NewStats: 3,262,917 , 8,178,515 topics. Date: Wednesday, 04 June 2025 at 04:35 AM 39441i

Kingsasian:
You should be glad you have friends already. What do you need new ones for?

She dey hide wetin she want don't mind her, we know their type 😂

'I don't have data' Red flag! 🚩

Samantha125:
So people still go on dating apps even on this day? I thought those things are long outdated.

Are you living in a dark world? Dating app has been around since time immemorial. Even in the US, dating sites are widely used, especially by people who are always busy with work or other commitments that take up most of their time. In fact, dating apps are often recommended for introverts who may find it difficult to meet people in traditional social settings.
So asking if people still use dating sites is out of place, it’s like asking if people still eat food. Dating apps aren’t just active; they’re thriving. Even the busiest CEOs are out here swiping left and right!

Jesuspistol:
Lol. True!

The girls with real substance don't have funny and complicated bios. They keep it simple. They're plenty on fb and TikTok too. Not only dating site

It's the local, unexposed, unenlightened, poverty-stricken girls whose hope is to get a financial Messiah as boyfriend on social media that post such bios and it's really funny.

You didn't talk about them snapping pics with rich people's gate as background. Some are living with their elder sister somewhere, some in face-me-i-face-you while others are house helps at lekki.

😂😂

illicit:
Yes seen it...

It really crack me up whenever I came across this, like what's really going on with our ladies, seems they don't know the difference between left and right 😂

Greydebz:
I see you have created multiple threads as regards looking for a lady, it’s now weird at the moment…

Let the poor guy breeeeth 😂

Nigerian girls and their dating site profiles always crack me up! You'll see things like "I be Ogba", "I'm a foodie", or "I'm a two-sided person". Some will even go as far as advertising their businesses, "Follow my hair page", "I sell perfumes, DM for inquiries", like, sis, are we here to date or to patronize you?

And let’s not forget the ones that put "God's favorite", "If you're not serious, don't text me", or "Sapiosexual" (but their convos will be dry as hell). Omorr, the way Nigerian girls think sometimes ehn, this country get as e be! Dating apps supposed to be for meeting people, but here, it's half personal branding, half mini-marketplace. Na wa!
I don't know you guys have seen this before 😂

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godliman:
Sexual immorality always comes with regrets. Whatever God has forbidden must remain forbidden. In 2002 shortly after I got married I received a news that made me cry like a kid before my wife. What was the news that made me throw away manliness to the wind? A relative of mind, a girl committed abortion. Fast forward to 2025.
As I speak 23 years later she is right now on ission and tested positive to HIV. A guy has been coming around intending asking her hand in Marriage ignorantly.
Who says premarital sex is not evil should get his head examined quickly.

Jesus!

Wetin person no go see for nairaland? NOTHING
This sounds like Horror 😂

dickt1:
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Fetula4u:
black women mentality

What's now your own mentality? Supo! 😂

MERCHANDISER:

Make we reason

My mail is open brother
I don send you dm ASAP

Nigeria it's cool to stay when you good business, I’m into pig farming, and I can confidently say it’s a highly lucrative business. I’ve been managing a piggery for someone for the past year, so I have hands-on experience and a deep understanding of the entire process—from breeding to marketing. With the right investment, one can recover both capital and profit within just eight months.

I’m reaching out to you because I want to establish my own piggery farm, but I need financial to take that step. I have the knowledge, experience, and dedication; all I need is the right push to stand on my own. If there’s any way you can or connect me with potential investors, I’d truly appreciate it.

Thank you for your time, brother. I look forward to your response.

Exceed15:


Bro don't trust girls of nowadays o . Dem go do runs, clean mouth

I get your point, bro, but it's better to seek opinions elsewhere rather than bringing the discussion here. You’ll likely get more diverse perspectives and deeper insights that could help you see things from a broader angle.

Nairaland is polluted with lot of bad mouthed people..

suckprick:
Those days wey she ghost you, na another person turn. You sef you wicked, na only you wan dey enjoy? Let her attend to other customers too nah. Na wa

It's better to keep your problems to yourself than bringing them to Nairaland for opinions because the kind of comments you'll receive can mess with your mental health. Some people won’t even try to help; they'll just troll you for fun. If you're not strong-willed, you might leave there questioning your entire existence. 😂

Solofresh2:
You don't know sukkot

Not at all 😕

Solofresh2:
You have forgotten my moniker
The moniker sukkot introduced you to
I Missed you though

My ibkay might have been different tho

Are you sure you're not related to Zicasloma? Because with that head and nose, the resemblance is uncanny! Lol. You might want to check your family tree! 😂

Solofresh2:
Ibkayee is that you 😏

Lol, who's asking?

Skooltynz:
After recovering from so much heartbreaks from pablos dey claim self-love .

