NewStats: 3,263,564 , 8,180,558 topics. Date: Friday, 06 June 2025 at 02:04 PM 6k4nw

You know sometimes you don't enjoy and feel the taste of a sweet food,and you get tired of the food when you eating the food alone .. But when 1 or 2 persons s and start eating the food , the food will become so, sweet, spicy, nice and you will have more apatite to eat more and more of that same food you didn't like and enjoy then... So all you need is just for you to invite 2 or 3 of your friends to you to eat your food so that then can always help you to boost your apatite OK ...

Maybe then you will see how hungry your friends are ready to help you finish up the food for you to avoid wastage ..... I am sure your wife will serve your friends all her tasteless food you reject and tired of to your friends without regrets....

thesilentman:
Yes,i dont feel it anymore-banging one woman all the time-same cunt opening to me yakata every time all in the name of fidelity.I want variety so bad-just like one gets tired of eating one specific food all the time.I Want assorted.Should i marry a younger wife or just start playing the field? I tire o!

OMG ...this is really so bad for kevin constner , what the hell is she going to be doing with that kind of money monthly ... This is why I prefer this Western men not to get married to their girlfriends just get engaged to her just like C. Rolando, Jason Statham, Gerard Pique , Ryan Gosling and Ricky Gervais and so many other celeb.

Can get engaged and live together as many years it last, have kids just like married couples opara Wilfred is engaged for over 30yrs and she is so happy and successful in the relationship more than a married woman ..

If I was from the Western side of the world I won't have gotten married legally Never it is the worse thing to happen to a hard working man , the system empowered the women a lot in that aspect, a man get divorced by his wife ( she files for divorce) she get paid for it, get custody of a child/children and get half or more of your properties cause the know all this will favour them , they start to mess up knowing if the separation happens they benefit more ..

For me to make the western woman loyal to their men DONT GET MARRIED TO THE WOMEN .. ONLY engage to them and be happy cause there is nothing to file for or divorce cause no marriage ties..

xesehe:
Christine Baumgartner, estranged wife of actor Kevin Costner reportedly wants him to fork over nearly a quarter of million dollars a month to care for their three kids.



Christine said in court documents that it is the only way she and her kids can "live at a standard somewhat approaching the standard that the children will be enjoying while in Kevin's care." She also said the money does not cover their private school tuition, health care and sports-related expenses. Christine said Kevin will have to pay for that too.According to her, Kevin's enormous wealth is more than enough to cover what she wants as his total income last year was $19.5 million

Christine also noted that they embark on regular trips to places like Hawaii, Aspen and the Caribbean, where they often hire caterers and chefs to entertain their guests.

She disclosed that the upkeep of their many properties is not cheap either, about $2 mil/year.



Insiders however told TMZ that Kevin is already paying 100% of the kids' expenses. In addition to the expenses, Costner has filed legal docs saying he's willing to kick in an additional $38k per month.

He described his wife's demands as highway robbery, while also claiming that it has nothing to do with child .The divorce is getting messier each day.

Recently, Kevin filed court docs of his own in which he claimed Christine refused to move out of one of his properties despite clear in their prenup that he insists required her to move out by a certain date after she filed for divorce.



While Christine is claiming she can't afford to move, Kevin alleged that she has $1.45 million in her bank which is more than enough to rent a pad.


https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/6/actor-kevin-costners-estranged-wife-wants-248k-per-month-in-child--2.html

From your own side story you have nailed yourself by yourself.. You rejected the ideal of them visiting a Priest for Prayers to Blessed your union with your boyfriend...

Same you are so in rush for the union to take place and get married to him ...

I must say you have a big secret you are hiding and want to quickly get married to him before he/ his family finds out ... You are a very wicked lady I must say .. If your past is that dad and ugly why do you Want to drag this man into your disastrous life ... Now you are seeking for advice what kind of advice do you want to hear from Nairaland .... May God deliver all the innocent men and women that his or her partner want to deceive into dangerous marriage

Sxyhalima:
im dating a guy and his mother wanted to go to the priest with her son for the priest to pray over the relationship to see if it is the will of God. my boyfriend initially agreed, but when i said i diddn't feel comfortable with the situation he backed out and his mother was very unhappy with him about it.

my boyfriend insists that his mother likes me, and the prayers were just for confirmation, but i am not sure. we've been dating for about 8 months and i've suggested that i meet her this month, to clear my doubts but he says it is too soon and we should wait until late july.

should i be worried?

im in my late 20s he is in his early 30s

You think the her boyfriend is a wicked and careless guy right cause he don't call her often ... Many guys prefer to check up and chat their girlfriends on WhatsApp chat or just SMS than phone call ... But don't worry you too will stop calling the girl often soon after a while I beat u that .... The girl have nothing more to offer ranter than sex and u re hitting the guy that is working and hustling so hard to make a living and provide for her ... Do u really think women ever stop complaining .... ?

guobe:
I was in a conversation with a girl after she posted on her WhatsApp status that you use to call me everyday before now but now you nolonger call.
I asked her why her boyfriend nolonger calls her and she said that he is always busy. In my mind I feel if a guy really likes a girl there is nothing that will make him to be too busy to give his girlfriend all the attention she deserves.Just my thought though.

