NewStats: 3,259,506 , 8,170,361 topics. Date: Sunday, 25 May 2025 at 11:38 AM 48i4h

most of our banks claim to issue credit/debit card or whatever they call it, most sites i visited to make paymentIs were unable tp process payments , others would say my bankers and address could not be verified, that its a permanent problem, how possible is it to open a paypal , what is involved? does anyone have an idea?

dear nairalanders,

why are you allowing the poster take your time, he is wearing an O2  jersey.

he is a GUNNER FOR LIFE

YES, ITS AS REAL AS " terminator, anaconda, rambo 1st, 2nd, 50th blood"

mailer nadico,
you fell your hands by getting too close to your fiancee's family too early, you are a man and a MAN indeed, if the mother cares so much about her daughter getting married she should find out from her daughter, and not you, as a man you are planning and you both will decide when , its nobody's to delve into, infact you have no dilemma here, when the time is due, she will communicate to her family, at this rate when your inlaws are begining to dictate for you so to say, they will tell you in no time  to start training some of your wife's siblings.

GUYS BE CAREFUL!!!!!!

hi,
i really understand your plight, its not easy at all. i guess i can understand why you need a male companion, you really need someone that would react to you the way a man would or should do in times of depression, the TRUTH IS: can you control the emotions when they start developing, when the attraction begins to develop i can bet you may be out of control, and the male companion to be, what will his girlfriend or wife be doing knowing that he spends so much time with a "FRIEND"? if the mail companion decides not to have a girlfriend obviously he would do to you or expect of you what he would from his girlfriend or wife.
simply put: you need a second. husband, you cant have both, it can be disastrous.

me : [email protected]

hello fellow nairalanders, pls, i need to be connected to a good dental clinic in port harcourt. pls,it's really urgent.thanks.

hi kconfused,
am not going to confuse you further, the simple truth is you are not attracted to this guy because he tends to be too nice, TRUTH: most women are not attracted to guys that are nice, you always want to be with him because he has your time, he spends and cares for you, but you cant imagine being with him because in my opinion you control him, you sure need a guy that you can see as a man, probably he is not man enough for you, you cant change it no more. it depends on you.

mailer bay 1970,

your problem to me is very simple, i want to believe you dated your wife before you married her, have you been reading her text messages and e-mails, if not why now, you should check yourself, but if you have then  you shouldnt ask her.

for me i read my girl friends text messages and she reads mine like wise e-mails and we dont see anything wrong, afterall am not hiding anything, afterall you both are meant to be one especially as youre married, if you didnt start before marriage i do not know why you want to now? note that we only read each other message after the other has read it or we both read together.

DO YOU ALLOW HER TO READ YOURS? IF YOU DONT THEN YOU SHOULD GO FOR SWIMMING

hey fellas ,
this guy is being real matured here, thats my game. the truth is BIG boys dont toast girls no more, they make girls feel them and am sure you're feeling this guy now.

the truth is whether he is married or not he likes you, but may not want anything serious because he is probably hooked up with someone, if he is not hooked up with someone then he is playing a matured game that might tempt you to do one or two things, the truth is he knows if he asked you out he would be transfering his power as the man to you so the best way is to make you need him like hell, and thats the best for girls you know so cant form for him cause he has not said anything, at the moment he is very unpredictable and thats the reason you are already tripping for him, he is trying to make you feel he can very well do without you, that his emotions cannot control him, that makes him a MAN  you know.

my advice for you: play his game his way. you have shown interst already by going to his house so what else will he say, you are flowing. next time he would ask you out agree but dissapoint him, tell him something came up say an hour to the time, but be careful cos if its me, your CHAPTER will be closed. just make him feel your very ok with yourself. if you cant hold it the talk with him, its no crime, afterall i've had girls oasting me severally, so its nothing.