Na that time you go dey see them they claim good girl! 😜
They plenty for inside church 😺

mamagee3:
Do you like my profile photo?

“Like” my profile photo if you like my profile photo

Again? 🤯

This is the first time I'm reading a post from you that isn't "Do you like my profile picture?" 😂

Guess I should mark this moment in history, finally, something different!

eniolorunfe:
I would advise that you indicate your location in your write up. Also indicate if you’re willing to relocate or not.

I reside in ogbomoso Oyo State

I have been reflecting deeply on my situation and searching for ways to make ends meet. Since losing my job early last year, life has been incredibly challenging. It’s been hard to even afford two meals a day, and I don’t want this year to be a repeat of the struggles I faced last year.

This is why I am reaching out to seek help or opportunities to work. They say, “you don’t put your hand where it hurts someone,” so I’m not asking for handouts but a chance to earn an honest living. If you have a job, task, or errand that I can assist with, no matter how small, it would go a long way in helping me provide for myself and turn things around this year.

I am hardworking, reliable, and ready to take on any opportunity. Please, if you come across this post and can assist in any way, I would be deeply grateful. Together, we can make this year better than the last. Thank you for your time and consideration.

adaperry25:
yes, I have apologized but why are they lying about their dads brother all because they want everything in Lagos. its a subtle red flag that theyre the controlling type

It’s not about being controlling; by now, you should realize there’s no genuine love between them. This is something that often happens in African families. Maybe her father’s side of the family didn’t like her mother even when their father was still alive. These lingering issues must have created tension and division, and unfortunately, It's important to approach this with understanding, but also with caution, because unresolved family grudges can become major challenges in the future. Take time to assess the dynamics and decide if this is something you’re willing and prepared to navigate.

adaperry25:
My fiancee and I are from the East and engaged her last month. All medical and background checks have been done and are fairly ok. Now here's where the issue lies:

Her dad is late, and in their village, there's a rite that must be done for the late dad before any TM. I told her I would like both TM and white wedding to be done in the village since we are both from the same state and it'll be easy for me so I know I'm done with any wedding. she disagreed citing that she wanted her friends, colleagues, and family to be present as they cant travel due to the economy. I considered so it wont look like I'm selfish and I wanted my people to be present more. I agreed to do the white wedding in our current base to balance up everything.

Few weeks later, her elder sister suggested we do the late dad's rite only in the village , then come to lagos and do the TM citing that's the way she did hers as they don't want people who weren't there for them to reap where they didn't sow. I disagreed and told them I gave my sisters hand in marriage last year and both TM and white were done in the village to make everything easy. Also told her most TM I attend are done in the village. They reluctantly agreed and stuck to the initial plan but said we should do it on a low key of which I agreed.

Note that all the while I was visiting her family in Lagos, it was only her mom's people that were present. I asked after her dad's siblings and they said they were in the village. I told her its necessary to be in good rapport with her dads people as they are the major deciders.

I requested for her dad's brothers so he will help me on some things since he will be standing as her dad. I called him and we started making plans. Few days later, my babe called me that my uncle told her 'I wont be around on the late dads rite, that ill send my younger brother'...i was shocked and angry and told her I never said that. my instincts told me its false as they wanted the TM to be in Lagos. The next day, her mom and sister called and were telling me they don't like the way I'm calling the uncle and asking him things.

It was a heated argument and I told them I've called off the wedding plans, we exchanged words and I hung up. The uncle called me next day and I told him what my babe said and he said he never said such. I told him my family said I should pause wedding plans for now so I don't enter a family where there's no unity. I told him to call my babe's mom and ask her what she wants since shes not cool with me calling him.

He pleaded but I stood my ground. I love her but it seems all is not well and I cant risk it. I need your advice.

So you had an argument with your in-law-to-be, and now you’re here seeking advice after you’ve already made up your mind? Honestly, even if I were the brother of the lady, I wouldn’t her marrying you anymore. Your actions have likely raised serious doubts about your temperament and ability to handle family relationships. You should reflect deeply on how to rebuild that trust because conflicts like this can have lasting consequences. It's not just about marrying the person, but also about becoming part of a family. Think carefully about how you can approach the situation maturely to make amends.

Ilamina:


I can't even take care of myself

Atleast you're still out here surviving on vibes and Wi-Fi. 😂

The same thing is happening to me right now. She said I’m too good for her, she wants me to always be around her, though we’re in a long-distance situation. Honestly, women truly don’t know what they want. 😂

Don’t let anyone deceive you, brother. 7 million naira might not take you beyond Africa, but you can invest 2.5 million out of that amount in a viable business like pig farming. By this time next year, you could make up to 5 million in profit. I assure you, pig farming is thriving in Nigeria right now.