Same pastor that says its wrong and not biblical for a girl to live with her boyfriend when not married to her yet ... Also same pastor that came to the girl's house to Sex her ..I guess that is the right thing and so biblical ..I pity this generation ...see how and what religion has done to Africans ... .. Africa pastors re wicked, devilish self centered and greedy than the devil himself ...

Yes it does happen to lots of people all over the world especially to women ..

If u re matured enough to handle it when it happens to u , it makes u stronger and keep u in the game of life and it experiences ..

But is u re weak to handle it when it happens it will knock u down and affect u so badly that u will even hate urself ..

Dpsychologist:
They say good looking people are often perceived as more intelligent, honest and successful.

1. Have you ever been discriminated because of your looks?

2. Was someone who is more attractive than you favoured over you, even when you know deep down that you are better?

3. Do you think lookism (discrimination based on looks) exists?

Will love to see your comments. I need to carry out a survey.

BloomingDale:
A white man? I swear African “men” no get shame.

No No ...not like that there are many Africa Men richer than Johann Rupert and Aliko Dangote . But they live a low key life and stay off social media just to be able to enjoy their wealth cause their dirty money is from frauds, drugs and rituals..

Its only those that have legitimate clean source of money that show up front page and must of these guys with dirty money re partners, associates and funds many companies.

From the way you sound I guess you re still in your 20s and from what you just said I must tell you that you have a very bad long way to go if you dont focus on your life and start fixing how to balance and be stable financially...Bro I bet sex or relationship will not be on your wish list of 1-10 at this moment in your life if truly your re a broke ass guy.

Miravik900:
Have been so down financially recently and this girl that has been on my side for like 9 months now and I thought was different has started showing me her true colors


We agreed on the meeting but she didn't show up when I asked her the reason she didn't reply
Now she is asking me for money cuz I wanted sex and she knows I don't have

I thought the advantage of having a girlfriend over patronizing hookups is during the bad days you can still get sex

I'm thinking of calling of the relationship base on this act of hers


Please let me hear your thoughts

Marriages or raising a one's family re for those that re financially okey/stable and fully independent and matured in reason and so ready responsibilities .. Not for those that borrowed money to get married and still find how to eat twice a day.. Many Nigerians/Africans rush into marriages why they re very very still fully dependant that is why many of them re suffering and will continue to suffer cause marriage if not for everyone

Skyview01:


That is why so many are suffering in Nigeria and Africa today. So many couple are living hell on earth today because of this simple reason. Does God want us to suffer too! delaying childbirth does not mean not having them. God will not make decisions for us that is why he gave us big heads.

In Africa starting and having one's own family is 85% the reason we do get married and that is how God want it and instructed us to do

There is nothing bad at all if a newly married couples start having babies same year of their marriage. Even in Africa we re slow in having babies ..come to the Europe or go to America see couples getting married at the age of middle 20s or late 20s and start having babies asap .. Seeing parents 35 yrs old and their first child 17 or 18 yrs old . its so good to be done with giving birth to children before u get to 35yrs - 37yrs old ..

I see many men giving birth to his first child at 49-52 years even some at 55yrs ..and that is hell of a stress and not good at all how many years left for him on earth to take care of his child/children

The only public place for a date most Nigeria girls/ladies knows is eatery.. The real public places to meet for a date should be Museum's,Amusement Park's, Zoo's, Live theatre's and stadium's this re places where ladies should pick for a first time outing with a guy for the first time meeting him face to face not eatery...

How and what do they enjoy @ eatery if not to just eat and drink cause most of them re just so hungry and all they re interested in is the foods,meats,drinks , ice cream e.t.c not to meet the guy and know more about him and see if he is their kind of guy or not ..

The bad part of their thinking is any guy who take them to eatery for a date is a nice , cute gentle, and caring guy that loves them ...and the guy who pick's other public places re the real bad guys

Skyfornia:
Most of the ladies asking to meet in a public place are looking for opportunity to feed their stomachs

I when I was single, a lady requested for us to meet in a public place and I demanded we meet in her church but she declined.

