that at the back of your mind. Don't be in a hurry during relationship.

There is no proof yet that the baby is urs... if there is proof, get a lawyer and explain everything to the lawyer; her family will be served papers. U will all meet Maybe in court and probably they wil give her a verdict to allow you see the baby anytime u want and at a public place...

And another thing, don't ever allow emotion make u do stupid thing; if you take laws into ur own hands and you are caught, u will end up behind the bar... just imagine that woman will now have time to deal with u very well...

The baby is not yet born. Honestly, I want to have relationship with my child. I know normally I suppose to her but, let it not be like I got her pregnant and abandoned her.
But they've made everything so difficult for me.

advanceDNA:


Icemañ..this pikin wey u dey drag is likely not ur own............even if her mama dey influence her.. her attitude did not in anyway show that u made the baby in her womb together..

Baba .... Face ur life ....get better and get rich...

Inflation dey touch everybody...if na truly ur baby which I strongly, strongly, strongly doubt........relax....Dem go go call u......my boss wife wey carry 4 children vex comot, claiming she will deprive him of seeing his children forever don come back dey ask for school fees and monthly upkeep......

Thank you brother. I've thought about that also. Because I can't fathom any reason that prompted to her actions.

Please I need your help and advice. This post might be a little bit longer.

I met my baby mama through a friend in January 2023 and we bonded So well. The relationship was so lovely and I ed her in her academics and also helped her to acquire some skills, which I will not go in details to avoid a long thread.

Fast forward to may 2023, I proposed to her and she accepted the proposal. Though she earlier told me that her mother wanted her to marry from her village but she loved me and will want to spend her life with me.

Yea, we are from different state but the same tribe. After the proposal, I told her that I want to come and see her parents for proper introduction, and she told me to wait first, that she want me to meet her mom first.
Then her mother traveled and she spent like 2 months before she came back.

Fast forward to second Sunday of July, I went to see her mother. I bought some things and went there. She accepted me and told me that they are Christian family. That they will pray and seek the will of God before she will ask me to come for other things. That I should give them time.

So, after that brief introduction, my girl change. Though we were talking everyday as usual but I noticed that she was sliding away somehow. I confronted her about that which she denied and assured me of her commitment in our relationship.

I had my birthday that same month, my girl sent me personal messages on WhatsApp and text but she failed to post me on her WhatsApp status or even Facebook. But I didn't take that serious, but my friends that have her number began to ask some questions why my woman failed to post me on her status.
They even confronted her and later she apologized to me and gave me one stupid reason that she doesn't want her people to see her post of me. Since the family is already praying, that they told her to minimise the way she Relate with me so that our steady communication will not influence her decision or affect the prayer.

By the ending of July, she ran some test and discovered that she's pregnant. She called me and even sent the PT test to me. I invited her, calmed her down and promise to be by her side.
I told her not to tell her people yet. That she should ask her people when they want me to come for the marriage rights and if they ask me to come, we must have done everything before they would know of the pregnancy. She insisted of telling them, that her mother would know. She was crying and was so much worried of what people will say, what the church will say and bla bla bla. I tried my best to calm her down.
I told her that we need to visit hospital to run a proper test instead of the urine test. She said it should be upto 2 months which I declined and I reminded her the day we had sex, that in my calculation, it should be 3 weeks.

She went home that day and the next day she went to see her elder sister. After that very day, my girl totally changed. She refused to go for the test I told her. She was like she don't want to run any test, that if I insist that it will be by Saturday of that week.
I got annoyed and later that Wednesday night, I asked if she was really pregnant, she said yes and I asked her if I'm responsible for the pregnancy. She got mad and ended the call.
The next day I went to her house, I heard her praying inside. The sister asked me to wait for her outside. After her prayer, she came out and told me that her dad is around, that since he doesn't know of me yet, that she don't want to bring me in.
The next day, she told me that no need to go for that test again, that she's no more pregnant. I was confused. I ed her friend which she reported me to when I asked her if I'm responsible for her pregnancy. She told her friend that I got her pregnant and want to deny her.
When I told her friend what she said, she told her friend the same thing. I asked her if she took abortion pill, she said no. She was like she declared a word of faith and God has taken away the pregnancy. The whole thing sounded so stupid to me. I was more confused because she sounded with so much convintion