take care

hey man,
your so called uncle is not a man, he is a boy,and real women hate boys, they love men even when you are about to kill them, i still when i was kis my ex girl friend's ass. doing everything to make her happy, and she ends up being more unhappier, tell your uncle to stop transfering the power in the marriage to his wife, he is the man, he married her, paid her bride price, or 'WAS SHE THE ONE THAT PAID DOWRY'. Tell him to wake up and stop being a wussy i.e a woman pleaser.

hey man,
the bible says that man is ensnared by the desires of his heart, you obviously had desired stepping on the soil of america (or overseas ) so you didnt look and you leaped, thats not a problem.
the problem now is: barely a month you getting tired, my friend you just have to be a man here, this is what responsibility is all about, it mustnt be convenient for you, if you love her and not selfish interest that took you to america then stand by her, do things that will make her happy, you just have to realise that you have so much job on you man, AS FAR AS AM CONCERNED SHE IS A TODDLER especially in this situation, as you would treat a child so you must do to her, prepare to do this all your life while praying and trying medications so you dont get tired, confess your love to her all the time, its difficult but you can have a way out , just be very prayerful and believe god. it is well my friend. BRACE UP , THAT'S WHY YOU ARE A MAN.

LONG COURTSHIP
ADVANTAGES
1. you understand your to be spouse better.

DISAVANTAGES
1. You get tired of your  to be spouse before marriage, especially when there is sex.
2. there can be a break up .
3. if there is no sex any one of the to be spouses  might be cheating on the other if they are not god fearing.
4. she might get pregnant before marriage.
short courtship
advantages
1. you must answer mister or MRS
2.You settle fast.

disadvantage

1. no time to study your to be spouse expecially in this ever busy world.
2. you may discover what you didnt bargain for, leading to frustration, and cheating on your spouse.

they are many, let me give space to other people

PUT SIMPLY ANYTIME IS APPROPRIATE DEPENDING ON THE PEOPLE AND THEIR CIRCUMSTANCES,

GREAT DAY HOUSE

her nairalanders,

WAIT!!!!!WAIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We shouldnt just jump and start talking and blabbing when we see a topic. courting can take 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8, years.look, circumstances differ in people, see a scenario like this: a guy has been dating a girl for 4months hoping to marry her the sixth month as some suggest, he did a business and lost  all the money he had saved,that if she has to wait, it might take another 2 years, what will you do if you really love the guy and most certainly you guys will get married, so how LONG IS YOUR COURTSHIP NOW? YOU ANSWER

hey nairalanders,
lets get serious here, we are dealing with emotions here, i really cannot understand what people mean when they say she's had a life of her own before you met her, it then means she can go around doing all the stupid things she's been doing before, get this into your head man, SHE OBVIOUSLY DOESNT LOVE YOU i will say, i want to believe you have told her how it makes you feel and if she still comfortable with it ,i guess you better let them be, common you dont have to kill yourself over 1 when there are a million, mind you the friend is a 'HE', justs like you, any relationship that plaques you with pain should instantly be brought to an end. if  woman does not feel bound to a resonable extent by the laws of her man, then treat her the same way, look for a FEMALE CONFIDANT period.  

if you choose to continue, you probably may from time to time need to be hiring a heart  massaging machine. good luck

get this into ya head fellas,
good futball is addictive, premiership is GOOD FUTBALL, so you gotta be addicted, if you are not a fan one of the BIG 4 in EPL, you obviously have something missing in your life , find it out fast, its like a man that cannot make his wife squirt, she will for sure leave you, get on board fellas,


GUNNERS FOR LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ITS SIMPLY because we think we are too smart, i had alittle problem when i travelled to lome the guy said he doesnt like nigerians because they believe that money can solve every problem, sometimes you only need to plead and accept your wrong and you may be pardoned.