Na to chop dem dey find..

UDOKABESTLUV:


Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/1/man-shot-dead-by-his-brother-in-law-over-alleged-infidelity-in-delta-community.html

He has committed murder and made his sister widow and made his nephew and niece fatherless cause he cheated , what the hell is wrong with some people , Africa men dont cheat , cause our Africa traditions,cultures and religions do not condemn polygamy . even the Bible and Quran do not condemn polygamy ... I am very sure his sister and the kids will never forgive him and he have to face Justice for the crime he has committed .

my lil advice to all the Africa women if you dont want to marry a man that will cheat on you or get married to another woman .you better go and get marry to a Whiteman that can be your slave. Cause Africa men can marry as much women then can marry if then have the capacity, resource and stamina for bedroom satisfactions .

Come to think of it married women in Nigeria these days now cheat more than the men

Nemere2020:
* As Igbos in Rivers promise Abe block votes



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/01/no-understanding-yet-to--any-presidential-candidate-wike/

I have much respect for you Governor wike. But the way you and the G-5 are going now is becoming irrelevant cause of your much talk. If you want to work for and your party PDP presidential candidate Atiku please do, But if you want to work against him and work for Peter Obi Labour Party please do and stop all this too much election is in 4weeks times and we dont know what you belong and be relevant and make Nigeria great again .

EriMma1:
This may sound weird but it's my situation now.

I have been a single and independent lady for a very long time. Though I really looked forward to settling down in my 20s and thirties but because I was the over careful type, I couldn't as I kept being picky due to men's character and behavior.

Fast-forward to my lat 30s, I began to lose interest and started getting more comfortable as a single. The upheavals in today's marriage also got to me. As in the way marriages are packing up, the cheating aspect, abuse and domestic violence in marriages all further affected me and changed my whole perception of the union called marriage. So I unconsciously resolved to remain single as long as I'm happy and independent.

Some of the reasons I also made up my mind.
As a single, Im very much at peace with no one dictating what and when I should do things or get out of bed. I love my bed.
No one is body shaming me when I add on some pounds due to excessive eating and no questions my eating habits as is sometimes the case with some married women. Also running errands when you don't feel up to it just because hubby wants you to do it. Some men can send their wife on errand like craze and me I hate running errands.

No one is disturbing me when I need time alone which could last for hours. I love my space and privacy. So the thought of having to give that up scares the hell out of me.

Now, back to the matter.

Recently, some close spiritual leaders in my denomination have been trying to match make me with a single pastor and that one too is shining teeth that he has seen a jimjim sister. When they now openly mentioned it yesterday with the said man around and he too was nodding and agreeing to the proposal, it dawned on me that these people are not joking. When I got home and i sank into my comfy space and began to fret. I mean... The thought of giving up all that freedom is just so scary. I suddenly discovered that marriage no longer excites me and my inner self was fighting it.
Also, the thought of carrying pregnancy for nine months with all the stress of looking after babies, tending toddlers ( poo poo) and that motherhood life made me sick instantly. The thought of joggling my job with family life gave me the chills. I see how my married mates struggle with this. Huh. Men...

I don't know. I don't feel cool about this cos it makes me feel like I'm about to be put in a cage and everything about me is going to change.

Now, before you talk about me not loving the man, I think I fancy him and can love him cos he looks so much like my ex of years ago. So that is out of the question. He is a happening lovable man but....... I no longer feel excited about marriage. at least, from what played out yesterday.

Do I need any form of therapy cos my family won't hear of it but this is my situation now ooo... Hmmm

I will advice you to remain single for the rest of your get married to ur comfortable life and get used to Love Machine .... If u think men re not relevant in ur life ....

Preciousgirl:
He has been showing the signs but hasn't been able to voice it, but he has finally done the undone via a phone call.

I am not interested

But how do I tell him?

Knowing he is my boss.

Thanks

See another married porn supper star ... I told u ur wedding ring means nothing but just a fashion ring.. We all knows how u will end up on ur boss bed Naked, from the 1st day u brought up ur boss promised u a surprise (SEX) gift ..shameless porn star

WibusJaga:
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A Flagbearer that can not hold flag, dat one na Flagbearer?

Na Flag barrier him be ....

Sheistoopretty:
I like Peter OBI but I will collect Money and Vote for Tinubu

Nigerian Men are Useless......all of them

ObiDatti..... We no dey give shi-shi, because we don't buy votes.... Go and sell your vote to your Tinubu

Jennyclay:
Men are evil

Rip to the departed soul.

