NewStats: 3,265,455 , 8,186,783 topics. Date: Sunday, 15 June 2025 at 03:42 AM 3823x

Why only islamic people do attack Christians all over the world and not Muslims been attacked by Christians. You can't fight for God.

All these name get k-leg, we shall understand later....I come in peace

All this protest are coordinated by APC, Nigerians shouldn't mind them, the fear of military is the beginning of wisdom.

What's the effect of the money on the economy and its citizens... mr president please give room for policy that will sustain our economy andreate data for this country. Without data we can't get out of this mess we are inn.

she ought to have put on skirt as well...

Do you know your wife can loose that pregnancy if she get informed that someone else is pregnant for you? Please keep such information from her, even after giving birth she can enter depression, if she get to know. However, your girlfriend loves you because of that little coins you called money, real men with class that are financially bouyant don't keep 2 women. Build your home with your wife, 2 children is enough for you, if she can deliver twins.

This is palliative road, in few days rain will wash it off, no gutter, no demarcation....

Special advise for you...Kindly settle your home, that side chick will leave you when road is tough, create time for your wife and let her understand you better, the future is more important than now, that lady that is showing you love and humility will change once you marry her because she knows you won't want third wife. Experience is the best teacher, most men in this situation can't share their horrible memories with people with single wife, they will give you advice to get second wife so that you too can be in their shoe.

We don't have judiciary at all...it's what you and I know. If we have very low judiciary Nigeria will not be in this state of mess, our mindset is dead from our birth.

Call this Dr Kadri on 08107051621, he will advise you.

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

My dear brother since you have done your best kindly let her be for some days.. play with your daughter, eat from good restaurants, spend your money wisely on your self, don't turn yourself to ball with your house, if you allow her to win you with her baseless emotional attitude, you are gone forever, take charge your home, if you go outside to do it they will blame you yet you starved at home with your right. Pls enjoy your happiness........

GenderMix:
Dear Esteemed Nairalanders of extreme wisdom, I have a 4+ year old daughter who is very curious and sleeps on the same bed with me and wife. Some days ago she almost caught me and wife having sex, so in the morning she asked my wife what I was doing to her…lol. Most times I hug and kiss my wife in front of her and do same to her (in her case, a peck and she reciprocates back). This is our normal lives. Sometimes, when I hug my wife before her, she gets jealous..lol




My dear brother, it's normal for her age.. it took my little girl of age six to adapt to her room..when she was age 4years she can ask any funny questions even at 6..
It's better you educate her at this golden age about sex education and don't call it father and mother play.. let her know that she can't practice such with her mate..

Pls try all possible means to block any avenue to be caught in action by her, it's a terrible experience for kids at that age.

A girl of seven year was telling her friends about her parent sexual life which almost cost the little girl's life to be promiscuous but with the help of counselling and tutelage she was able to be corrected about life.

Buy alot of toys and other play game for her and it must be played strictly in her room for her to get use to her room.. if such warning is given to her and she fault it, just cease it and let her beg for it and promise you to sleep in her room before you release it.

She is not jealous at all, just her genuine love for her parent.. use the avenue to build good relationships now with your daughter for future purpose.

You didn't made any mistake by let her used to your room, she will soon mature to let you guys be.

I think we made a mistake in not allowing her get used to her room from day one. We had tried to make her see reasons why she can’t continue to sleep on same bed with us but it’s all falling on deaf ears. At a point, we forced her to her room and when she woke up around 2am, all hell was let loose, I felt sympathy and told my wife to allow her into our room.


We can’t continue this way, so I need your advice (especially married couples with kids)

1. Did we make a mistake by letting her sleep on same bed with us considering she is just 4?

2. Is it too late to force her to her room?

3. How do we go about making sure she gets used to her room without disturbing us?

4. If she asks what we are doing at night, like the case where she almost caught us, what would be a good reply that would sound logical and educative for her own growth.

5. Is her jealousy normal?

Thank you

I csn do syria,yemen and solomon island for free... if you like don't buildyour business well... japa ko japa ni... we stay here till buhari will leave asocabal

My advise for you is that you take study leave for 2 years to stay with your wife while your salary is on going at home and if things are not palatable in uk.. you will return home to your beautiful civil service work... little word is for the wise...

Pls, try your possible best to add value to your self and you can't stay at home and you are expected to be employed..

It's better you move to bro

Lollittaa:
As far as I could , I've always had very painful menstruation. To a point that it affects my ability to work or be productive.
Painkillers hardly work, so it's about 4-7 days of Pre menstrual cramps +5 day period of agony. Almost two weeks every month. Sometimes I fall sick during or after my period.
I talked to my doctor. I was thinking family planning pills might pause my periods for sometime. But he said no they don't. He advised I be taking painkillers prior to my period and I have ulcer.

I'm tired. NL doctors, what can I do?

call Dr kadri on this no...09024858981

It's as a result of sweating and consult your doctor for blood culture to ascertain the main problem.

Just keep her in friend zone, double your hustle....make it in life.... change your life style....change your environment.... she will be the one looking for you...but after a week of dating her you will regret of your wasted years.

Shellsploit:
Someone will say she has been used by Yahoo boys

Not so, current situation in the country can turn anybody into something else if proper measure is not taking.

B.sc degree holder in any field but B.sc/Hnd in ing will be an added advantage. Pls if you reside within LAKOWE AND ELEKO JUNCTION ofibeju lekki lagos, kindly send your CV to [email protected].

B.sc degree holder in any field but B.sc/Hnd in ing will be an added advantage. Pls if you reside within LAKOWE AND ELEKO JUNCTION ofibeju lekki lagos, kindly send your CV to [email protected].

Do you stay around ibeju lekki area, if yes send your CV TO [email protected]

If you are staying around ibeju lekki axix you can send your resuming to [email protected] .

Just pretend as if you know nothing but keep the evidence, then go and hustle for your life, make good regular source of income the said lady will be over you and you can play your card by then.