it doent mean we are the worst though but make we improve

vindoheney or what ever your name is ,

DO YOU THINK IF SHE WANTED IT ON YAHOO! SHE DOESNT KNOW WHERE NAIRALAND IS?
YOU ERRED BY TELLING HERE YOU PUT IT THERE, AS A GUY MAN YOU SHUD HAVE GONE BACK WITH THE RESPONSE FROM THE HOUSE AND MAKE HER BELIEVE ITS FROM YOU, MAY BE SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN SO IMPRESSED TO JILT HER PRESENT GUY FOR YOU, BUT YOU DON ALOW WATER GARRI

hello ladies and gentlemen,
no time for abusive words here, may i know: who approved the contract for the renovation that gulped over N600,000,000.00?
About the attitude of our lawmakers: SHOULDN'T THERE BE A LAW ON INAPPROPRIATE BEHAVIOUR? If these fathers and mothers feel no shame for themselves and for the nation, i begin to see why one must be ready to spill blood to be in politics in Nigeria.
THIS IS NO DEMOCRACY MAN, IT IS GANGSTERISM

hi,
you do not need to be heartbroken, you were never in a relationship, there were no agreements, so no contract, it cud be terminated by any party, at any time without due consultations, you were only 'making out', and you knew it.  so just keep cool.

you are feeling bad because he got tired of you first ,so you feel you were dumped. there is a away out though, i will advice you  better, just let me know how i can reach you via email or whatever.

make out time to be out with friends (MALES), interact with them , you wll lessen your thought, take care.

THE ANSWER IS SIMPLE AND LOGICAL.
What happens when a bigger object is ed thru a smaller one: there is expansion, that expansion brings about pains, it can happen in any object, male or female. when you now go beyond the limit of expansion it breaks or gets torn leading to bleeding. ( hooke's law) any science graduate in the house, haha.

in my opinion pains also come because the child is a foreign body that has a period of tenancy in the mothers womb, so it must come out to assume landlordship, that process results in pains, similar to what the earths crust suffers during periods of volcanic eruption.

hi pinktea,
lets get serious here, am a guy. what i see here is this :your ex needs you back, probably couldn't get a better replacement. let me advice you, if you must see him be with your present guy and introduce your present guy to him i bet you for life he will never call you again ,rather he becomes stronger to move ahead knowing you are no longer available for him, if you go see him chances are that " OLD FIRE WOOD MUST CATCH FIRE", .
are you enjoying your present relationship now? if your previous seems better then most certainly you are in for someting: to CHEAT on both of them because you cannot explain to the present that your ex has stolen your heart again, and you will tell your ex that your present is just  a toaster, that both of you never actually got serious. if sincerely you are having fun where you are now its basically NEEDLESS to see him,
ALTERNATIVE  (2) this is cheaper:why not find out what he wants to discourse with you on phone if it cannot be said on phone politely tell him its not important, that he should have a lovely day, that you are very busy now, while speaking with him tell him your boyfriend is trying to reach you, that you will call back immediately. POINT OF CAUTION: DON'T EVER CALL BACK, i bet you that LUNCH is over.

GREAT DAY TO YOU.

hello friend,
i really do not when this post was made but about this boy /girlfriend thing, guys wake up to this reality: you are the man in the relationship, you are the BOSS, but not domineering, you dictate at what pace things should go, why allow a woman play you 'BOJUBOJU", .
Take note of these points house, if your guy/gal feels uncomfortable to answer calls when you around or she goes to a far distance or runs to the toilet to receive calls please don't hesitate to end the relationship because there OBVIOUSLY is something fishing, such people shouldn't be in our lives. i didn't bother to read all your complaints because i know where it will end.
secondly guys, don't EVER allow your girls to dictate for you in any relationship,but listen to them when they speak, the truth is girls hate or are not attracted to guys they can control ,it simply means to them you are not man enough, and real women love real men,men that know why they are doing a particular thing even if that thing will kill them, sometimes a woman cannot explain why she is attracted to a guy its simply because of his personality not necessarily because you are nice or try very hard to kiss up her ass and hand over the power in the relationship to her, if you do not like what she is doing tell her and that if she continues the relationship is over after all there are a million men and women on the outside whose sexual talents have not been discovered or underutilised.

in my opinion you were trying overly hard to please her, you really didn't need all that, learn to do things the way it pleases you and be yourself if she loves and is attracted to you she will ditch Sean combs( p. diddy) to be with you without knowing why.