But I insisted on going for the test. I took her for the test and the result came out the next day and it was positive. When I collected the result, I asked her to come around so we can talk but she refused and told me that she won't come to my house again.
I tried so many times so we can talk, she kept hiding from me until after 2 weeks, she asked Me to come to her side. I went there, she took me to one church close to her house.
She told me that she don't want to go ahead with the marriage, that she want to hear from God. That if I want to travel out or do whatever I want to do, that I should go ahead and do it. That she will wait on God no matter how long it will take. After some days
I went to see her elder sister. The elder sister told me that their mother swore that anybody from my state and few other states she mentioned will not marry any of her daughter's. That any of her daughter that refused, she will never had any relationship with the very daughter and she would assume that the person is dead.
That even the very first day my girl mentioned my name to her mom. She was not happy.

To cut the whole thing short, they took the girl to a hidden location. They want her to stay there and gave birth there. When she was about two months pregnant, I asked her to go to hospital and enquire about atenental. She said I should send 20k for it. I sent her 20k

They now lied against me that I sent her 20k to go and run test to check the gender of the baby.
The mom told me to forget about the girl and the baby. That I should take it as one of the relationship things. That I shouldn't send any money again to her.
The girl has blocked me both on WhatsApp and Facebook.
I am not interested in the marriage again. All I want to know if there are legal ways I can have access to my baby. I never denied her in any way. Even In the relationship, she can't say that I wronged her.
Around early November, she returned my engagement ring. She told me that I will never see the baby nor have any relationship with the baby.
When I asked her what I did wrong. She couldn't utter a world. She kept saying unrelated things. She has been looking for excuses and reasons to hold against me.

She's 25 while I'm at my 30's.

frozen70:


In as much as I dont what she is doing, I can't judge her because the story said that her husband doesn't provide for them but rocks out, they go hungry some days but am sure he eats while his family goes hungry

So she has no option left but to have a sugar daddy who cares for them and provide for them to feed

Well if the husband can't stand it, let him find his way out of the relationship

Hunger is not something to play with

A man who doesn't do his work, another man will do it for him

See what this generation has turned to. Glorifying immorality. So there is no other means of making money and providing for your home.
Must it be through "forlickings"?

There are ladies that got married and their husbands died early and they work so hard to raise their kids without resorting to immoralities.
Grow up and change your mindset

You people should stop making this woman beater relevant.
He is just empty and has nothing to offer

Just applaud wicked Wike for rigging the election for Tinubu due to his own personal gain.

Rivers did not vote for president select.

Otti is not from Ngwa. He is from Arochukwu

IpobAntidote:
Idiotic fool.

This vindictive old hag will have an heart attack once Tinubu is declared the winner. Useless old fool.

Yoruba's don't insult elders indeed!

Is Labour party the opposition party?

The good people of Nigeria have made their choice but the few hungry power intoxicated demons have chose to truncate the will of the people.

Nigeria will never remain the same if the will of the people are truncated.

Buhari had opportunity to redeem himself for all the misrule by just given us free and fair election. But he chose otherwise. History will never be kind to him

Nice one

PPIA:
The IPOB company will now inflate the number of the Ndi-Jews of Emeka-land population and say they carried out census.

They should go and carry out census in Biafra.

One of the reasons I stopped visiting Nairaland. So much hatred towards a particular tribe and Seaun don't want to sanitise this forum.

Somebody will be intentionally necked come outside and OP will blunt the pictures, for what reason.


You better give us clear picture of that shameless attention seeker

No be news again nah. He's always like this

Seems INEC will give us free and fair election.

To do exactly what?

Drama no fit tire this country