Indeed Evil act ... So he would have still committed same murder if it was the son .. I Guess murder is in his blood ... Retired Bandit

Candidlady:
quite unfortunate


he knew his was the devil's spawn

rip to the woman

I Guess he knew the boy is not his biological child ..no sane man would kill his son over just lil issues between 2 wives ... So many mad people in Nig ...

R.I.P....Bro ..Nigeria just happened to You...WHY Just 2days to his traditional marriage rights ... The police should carry out their investigation and focus on this ......list

His Ex girlfriend
The Ex boyfriend to this Lady he wanted to get married to
Business partners

The killings is increasing daily in Nigeria

In deed a Good porn star that she is, never a good wife.. ..The rate many Nigerian young ladies re crazy over sex both married or single ladies ... Many of them will end up like her .. Cause many current wives now re already porn stars and many more will the porn industry.... I fear the women of this Generation... ...

PrinceOfLagos:


It's true Atiku used Peter Obi image to campaign

I absolutely believe Atiku & PDP did it.. Because everything is possible with Nigeria politicians.. If someone ( @ Tinubu... APC ) can steal another person that is still very much alive childhood pictures and claims he is the one on the picture and used the picture to make his biography documentary on national TV's and internet .... Its not a surprise that ( @ Atiku ..PDP) is using someone picture to campaign...

What is wrong with this 2 old men .. Among all the profs, Dr's Lawyers and sound headed and minded people in these political party's so this are the best 2 candidates they can produce.. I weep for my country Nig ...

Sheistoopretty:
Look at the mis*ble old man he is still pained by the endorsement of Peter OBI by H.E Obasanjo


Ordinary endorsement ooo, wait till he starts showing his face in Peter OBI's campaigns, by then u won't have any other option than to drink sniper because it will kill u faster than Ota-pia-pia

Sure you are right ....Some Nigeria politicians and their ers are so shameless and stupid .... I thought they said OBJ is not relevant and had no influence and he is worthless ... Why are they so pained over the endorsement of Peter Obi by OBJ since on the 1st today is 6th they are still crying ...

Olasyke:
Anger. Then poverty didn't give him the ability to be able to make the choice to take the girl to a hospital, then religion comes in, they believe their pastors can solve everything. Like the mumu wey quote me yesterday saying Jesus can cure STDs.

Exactly.. So bad anger and religion took over him .. This remind me of Marvin Gaye death who was also killed by his own father ... I dont really know why Africans takes stupid decisions and enslave all in the name of religion ...

Candidlady:



see this mutula

you are a man with an F on his monicker

even the lady you raped said she felt nothing cos your P was small

https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/7487679/sustained-no-injuries-because-manhood#119271593

the hair around your private corner is longer than P even when it is erect

Omg the Dr is such a Dirty Pig ... Only God knows how many of his female patients he must have rapped during process of surgery , cause he is so good at drugging women .. This man is so wicked and dangerous than a Bandit as a licensed medical Doctor ..

Wow .... Coming from behide to beat Eddie Murphy record .... ... I Pray your bank s not turn to Negative ( - ) cause of child ... Anyway Congrat Bro..

akwesenana:
Hello.
I'm 21, I supposed to be graduating this year from Architecture but I couldn't finish.
Would you advise me to write JAMB again next year considering the fact that I'll have to wait till 2024 before anything ission?

First of all who is your sponsor now. and who will be your sponsor if you eventually start all over again ..that is what you should consider and be sure that the finance is not an issue ...

You dont have to blame the guy for his actions ... He asked you that because of your life style and the way you are always around the yahoo boys. .

As money is your fantasy and the yahoo have the money that normally drive you crazy and make you to always be with them .. He knows that yahoo boys and hookup girls are like 5&6 .. . the guy is a correct guy he just to know how honest you are ....

See how wicked and heartless so people are . just see how she is treating this lil kid , she is going to turn this kid into a beast before age 15 and then he ll become a monster cause this wicked women is treating him less than a dog and teaching him how to have No human feelings, sympathy, Love and care ..all the lil kid knows about life now and gets is wickedness and he will grow up with it ... I pray God help the lil kid and give him good future .

Baba should Keep rocking the African dressing style .... We are Africans and we have our Africa Clothing and style ... Just like Indians always on Sherwani dressing ... Baba is proudly African ...Baba nor dey wear suit..suit is for white men ...

A very Good Job by the Interpols and Nig security Agency.. I love this news .

What Nigeria Govt is going to do to Simon Akpa....hmmm ....I swear Finland Govt will reject him, NBA will reject him,Ohanaeze Ndigbo will reject him, even Nnamdi Kanu will reject him .... Its only DSS that will accept him .. And they will teach him how to observe Sit at home ....